#  @darrenfmagee Darren F Magee Darren F Magee posts on YouTube about relationships, mental health, health, signs the most. They currently have [-------] followers and [---] posts still getting attention that total [-----] engagements in the last [--] hours. ### Engagements: [-----] [#](/creator/youtube::UCQrLIVDCCKc6RVgxZNorGow/interactions)  - [--] Week [------] +70% - [--] Month [------] -46% - [--] Months [-------] -21% - [--] Year [---------] +48% ### Mentions: [--] [#](/creator/youtube::UCQrLIVDCCKc6RVgxZNorGow/posts_active)  - [--] Months [---] -22% - [--] Year [---] +277% ### Followers: [-------] [#](/creator/youtube::UCQrLIVDCCKc6RVgxZNorGow/followers)  - [--] Week [-------] no change - [--] Month [-------] no change - [--] Months [-------] +3.30% - [--] Year [-------] +8.40% ### CreatorRank: [-------] [#](/creator/youtube::UCQrLIVDCCKc6RVgxZNorGow/influencer_rank)  ### Social Influence **Social category influence** [technology brands](/list/technology-brands) [social networks](/list/social-networks) [stocks](/list/stocks) [finance](/list/finance) [travel destinations](/list/travel-destinations) **Social topic influence** [relationships](/topic/relationships) #1902, [mental health](/topic/mental-health), [health](/topic/health), [signs](/topic/signs), [lack of](/topic/lack-of) #359, [livestream](/topic/livestream), [how to](/topic/how-to), [red](/topic/red), [what is](/topic/what-is), [complex](/topic/complex) **Top accounts mentioned or mentioned by** [@iamsoulfullysober](/creator/undefined) [@drpetersalerno](/creator/undefined) [@drpaulataylor](/creator/undefined) [@cazmcgovernscore](/creator/undefined) [@theydontleave](/creator/undefined) [@markvicente7](/creator/undefined) [@markvicente](/creator/undefined) [@thejollyheretic](/creator/undefined) [@uc7mkac2n4pqlgqxfbjmyqca](/creator/undefined) [@saradavison](/creator/undefined) [@clusterbmilkshake](/creator/undefined) [@drruthannharpur](/creator/undefined) [@johnpauldaviesttp](/creator/undefined) [@alexkhan](/creator/undefined) [@darrenhaber](/creator/undefined) [@sddivorcecoach](/creator/undefined) [@saradavisondivorcecoach](/creator/undefined) [@bpdbryan](/creator/undefined) [@ryanrogers8046siiliyxfszdrcjexu](/creator/undefined) [@ryanmcrogers](/creator/undefined) ### Top Social Posts Top posts by engagements in the last [--] hours "Narcissus and Echo: A Cautionary Tale of Self Obsession Narcissism is often discussed as a modern psychological concept but its roots go back thousands of years. This explores the ancient Greek myth of Narcissus and Echo and how this story mirrors what we now understand as narcissistic personality traits and narcissistic abuse. This cautionary tale reveals the difference between healthy self love and obsessive self focus the devastating impact narcissistic behaviour has on others and why narcissistic relationships so often leave people feeling erased confused and broken. Through the story of" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=332mU1J5Bnw) 2026-02-16T18:30Z 155K followers, [---] engagements "Co Parenting with a Narcissistic Ex Partner In this video Darren Magee gives some ideas how to co parent with a toxic narcissistic ex partner. Looking at sticking to agreements how to communicate preparing and managing vindictive and character assassinating behaviours. Looking also at doing what is best for the kids managing boundaries and keeping your integrity. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissisticex #coparentingwithanarcissist #toxicex co parenting with a" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Ef3qnsYHCVY) 2021-04-04T19:00Z 155K followers, 17.4K engagements "Why You Cant Get Through to a Narcissist I Darren F Magee Why cant I get through to a narcissist no matter how clearly I explain myself In this video I talk about why reasoning negotiating and trying to be understood by a narcissistic person almost always fails. Many people who have been in narcissistic relationships families or workplaces believe that if they can just find the right words the other person will finally understand. I explain why that belief keeps people stuck. I break down how narcissistic thinking works why narcissists pretend not to understand and why empathy remorse and" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=UYMxvYyXnds) 2026-02-11T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Vulnerable Narcissistic Wife In this video Darren Magee discusses the characteristics and traits in vulnerable (covert) narcissism and what to expect if in a relationship with a covert / vulnerable narcissistic wife. Different from a grandiose narcissist a lot of the abuse comes through neglect and invalidation as opposed to anything actually done to cause distress. Behaviours/characteristics include narcissistic abuse through emotional neglect [--] Constant state of unfulfilment strain and disappointment [--] Constantly disagreeable [--] Husband is always wrong / always sides with others against" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=VfRad3nNrwY) 2020-10-12T21:45Z 155K followers, 354.7K engagements "How Long Does It Take To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Healing from narcissistic abuse is a unique and individualized process and the time it takes to recover can vary