[GUEST ACCESS MODE: Data is scrambled or limited to provide examples. Make requests using your API key to unlock full data. Check https://lunarcrush.ai/auth for authentication information.] #  @despitesystem the despite system 🌱 the despite system 🌱 posts on TikTok about alters, i remember, integration, events the most. They currently have XXXXXX followers and XX posts still getting attention that total XXXXX engagements in the last XX hours. ### Engagements: XXXXX [#](/creator/tiktok::7448663916614386734/interactions)  - X Week XXXXXX +123% - X Month XXXXXX +86% - X Months XXXXXXX +481% ### Mentions: XX [#](/creator/tiktok::7448663916614386734/posts_active)  - X Week XX +11% - X Month XX +100% - X Months XX +247% ### Followers: XXXXXX [#](/creator/tiktok::7448663916614386734/followers)  - X Week XXXXXX +0.86% - X Month XXXXXX +8.30% - X Months XXXXXX +364% ### CreatorRank: XXXXXXXXX [#](/creator/tiktok::7448663916614386734/influencer_rank)  ### Social Influence [#](/creator/tiktok::7448663916614386734/influence) --- **Social topic influence** [alters](/topic/alters) #10, [i remember](/topic/i-remember), [integration](/topic/integration), [events](/topic/events) ### Top Social Posts [#](/creator/tiktok::7448663916614386734/posts) --- Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours "Improving system communication takes time. For some folks that means a couple months. For others it means multiple years. There is no set or linear timeline and its okay if it takes your system a while to figure out what kind of communication works best for you. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem #didsystemawareness #didawareness #dissociativeidentitydisorder #systok #didtok #destigmatizedid #osdd #osddsystem #osddtok #mentalhealthtiktok #didalters" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7511841514381708590) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-06-03T21:42Z 21.6K followers, 25.7K engagements "Also keep in mind that the host can change Our host has changed several times just in the last few years. Nothing is fixed as new traumas and healing alike can shift the dynamics of the system. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #systok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #mentalhealthtok #mentalhealthtiktoks #destigmatizedid" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7486975547122437422) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-03-28T21:29Z 21.6K followers, 46.3K engagements "We are for all intents and purposes different people but that doesnt change the fact that we still share the same body which affects how we speak behave and carry ourselves. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didsystem #didalters #didawareness #systok #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #mentalhealthtiktoks #systokdid" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7494730182595480875) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-04-18T19:01Z 21.6K followers, 73.8K engagements "Fusion can change a lot about a system including how certain alters express themselves and the relationships and dynamics present within the system. Its just another aspect that adds to the complexity of DID. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #didalters #destigmatizedid #dissociativedisorder #traumarecovery #mentalhealthtiktoks #didfusion" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7500670839180791086) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-05-04T19:14Z 21.6K followers, 59.5K engagements "Replying to @Shannon Frye To avoid confusion: Elijah is still the host of our system This is just a skit we wrote to answer this question. For fellow systems who feel comfortable sharing: how do you handle host changes How does your system adapt to new and shifting dynamics . . #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem #didtok #systok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didawareness #destigmatizedid #dissociativedisorder #mentalhealthtiktok #osdd #osddsystem #osddtok #didhost #didalters" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7507353429690420522) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-05-22T19:25Z 21.6K followers, 7923 engagements "Being one person is hard let alone being multiple people in one body/brain. DID is no walk in the park and coping with this condition on top of daily life struggles can be a serious challenge. If you feel like youre falling behind or failing or just not living up to your potential know that you are not alone and we can guarantee youre probably doing much better than you think. You see your failures through a magnifying glass; all we see is a super strong resilient beautiful system continuing to fight the good fight. You got this. We believe in you. 🫶🏻 . . #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7511460291620670766) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-06-02T21:02Z 21.6K followers, 12.8K engagements "Replying to @GHOSTFACE XX Intra-system relationships can be just as meaningful and complex as external relationships. There are many reasons the brain might facilitate bonds between alters but ultimately it comes down to the fact that DID is a survival mechanism and sometimes various types of relationships are needed for our survival and continued functionality. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didsystem #didsystemawareness #didawareness #systok #didtok #destigmatizedid #osdd #osddsystem #osddtok #mentalhealthtiktok #didalters" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7512550622995172654) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-06-05T19:33Z 21.6K followers, 37.5K engagements "Weve finally started doing some trauma work in therapy after almost a year of working on stabilization and I am struck over and over again how wounded we were as a child. My heart breaks for that little girl who wanted nothing more than a little love and safety who fought to stay alive in environments that made her so very sick. Everything we do is for this child: the child we once were. The child we never got to be. The child that lives within us. She deserved so much better and were determined to give it to her. -Elijah . . #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystemsoftiktok" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7529999753925365006) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-07-22T20:05Z 21.6K followers, 94.4K engagements "Replying to @La Muertera Integration isnt a static one-time occurrence. Its a process that takes place over time as dissociation and amnesia lessen due to improved communication and trauma processing. Fusion on the other hand happens when the barriers