[GUEST ACCESS MODE: Data is scrambled or limited to provide examples. Make requests using your API key to unlock full data. Check https://lunarcrush.ai/auth for authentication information.]  Àgbà John Doe [@jon_d_doe](/creator/twitter/jon_d_doe) on x 423.7K followers Created: 2025-07-25 07:00:28 UTC Marriage should not scare you. What should scare you is getting married to the wrong spouse. That is why you need to stay close to your father if he's still alive. That is why you should cohabit at intervals. That is why you must put money aside, & test your commitments. That is why women should not love men. That is why men should stop stealing. That is why if you're not virgins, you must test your sexual compatibility. That is why you must know and align with your tribe and religion. That is why you must ask questions & do proper background check, before you marry. That is why you must never turn your back on God. That is why you must choose her mother before you choose her. That is why the man must be financially transparent and the woman must be financially accountable. That is why the woman must not be caught in infidelity. That is why you should not be too quick to break up and make up, because "insects" can slip through the cracks. That is why both of you must fight, quarrel, and use each episode as a teaching and learning moment. That is why the man must be older but not with a very wide gap. That is why a man must not be with a woman that is richer, more educated and more exposed than he is. That is why I am here. Tell yourselves this: As a woman: "I want to be sincere in this relationship. I want it to be my last. I will respect my man & create boundaries for him. I will not love him, & I will not enable him but support him & let him lead me. I want to be feminine & I don't want to compete with my man. I'll sacrifice and invest in him with the hope that he's investing in the future of both of us" As a man: "I want to love this woman. But if I'm struggling to love her, I want to be deliberately committed & kind to her. If I cheat, I'll not rub my cheating on her face. I will not steal to take care of this woman if I marry her. I'll work hard and lead this woman right. I will always look up to God for direction & blessing and I'll not hate my father. I will not be a mommy's boy & I'll put this woman first before my mother. I will protect her from my family, & protect my family from her. I will learn to make sweet love to her, & treat her like a queen". So help me God. End. XXXXXXX engagements  **Related Topics** [women](/topic/women) [money](/topic/money) [Post Link](https://x.com/jon_d_doe/status/1948639470258901392)
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Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe on x 423.7K followers
Created: 2025-07-25 07:00:28 UTC
Marriage should not scare you.
What should scare you is getting married to the wrong spouse.
That is why you need to stay close to your father if he's still alive.
That is why you should cohabit at intervals.
That is why you must put money aside, & test your commitments.
That is why women should not love men.
That is why men should stop stealing.
That is why if you're not virgins, you must test your sexual compatibility.
That is why you must know and align with your tribe and religion.
That is why you must ask questions & do proper background check, before you marry.
That is why you must never turn your back on God.
That is why you must choose her mother before you choose her.
That is why the man must be financially transparent and the woman must be financially accountable.
That is why the woman must not be caught in infidelity.
That is why you should not be too quick to break up and make up, because "insects" can slip through the cracks.
That is why both of you must fight, quarrel, and use each episode as a teaching and learning moment.
That is why the man must be older but not with a very wide gap.
That is why a man must not be with a woman that is richer, more educated and more exposed than he is.
That is why I am here.
Tell yourselves this:
As a woman:
"I want to be sincere in this relationship. I want it to be my last. I will respect my man & create boundaries for him. I will not love him, & I will not enable him but support him & let him lead me. I want to be feminine & I don't want to compete with my man. I'll sacrifice and invest in him with the hope that he's investing in the future of both of us"
As a man:
"I want to love this woman. But if I'm struggling to love her, I want to be deliberately committed & kind to her. If I cheat, I'll not rub my cheating on her face. I will not steal to take care of this woman if I marry her. I'll work hard and lead this woman right. I will always look up to God for direction & blessing and I'll not hate my father. I will not be a mommy's boy & I'll put this woman first before my mother. I will protect her from my family, & protect my family from her. I will learn to make sweet love to her, & treat her like a queen".
So help me God.
End.
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