[GUEST ACCESS MODE: Data is scrambled or limited to provide examples. Make requests using your API key to unlock full data. Check https://lunarcrush.ai/auth for authentication information.]  Sassington, M.C. [@MissSassbox](/creator/twitter/MissSassbox) on x 64K followers Created: 2025-07-12 19:03:32 UTC rant from personal experience incoming: people pleasers have such a hard time stopping the behavior, because most of their relationships were birthed and strengthened on their investment of being the most reliable one. and they can't let the idea of that go, until they're truly ready to only be reliable for their own peace and satisfaction and that's the ONLY reward. the hard part is being strong enough to watch and wait to see who will still accept the new version of you, and also seeing who will fade away with that habit when it stops. the hard truth is that the people pleasing is the manifestation of constantly being and doing everything you wish someone would do for you, but your self esteem convinces you that you'd be a burden to even desire that openly. then one day you realize you deserve what you desire and start healing. you realize that you enjoy not being available for everything and saying yes to yourself. and most of that healing does also involve realizing how much silent resentment you built up against the beneficiaries of your behavior, that's internally destroying your nervous system. XXXXXX engagements  **Related Topics** [unpopular opinion](/topic/unpopular-opinion) [investment](/topic/investment) [Post Link](https://x.com/MissSassbox/status/1944110393477263639)
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Sassington, M.C. @MissSassbox on x 64K followers
Created: 2025-07-12 19:03:32 UTC
rant from personal experience incoming:
people pleasers have such a hard time stopping the behavior, because most of their relationships were birthed and strengthened on their investment of being the most reliable one. and they can't let the idea of that go, until they're truly ready to only be reliable for their own peace and satisfaction and that's the ONLY reward. the hard part is being strong enough to watch and wait to see who will still accept the new version of you, and also seeing who will fade away with that habit when it stops.
the hard truth is that the people pleasing is the manifestation of constantly being and doing everything you wish someone would do for you, but your self esteem convinces you that you'd be a burden to even desire that openly.
then one day you realize you deserve what you desire and start healing. you realize that you enjoy not being available for everything and saying yes to yourself. and most of that healing does also involve realizing how much silent resentment you built up against the beneficiaries of your behavior, that's internally destroying your nervous system.
XXXXXX engagements
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