# ![@itgirlplaybook Avatar](https://lunarcrush.com/gi/w:26/cr:youtube::UCvEj4zFUZYplr-X2AJm8VTQ.png) @itgirlplaybook It Girl Playbook

It Girl Playbook posts on YouTube about playbook, level, how to, mindset the most. They currently have [-------] followers and [---] posts still getting attention that total [------] engagements in the last [--] hours.

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### Social Influence

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[ncaa football](/list/ncaa-football)  #415 [celebrities](/list/celebrities)  2.75% [stocks](/list/stocks)  1.83% [travel destinations](/list/travel-destinations)  0.92% [musicians](/list/musicians)  0.92% [finance](/list/finance)  0.92%

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[playbook](/topic/playbook) 22.02%, [level](/topic/level) #2650, [how to](/topic/how-to) 11.93%, [mindset](/topic/mindset) #997, [the most](/topic/the-most) #4326, [art](/topic/art) 6.42%, [relationships](/topic/relationships) #2000, [the art](/topic/the-art) #501, [back to](/topic/back-to) 4.59%, [fear of](/topic/fear-of) 2.75%

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### Top Social Posts
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"whats your decision going to be #levelup #glowup #empowerment #motivation"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=BaWwE7fu0xY)  2025-07-23T01:31Z 369K followers, 21.7K engagements


"Composure Is a Superpower Why Calm People Always Win Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode were breaking down why calm is one of the most elite forms of confidence and why people who stay composed tend to win in life relationships and power dynamics. Well explore how calmness isnt passive at all its a regulated nervous system a clear mind and the ability to choose your response instead of being dragged by emotion. When youre calm you see more. You think better. You move with better intention. And as a result of all of this you win more. Timestamps 0:00 Intro 0:30 Calm is a Sign"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Byl3k-I8B-k)  2026-01-21T20:32Z 369K followers, 39.7K engagements


"Playing dumb when you're smart is actually genius Join Reco Social to start shopping as you scroll and enter your chance to win a $100 Amazon gift card: https://recosocial.onelink.me/lPzT/qow1mjzw Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving deep into the art of playing dumb not out of insecurity but out of strategy. From Marilyn Monroe to Elle Woods we explore how softness strategic silence and selective incompetence can become quiet power moves that put you ten steps ahead. When people assume youre harmless they lower their guard. They underestimate you. They show you"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=W-enMOkSf4k)  2025-12-24T00:53Z 369K followers, 61.5K engagements


"The Lana Del Rey Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving deep into the world of Lana Del Rey: the queen of romanticizing life turning heartbreak into high art and owning your aesthetic unapologetically. Lana Del Rey didnt just make musicshe created a whole mood. From her cinematic visuals to her melancholic storytelling she shows us that its okay to feel things deeply and that our softness can be our superpower. If youve ever felt like you dont fit the mold or questioned if your too much is too much this episode is for you. Let this be your reminder that the"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=gb_kRXxOv_8)  2025-04-16T13:20Z 369K followers, 96.3K engagements


"Hypergamy dating: learn from asian dating culture Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today's episode is super special because we're going to explore the hypergamy dating and we're looking at it through the lens of Asian dating culture. I'm excited to share with you some insights and values from my culture that focus on dating up and ensuring a better future for you and your family. Whats in the episode: What's Hypergamy It's about dating or marrying up in social status or wealth. We'll look at how this idea has evolved and what it means for women today. Financial Roles in Chinese Dating"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=mK49wT-gFHU)  2024-07-27T15:30Z 369K followers, 41.9K engagements


"The Regina George Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today we continue our popular series "It Girl Lessons from It Girls" by exploring the magnetic presence of Regina George from the iconic movie Mean Girls. We all know that Regina George isn't just any high school queen beeshe's much more Why Because she's a master of influence and command thats why shes the perfect subject for anyone looking to level up their personal or professional life. So today well dissect how Reginas blend of intelligence and manipulative charm made her a memorable figure in the iconic movie and how her"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=mo9TM5emPxA)  2024-08-11T23:16Z 369K followers, 320.6K engagements


"Hobbies that will make you more creative The first [----] people watching this video to use my link will get a full year of Premium membership to Craftsy for only $1.49: https://go.craftsy.com/itgirlplaybook/ Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into another hobbies that boost your creativity not just for fun but to help you reconnect with your curious expressive side. From cooking to writing traveling to puzzle-solving these hobbies arent just activities theyre creative workouts for your mind and soul. Whether youre rekindling an old hobby or discovering a new one"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=rdvzdwEw-V8)  2025-12-29T15:01Z 369K followers, 46.2K engagements


"The Hailey Bieber Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into the effortlessly iconic world of Hailey Bieber and how shes mastered one of the most magnetic traits of all: being unbothered. From being labeled a nepo baby to living in the shadow of constant comparisons Hailey has faced nonstop noise her entire career. But instead of clapping back shes stayed cool funny and unshaken turning hate into humor and gossip into a punchline. Hailey reminds us: you dont need to explain over prove or defend yourself to win. Sometimes all you need is a sense of humor a"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1sWiDUnQ1qc)  2025-05-29T16:09Z 369K followers, 145.7K engagements


"How to be charismatic Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In todays episode were breaking down what it really means to be charismaticand why it has nothing to do with being the loudest or the most extroverted in the room. This episode explores the charisma metric and will help you discover which archetype you align with how to use it to your advantage and why you dont need to change who you areyou just need to know how to recognize and play into your natural strengths. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:45 The Charisma Matrix 1:37 The Enigma 2:53 The Darling 4:17 Ice Queen 5:45 The Diva 7:30 Final"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4ga65r_EExs)  2025-07-10T15:31Z 369K followers, 322.6K engagements


"2.5 hours of it girl lessons to fall asleep to 💤✨ Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook This is a compilation of the It Girls weve explored so faralong with the mindsets habits and lessons that make them so magnetic. Whether youre getting ready in the morning going on a hot girl walk taking a long drive or watching it to go to sleepthis video will be here to help you level up. Enjoy ✨ It Girls Featured: Wizard Liz Alexa Demie Jennie Kim Song Jia Jang Wonyoung Lori Harvey Marjorie Harvey Angelina Jolie Alison DiLaurentis Tam Kaur Marilyn Monroe Cleopatra Blair Waldorf Regina George Elle Woods"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=569T09K6s8E)  2025-08-05T23:58Z 369K followers, 62.1K engagements


"Charisma of Contradictions Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode were diving into the charisma of contradiction and explore the art of being multidimensional and unpredictable. This isnt about performing mystery or becoming inconsistent. Its about letting different parts of you exist at the same time on purpose and to your charm. If youve ever been described as hard to read or not what people assume this episode is for you. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:41 Why contradiction = charisma 2:41 Character Examples 8:05 Accessible Contradictions 13:29 Contradictions to Avoid 15:08 Final"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=E714wTUEi30)  2026-01-30T15:00Z 369K followers, 30.1K engagements


