[GUEST ACCESS MODE: Data is scrambled or limited to provide examples. Make requests using your API key to unlock full data. Check https://lunarcrush.ai/auth for authentication information.] #  @VividVoid_ Vivid Void Vivid Void posts on X about mental health, youtube, debt, make a the most. They currently have XXXXXX followers and 1700 posts still getting attention that total XXXXXX engagements in the last XX hours. ### Engagements: XXXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::1044604087013015552/interactions)  - X Week XXXXXXX -XXXX% - X Month XXXXXXXXX +500% - X Months XXXXXXXXXX -XX% - X Year XXXXXXXXXX -XX% ### Mentions: XX [#](/creator/twitter::1044604087013015552/posts_active)  - X Week XX +34% - X Month XXX +98% - X Months XXX -XX% - X Year XXX -XX% ### Followers: XXXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::1044604087013015552/followers)  - X Week XXXXXX +0.52% - X Month XXXXXX +3.10% - X Months XXXXXX +9.60% - X Year XXXXXX +30% ### CreatorRank: XXXXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::1044604087013015552/influencer_rank)  ### Social Influence [#](/creator/twitter::1044604087013015552/influence) --- **Social category influence** [finance](/list/finance) [social networks](/list/social-networks) [technology brands](/list/technology-brands) **Social topic influence** [mental health](/topic/mental-health) #26, [youtube](/topic/youtube), [debt](/topic/debt), [make a](/topic/make-a), [void](/topic/void), [all your](/topic/all-your), [topics](/topic/topics), [100m](/topic/100m), [playbook](/topic/playbook), [transgender](/topic/transgender) ### Top Social Posts [#](/creator/twitter::1044604087013015552/posts) --- Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours "Oh you're a bodhisattva Dedicated to ending suffering for all beings Super spiritual But you have affairs with people who are in committed relationships Manipulate impressionable teenagers into bed with you Use lovers for a weekend and throw them away Trivialize your commitments and those of others Always there to offer "wise counsel" to your friends when they happen to be vulnerable and fighting with their boyfriends You're wreaking suffering everywhere around you with your pathetic selfish uncontrolled lust papering over it by calling it "loving kindness" and you think that's living your" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980314124241498245) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-20T16:44Z 62.4K followers, 12.7K engagements "Jung said loneliness isn't about solitude it's about not being able to share your deepest self with others. But I don't think that's quite right either. It's 2025 we can all bring our authentic selves everywhere we go and everyone's lonelier than ever. I think the loneliness of this age is feeling like what's important to you is not important to others - that no one truly cares about you beyond their self-interest and no one needs you beyond the therapeutically correct amount of dependence. Everyone sovereign everyone an emperor totally existentially responsible for one's self and no one else" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1970215425717018792) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-09-22T19:55Z 62.4K followers, 233K engagements "Don't fuck your students. Don't fuck your patients. Don't fuck your clients. Don't fuck your parishioners. Don't fuck your sangha. Don't fuck people so much younger than you that you're in different developmental stages. Fuck your peers or don't fuck anyone at all" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1975280145217826912) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-06T19:21Z 62.4K followers, 402.4K engagements "In most places in 2025 it is normal and expected for a woman to depart from traditional feminine norms. She can criticize and defect from them without great social cost to herself. It is not possible for a man to defect from masculine norms without a life-altering cost. He can make himself apparently harmless and lose any hope of traditional status or he can actively rebel - losing access to polite society at best and finding himself in prison at worst. This is because masculinity is how we enforce male prosociality. It's the set of taboos and norms that shapes both the violence and" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1977561995089162307) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-13T02:28Z 62.4K followers, 375.7K engagements "Discourse here especially about gender is totally disconnected from reality. We storm and rage about postpartum bellies (which heal pretty quick) but almost never discuss real problems I see the women in my life struggling with: Overwork substance abuse chronic stress deep anxiety loneliness & difficulty connecting (yes women are lonely too) The immaturity of male partners they love that can't be solved with cliche nostrums or breaking up because they don't want to leave. I realize it's a lot less fun to sit down and open our hearts and talk about our problems and see if we can help each" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978100747074965770) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-14T14:09Z 62.4K followers, 24.9K engagements "Forgiveness is not the absence of vengefulness. It's feeling the fullness of a righteous justified grief at a genuine injury & choosing mercy instead. It's a reclamation of dignity & power. It's not saying there was never a debt Only that it doesn't have to be paid back" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978180732892655782) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-14T19:26Z 62.4K followers, 27K engagements "Look at this sky" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978595271522340933) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-15T22:54Z 62.4K followers, 28K engagements "A person is not separate from the web of relationships in which they are embedded and therefore to love a person is to love their relationships to respect them and support them if you get the opportunity or if that's not possible for whatever reason to at least do no harm" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980428099205623944) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-21T00:17Z 62.4K followers, 7228 engagements "People who are always trying to keep their options open are not just cowards they're also profound self-sabotagers. It's not like you get to your death bed with all your unmade choices still spread out before