[GUEST ACCESS MODE: Data is scrambled or limited to provide examples. Make requests using your API key to unlock full data. Check https://lunarcrush.ai/auth for authentication information.]  Boring_Business [@BoringBiz_](/creator/twitter/BoringBiz_) on x 68.9K followers Created: 2025-07-20 12:38:43 UTC Modern dating is fundamentally broken Used to be that you approached someone, got to know them, and slowly started to appreciate them as a person Modern dating apps today have created a sense of abundance that someone better is always around the corner People approach dating with a pre determined checklist of what they want and If the person doesn’t check the box on everything, they simply move to find someone better Except no one is perfect and it is very unlikely someone will meet every criteria. People will continue to go in circles in the hopes of finding their dream partner It has turned dating into a superficial act. It is now a transaction of sorts, rather than for connection We look for reasons to not keep dating, rather than reasons to be together. We don’t look for commonalities, we look for differences The mindset has completely shifted, and you can clearly see it in the numbers  XXXXXX engagements  [Post Link](https://x.com/BoringBiz_/status/1946912653148049458)
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Boring_Business @BoringBiz_ on x 68.9K followers
Created: 2025-07-20 12:38:43 UTC
Modern dating is fundamentally broken
Used to be that you approached someone, got to know them, and slowly started to appreciate them as a person
Modern dating apps today have created a sense of abundance that someone better is always around the corner
People approach dating with a pre determined checklist of what they want and If the person doesn’t check the box on everything, they simply move to find someone better
Except no one is perfect and it is very unlikely someone will meet every criteria. People will continue to go in circles in the hopes of finding their dream partner
It has turned dating into a superficial act. It is now a transaction of sorts, rather than for connection
We look for reasons to not keep dating, rather than reasons to be together. We don’t look for commonalities, we look for differences
The mindset has completely shifted, and you can clearly see it in the numbers
XXXXXX engagements
