[GUEST ACCESS MODE: Data is scrambled or limited to provide examples. Make requests using your API key to unlock full data. Check https://lunarcrush.ai/auth for authentication information.] [@GiffLasta](/creator/twitter/GiffLasta) "@Jeff_Palouse You used an em dash AFTER an exclamation point"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1947476639408865637) 2025-07-22 01:59:47 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements "Two thoughts came to mind: X. Give pragmatic frameworks and tools with actionable advice toward concrete goals. An analogy: You wake up at the bottom of a large pit and you see an upturned jeep in front of you. Now it could be that trying really hard to remember how you got there will give important details crucial to getting out of the pit. OR it could be that it doesn't matter at all how you got there. Either way the important thing is figuring out HOW to get out. Similarly unravelling your whole psychological history going back to your upbringing should be seen as secondary to fixing the"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1947792903503241415) 2025-07-22 22:56:31 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements "@oflifeandwild @Justin_Thiel I agree with this to some extent. That's some of what my book is about---trying to bring healthy intersexual dynamics and masculinity into MY tribe (the church). We've got a lot going for us in churches but we've got serious weaknesses in this area"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1948399369675211206) 2025-07-24 15:06:23 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements "If Jocko Willink is right that there are "no bad teams only bad leaders". .that means there are no bad marriages only bad husbands. Y'all sure you can handle patriarchy"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1947499594319073717) 2025-07-22 03:31:00 UTC 10.8K followers, 19.7K engagements "@ryanMcRogers asked me a great question today: What specific things could therapists be doing differently to be more useful to men I'll put my answer below the fold but I'd like to hear yours"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1947790882729574676) 2025-07-22 22:48:29 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements "We have to have strong frame as men. We can't have feminism dictate our agenda. Chasing female validation is a fool's errand. But rejecting the witness of her femininity is also foolish. Women respond to strong and generous men not petulant boys"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1948388353511977138) 2025-07-24 14:22:37 UTC 10.8K followers, XXX engagements "Tate's probably right about hunter-gatherer tribes with high scarcity. The male sexual impulse is polygamous. But civilization is a monogamy thing. "The king had more"---sure. A regional governor had four and the head of the town had two. All other men had one"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1947287015545778507) 2025-07-21 13:26:18 UTC 10.8K followers, 1886 engagements "I just finished Jocko Willink's "Extreme Ownership" where he talks about leading SEAL teams in combat. The difference between what some people THINK masculine leadership is vs. the virtuous shepherding generous reality is astounding. Sure say "no" but not like a bratty kid"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1948385449786945745) 2025-07-24 14:11:05 UTC 10.8K followers, 1826 engagements "@SpeechWrx @ComeOnManPOD Not a million views yet. Paul says I have to really mean it---the viral spirits know the lack of sincerity in my heart"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1948457380536078502) 2025-07-24 18:56:54 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements "@JohnRockwell43 @NoahRevoy Yeah---there's a way he needs to engage his strength that draws out but doesn't barrel over her agency. I suppose "leadership" is the same for leading men and women but the forces you appeal to in them are different because men and women are driven by different imperatives"  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1948369353860108503) 2025-07-24 13:07:07 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements "Building Great Sex From a Dead Bedroom In six (not so) easy steps Weve seen the memes and the viral posts. Men will talk about their wives just having no desire for them any more. Sometimes they resent her and sometimes they blame themselves but they almost always feel hopeless. What happened to those sparks on the honeymoon The X platform is full of advice most of it bad. The angry manosphere says just leave her bro. Christian fundies say the Bible says she should always have sex with you so just tell her shes sinning. Women everywhere say emotional needs or be nicer and do the dishes."  [@GiffLasta](/creator/x/GiffLasta) on [X](/post/tweet/1779400821752381785) 2024-04-14 06:46:30 UTC 10.8K followers, 1.1M engagements
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"@Jeff_Palouse You used an em dash AFTER an exclamation point" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-22 01:59:47 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements
"Two thoughts came to mind: X. Give pragmatic frameworks and tools with actionable advice toward concrete goals. An analogy: You wake up at the bottom of a large pit and you see an upturned jeep in front of you. Now it could be that trying really hard to remember how you got there will give important details crucial to getting out of the pit. OR it could be that it doesn't matter at all how you got there. Either way the important thing is figuring out HOW to get out. Similarly unravelling your whole psychological history going back to your upbringing should be seen as secondary to fixing the" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-22 22:56:31 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements
"@oflifeandwild @Justin_Thiel I agree with this to some extent. That's some of what my book is about---trying to bring healthy intersexual dynamics and masculinity into MY tribe (the church). We've got a lot going for us in churches but we've got serious weaknesses in this area" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-24 15:06:23 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements
"If Jocko Willink is right that there are "no bad teams only bad leaders". .that means there are no bad marriages only bad husbands. Y'all sure you can handle patriarchy" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-22 03:31:00 UTC 10.8K followers, 19.7K engagements
"@ryanMcRogers asked me a great question today: What specific things could therapists be doing differently to be more useful to men I'll put my answer below the fold but I'd like to hear yours" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-22 22:48:29 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements
"We have to have strong frame as men. We can't have feminism dictate our agenda. Chasing female validation is a fool's errand. But rejecting the witness of her femininity is also foolish. Women respond to strong and generous men not petulant boys" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-24 14:22:37 UTC 10.8K followers, XXX engagements
"Tate's probably right about hunter-gatherer tribes with high scarcity. The male sexual impulse is polygamous. But civilization is a monogamy thing. "The king had more"---sure. A regional governor had four and the head of the town had two. All other men had one" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-21 13:26:18 UTC 10.8K followers, 1886 engagements
"I just finished Jocko Willink's "Extreme Ownership" where he talks about leading SEAL teams in combat. The difference between what some people THINK masculine leadership is vs. the virtuous shepherding generous reality is astounding. Sure say "no" but not like a bratty kid" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-24 14:11:05 UTC 10.8K followers, 1826 engagements
"@SpeechWrx @ComeOnManPOD Not a million views yet. Paul says I have to really mean it---the viral spirits know the lack of sincerity in my heart" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-24 18:56:54 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements
"@JohnRockwell43 @NoahRevoy Yeah---there's a way he needs to engage his strength that draws out but doesn't barrel over her agency. I suppose "leadership" is the same for leading men and women but the forces you appeal to in them are different because men and women are driven by different imperatives" @GiffLasta on X 2025-07-24 13:07:07 UTC 10.8K followers, XX engagements
"Building Great Sex From a Dead Bedroom In six (not so) easy steps Weve seen the memes and the viral posts. Men will talk about their wives just having no desire for them any more. Sometimes they resent her and sometimes they blame themselves but they almost always feel hopeless. What happened to those sparks on the honeymoon The X platform is full of advice most of it bad. The angry manosphere says just leave her bro. Christian fundies say the Bible says she should always have sex with you so just tell her shes sinning. Women everywhere say emotional needs or be nicer and do the dishes." @GiffLasta on X 2024-04-14 06:46:30 UTC 10.8K followers, 1.1M engagements
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