"Never split the difference Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into "Never Split the Difference" by former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss to master the art of negotiation. Youll discover how to: - the power of no (& why it can be more effective than chasing yes) - Use empathy and curiosity to guide any conversation your way - Ask the right questions to uncover what people really mean - Create outcomes where you both win instead of always giving in Whether youre negotiating in business setting boundaries in relationships or simply learning to stand your ground"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=NpN0Pfjzvp4)  2025-10-15T15:21Z 369K followers, 43.4K engagements


"power of being first #haileybieber #levelup #confidence #selfgrowth #emotionalintelligence"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=VlkBis1SMnk)  2025-07-11T15:00Z 369K followers, 34.8K engagements


"The Jia Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In today's episode we continue our series "It Girl Lessons from It Girls" focusing on the captivating allure of Song Jia from Singles Inferno. Youll discover the secrets behind her magnetic aura and learn how to adopt her most attractive qualities into your own life. Also find out how you can make everyone obsessed with you by loving yourself first. Here are the Key Points in today's episode : - Self-Love is Key: Song Jia's journey on Singles Inferno shows how prioritizing self-care and self-love can make you irresistible. - Attract Don't"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ZnTdsQ3fqbA)  2024-06-12T15:58Z 369K followers, 278.8K engagements


"48 Laws of Power Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today we're going to explore the controversial and highly influential book "48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene. Though controversial this book serves as a tool for understanding human psychology and leveraging it in your journey to level up. Whether you're on a journey to boost your confidence master your social skills or simply curious about the psychological tactics of power this episode is tailor-made for you Featured Laws in This Episode: Law 1: Never Outshine the Master - The art of staying humble and strategic. Law 4: Always Say Less"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=dLvfE58Z2hc)  2024-08-16T14:28Z 369K followers, 1M engagements


"The allure of Audrey Hepburn Welcome back to It Girl Playbook Today were learning from the queen of quiet power and timeless grace the one and only Audrey Hepburn. In a world that celebrates loudness and excess Audrey chose less and somehow said more. And she didnt chase the spotlight she became it. Audrey Hepburn didnt need to reinvent herself into someone louder or bolder. She leaned into who she already was and ended up leaving a legacy the world still adores. So if youve ever felt like you had to be more this or less that to be noticed this episode is your permission to stop trying so"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=dSxdYIcM4vc)  2025-04-29T16:52Z 369K followers, 52.3K engagements


"The Supermodel Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Have you ever seen someone walk into a room and everything just stops Thats the supermodel effect and no its not just about looks. Its presence. Energy. Confidence. And in this episode were diving into exactly what makes that energy so magnetic. From Naomi Campbells fierce confidence to Ming Xis quiet grace were breaking down the mindsets values and lessons from the worlds most iconic supermodels. These women didnt just model clothes they modeled self-belief transformation discipline and individuality. Whether youre working on"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=fa9WbRrdJfE)  2025-04-25T02:56Z 369K followers, 144.5K engagements


"The Charisma of Calm Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were exploring what I call the charisma of calm that rare magnetic quality that makes people trust you respect you and feel safe around you. If youve ever wanted to walk into chaos and still feel composed this episode is for you. Timestamps 0:00 Intro 0:31 Charisma of Calm 1:23 Why Its So Attractive (Psychology of Calm) 2:04 What Calm Actually Is 3:35 How to Cultivate Calm 7:37 Final Message Join the It Girl Newsletter: https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/subscribe Get The Playbook Mini (yes it's free):"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=kSZDZPOHKLQ)  2025-11-18T17:36Z 369K followers, 58.8K engagements


"Become Dangerously Knowledgeable 🧠 Personalize your learning plan and upgrade how you learn join me on BeFreed: https://bit.ly/4jcr4cI Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today we will be exploring how to become dangerously knowledgeable not academically but strategically. You dont become powerful by knowing everything you become powerful by knowing the right things and knowing how to use them. And in this video we will explore exactly what topics hold leverage how to learn and how to retain the information so that it's easier to recall and therefore easier to apply and put into practice."  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=kuDsoesxhXg)  2025-12-20T20:00Z 369K followers, 56.1K engagements


"The Zendaya Mindset Welcome back to It Girl Playbook Today were breaking down Zendayas rise from Disney star to Hollywoods most beloved A-lister and more importantly what we can learn from her. Theres something about Zendaya that makes people naturally root for her. Its not just talent or looks. Its the way she carries herself evolves with purpose and uses her influence for something bigger than herself. Shes proof that true success isnt just about what you achieve but how you grow along the way. In this episode were diving into: - How Zendaya radiates confidence without arrogance - Why"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=obL7ny6Ijj0)  2025-04-03T18:24Z 369K followers, 59K engagements


"The Mere Exposure Effect Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into why confidence isnt just about doing moreits about reprogramming who you believe you are. From the Mere Exposure Effect to Dr. Joe Dispenzas take on rewiring your biology were exploring how to stop living on autopilotand start intentionally shaping your identity. This isnt about pretending to be confident. Its about rewiring your thoughts your energy and your environment until that higher version of you feels like home. What you repeat becomes who you are. So if your past was rehearsed into your"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=pu3PlC3u-d0)  2025-07-16T20:10Z 369K followers, 24.6K engagements


"The allure of Alexa Demie Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In today's episode we're diving into the allure of Alexa Demie and the power of privacy. Unlike many celebrities Alexa maintains an air of mystery that keeps everyone intrigued. We'll also explore why keeping certain aspects of your life private can actually make you more fascinating and how you can adopt this strategy to level up your own life. Key Takeaways: - The benefits of maintaining privacy in a social media-driven world. - How Alexa Demie's mysterious aura sets her apart. - Examples of celebrities who rose to quick fame"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=xP3_Re9rNNg)  2024-06-16T18:12Z 369K followers, 642.4K engagements


"People may doubt you but you dont have to believe them👏 #levelup #glowup #confidence #empowerment"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Bcp4-lZB6so)  2025-07-06T15:00Z 369K followers, 15.9K engagements


"this is what your favorite Disney princess says about you #cinderella"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=DFOQrZy8tkg)  2025-07-20T19:00Z 369K followers, [----] engagements


"What is your attachment style Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving deep into attachment theorywhere it comes from how it shapes your relationships and what you can do to create healthier more secure relationships. Heres what we'll learn today: - A quick quiz to discover your attachment style - Navigating each attachment style - Compatibility with attachment different styles - Working toward secure attachment Rememberyour attachment style isnt permanent. Its not about being good or bad. Its the way you learned to protect yourself growing up. And with awareness and"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=UktoLa2yqCg)  2025-08-18T13:53Z 369K followers, 15.1K engagements


"The Privilege of Potential Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In todays episode were talking about potentialyour greatest privilege. The fact that theres more you could become more you could achieve and more you could experience is a gift. But heres the harsh truth: most people waste it. They let fear self-doubt and the opinions of people who dont even matter hold them back. They watch others succeed and wonder "Why not me"without realizing theyre the only thing in their way. If youve ever been doubted underestimated or told to stay in your lanegood. That means theres something about you"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=bIdgxCOdc88)  2025-03-31T14:30Z 367K followers, 185K engagements