between two (or more) alters break down and the brain decides they dont need to be separate states of identity anymore. Its easy to confuse these terms. Thats why we wanted to make this video: to hopefully provide some clarity . . #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem #didsystemawareness #systok #destigmatizedid" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7535567395369405709) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-08-06T20:10Z 21.6K followers, 11.2K engagements "Based on true events. Recently Ive been doing really well mentally which should mean that we as a system are doing well too. Unfortunately Ive been somewhat selfish enjoying the benefits of an up period while actively ignoring my responsibilities as host. It can be challenging to balance life stuff with system stuff and while I hate to admit it sometimes I find myself slipping back into denial to avoid dealing with the reality of living with DID which of course always has a negative effect in the end and other members of my system are left to pick up the pieces. All of this is to say: Im" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7546688697106730253) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-09-05T19:27Z 21.6K followers, 44.9K engagements "Replying to @Jacey basically new traumas may cause the formation of new alters as the brain may decide that someone else is needed to maintain functionality. Our brains are creatures of habit and once they discover that something works theyll replicate the process until we give them a reason not to. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #didalters #destigmatizedid #traumarecovery" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7498451050635119918) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-04-28T19:39Z 21.6K followers, 38.8K engagements "Replying to @rosepetal832 If you find yourself in this position we recommend talking to a therapist (or a trusted friend if therapy is not available to you) to sort through the complicated nuances of system accountability. Finding the balance of independence and collective responsibility can be challenging for any system and it may take time and work to determine exactly what works best for you. In general though we tend to air on the side of caution and recommend working toward a collective understanding of what behaviors are acceptable / appropriate in your day-to-day life. . ." [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7537448421184015630) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-08-11T21:50Z 21.6K followers, 17K engagements "Skill sharing and boundaries may vary from system to system but generally speaking child alters arent exactly the same as singlet children. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #didalters #destigmatizedid #childalter #didlittles #littlealter" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7496957139290950958) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-04-24T19:02Z 21.6K followers, 487.8K engagements "I am an alter. Were all alters because we have DID. Make sense . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #didalters #destigmatizedid #traumarecovery" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7498088578153647406) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-04-27T20:13Z 21.6K followers, 35.7K engagements "Lately Ive been reflecting on our progress and how far weve come in the last six months and while Im incredibly proud of us and all weve achieved I still sometimes feel like its one step forward two steps back. Living with DID (as well as other mental and physical health conditions) involves daily concentrated effort to remain functional. It requires a lot of cooperation and collective commitment to our recovery and some days honoring that commitment can feel exhausting but we do it because were determined to live the happy healthy life weve always deserved. All of this to say: if your system" [TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@despitesystem/video/7547817315409120543) [@despitesystem](/creator/tiktok/despitesystem) 2025-09-08T20:26Z 21.6K followers, 32.5K engagements
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@despitesystem the despite system 🌱
the despite system 🌱 posts on TikTok about alters, i remember, integration, events the most. They currently have XXXXXX followers and XX posts still getting attention that total XXXXX engagements in the last XX hours.
Engagements: XXXXX #
- X Week XXXXXX +123%
- X Month XXXXXX +86%
- X Months XXXXXXX +481%
Mentions: XX #
- X Week XX +11%
- X Month XX +100%
- X Months XX +247%
Followers: XXXXXX #
- X Week XXXXXX +0.86%
- X Month XXXXXX +8.30%
- X Months XXXXXX +364%
CreatorRank: XXXXXXXXX #
Social Influence #
Social topic influence alters #10, i remember, integration, events
Top Social Posts #
Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours
"Improving system communication takes time. For some folks that means a couple months. For others it means multiple years. There is no set or linear timeline and its okay if it takes your system a while to figure out what kind of communication works best for you. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem #didsystemawareness #didawareness #dissociativeidentitydisorder #systok #didtok #destigmatizedid #osdd #osddsystem #osddtok #mentalhealthtiktok #didalters"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-06-03T21:42Z 21.6K followers, 25.7K engagements
"Also keep in mind that the host can change Our host has changed several times just in the last few years. Nothing is fixed as new traumas and healing alike can shift the dynamics of the system. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #systok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #mentalhealthtok #mentalhealthtiktoks #destigmatizedid"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-03-28T21:29Z 21.6K followers, 46.3K engagements
"We are for all intents and purposes different people but that doesnt change the fact that we still share the same body which affects how we speak behave and carry ourselves. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didsystem #didalters #didawareness #systok #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #mentalhealthtiktoks #systokdid"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-04-18T19:01Z 21.6K followers, 73.8K engagements
"Fusion can change a lot about a system including how certain alters express themselves and the relationships and dynamics present within the system. Its just another aspect that adds to the complexity of DID. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #didalters #destigmatizedid #dissociativedisorder #traumarecovery #mentalhealthtiktoks #didfusion"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-05-04T19:14Z 21.6K followers, 59.5K engagements