greatly from person to person. This video explores the complexities of narcissistic abuse recovery and provide insight into what you can expect during the healing process. Whether you're just starting to recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse or you're further along in your journey this video aims to offer support guidance and validation. Looking" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=j7Ny_-_hv10) 2026-02-14T18:19Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Effects of Loveless and Sexless Relationships This video is part three in a series looking at intimacy in relationships. The absence of love and physical intimacy can erode emotional connection breed feelings of loneliness and create a sense of dissatisfaction and frustration. This video looks at the toll that a loveless and sexless relationship can take on self-esteem self-worth and overall well-being such as emotional distress feelings of rejection and how the lack of intimacy can contribute to a cycle of disconnection communication breakdowns and potential conflict. Please feel free to" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=oATAiidfaLw) 2023-07-02T17:00Z 155K followers, 49.6K engagements "The Therapeutic Power of Stories: With Dr Paul Taylor Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Discover the transformative and therapeutic power of stories in my conversation with Dr. Paul A Taylor host of the Youtube channel 'Readers of the Lost Art' where we discuss narrative psychology and the 'post literate world'. We discuss 'safetyism' internet use and social media communication and explore how storytelling can inform inspire heal and foster emotional well-being. From ancient myths to modern-day conversations learn how narratives shape our minds and" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=pp1E4760WDk) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) and ways to overcome it The fear of missing out (FOMO) can be characterised by a pervasive apprehension that others might be having rewarding experiences from which youre absent. This fear often leads to a desire to stay continually connected with what others are doing. It refers to the feeling that others are having more fun or experiencing things youre not or living a better life than you are. Its the belief that you might be missing out on something important that others are experiencing or missing out on opportunities. The term was first coined by Dr Dan Herman" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=uaMc2SkZda8) 2024-05-28T16:41Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Narcissistic Psychopath Takeover Strategy" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=KM8Mr860EK0) 2026-02-14T01:49Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissists and Denial #narcissism #narcissistic #denial Short clip from the video looking at Narcissistic Mortification #narcissists #narcissisticmortification #narcissisticdenial narcissism narcissistic narcissistic mortification denial narcissist denying reality narcissist denial narcissist deny facts narcissism denial rejection of reality Darren F Magee narcissistic personality disorder narcissistic traits signs of narcissism narcissism narcissistic narcissistic mortification denial narcissist denying reality narcissist denial narcissist deny facts narcissism denial rejection of reality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Reve1jCdfBU) 2024-07-06T15:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Origin of Modern Day Narcissism: The Myth of Narcissus I Darren F Magee Long before narcissism became a psychological term or a social media buzzword it was a tragic warning from ancient Greek mythology. In this livestream I discuss the myth of Narcissus and Echo the origin story behind modern-day narcissism. This is not just a story about vanity or self-love. It is a dark tale of cruelty emotional neglect obsession and a prophecy that sealed two fates. Narcissus was not simply in love with himself he was incapable of loving anyone else. Echo was not just heartbroken she was slowly erased" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=-cy1ggGO1uo) 2026-01-31T03:36Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Grandiose and Vulnerable Narcissism Explained I Darren F Magee What is the real difference between grandiose and vulnerable narcissism and why do both still involve entitlement and superiority In this clip Dr Peter Salerno explains how grandiose and vulnerable narcissism share the same core trait grandiosity even though they present very differently on the surface. You will learn why vulnerable narcissists may appear anxious depressed or humble while still maintaining a deep sense of superiority and entitlement. Dr Salerno also explains the difference between narcissistic depression and" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=00lST_3zrdM) 2026-02-05T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Looking through the Johari Window The Johari Window is a useful psychological tool that can help improve interactions with others by enhancing self-awareness and facilitating effective communication. The Johari Window was developed by Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham in [----] and is often used