"What was your favorite Disney princess #glowup #selfgrowth #selfimprovement #confidence #psychology"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=5ckZHLpFCvk)  2025-07-18T19:00Z 369K followers, 12.9K engagements


"How to deal with haters Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook I've gotten some requests for advice on dealing with haters and in todays episode I hope that I can deliver. We're first going to unpack the psychology and economics of hatewhy negativity spreads faster why outrage goes viral and how brands celebrities and creators have actually turned hate into success influence and power. By understanding the power of hate we can shift our perspective on how to use it to our advantage. In this episode youll learn: - Why haters amplify your name more than fans do - How negativity bias + emotional"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=7ycx56a6pD0)  2025-08-30T16:22Z 369K followers, 19.5K engagements


"The enemy effect will make you magnetic Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook This year I made it a goal to become better at connecting with peoplenot just smiling and being polite but really getting people. And todays episode might just be one of the most surprisingly powerful tools Ive come across: The Enemy Effect. Its based on a simple psychological phenomenon: People bond faster over shared frustrations than shared interests. In this episode were talking about: - What charisma really is (and why you dont need to be the loudest in the room) - The psychology of the enemy effect and why it"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=BJ6JSnucAOw)  2025-07-23T16:30Z 369K followers, 20.4K engagements


"this is what your favorite Disney princess says about you #belle #beautyandthebeast"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=CStdwaFfgcU)  2025-07-22T01:00Z 369K followers, 16.5K engagements


"How to get whatever you want Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode Im breaking down the exact formula that shifted my entire life: how happiness creates patience creates power makes you magnetic to the things you want. If youve been feeling impatient overwhelmed or stuck in chaos-mode lately this episode is your reset. Were diving into the emotional science behind why your state shapes your reality how your Reticular Activating System filters your experiences and why luck is usually just alignment in disguise. Im also sharing the two practices I use to stay calm grounded and"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=DRQsR1UICdk)  2025-11-24T16:00Z 369K followers, 45K engagements


"The Miranda Priestly Mindset Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In todays episode were learning from none other than Miranda Priestly the woman who taught us that respect lasts longer than being liked and that setting high standards isnt cold its necessary. In this episode well explore: 1) Why you should never apologize for having standards 2) You dont need to be liked to be respected Miranda isnt respected because shes nice shes respected because she knows who she is and refuses to settle for less. You dont have to be everyones favorite you just have to respect yourself enough to stand"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=GFl1_qHPJ58)  2025-07-25T18:04Z 369K followers, 78.9K engagements


"what your favorite Disney villain says about you #maleficent #disneyshorts"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=L43sngjVPXs)  2025-07-24T02:02Z 369K followers, 16.1K engagements


"Life changing books Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook Sometimes your biggest breakthrough doesnt come from therapy or a huge life event - it comes from a book that checks you hard. In todays episode Im sharing the books that genuinely shifted my mindset healed parts of me I didnt know were wounded and helped me rebuild from the inside out. These arent just self-help books. Theyre glow up books- emotionally mentally and even spiritually. If youre on your journey of self-discovery healing or just trying to get your life together this list is for you. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:39 Why Men Love"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Rwa9iY3WjpM)  2025-07-06T12:00Z 369K followers, 28.7K engagements


"How To Be Emotionally Intelligent Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving deep into emotional intelligence the secret skill that makes you magnetic and socially confident. Whether youre trying to improve your relationships navigate awkward situations or simply understand yourself better this ones for you. In this episode well dive into: - What emotional intelligence really means (and what its not) - Building self-awareness through shadow work journaling & therapy - How to regulate your emotions without bottling them up - Reading people and social settings with calm"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=UsU97PDOFK8)  2025-10-21T18:32Z 369K followers, 28.6K engagements


"Why do you keep settling Going to therapy is a sign of strength not weakness. My sponsor BetterHelp makes therapy simple with 10% off your first month to help you get started: https://betterhelp.com/itgirlplaybook Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook and welcome to a new series where we explore why we do the things we do so we can finally stop repeating the same cycles that keep holding us back. In todays episode were diving deep into something so many of us struggle with: settling for less in relationships. And no its not because you dont know better. Its because less became familiar and"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=VizQf8sqUhw)  2025-06-28T15:14Z 369K followers, 13.5K engagements


"the psychology of projection #selfgrowth #psychology #selfimprovement #higherself #levelup"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=VnPTPFCZ8pA)  2025-07-18T03:35Z 369K followers, 16.1K engagements


"The Paris Hilton Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In today's episode were learning from the original It Girl herself Paris Hilton. Long before TikTok stars and Instagram models took over our feeds Paris invented the influencer blueprint. and then turned it into a global empire. Paris Hilton isnt just a pop culture momentshes a masterclass in image resilience and reinvention. While the world was busy underestimating her she was quietly building an empire behind the scenes. And thats the real It Girl energy. 💅 So if youve ever felt boxed in by other peoples opinions doubted"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Yn8zX9o1mOg)  2025-04-28T21:37Z 369K followers, 38.2K engagements


"Rihanna case study: people will judge you but dont let it affect your potential. #motivation"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=YvGv8kpmUB8)  2025-07-09T15:01Z 369K followers, 23.8K engagements


"The Cher Horowitz Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into one of the most iconic characters ever Cher Horowitz from Clueless. She mightve been a little clueless but she mastered something most people never do: the art of emotional intelligence self-perception and reinvention. In this episode we will explore: The Optimists Advantage: How seeing the best in others can unlock your influence and charm. The Power of Self-Perception: Why people believe in you when you believe in yourself. Reinvention Through Self-Awareness: How growth begins when you have the"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=_8ziSi25WjY)  2025-10-24T14:01Z 369K followers, 33.6K engagements


"fear of judgement is real #glowup #levelup #confidence #selfgrowth"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=__w_z59j-6E)  2025-07-08T15:01Z 369K followers, 11.1K engagements


"The Beth Harmon Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were exploring Beth Harmon from The Queens Gambita character who proves that intelligence passion and self-trust are some of the most magnetic qualities you can have. Beth reminds us of three powerful lessons: - Intelligence is magnetic: She never apologizes for being the smartest in the room. - Obsession fuels mastery: Her passion for chess reminds us that devotion to your craft is what sets you apart. - Trust yourself: Your worth isnt tied to anything external. Its been you all along. This episode is a guide on"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=_wW9oFLlS-Y)  2025-09-08T15:01Z 369K followers, 60K engagements


"if you feel like your life is falling apart watch this video Youve lost something you loved. Your heart is broken. Your career is struggling and maybe your whole life feels like its falling apart. But what if this moment is actually pushing you toward something even better Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today were talking about how to turn lifes toughest moments into your biggest comeback. In this episode youll hear inspiring real-life comeback stories from Song Jia Song Hye-Kyo and Addison Rae to explore some valuable life lessons we can learn from. If you feel like your life is"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=aaIMkHnMFYI)  2025-01-30T16:00Z 369K followers, 216.9K engagements