you. If you refuse to make a decision for long enough life simply makes it for you. You're on its program as much as it's on yours. Ultimately what optionality-maxxing behavior is all about is avoiding responsibility. It's an attempt to avoid bearing the burden and devotion of becoming someone so you can fantasize about the infinite newness of being "possibly anyone." In the refusal of" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1970855847615234219) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-09-24T14:20Z 62.3K followers, 127.7K engagements "Men who complain about women having pretty privilege have never dressed up in a suit and smiled warmly at everyone they meet. People blush and call you sir. Clerks give you things for free. The world is putty in your hands" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1974940377758187764) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-05T20:50Z 62.3K followers, 462.7K engagements "Now that AI can make infinite pictures of impossibly beautiful women and Ozempic can make everyone thin I predict that feminine beauty standards will start to revolve around "low-fuss" slightly thicc girl-next-door type looks that are hard to fake" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1976341592249364503) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-09T17:38Z 62.3K followers, 77.1K engagements "Hey I've got a YouTube channel I just uploaded X lectures from Project Crucible on masculinity mental health & two philosophical topics - great for listening while you work or exercise. I'll be vlogging there too starting this weekend. Please subscribe - it helps a lot" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1976399679098384784) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-09T21:29Z 62.4K followers, 36.9K engagements "This is the advanced stuff only for the very healthy and the very sick" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1977065024599580775) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-11T17:33Z 62.3K followers, 14.1K engagements "I've got more about masculinity mental health and character at my YouTube channel: I would greatly appreciate if you would subscribe there" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1977753062862102992) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-13T15:07Z 62.3K followers, 11.2K engagements "I love my life. I wake up every morning excited for my day. I get work done early I tweet I talk to clients it's fascinating and I love them I end the day tired I cook myself a meal I love I read a book I meditate I go to bed I do it over again. I love my life" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978218213465895374) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-14T21:55Z 62.4K followers, 44.9K engagements "@CDS_Midwest It's a performance. They haven't violated any of the true norms and they didn't gain societal acceptance until they accepted the burdens of marriage and military service" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1977570853178286199) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-13T03:03Z 62.4K followers, 5084 engagements "Do I know anyone who is a wizard with CAD I have a beautiful dining room table that is disappearing in a couple of months (it's a loaner long story) and I'd like to have plans made so I can build an identical one for myself. Happy to pay or work trade" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978873908884574580) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-16T17:21Z 62.4K followers, 2934 engagements "We still have a few tickets left for Fight Wise: Family Holiday Edition @richdecibels and I have redesigned our assertiveness training course to help you stay maximally calm graceful and strong when you're face to face with the people who trigger you the absolute most. You'll learn to stand your ground avoid unnecessary confrontation and survive the holidays with your relationships intact. It's a 4-day course Tuesdays and Thursdays the last week of October and the first week of November. If you've taken the course before and want a refresh or to come learn the new material reach out to Rich" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978970466145702074) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-16T23:45Z 62.4K followers, 4385 engagements "Someone explain this to me like I'm five years old please. Why are they switching to this What are the benefits and drawbacks What are the implications" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1979240924996866101) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-17T17:39Z 62.4K followers, 16.2K engagements "@bumpasshelll These are all symptoms of OCD 🥲" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1979294533960741138) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-17T21:12Z 62.4K followers, 131.9K engagements "Time is not separate from you and as you are present time does not go away. Do not think that time is merely passing away" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1979307481181622386) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-17T22:04Z 62.4K followers, 2824 engagements "@notyetassigned These are totally different" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980403220020400507) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-20T22:38Z 62.4K followers, XXX engagements "@ketachist @ivmirx There are three and a half: X. Theravada (Ancient Buddhism) X. Mahayana XXX Japanese Zen (almost a vehicle unto itself) X. Tibetan" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980648768833007846) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-21T14:53Z 62.4K followers, XX engagements "@AlmostMedia Yeah they started with codependence and just developed a great playbook for family dysfunction" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980672447923007577) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-21T16:28Z 62.4K followers, XXX engagements "Before my son transitioned we worked out a set of conditions together that he had to meet so that we could both feel confident it was the right move: X. No chemicals or surgery before XX. Period. X. He needed to be able to dispassionately recite opposing positions including difficult and critical perspectives on the subjects of transgender identity and transition as a treatment for gender dysphoria. X. He needed to fully research and understand the potential complications including tail risks like deformation lifelong pain and