in therapy group dynamics and interpersonal communication to understand how individuals perceive themselves and how they are perceived by others. #johariwindow #selfawareness #mentalhealth self awareness self awareness know yourself self awareness and emotional intelligence johari window model explanation" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0guhxkapzlc) 2023-10-09T07:50Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Can You Spot a Tyrant in Charge Short clip looking at how narcissistic psychopaths employ tryannical sadism to either make up or use rules to control and dominate others. #mentalhealth #narcissism #psychopathy" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0t1Ahvhgmhw) 2025-05-27T19:52Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Reactive Abuse - The Abused Abuser Darren Magee discusses the term 'Reactive Abuse' a common manipulation tactic employed by toxic people. A manipulation tactic of victim blaming narcissists often use to avoid responsibility and portray themselves as the victim. They become 'the abused abuser'. It can leave victims asking 'am I the abuser here' This video looks at what Reactive abuse is (blame shifting victim shaming gaslighting) Click below for an article on this subject https://sentientcounselling.co.uk/2017/05/29/reactive-abuse-abused-abuser/ If you find this video interesting please" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0wwswrPGdP0) 2020-12-07T08:30Z 155K followers, 45.3K engagements "Peter Pan Syndrome - and Narcissism Peter Pan was a fictional character famous as being the little boy who never grew up created by JM Barrie. Today Peter Pan Syndrome is a term given to men although it can affect anyone who have immature attitudes and behaviours. The term first appeared in Dr Dan Finlay's book back in [----] and today is often referred to as being a man child or a woman child. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common behaviours and characteristics associated with it such as emotional immaturity lack of responsibility and lack of commitment and the impact this has" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1wV8X36wiyU) 2022-02-21T16:00Z 155K followers, 39.6K engagements "Navigating Toxic Relationships and Breaking Free with Dr Ruth Ann Harpur Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Dr Ruth Ann Harpur is a clinical psychologist with experience and expertise in relationships and different personality types. We had a chat about the dynamics that take place in unhealthy toxic abusive relationships some of the obstacles to recovery the impact of abuse and some ideas to help navigate a better future. Visit Ruth's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drruthannharpur" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=32n0aDTwi-E) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Bipolar Disorder - ReWriting the Script with Caz McGovern Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Caz McGovern is an award-winning filmmaker and writer based in London England. Her movie They Dont Leave has been screened at [--] festivals and won the Best Suspense Short award at four of them along with receiving The Big Sky Film Grant. Caz also has a diagnosis of Bipolar Type [--]. In this podcast we talk about her career and creativity ands as youll hear from our conversation how her diagnosis doesnt define her or hold her back. You can find Caz and her work" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=35H0d5UyBpI) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Improving Communication Skills: With Sarika Singh Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Sarika Singh is an award winning communications coach and seasoned public speaker with almost three decades helping individuals groups and teams understand and improve their self confidence their communication skills whether written or verbal. She is also an online content creator and host of the Communicate 101: Speaking and Writing Skills Podcast where she discusses many different aspects of communication and regularly shares tips and ideas to help others improve" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3Keqw9OjFII) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "The Nature of Narcissism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) John-Paul Davies is a therapist based in the UK. He is the author of "Finding a Balanced Connection" and has a YouTube channel where he discussed mental health related issues and has conversations with other therapists. He invited me onto his channel where we discussed the nature of narcissism in the context of personal romantic and professional relationships. This was our conversation. Hope you find it interesting For more content visit my YouTube Channel" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=5WTEQKSuKII) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Children of the Narcissist - The Golden Child In this video Darren Magee discusses the role of the Golden child one of the children of the narcissist and the dynamics of the narcissistic family which often operates like a cult. The narcissistic parent or parents often assign roles to their children to triangulate and create unhealthy competition and envy through emotional