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![BoringBiz_ Avatar](https://lunarcrush.com/gi/w:24/cr:twitter::1652717271469506565.png) Boring_Business [@BoringBiz_](/creator/twitter/BoringBiz_) on x 68.9K followers
Created: 2025-07-20 12:38:43 UTC

Modern dating is fundamentally broken

Used to be that you approached someone, got to know them, and slowly started to appreciate them as a person

Modern dating apps today have created a sense of abundance that someone better is always around the corner

People approach dating with a pre determined checklist of what they want and If the person doesn’t check the box on everything, they simply move to find someone better

Except no one is perfect and it is very unlikely someone will meet every criteria. People will continue to go in circles in the hopes of finding their dream partner

It has turned dating into a superficial act. It is now a transaction of sorts, rather than for connection

We look for reasons to not keep dating, rather than reasons to be together. We don’t look for commonalities, we look for differences

The mindset has completely shifted, and you can clearly see it in the numbers

![](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/GwTSvTFWMAEfZQf.jpg)

XXXXXX engagements

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[Post Link](https://x.com/BoringBiz_/status/1946912653148049458)

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BoringBiz_ Avatar Boring_Business @BoringBiz_ on x 68.9K followers Created: 2025-07-20 12:38:43 UTC

Modern dating is fundamentally broken

Used to be that you approached someone, got to know them, and slowly started to appreciate them as a person

Modern dating apps today have created a sense of abundance that someone better is always around the corner

People approach dating with a pre determined checklist of what they want and If the person doesn’t check the box on everything, they simply move to find someone better

Except no one is perfect and it is very unlikely someone will meet every criteria. People will continue to go in circles in the hopes of finding their dream partner

It has turned dating into a superficial act. It is now a transaction of sorts, rather than for connection

We look for reasons to not keep dating, rather than reasons to be together. We don’t look for commonalities, we look for differences

The mindset has completely shifted, and you can clearly see it in the numbers

XXXXXX engagements

Engagements Line Chart

Post Link

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