"The Sabrina Carpenter Mindset #glowup #levelup #confidence #sabrinacarpenter"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=bcF0C8EHBeU)  2025-07-05T23:34Z 369K followers, 15.1K engagements


"The Wonyoung Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today were diving into another episode of the "It Girl Lessons from It Girls" series and in this episode were learning from the K-pop idol Jang Wonyoung. Wonyoung is known for her stunning visuals graceful confidence and unwavering commitment to becoming the best version of herself. From her dedication to her studies to setting firm boundaries Wonyoung shows us the power of consistency and self-respect in building a life youre proud of. Today we'll be exploring how her mindset and discipline contribute to her success and how you can"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=eRMd4DwHil4)  2024-09-04T13:04Z 369K followers, 422.1K engagements


"Become more attractive by copying Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were breaking down how to copy the right way from finding your celebrity look-alike and decoding your face shape to styling for your body ratio and learning how to embody confidence like your favorite icons. Learn how to take inspiration from others and turn it into a version of you that feels confident elevated and authentic. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:25 Why copying works 1:16 Find Your Celebrity look-alike 2:36 Find Your Animal Face Shape 3:44 Dressing For Your Body Type 4:36 Find Your Body Ratio 6:03"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=nq04N3Oud44)  2025-11-01T14:01Z 369K followers, 41.2K engagements


"hot girls have hobbies (with benefits) Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today were exploring hobbies that arent just fun but also meaningful and life-changing. Hobbies have a way of making life more exciting and lets be honest they make people so much more interesting and theres something so attractive about someone whos passionate about what they love. So why not explore hobbies that bring you happiness and help you level up your life What Youll Discover: From the strategic brilliance of chess to the creative calm of painting and even the therapeutic benefits of gardening theres"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=oUidv7FdLFE)  2024-11-27T15:44Z 369K followers, 309.5K engagements


"Be so unreadable it makes people careful Join Reco Social to start shopping as you scroll and enter your chance to win a $100 Amazon gift card: https://recosocial.onelink.me/lPzT/03u6a9u7 Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode we break down why being predictable makes you easy to control and how becoming strategically unreadable puts the power back in your hands. Not by being cold. Not by being chaotic. But by mastering your reactions you will learn to master your reality. Timestamps: 0:00 Giveaway 1:34 Intro 2:35 How to become uncontrollable 4:32 How to become unreadable 8:18"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=oaa42ac6rak)  2025-11-28T16:21Z 369K followers, 43.9K engagements


"Hobbies that will make you more attractive Join Reco Social to start shopping as you scroll and enter your chance to win a $100 Amazon gift card: https://recosocial.onelink.me/lPzT/um08k0fb Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into hobbies with benefits the kind that make you dangerously more attractive inside and out. From curating outfits that flatter your body type to blending your own perfume these are the glow-up rituals that shape confidence posture and presence. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:17 Giveaway 1:59 Fashion & Styling 3:04 Makeup Research 4:20 Skincare"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=qsK3s-Os-ew)  2025-10-28T14:40Z 369K followers, 188.2K engagements


"Power of Suspense & Curiosity Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into the psychology of suspense why mystery is so irresistible and how you can use it to your advantage. From Taylor Swifts Easter eggs to Apples genius less is more marketing and even lessons from The Art of Seduction were breaking down how curiosity keeps people invested in you. If youve ever felt the need to overshare over-explain or constantly prove yourself this episode will show you why holding a little back is actually the secret to keeping people hooked. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:37"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=r1Dg6Y-TkAs)  2025-09-13T18:33Z 369K followers, 30.5K engagements


"Power Of Introverts Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook It can sometimes feel like introverts aren't as widely celebrated and so in todays episode were breaking down why being an introvert is something to embrace not fix. From the art of deep listening to next-level focus to setting boundaries that protect your peace youll learn how to use your natural traits as your greatest advantage. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:50 Reframe Introversion 2:36 Leverage Your Listening Skills 4:20 Capitalize on Your Ability to Focus 6:45 Set Boundaries Around Your Energy 8:45 Channeling Extroversion 10:18 Final"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=rRbatcg-qCo)  2025-09-25T14:30Z 369K followers, 93.2K engagements


"Hobbies that will make you smarter 🧠 Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into hobbies with benefits the kind that sharpen your mind boost your creativity and make you dangerously intelligent. From chess moves that teach you strategy to journaling that trains your thoughts to rock climbing that tests both your brain and body these arent just pastimes. Theyre investments in YOU. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:21 Chess 1:10 Reading 2:07 Learning Languages 3:07 Playing Instruments 4:10 Improv Comedy 5:33 Debate Club 6:36 Journaling/Writing 8:50 Content Creation 10:10"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=tmx78RNtrPk)  2025-09-20T16:03Z 369K followers, 482.4K engagements


"The Tam Kaur Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were talking about Tam Kaur and how she has built such an incredible abundant life for herself. Well also explore her mindset of buying yourself the d*mn flowers and learn how you can adopt these powerful lessons into your own life to level up your happiness and self-worth. Tam Kaur teaches us that real happiness starts with YOU. When you buy yourself the flowers its not just about the flowers.its about realizing that youre in charge of your own happiness and self-worth. Simply doing little things for yourself is a"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=u3gxFYGIWS4)  2024-12-03T16:00Z 369K followers, 69.9K engagements


"A lil humor goes a long way ✨ #haileybieber #levelup #selfgrowth #selfimprovement"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=yebgkzpzRzw)  2025-07-10T15:01Z 369K followers, 12.8K engagements


"Be so calm it makes people nervous Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into that quiet power the kind that makes people lean in listen closer and respect your energy without you ever needing to raise your voice. Being calm isnt about being cold or detached its about knowing yourself so deeply that chaos cant shake your peace. When you master your emotions you master your energy. And when you master your energy you master your world. Timestamps 0:00 Intro 0:40 Breath Work 1:47 Use Silence Strategically 3:32 What You Actually Control 5:30 Maintaining Boundaries"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1-hw7MEx17U)  2025-11-10T13:42Z 369K followers, 304.6K engagements


"Likeable vs Respected: why you can't optimize for both Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode we break down one of the most misunderstood social dynamics: likability vs respect and why optimizing for one often sabotages the other. Using iconic character examples like Blair Waldorf Miranda Priestly Regina George Serena van der Woodsen Andy Sachs and Cady Heron. we explore how charm competence boundaries and conviction shape influence and why the women who are respected may not always be loved but they are rarely ignored. This isnt about becoming cold intimidating or"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ONrgLPdvLr8)  2026-02-10T15:46Z 369K followers, 55.6K engagements


"The Halo Effect Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were talking about The Halo Effect a psychological bias that can make one good impression work like magic in every other area of your life. Youll learn: - What the Halo Effect is and why it matters - How it affects your career relationships and reputation - How to use the Halo Effect to your advantage By the end of this video youll know how to intentionally shape the impressions people form about you so that your presence works for you not against you. Join the It Girl Newsletter:"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=U-VJCMunhOg)  2025-08-14T16:48Z 369K followers, 35.8K engagements