manipulation. Common characteristics of the golden child include grandiosity and bullying of their siblings - scapegoat / mascot / forgotten child can become adept at narcissistic manipulation If you find this video" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=6XrbdTflGWU) 2020-11-22T20:45Z 155K followers, 15K engagements "Why Gaslighting Feels Confusing Before It Feels Abusive #narcissism #narcisist This video explains how gaslighting rarely starts with obvious denial and instead begins through small subtle moments that plant seeds of doubt. Skilled manipulators focus on minor details small inconsistencies and gentle questioning to slowly undermine your confidence in your own memory perception and reality. Over time these tactics build false evidence that keeps you questioning yourself while they avoid accountability. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=6xYZyO_s5ig) 2026-01-25T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Deflecting Accountability #narcissitic #blameshifting #narcissisticrelationship Narcissistic people struggle to accept responsibility for their actions and often deflect accountability for themselves onto others. Commonly referred to as blame shifting. Watch the full video here https://youtu.be/eqyaK_2UPf0 #blameshifting #narcissism #narcissisticabuseawareness" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=77evW6kHV8U) 2024-05-09T15:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Adult Children Narcissists - The Scapegoat In this video Darren Magee discusses the grown up scapegoat child from a narcissistic family and what life as an adult can be like. The scapegoat sometimes referred to as the blacksheep of the family differs from the golden child as they were held responsible blamed shamed by narcissistic parents. As adults they may develop difficulties with trust low self esteem and an unhealthy inner critic. Unlike the Golden Child however they can have a sense of themselves recognise the toxicity and develop healthy boundaries and go on to have healthy" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=9MUwS53guJY) 2021-02-03T23:00Z 155K followers, 26.6K engagements "Manipulation: The Subtleties We Miss This livestream looks at how manipulation coercive control and gaslighting usually begins in subtle under the radar ways often disguised as normal everyday interactions. #narcissism #manipulation #mentalhealth emotional manipulation psychological manipulation covert manipulation manipulation signs psychological control how manipulation works manipulation in relationships manipulation awareness narcissistic manipulation manipulation narcissistic gaslighting red flags in relationships emotional abuse dealing with gaslighting mental health personality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=BEjMk2bCYik) 2025-12-14T21:52Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissism and Cults: With Mark Vicente Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Mark Vicente is an award winning film maker and author. He is a former member and one of the whistle blowers that exposed the criminal activities going on in the nexium cult. His story is chronicled in the HBO series The Vow. He is host of the WTF is on my mind podcast and YouTube channel where he discusses among other things narcissism coercive behaviours dark personality and cult behaviours often seen in everyday life. I had the pleasure of talking to Mark about NXIVM and" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=BmzHe6cX6Mw) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Narcissism and The Dark Tetrad #narcissism #narcissistic #darktetrad Short clip from recent video looking at how malignant narcissists behave when they lose control of others #malignantnarcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuseawareness narcissism narcissistic narcissistic personality disorder malignant narcissist dark tetrad personality dark tetrad personality traits dark tetrad traits Darren F Magee narcissistic traits characteristics of narcissism dark triad dark triad personality personality traits dark empath traits dark tetrad narcissistic psychopath dark traits dark" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=HfNuX4PPCzo) 2024-09-07T15:00Z 155K followers, 34.7K engagements "OCEAN: An Evolutionary perspective on The Five Factor Model of Personality - with Prof. Ed Dutton Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) The Five Factor Model describes personality using five broad dimensions: Openness to Experience Conscientiousness Extraversion Agreeableness and Neuroticism. These traits are considered to capture the essential elements of human personality. Professor Ed Dutton aka The Jolly Heretic is an Evolutionary Psychology Researcher. In this podcast we discuss the five factor model from an evolutionary perspective looking at the" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=IYfYQ_R80f8) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "The Dark Side of Online Trolling Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) If you've spent anytime on social media at some point you've interacted with a Troll. These are people who can be rude disrespectful and sometimes even threatening. But who are they What motivates someone to be antagonistic