dependence on the medical industry X. Two years of therapy" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1969766248813830549) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-09-21T14:10Z 62.4K followers, 2.9M engagements "Ways to authentically rebel in 2026: X. Be ruthlessly optimistic X. Refuse to trivialize romance X. Sacrifice for what you believe in X. Forgive your family X. Optimize for meaning not optionality X. Don't do drugs X. Don't fuck people you don't deeply trust" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1976066999840293243) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-08T23:27Z 62.4K followers, 130.5K engagements "A man's fear of a woman's postpartum belly is nothing more than his fear of death. It's not even deeply buried. He can overcome it with the courage to confront his own body's frailty & inevitable failure mirroring the confrontation his wife had with hers while giving birth" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978267362605322339) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-15T01:11Z 62.4K followers, 8111 engagements "Welp. I've had at least one protein shake almost everyday since I was XX. Half a lifetime. Anyone know how to get lead out of your bones" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978452195293954402) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-15T13:25Z 62.4K followers, 210.2K engagements ""But what if I get hurt again" What if you obtain the deepest desires of your heart idiot" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978542949529952720) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-15T19:26Z 62.4K followers, 47.3K engagements "I've gotten tired of every earthly pleasure I've ever experienced except for looking at a beautiful sky" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1978953471752622546) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-16T22:37Z 62.4K followers, 22.9K engagements "@tallsnail What's a blowout" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1979029896664920439) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-17T03:41Z 62.4K followers, 27.4K engagements "The real horror is that men are simply learning to use women's weapons in order to compete in institutional settings. All of the feminine venom & wile none of the grace & warmth. And the boys who grew up fatherless & demonized now believe in gender equality; they dont understand the need for masculine restraint. You can't understand contemporary gender relations and you especially can't understand Gen Z psychology without understanding this phenomenon" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1979173211716935929) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-17T13:10Z 62.4K followers, 155.1K engagements "Me and @SoupOfToday had a ratatouille competition and we were so full at the end of it we practically crawled away from the dining table. I made a peasant version (pics 1-2) and she made a confit biyaldi (fancy pics 3-4.) They were both fantastic so we ultimately called a draw" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1979748467372343328) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-19T03:16Z 62.4K followers, 4538 engagements "It's immoral because it's destructive. It's disrespectful to the other person's bond it attempts to open a relational space that the person you supposedly care about has sworn not to open and it skirts betrayal and grief for the other person's partner. (Now just imagine that you get the object of your heart's desire. They leave their partner for you. Good luck ever feeling secure with them.) The appropriate thing to do if you have feelings for someone in a relationship is to firmly set the feelings aside. Try to build your life so that you give yourself the benefit you imagine would come from" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980134196023853258) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-20T04:49Z 62.4K followers, 73K engagements "Maybe it isn't a coincidence that a society that rewards being as selfish as possible is also experiencing a loneliness crisis. I don't say this to blame lonely people. Culture is culture. But it does make it harder to see the ways we perpetuate our own isolation" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980329167322509628) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-20T17:44Z 62.4K followers, 7341 engagements "If "you shall know them by their fruit" is genuine spiritual wisdom then whose trees are currently bearing the best fruit What religions and spiritual traditions are producing the wisest most grounded most mature and compassionate people For my money it's Buddhism AA and some forms of Christianity" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980362168693583930) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-20T19:55Z 62.4K followers, 14.5K engagements "There is no cure for borderline personality disorder but you can outgrow it" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980637268676395392) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-21T14:08Z 62.4K followers, 16.7K engagements "There's no conflict whatsoever between most forms of Buddhism and most forms of Christianity. Buddhism is a religion of the present moment a study of the mind of perceivable reality of the divine immanent that human beings can access in ordinary consciousness. When Buddhism maintains its epistemic humility (which it doesn't always manage) it admits its limits which is to say its methods can't reveal anything about a potential transcendent Reality outside this one. Buddhism can therefore can take no position on whether Christianity is true but it can offer a lot of friendship and wisdom about" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980381846207897968) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-20T21:13Z 62.4K followers, 21.1K engagements "Tibetan Buddhism is mostly people with a peaceful temperament LARPing as being wrathful Zen Buddhism is mostly people with a wrathful temperament LARPing as being peaceful" [X Link](https://x.com/VividVoid_/status/1980674778932613334) [@VividVoid_](/creator/x/VividVoid_) 2025-10-21T16:37Z 62.4K followers, 16.6K engagements
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@VividVoid_ Vivid Void
Vivid Void posts on X about mental health, youtube, debt, make a the most. They currently have XXXXXX followers and 1700 posts still getting attention that total XXXXXX engagements in the last XX hours.