"What your Chinese zodiac sign says about you Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode Im breaking down what each Chinese zodiac sign says about your traits your lessons and what [----] is asking from you whether you fully believe in it or youre just using it as a reflective lens for the new year. Quick note: This is for reflection and fun not a substitute for real-life decisions. Take what resonates leave what doesnt. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:41 Background 1:27 Rat 3:26 Ox 5:25 Tiger 7:30 Rabbit 9:25 Dragon 11:27 Snake 13:07 Horse 14:36 Goat 16:14 Monkey 17:49 Rooster 19:39 Dog"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=UDd0ZXRPsts)  2026-01-12T15:18Z 369K followers, 43.1K engagements


"Charisma of Playfulness Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into the power intelligence and magnetism behind being playful and why its one of the most underrated traits in personal development. Mastering playfulness doesnt just make you more charismatic it changes the way people treat you the opportunities that open for you and the energy you attract into your life. If youve ever felt too serious too guarded or too focused on being taken seriously this ones for you. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:27 Playfulness is power 2:24 Intelligence of playfulness 5:36 Why it's"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ZpRuKtMAGLY)  2025-12-09T23:58Z 369K followers, 219.1K engagements


"Charisma of Joy Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were talking about the charisma of joy and why its one of the most powerful (and misunderstood) advantages you can develop. We live in a world that glorifies stress and struggle. Were taught that being exhausted means productivity that happiness comes after success and that joy is optional even irresponsible. But the truth is joy isnt a distraction from ambition. Its the engine behind it. And so if youve been waiting to feel happy after youve earned it consider this your sign to flip the script. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:54"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=h0vyb_Ohb2o)  2026-01-02T15:01Z 369K followers, 85.8K engagements


"your biggest advantage is that nobody knows who you are Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode well dive into how to use your unknown era as your secret advantage. From Addison Rae pushing through her cringe phase to Haleyy Baylee's unconventional way of manifesting her brand to Marilyn Monroe and Beyonc reinventing themselveswell talk about how to leverage audacity shamelessness and reinvention to level up during this phase in your life. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 1:02 Why We Struggle to Pursue 2:31 The Freedom in Being Unknown 3:30 Be Shameless 6:45 Freedom to Reinvent 9:35"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ltp_zXmED9o)  2025-09-03T14:26Z 369K followers, 44.8K engagements


"What your favorite color says about you Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into the psychology of colors to uncover what your go-to shade secretly says about you plus how you can use this knowledge to boost your confidence make unforgettable first impressions and level up your everyday life. Youll learn: - The hidden meanings behind each color - How your favorite shade reflects your vibe + energy - Real-life ways to use color psychology to your advantage Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 1:25 Red ❤ 2:37 Orange 🧡 3:38 Yellow 💛 4:53 Green 💚 5:55 Blue 💙 7:02 Pink 🩷 8:12"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=qKv0u686w_s)  2025-10-01T15:01Z 369K followers, 276.8K engagements


"You're not boring you just lack conversation skills Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode Im sharing some tips and lessons that have helped turn me from shy and socially awkward into someone who can hold deeper more charming conversations. Charisma isnt something youre born with its a skill. And the beauty about skills is that they can be practiced and mastered. By the end of this video youll know how to make people feel seen valued and drawn to your presence. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:35 70/30 Rule 2:42 Show Genuine Interest 4:25 "You're the Expert" Frame 6:14 Have Stories"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=trorsGxWMvg)  2025-08-22T16:14Z 369K followers, 89.4K engagements


"Games People Play Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In this episode were unpacking the book Games People Play by Dr. Eric Berne and how it explains why people act the way they do in relationships friendships and everyday life. Because most people dont actually want conflict. They want control. They want to feel safe. And sometimes they want to be right. Well break down [--] common Emotional Games People Play: 1) Why Dont You Yes But Asks for advice rejects every answer. They dont want solutions just validation for staying stuck. 2) If It Werent for You Blames others for their lack of progress"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=u9kWr0oafLo)  2025-06-23T14:42Z 369K followers, 43.6K engagements


"The Charisma Playbook Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In this episode Im compiling everything Ive learned about charisma into one go-to guide for both myself and anyone on the same journey. From how to actually make people feel seen to why mystery matters to the surprising power of embracing your flaws. This episode is packed with lessons that go deeper than just be confident. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:31 Be Genuinely Interested in Others 2:15 Never Outshine the Master 4:56 Confidence is Charming 6:44 The Pratfall Effect 8:49 The Enemy Effect 11:05 Activate the Right Emotions 13:58"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=yNgctrTr3Cw)  2025-07-30T15:27Z 369K followers, 346.4K engagements


"Courage To Be Disliked Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode we break down the life-changing lessons from The Courage to Be Dislikeda book that will completely shift how you see yourself other people and the world. Core Lessons from the book: (1) Psychology of Perception People see you through their own filters not reality. "Likeability" is just perception. (2) Freedom from the Past Our filters are influenced by the self identity we adopt but your past doesnt define who you choose to be now. (3) Courage to be Happy Real happiness comes from living on your terms not for"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=z_aZ0nk6YbY)  2025-09-29T14:40Z 369K followers, 37.2K engagements


"If you're ambitious but lazy watch this video Let Clickup help you get more done than 99% of people. Go to https://tryclickup.co/itgirlplaybook and use my code ITGIRLPLAYBOOK to get started for free. If you love Clickup my code will also give you 20% off if you decide to upgrade. #sponsored Welcome to The It Girl Playbook Do you have big dreams but feel stuck or lazy when it comes to chasing them If so this episode is for you. In todays episode were going to talk about the ambitious but lazy archetypewhy it happens how it holds you back and what you can do to turn things around. In this video"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3otBVkNR0Ws)  2025-01-10T14:54Z 363K followers, 142K engagements


"The Wizard Liz Mindset Welcome to the It Girl Playbook Today were starting a series called It Girl Lessons from It Girls. In this episode were looking at TheWizardLiz and her powerful lesson on the importance of being selfish to succeed in life. Liz grew up in a tough environment but transformed her life by being selfish with her time and energy. She chose to prioritize herself her well-being and her goals. This shift helped her heal and become successful. Being selfish doesnt mean disregarding others it means prioritizing yourself and your needs. Lizs story shows us that by focusing on our"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=9iWqHNIAwLA)  2024-06-05T15:32Z 362K followers, 149.7K engagements


"The Elle Woods Mindset Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In todays episode were focusing on Elle Woods from Legally Blonde and explore how Elles unstoppable self-belief and optimism helped her defy expectations overcome challenges and embrace her main character energy. Elles story is a powerful reminder that self-belief is your biggest currency. Despite being underestimated she proves that optimism and determination can overcome stereotypes. She didnt let others opinions stop her and neither should you If Elle can take on Harvard Law with style and confidence imagine what you can do When"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ENdBJ2B8Lq0)  2024-12-09T16:00Z 351K followers, 483.4K engagements