towards complete strangers In this podcast I discuss different kinds of trolls from the pest to those who are desperate for any kind of attention to those who are threatening and sadist. I look at the different motivations behind their behaviour and the" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=L3iNPycQDXA) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Pathological vs Compulsive Lying Everyone tells a lies from time to time however with pathological and compulsive lying it's different. It's long term habitual and chronic. Sometimes the lying can be referred to as mythomania or pseudologia fantastica. However there can be some difference between psyhcological and compulsive lying and in this video Darren Magee outlines some of those differences. Sometimes it can be part of another disorder such as narcissistic personality disorder or histrionic personality disorder so there can be reason or intent for the lying other times there seems no" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=LSolhbg9Bc4) 2021-09-04T15:00Z 155K followers, 82.1K engagements "Ten Signs of Narcissistic Neglect This videos discusses the difference between narcissistic abuse and neglect how narcissists can abuse through neglect an some of the common kinds of neglect that can take place in a narcissistic relationship. Part Two - The Impact of Emotional Neglect https://youtu.be/oFb4w8p4s6E Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissisticneglect" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=McAVX0DM7Qw) 2023-05-22T17:25Z 155K followers, 54.6K engagements "Recognising and Responding to Gaslighting Gaslighting is a term used to describe forms of psychological and emotional manipulation aimed at confusing other people's sense of reality having them doubt their own thoughts feelings and experiences. It is a tactic abusive people use to create a sense of uncertainty in others have them believe different narratives and control them. This video outlines what gaslighting is how to recognise it when it happens and gives some ideas to consider when it comes to respond to it. Other videos on this topic you might find interesting: What is 'Gaslighting'" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Pp3rVB460Mc) 2022-11-07T16:11Z 155K followers, 28.5K engagements "Proust: In Search of Lost Tme Paul Taylor Richard Grannon Stuart Shaw and myself come together to discuss why Proust's "In Search of Lost Time" is such an important book. In an age dominated by self-help books we discuss how Proust provides a useful alternative guide to life's ups and downs. We show how he captures some of the most subtle and nuanced psychological aspects of our memory and how we construct our sense of self through the various stages of our life. #proust #intrusivethoughts #memories 🎙 New to streaming or looking to level up Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount 😍" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=T829tqkMd08) 2026-02-12T23:35Z 155K followers, [---] engagements "How Narcissists Pathologise You Narcissistic people frequently weaponise 'therapy speak' popular psychological terms like gaslighting boundaries triggered toxic narcissist projection and trauma in order to manipulate conversations deflect accountability and pathologise other people's normal reactions or valid concerns. This tactic makes them appear self-aware and emotionally sophisticated while framing the other person as flawed unstable or abusive. This livestream looks at how they do it and how to manage it. #narcissism #manipulation #pathology setting boundaries boundary setting with" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=U0o7GX8lL6Y) 2026-02-08T10:09Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How Covert Narcissists Manipulate In this video Darren Magee describes the common tactics covert narcissists use to coerce manipulate control and shame their victims. Other videos you might find interesting: The Narcissist's false sense of superiority https://youtu.be/rFtUyBx2eno How narcissists make their victims look like villains https://youtu.be/_2cHAjmArPE How Narcissists Bully Others https://youtu.be/ROkr8I4gIF8 Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=UTDics5IeDs) 2021-06-05T15:00Z 155K followers, 710.9K engagements "The Reality of Life with NPD ASPD PTSD and ADHD This is part two of a conversation with Sara Crouson host of the YouTube channel Cluster B Milkshake. Sara has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder Anti-social Personality Disorder ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits. We discuss narcissism psychopathy predatory behaviour and how these things manifest in day to life as well as in her relationships and interactions. Among other things we also address infidelity envy lack of remorse narcissism and social media and the true nature of an" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Ugj48rCKEbA) 2026-01-26T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "What is Dry Begging Dry Begging is a subtle form of manipulation and coercion sometimes employed by narcissistic people to get them what they want while making it seem like its your idea. Rather than just making a request it works by exploiting social cues and emotional signals. It usually