Engagements: XXXXXX #
- X Week XXXXXXX -XXXX%
- X Month XXXXXXXXX +500%
- X Months XXXXXXXXXX -XX%
- X Year XXXXXXXXXX -XX%
Mentions: XX #
- X Week XX +34%
- X Month XXX +98%
- X Months XXX -XX%
- X Year XXX -XX%
Followers: XXXXXX #
- X Week XXXXXX +0.52%
- X Month XXXXXX +3.10%
- X Months XXXXXX +9.60%
- X Year XXXXXX +30%
CreatorRank: XXXXXXX #
Social Influence #
Social category influence finance social networks technology brands
Social topic influence mental health #26, youtube, debt, make a, void, all your, topics, 100m, playbook, transgender
Top Social Posts #
Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours
"Oh you're a bodhisattva Dedicated to ending suffering for all beings Super spiritual But you have affairs with people who are in committed relationships Manipulate impressionable teenagers into bed with you Use lovers for a weekend and throw them away Trivialize your commitments and those of others Always there to offer "wise counsel" to your friends when they happen to be vulnerable and fighting with their boyfriends You're wreaking suffering everywhere around you with your pathetic selfish uncontrolled lust papering over it by calling it "loving kindness" and you think that's living your"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-20T16:44Z 62.4K followers, 12.7K engagements
"Jung said loneliness isn't about solitude it's about not being able to share your deepest self with others. But I don't think that's quite right either. It's 2025 we can all bring our authentic selves everywhere we go and everyone's lonelier than ever. I think the loneliness of this age is feeling like what's important to you is not important to others - that no one truly cares about you beyond their self-interest and no one needs you beyond the therapeutically correct amount of dependence. Everyone sovereign everyone an emperor totally existentially responsible for one's self and no one else"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-09-22T19:55Z 62.4K followers, 233K engagements
"Don't fuck your students. Don't fuck your patients. Don't fuck your clients. Don't fuck your parishioners. Don't fuck your sangha. Don't fuck people so much younger than you that you're in different developmental stages. Fuck your peers or don't fuck anyone at all"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-06T19:21Z 62.4K followers, 402.4K engagements
"In most places in 2025 it is normal and expected for a woman to depart from traditional feminine norms. She can criticize and defect from them without great social cost to herself. It is not possible for a man to defect from masculine norms without a life-altering cost. He can make himself apparently harmless and lose any hope of traditional status or he can actively rebel - losing access to polite society at best and finding himself in prison at worst. This is because masculinity is how we enforce male prosociality. It's the set of taboos and norms that shapes both the violence and"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-13T02:28Z 62.4K followers, 375.7K engagements
"Discourse here especially about gender is totally disconnected from reality. We storm and rage about postpartum bellies (which heal pretty quick) but almost never discuss real problems I see the women in my life struggling with: Overwork substance abuse chronic stress deep anxiety loneliness & difficulty connecting (yes women are lonely too) The immaturity of male partners they love that can't be solved with cliche nostrums or breaking up because they don't want to leave. I realize it's a lot less fun to sit down and open our hearts and talk about our problems and see if we can help each"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-14T14:09Z 62.4K followers, 24.9K engagements
"Forgiveness is not the absence of vengefulness. It's feeling the fullness of a righteous justified grief at a genuine injury & choosing mercy instead. It's a reclamation of dignity & power. It's not saying there was never a debt Only that it doesn't have to be paid back"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-14T19:26Z 62.4K followers, 27K engagements
"Look at this sky"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-15T22:54Z 62.4K followers, 28K engagements
"A person is not separate from the web of relationships in which they are embedded and therefore to love a person is to love their relationships to respect them and support them if you get the opportunity or if that's not possible for whatever reason to at least do no harm"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-21T00:17Z 62.4K followers, 7228 engagements
"People who are always trying to keep their options open are not just cowards they're also profound self-sabotagers. It's not like you get to your death bed with all your unmade choices still spread out before you. If you refuse to make a decision for long enough life simply makes it for you. You're on its program as much as it's on yours. Ultimately what optionality-maxxing behavior is all about is avoiding responsibility. It's an attempt to avoid bearing the burden and devotion of becoming someone so you can fantasize about the infinite newness of being "possibly anyone." In the refusal of"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-09-24T14:20Z 62.3K followers, 127.7K engagements