"The Laws of Human Nature Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene. This book doesnt just explain peopleit holds up a mirror to ourselves. From emotional impulses to quiet envy from self-love to self-sabotage these laws uncover the truth behind our everyday behaviors. If youve ever said something you didnt mean in the heat of the moment struggled with self-doubt or felt jealous and didnt know why it's because you're human and it's in your nature. But if you've ever wanted to leverage human nature to your advantage rather"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=FVDUUHQroww)  2025-05-23T15:14Z 342K followers, 67.5K engagements


"If you're feeling behind in life watch this Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook If youve been feeling like life is moving for everyone but you youre not alone. In todays episode were having an honest conversation about what it really means to feel behind in life. Why we compare. Why it hurts. And how to shift from feeling stuck to feeling empowered. Well unpack the truth behind comparison how to use it as inspiration rather than self-sabotage and why your timeline doesnt have to match anyone elses to be valid. You are not late. You are not lost. You are learning growing and becoming at your"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Mcj0D0Hd0Mw)  2025-06-08T02:14Z 343K followers, 121K engagements


"Overcome the fear of being seen Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In today's episode we're going to discuss the fear of being seen the challenges that come with stepping into the spotlight and how it can hold you back from becoming the best version of yourself. Well also explore how becoming successful often brings more attention both good and bad and why overcoming these fears is crucial to achieving the life you want. By the end of this episode youll be ready to prioritize yourself overcome your fears and take control of your journey to level up Get The Playbook Mini (yes it's free):"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=NUhY9hIWwgc)  2024-10-23T15:00Z 346K followers, 95.8K engagements


"The Lori Harvey Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In today's episode of our "It Girl Lessons from It Girls" series were exploring Lori Harvey's advice on self-worth and dating. Also discover what makes her so magnetic and how you can use her mindset to level up your life. Episode Highlights: - Lori Harvey's Best Advice: Learn the invaluable dating wisdom Lori Harvey received from her dad: "Remember that you are the prize." - Understanding Your Worth: See why women are considered the prize and how this works in modern dating. - Embrace Being Pursued: Learn how to let yourself be"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=RgnnOmEkv7k)  2024-06-19T15:00Z 363K followers, 62.9K engagements


"Art of Detachment Welcome back to another episode of It Girl Playbook In today's episode we're going to talk about the powerful concept of detachment. If you're struggling with letting go of control whether it's in your personal life career or relationships this episode is tailor made for you You will discover how detachment can lead to greater peace of mind less anxiety and a more fulfilling life. What You'll Learn: The Law of Detachment- Understanding how detaching from specific outcomes can surprisingly draw them to you. Control vs. Surrender- Identifying what's in your control and letting"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=_qTjwtAyjaE)  2024-08-28T16:15Z 350K followers, 190.7K engagements


"The Aura of Angelina Jolie Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In today's episode of our series we're going to explore what makes Angelina Jolie so magnetic and how we can embody some of her captivating qualities to level up our own lives. Here's what we cover in this episode: The Aura of Mystery: How Angelinas depth and purpose keep people intrigued and captivated. Unshakeable Confidence: The value of self-assurance and why true confidence comes from within. Effortless Charm Through Presence: How being fully engaged in each moment makes a lasting impact. Get The Playbook Mini (yes it's"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=l761_hLtaPE)  2024-11-14T16:00Z 362K followers, 114.4K engagements


"Cleopatra: the art of seduction Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode of It Girl Lessons from It Girls we dive into the life of the legendary Cleopatra and uncover the secrets of her seductive charm. You see Cleopatra wasnt just a queen she was a master of using her intelligence femininity and allure to lead her nation and captivate powerful men. From her bold introduction to Julius Caesar to her grand entrance for Mark Antony Cleopatra knew how to make an unforgettable impression. In this video well explore how seduction is more about character and confidence than physical"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=oEfU-WJ9ark)  2024-06-23T01:46Z 330K followers, 137.2K engagements


"The allure of Alison DiLaurentis Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook Today were diving deep into the one of the most complex and captivating characters from Pretty Little Liars: Alison Dilaurentis. On the surface shes the ultimate queen beeconfident magnetic and seemingly in total control. But look a little closer and youll find that her true power lies in something far more unexpected: her ability to harness vulnerability as a form of strength. This episode challenges us to see vulnerability not as a weakness but as a potent tool for deeper connection personal growth and genuine influence."  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ptUb5tEn-1E)  2024-12-30T16:00Z 327K followers, 67.4K engagements


"How to win friends and influence people The first [---] people to use my link will get a [--] month free trial of Skillshare: https://skl.sh/itgirlplaybook10241 Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today exploring the classic book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie and discuss the importance of building a valuable connections and how you can attract the right people and opportunities into your life. Key Lessons: - Be genuinely interested in others. - Compliment people to create meaningful connections. - Tap into your feminine energy to attract opportunities effortlessly. Get"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=rG7biCy9ax0)  2024-10-16T13:45Z 352K followers, 87.6K engagements


"The Blair Waldorf Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today we're diving into another episode of our series "It Girl Lessons from It Girls." And this time we're going to exploring the magnetic allure of Blair Waldorf from the iconic and our favorite show Gossip Girl. Whether you're a fan of Gossip Girl or new to the show there's so much to learn from Blair's journey. Thats why in this episode we will gonna uncover why Blair's authenticity and willingness to embrace her flaws make her so captivating. So ladies.stay tune to discover how you can apply Blair's lessons in authenticity and"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=rv0N3Qy9z_E)  2024-08-08T03:43Z 328K followers, 265.3K engagements


"The Jennie Kim Mindset Welcome back to It Girl Playbook Today were diving into the magnetic charm of one of the most requested "it girls"Jennie Kim from BLACKPINK. From all the dating rumors to pushing through personal injuries during performances Jennies got this unique me before you mindset where she always puts her happiness and well-being first. Its such a powerful reminder of self-respect and self-love. In this episode well also explore how having a strong foundation can help you stay unaffected by the opinions of others allowing you to live authentically on your own terms and build a"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=2Y-oC74tl1w)  2024-10-03T16:30Z 272K followers, 259.8K engagements


"Why men love b*tches Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Ive got a question for you- are you often called the "nice girl" you're always feeling drained and is walked all over Well in todays episode we will gonna talk about into some game-changing advice from a book that turned my life around and hopefully yours also: Why Men Love B*tches by Sherry Argov Being a b*tch isnt about being mean its about knowing your worth and keeping firm on your boundaries. Let me make it clear: you shouldnt do everything just because you can. Lets reshape how you see yourself from your self-worth your"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3YSKhqK2lhE)  2024-07-04T16:34Z 215K followers, 221.5K engagements


"The Sabrina Carpenter Mindset Welcome back to It Girl Playbook Today were breaking down why everyone is obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter and how shes mastered the art of being effortlessly magnetic. While some celebrities rely on shock value to make headlines Sabrina Carpenter does the opposite. She embodies softness playfulness and flirtiness while staying totally unbothered and it works Shes proof that playful femininity is powerful and that you dont need to be extreme to stand out. Authenticity is magnetic and leaning into who you are is so much more attractive than trying too hard to be"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3kxVsaDC2lQ)  2025-03-21T15:34Z 237K followers, 73.5K engagements