"Replying to @Shannon Frye To avoid confusion: Elijah is still the host of our system This is just a skit we wrote to answer this question. For fellow systems who feel comfortable sharing: how do you handle host changes How does your system adapt to new and shifting dynamics . . #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem #didtok #systok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didawareness #destigmatizedid #dissociativedisorder #mentalhealthtiktok #osdd #osddsystem #osddtok #didhost #didalters"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-05-22T19:25Z 21.6K followers, 7923 engagements
"Being one person is hard let alone being multiple people in one body/brain. DID is no walk in the park and coping with this condition on top of daily life struggles can be a serious challenge. If you feel like youre falling behind or failing or just not living up to your potential know that you are not alone and we can guarantee youre probably doing much better than you think. You see your failures through a magnifying glass; all we see is a super strong resilient beautiful system continuing to fight the good fight. You got this. We believe in you. 🫶🏻 . . #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-06-02T21:02Z 21.6K followers, 12.8K engagements
"Replying to @GHOSTFACE XX Intra-system relationships can be just as meaningful and complex as external relationships. There are many reasons the brain might facilitate bonds between alters but ultimately it comes down to the fact that DID is a survival mechanism and sometimes various types of relationships are needed for our survival and continued functionality. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didsystem #didsystemawareness #didawareness #systok #didtok #destigmatizedid #osdd #osddsystem #osddtok #mentalhealthtiktok #didalters"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-06-05T19:33Z 21.6K followers, 37.5K engagements
"Weve finally started doing some trauma work in therapy after almost a year of working on stabilization and I am struck over and over again how wounded we were as a child. My heart breaks for that little girl who wanted nothing more than a little love and safety who fought to stay alive in environments that made her so very sick. Everything we do is for this child: the child we once were. The child we never got to be. The child that lives within us. She deserved so much better and were determined to give it to her. -Elijah . . #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystemsoftiktok"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-07-22T20:05Z 21.6K followers, 94.4K engagements
"Replying to @La Muertera Integration isnt a static one-time occurrence. Its a process that takes place over time as dissociation and amnesia lessen due to improved communication and trauma processing. Fusion on the other hand happens when the barriers between two (or more) alters break down and the brain decides they dont need to be separate states of identity anymore. Its easy to confuse these terms. Thats why we wanted to make this video: to hopefully provide some clarity . . #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystemsoftiktok #didsystem #didsystemawareness #systok #destigmatizedid"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-08-06T20:10Z 21.6K followers, 11.2K engagements
"Based on true events. Recently Ive been doing really well mentally which should mean that we as a system are doing well too. Unfortunately Ive been somewhat selfish enjoying the benefits of an up period while actively ignoring my responsibilities as host. It can be challenging to balance life stuff with system stuff and while I hate to admit it sometimes I find myself slipping back into denial to avoid dealing with the reality of living with DID which of course always has a negative effect in the end and other members of my system are left to pick up the pieces. All of this is to say: Im"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-09-05T19:27Z 21.6K followers, 44.9K engagements
"Replying to @Jacey basically new traumas may cause the formation of new alters as the brain may decide that someone else is needed to maintain functionality. Our brains are creatures of habit and once they discover that something works theyll replicate the process until we give them a reason not to. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #didalters #destigmatizedid #traumarecovery"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-04-28T19:39Z 21.6K followers, 38.8K engagements
"Replying to @rosepetal832 If you find yourself in this position we recommend talking to a therapist (or a trusted friend if therapy is not available to you) to sort through the complicated nuances of system accountability. Finding the balance of independence and collective responsibility can be challenging for any system and it may take time and work to determine exactly what works best for you. In general though we tend to air on the side of caution and recommend working toward a collective understanding of what behaviors are acceptable / appropriate in your day-to-day life. . ."
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-08-11T21:50Z 21.6K followers, 17K engagements
"Skill sharing and boundaries may vary from system to system but generally speaking child alters arent exactly the same as singlet children. . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #didalters #destigmatizedid #childalter #didlittles #littlealter"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-04-24T19:02Z 21.6K followers, 487.8K engagements
"I am an alter. Were all alters because we have DID. Make sense . . #didsystemsoftiktok #dissociativeidentitydisorder #didtok #didsystem #didawareness #systemtok #dissociativedisorder #didalters #destigmatizedid #traumarecovery"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-04-27T20:13Z 21.6K followers, 35.7K engagements
"Lately Ive been reflecting on our progress and how far weve come in the last six months and while Im incredibly proud of us and all weve achieved I still sometimes feel like its one step forward two steps back. Living with DID (as well as other mental and physical health conditions) involves daily concentrated effort to remain functional. It requires a lot of cooperation and collective commitment to our recovery and some days honoring that commitment can feel exhausting but we do it because were determined to live the happy healthy life weve always deserved. All of this to say: if your system"
TikTok Link @despitesystem 2025-09-08T20:26Z 21.6K followers, 32.5K engagements