"Men who complain about women having pretty privilege have never dressed up in a suit and smiled warmly at everyone they meet. People blush and call you sir. Clerks give you things for free. The world is putty in your hands"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-05T20:50Z 62.3K followers, 462.7K engagements
"Now that AI can make infinite pictures of impossibly beautiful women and Ozempic can make everyone thin I predict that feminine beauty standards will start to revolve around "low-fuss" slightly thicc girl-next-door type looks that are hard to fake"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-09T17:38Z 62.3K followers, 77.1K engagements
"Hey I've got a YouTube channel I just uploaded X lectures from Project Crucible on masculinity mental health & two philosophical topics - great for listening while you work or exercise. I'll be vlogging there too starting this weekend. Please subscribe - it helps a lot"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-09T21:29Z 62.4K followers, 36.9K engagements
"This is the advanced stuff only for the very healthy and the very sick"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-11T17:33Z 62.3K followers, 14.1K engagements
"I've got more about masculinity mental health and character at my YouTube channel: I would greatly appreciate if you would subscribe there"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-13T15:07Z 62.3K followers, 11.2K engagements
"I love my life. I wake up every morning excited for my day. I get work done early I tweet I talk to clients it's fascinating and I love them I end the day tired I cook myself a meal I love I read a book I meditate I go to bed I do it over again. I love my life"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-14T21:55Z 62.4K followers, 44.9K engagements
"@CDS_Midwest It's a performance. They haven't violated any of the true norms and they didn't gain societal acceptance until they accepted the burdens of marriage and military service"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-13T03:03Z 62.4K followers, 5084 engagements
"Do I know anyone who is a wizard with CAD I have a beautiful dining room table that is disappearing in a couple of months (it's a loaner long story) and I'd like to have plans made so I can build an identical one for myself. Happy to pay or work trade"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-16T17:21Z 62.4K followers, 2934 engagements
"We still have a few tickets left for Fight Wise: Family Holiday Edition @richdecibels and I have redesigned our assertiveness training course to help you stay maximally calm graceful and strong when you're face to face with the people who trigger you the absolute most. You'll learn to stand your ground avoid unnecessary confrontation and survive the holidays with your relationships intact. It's a 4-day course Tuesdays and Thursdays the last week of October and the first week of November. If you've taken the course before and want a refresh or to come learn the new material reach out to Rich"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-16T23:45Z 62.4K followers, 4385 engagements
"Someone explain this to me like I'm five years old please. Why are they switching to this What are the benefits and drawbacks What are the implications"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-17T17:39Z 62.4K followers, 16.2K engagements
"@bumpasshelll These are all symptoms of OCD 🥲"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-17T21:12Z 62.4K followers, 131.9K engagements
"Time is not separate from you and as you are present time does not go away. Do not think that time is merely passing away"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-17T22:04Z 62.4K followers, 2824 engagements
"@notyetassigned These are totally different"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-20T22:38Z 62.4K followers, XXX engagements
"@ketachist @ivmirx There are three and a half: X. Theravada (Ancient Buddhism) X. Mahayana XXX Japanese Zen (almost a vehicle unto itself) X. Tibetan"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-21T14:53Z 62.4K followers, XX engagements
"@AlmostMedia Yeah they started with codependence and just developed a great playbook for family dysfunction"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-21T16:28Z 62.4K followers, XXX engagements
"Before my son transitioned we worked out a set of conditions together that he had to meet so that we could both feel confident it was the right move: X. No chemicals or surgery before XX. Period. X. He needed to be able to dispassionately recite opposing positions including difficult and critical perspectives on the subjects of transgender identity and transition as a treatment for gender dysphoria. X. He needed to fully research and understand the potential complications including tail risks like deformation lifelong pain and dependence on the medical industry X. Two years of therapy"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-09-21T14:10Z 62.4K followers, 2.9M engagements