"What your favorite Disney princess says about you Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into the psychology behind your favorite Disney princess and what she reveals about your struggles desires and dreams. From childhood fantasies to the way we navigate adulthood these characters offer more than just fairytales they hold a mirror to who we truly are. At the end of the day these princesses arent just characterstheyre reflections of the different phases we all go through. Maybe youre in your Cinderella era working hard behind the scenes. Or maybe youre like Ariel"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=BBPix4JNZWo)  2025-03-27T01:03Z 237K followers, 324.3K engagements


"Art of Seduction by Robert Greene Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook This is a reupload of a previous video taking some suggestions you guys had left in the comments. In this episode well be talking about the art of seduction a skill thats so much more than its sexualized stereotype. By drawing inspiration from Robert Greene's book The Art of Seduction well explore at how mastering this skill can boost your confidence improve your social interactions and enhance your influence in every aspect of life. In this video we'll be exploring: - The most popular seductive archetype - The most"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Br38zYXnpxU)  2024-12-17T16:00Z 143K followers, 17K engagements


"when you feel like you are settling start expecting more Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were diving into how your expectations shape your reality and why setting higher standards for yourself and for others is the key to unlocking the life you truly deserve. At the end of the day your life is a mirror of what you allow and expect. If you settle youll stay in the same situation that's making you unhappy. But if you expect more demand more and believe you deserve more youll start to see real changes. Get The Playbook Mini (yes it's free):"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=CBlPu1mWagU)  2025-03-01T19:50Z 204K followers, 10.1K engagements


"The Daenerys Targaryen Mindset Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode were studying Daenerys Targaryen not as a queen but as a master of presence influence and reinvention. From her unshakable self-belief to her ability to command attention without speaking Daenerys shows us what it means to lead with quiet conviction. But her rise also comes with a warning: know when to stop or risk losing everything. This episode covers: - The power of self-belief - Reinventing yourself into the person you are meant to be - How to lead with presence not noise - Why ambition needs limits"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=EdjfJ5TM1ks)  2025-04-07T16:27Z 231K followers, [----] engagements


"How to find goals if you can't find any Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode we dive deep into practical steps for finding meaningful goals that align with who you truly arenot the expectations of others. Whether youre feeling lost and struggling to figure out your goals or you just need a little guidance this episode is for you. Whats in This Episode: - Spending Time with Yourself: Learn how getting to know yourself better can reveal your true desires and goals. - Understanding Your Emotions: We explore how emotions like anger and jealousy can actually guide you toward what"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=FPYbRR4gpu0)  2024-11-08T14:50Z 121K followers, 15K engagements


"The Anna Delvey Mindset Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook Today were diving into a more controversial figure: Anna Sorokin or better known as Anna Delvey. Lets be clear Anna is a convicted con artist and were not here to excuse her actions. But setting that aside theres something undeniably fascinating about how she leveraged perception status and attention to carve out a space for herself. Despite everything she's now attending fashion week starring in Dancing with the Stars and securing brand deals.The lesson here You dont have to be perfect to be powerful. Your story no matter how messy"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=NF1k8pw9pLg)  2025-02-18T16:12Z 264K followers, 87.7K engagements


"When you decide to change Welcome back to It Girl Playbook Have you ever felt hesitant to improve yourself because you're worried about what your friends or others might think This episode might be for you. Whether its breaking old habits distancing yourself from certain influences or embracing a new lifestyle change can feel dauntingespecially when youre worried about how your friends and family will react. But remember that is your life. You dont owe anyone an explanation for wanting to grow and only you know whats best for you. So stay true to your decisions Get The Playbook Mini (yes it's"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=QSm1vH687b4)  2024-10-09T17:36Z 282K followers, 45.1K engagements


"High value hobbies that add to your life Pt 1: https://youtu.be/oUidv7FdLFEsi=HTdO-5PM5AnUEaOB Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Upon popular request were back with Part [--] of Hot girl hobbies that arent just fun but can bring meaningful value to your life. Hot Girl Hobbies Featured in This Episode: 0:16 Reading - Boost creativity and learn new things. 0:52 Puzzles - Sharpen your mind and patience. 1:31 Leather Bag Making - Create stylish custom bags. 2:11 Hosting - Make memories and bring friends together. 2:52 Doing your own Nails - Get creative with cute nail designs. 3:24 Creating"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=U4EEY8AMofo)  2025-02-12T16:00Z 236K followers, 60.5K engagements


"study yourself to be HOT Sister Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UCVjuW2IkaCYk5u2ccTKeQ6Q Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode were getting seriously intentional about becoming the most confident magnetic version of ourselves inside and out. The secret Start by studying you. When you truly understand your inner self you build the kind of self-awareness that naturally boosts confidence and attractiveness. What Youll Learn: - Shadow Work: Embrace the hidden parts of yourself to release insecurities and project genuine self-assurance. - Attachment Styles: Uncover your blueprint"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=U_h46Aj_QLw)  2024-12-24T16:00Z 149K followers, 39.5K engagements


"Why mean girls always win Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode were diving into the psychology behind the most iconic mean girls- not to glorify the attitude but to uncover the real reason their energy is so unforgettable. Its not just the looks or the comebacks. Its the mindset the power and the magnetic confidence that makes the whole room pay attention when they walk in. This episode is for the girl whos tired of shrinking herself to be liked. Its time to stop apologizing stop begging and start showing up as her the higher version of you who knows her worth and doesnt"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=WzXLXSOaKk0)  2025-05-27T15:08Z 299K followers, 207.1K engagements


"Why IIT Bombay hostels are best #iit #iitbombay #iitjee #jee #campus #hostel #hostellife #pongal"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=X8j598Tgx9o)  2024-01-15T13:07Z 111K followers, 13.3M engagements


"Study your inner world to feel more confident Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Have you ever wondered if the key to becoming your best self lies in the parts of you that youve been avoiding If this resonates with you then this episode is for you. Today were talking about the power of shadow work and how uncovering the hidden sides of yourself can lead to emotional healing and greater self-awareness. From journaling and guided meditations to therapy well also explore powerful techniques to help you confront and embrace your shadow self. Plus were sharing prompts to guide your journey"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ZzlCOTqxoPc)  2025-01-23T19:36Z 181K followers, 18.6K engagements


"The false glow up: are you healing or hiding Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In today's episode were diving into something a little deeper: the illusion of the glow-up. Weve all seen it the post-breakup glow-up the hustle after heartbreak the reinvention that looks like healing. But what if its not Sometimes our biggest transformations come from pain. But not all change is growth. When we use makeovers money productivity or people to escape rather than heal were not evolving were performing And so if youve ever chased reinvention just to outrun who you used to be this episode is here to"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=bLepfHgXr1I)  2025-06-10T20:33Z 268K followers, 21.3K engagements


"What your love language says about your toxic trait Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Have you ever wondered what your love language says about you beyond just how you love Its not just about how you show affection it could also reveal something deeper like hidden toxic traits. From going silent to self-isolation your love language might hold the key to understanding your flaws and how to grow from them. In this episode we're gonna break down the [--] love languages and uncover their surprising connections to personal challenges. By the end youll learn how to turn these insights into tools"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=dn639t6DhPg)  2025-01-16T16:00Z 260K followers, 25.2K engagements


"Surrounded by Psychopaths Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In a previous episode we explored the four personality types to better understand human behavior. But what happens when someone weaponizes that knowledge to manipulate and control others What if you're dealing with someone who lacks empathy craves control and sees people as mere tools for personal gain That's why in today's episode we're diving into Surrounded by Psychopaths by Thomas Erikson. We'll break down the key traits of psychopaths how they manipulate andmost importantlyhow you can protect yourself. From charming yet"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ezK1Wu6qQFY)  2025-03-12T15:00Z 262K followers, 40.9K engagements


"The Lisa Mindset Welcome back to It Girl Playbook Today were diving into the story of one of the most iconic idolsLisa from K-pop group BLACKPINK. With her undeniable talent captivating presence and inspiring journey what makes her so magnetic Why is the world obsessed with her And most importantly what It Girl lessons can we take from her journey From overcoming biases as a foreign idol in K-pop to becoming a record-breaking solo artist a luxury brand ambassador and even a rising actressLisas story proves that life is what you make it. Despite the challenges she never played the victim."  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=jFTpS382r_w)  2025-03-17T14:30Z 227K followers, 37.5K engagements


"How to be confident Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook You want to be confident but lets be real you overthink second-guess yourself and sometimes even feel like a fraud. The truth is confidence isnt something youre born with its something you build. In todays episode were breaking down how to create real lasting confidencenot the fake-it-till-you-make-it kind but the kind that comes from truly trusting yourself and proving it through action. Every choice you make shapes the person youre becoming. If you want to stop doubting yourself you need to start showing up for yourself and the more"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=jK5cgwm5VmI)  2025-03-07T17:31Z 214K followers, 31.9K engagements


"Art of Gratitude Welcome back to It Girl Playbook In this episode we're discussing the Art of Gratitude and how it can transform and level up your life. When you practice gratitude and truly value the blessings around you you open yourself up to even more abundance. From boosting your mood to improving your health well explore the science behind gratitude and how it shapes your reality. You'll also learn how a simple shift in perspective can help you attract more blessings improve relationships and improve your overall well-being. Get The Playbook Mini (yes it's free):"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=jljW47hoXQ4)  2024-09-29T15:00Z 227K followers, 29.6K engagements


"what your favorite Disney villain says about you Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In this episode were diving deep into the dark side but not in a bad way. Growing up most of us looked up our favorite Disney princesses their kindness beauty and happily-ever-afters. But have you ever caught yourself feeling strangely drawn to a villain instead Its not always about the evil schemes or dramatic flair. Sometimes its about something deeper something that resonates. So today we'll going to explore what your favorite female Disney villain reveals about your shadow self. Whether its Maleficents"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=mQVH7sxaAQY)  2025-05-09T14:27Z 257K followers, 42.7K engagements


"Art of Seduction by Robert Greene Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In this episode well be talking about the art of seduction a skill thats so much more than its sexualized stereotype. By drawing inspiration from Robert Greene's book The Art of Seduction well explore at how mastering this skill can boost your confidence improve your social interactions and enhance your influence in every aspect of life. In this video you'll also learn about seductive archetypes the practical process of seduction and why seduction is more about authentic charm irresistible confidence and emotional"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=mivd-U0P9R0)  2024-11-20T16:00Z 127K followers, 20.1K engagements


"The Psychology of Money Start saving money and earning rewards with Coupert (yes it's free): https://www.coupert.com/join-coupertref=itgirlplaybook-1743523200&m=youtube Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook In todays episode were breaking down the real secrets behind success and money. Were diving into timeless lessons from one of the most popular personal finance books The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel to uncover what actually separates people who look rich from those who build real lasting wealth. Whether youre saving for your future building a legacy or just trying to be that girl"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=tU0agL-iwbk)  2025-04-10T14:25Z 321K followers, 62.8K engagements


"studying Addison Rae's comeback Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook Today were diving deep into Addison Rae's rise to fame version [---]. By niching down and being true to herself Addison showed that having a few fans who truly love you is way more valuable than being just popular. If you're on a journey of self-growth you might just find some inspiration here to live authentically and attract people who genuinely value you. Let Addisons authenticity and her comeback inspire you to embrace who you are find what makes you happy and watch as life brings you the right people and opportunities."  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=w8HuXz3wr-0)  2024-10-29T14:00Z 315K followers, 63.6K engagements


"Surrounded by Idiots Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook If youve ever struggled with understanding people navigating social dynamics or just want to level up your confidence in relationships this video is for you In this episode were diving into Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson one of the most insightful books on human behavior. It breaks people down into four color-coded personality types making it easier to understand yourself and those around you. By the end of this video youll know exactly what type you are and how to navigate different personalities like a pro. Get 'Surrounded by"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=xWO29KaKFaY)  2025-02-25T16:00Z 250K followers, 188.7K engagements


"Eldest daughter syndrome is real Welcome back to It Girl Playbook In this episode we dive deep into the reality of eldest daughter syndrome. This term describes the unique pressures eldest daughters face often taking on caregiver roles early in life leading to hyper-independence and emotional fatigue. This episode is dedicated to all the eldest daughters out there. Its time to give yourself permission to pursue your dreams prioritize your well-being and understand that your value extends beyond being the family caretaker. Remember shifting your focus to yourself isn't neglecting your family"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=PCFFwLgazGk)  2024-07-21T19:38Z 366K followers, 173.4K engagements


"The Art of Rebranding Welcome back to The It Girl Playbook In this episode we're diving even deeper into the art of the rebrandbut not the kind thats all surface-level aesthetics. This is about real transformation. The kind thats intentional. The kind that lasts. The kind that helps you become who youre meant to be. We'll explore: - Lana Del Rey: the power of doubling down on your true self even when the world doesnt get it. - Addison Rae: the shift from doing whats likable to doing what you like. - Miley Cyrus: what it means to burn it all down only to build something better. - Kim"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=wx54M3R5C-c)  2025-06-18T15:45Z 366K followers, 73.5K engagements


"the fear of failure is real #levelup #selfgrowth #selfimprovement #empowerment"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ynDxX1gyc00)  2025-07-07T15:01Z 369K followers, [----] engagements


"48 Laws of Power: Master Self Master Life. Pt 1: https://youtu.be/dLvfE58Z2hcsi=ExZbNU6BqomCxjgC Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook Today we're diving into a highly requested part [--] episode of The [--] Laws of Power by Robert Greene. The theme of this episode will explore the power of self concept and self presentation and how that influences your confidence how others perceive you and life in general. Featured Laws in This Episode: - Law 34: Be Royal in Your Own Fashion: Act Like a King to Be Treated Like One Carry yourself with confidence and people will treat you with respect. - Law 35:"  
[YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=yzuUb3a5lis)  2025-02-06T16:32Z 366K followers, 68.4K engagements

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