"Ways to authentically rebel in 2026: X. Be ruthlessly optimistic X. Refuse to trivialize romance X. Sacrifice for what you believe in X. Forgive your family X. Optimize for meaning not optionality X. Don't do drugs X. Don't fuck people you don't deeply trust"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-08T23:27Z 62.4K followers, 130.5K engagements
"A man's fear of a woman's postpartum belly is nothing more than his fear of death. It's not even deeply buried. He can overcome it with the courage to confront his own body's frailty & inevitable failure mirroring the confrontation his wife had with hers while giving birth"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-15T01:11Z 62.4K followers, 8111 engagements
"Welp. I've had at least one protein shake almost everyday since I was XX. Half a lifetime. Anyone know how to get lead out of your bones"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-15T13:25Z 62.4K followers, 210.2K engagements
""But what if I get hurt again" What if you obtain the deepest desires of your heart idiot"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-15T19:26Z 62.4K followers, 47.3K engagements
"I've gotten tired of every earthly pleasure I've ever experienced except for looking at a beautiful sky"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-16T22:37Z 62.4K followers, 22.9K engagements
"@tallsnail What's a blowout"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-17T03:41Z 62.4K followers, 27.4K engagements
"The real horror is that men are simply learning to use women's weapons in order to compete in institutional settings. All of the feminine venom & wile none of the grace & warmth. And the boys who grew up fatherless & demonized now believe in gender equality; they dont understand the need for masculine restraint. You can't understand contemporary gender relations and you especially can't understand Gen Z psychology without understanding this phenomenon"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-17T13:10Z 62.4K followers, 155.1K engagements
"Me and @SoupOfToday had a ratatouille competition and we were so full at the end of it we practically crawled away from the dining table. I made a peasant version (pics 1-2) and she made a confit biyaldi (fancy pics 3-4.) They were both fantastic so we ultimately called a draw"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-19T03:16Z 62.4K followers, 4538 engagements
"It's immoral because it's destructive. It's disrespectful to the other person's bond it attempts to open a relational space that the person you supposedly care about has sworn not to open and it skirts betrayal and grief for the other person's partner. (Now just imagine that you get the object of your heart's desire. They leave their partner for you. Good luck ever feeling secure with them.) The appropriate thing to do if you have feelings for someone in a relationship is to firmly set the feelings aside. Try to build your life so that you give yourself the benefit you imagine would come from"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-20T04:49Z 62.4K followers, 73K engagements
"Maybe it isn't a coincidence that a society that rewards being as selfish as possible is also experiencing a loneliness crisis. I don't say this to blame lonely people. Culture is culture. But it does make it harder to see the ways we perpetuate our own isolation"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-20T17:44Z 62.4K followers, 7341 engagements
"If "you shall know them by their fruit" is genuine spiritual wisdom then whose trees are currently bearing the best fruit What religions and spiritual traditions are producing the wisest most grounded most mature and compassionate people For my money it's Buddhism AA and some forms of Christianity"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-20T19:55Z 62.4K followers, 14.5K engagements
"There is no cure for borderline personality disorder but you can outgrow it"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-21T14:08Z 62.4K followers, 16.7K engagements
"There's no conflict whatsoever between most forms of Buddhism and most forms of Christianity. Buddhism is a religion of the present moment a study of the mind of perceivable reality of the divine immanent that human beings can access in ordinary consciousness. When Buddhism maintains its epistemic humility (which it doesn't always manage) it admits its limits which is to say its methods can't reveal anything about a potential transcendent Reality outside this one. Buddhism can therefore can take no position on whether Christianity is true but it can offer a lot of friendship and wisdom about"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-20T21:13Z 62.4K followers, 21.1K engagements
"Tibetan Buddhism is mostly people with a peaceful temperament LARPing as being wrathful Zen Buddhism is mostly people with a wrathful temperament LARPing as being peaceful"
X Link @VividVoid_ 2025-10-21T16:37Z 62.4K followers, 16.6K engagements