involves dropping hints or making emotional demonstrations aimed at creating a sense of obligation in others. Narcissists try to create a situation where the other person feels compelled to offer assistance or resources. This video outlines the motivations behind dry begging gives examples and some ways to" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=UthOjQc0i5w) 2024-10-14T17:30Z 155K followers, 472.7K engagements "The Characteristics of Narcissism: In Conversation with Alex Khan Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Alex Khan has a YouTube channel where among other things he discusses motivation manifestation and self improvement. he invited me onto his channel to discuss the common traits and motivations behind narcissism. This is our conversation. Alex's channel can be found at https://www.youtube.com/@Alex_Khan" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ZIB3jKTMy6A) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Stalkers: Their Motivation and Personality Type Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Stalking is defined as repeated and persistent unwanted communications approaches and intrusions into someones life into their privacy and there are many levels to it. It can a form of mental assault. This video looks at the different kinds of stalker (rejected resentful incompetent intimacy seeker and predator) as well as the difference between when the stalker is stranger and someone you know such as an ex partner. Looking also at the impact being stalked can have" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=_D5s05WfFPo) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance with Dr Peter Salerno Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance with Dr Peter Salerno Why does narcissistic abuse leave you feeling confused stuck and disconnected from your own reality In this in-depth conversation Dr Peter Salerno retired licensed psychotherapist and clinical psychologist explains traumatic cognitive dissonance a psychological state that develops through intentional manipulation coercive control and pathological abuse. This episode explores how narcissistic relationships distort belief systems create internal conflict and keep survivors trapped in cycles" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=aUQl4kMUZA0) 2026-02-09T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "What is Self Destructive Borderline Personality Disorder In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics of self destructive borderline personality disorder a sub type of BPD part of the Cluster B group of personalities. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #Selfdestructiveborderline #BPD #borderlinepersonalitydisorder" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=b1-P7Ufjth8) 2021-07-24T15:00Z 155K followers, 17.7K engagements "Impact of Narcissistic Abuse: Anhedonia Anhedonia refers to the inability to experience pleasure in activities and experiences that would be considered to be enjoyable for most people. Theres also a difficulty finding pleasure finding motivation or feeling an anticipation even towards things they once enjoyed or events most other people would look forward to. More than feeling bored with things from time to time it can be a complex and multifaceted symptom often associated with depression and its presence can vary in intensity and duration from person to person. This video looks at some of" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=f6AZV3RSl5Q) 2024-02-05T18:30Z 155K followers, 18K engagements "The Dark and Lonely World of Incels Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) This podcast looks at the complex world of incels (involuntary celibates) exploring their psychology through the Five Factor Model of Personality (Big Five). Outlining how traits like neuroticism extraversion and agreeableness shape their worldview alongside the role of covert narcissism and chronic loneliness in their identity. Drawing from psychological research and philosophical insights this video examines the emotional and social struggles behind the incel phenomenon" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=gyoOP_W-CNs) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "The Narcissistic Mother In Law In a marriage or long term relationship your relationship with your in laws can have an affect on your relationship with your partner and your children. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics and behaviours of a narcissistic mother in law and the affect those behaviours can have. Common behaviours include triangulation being disagreeable making the son or daughter in law feel unwelcome unkind humour gaslighting and manipulating the grandchildren. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=nnv9wcAbYTs) 2021-09-11T15:00Z 155K followers, 94K engagements "The Impact of Emotional Neglect Emotional neglect in a relationship can have serious consequences for people. It can affect someone's sense of self worth their self esteem. They can find it difficult to trust others ask for support. It can even affect someone's mental and physical health. This video is the second part of a series looking at the differences between abuse and neglect in narcissistic relationships focusing on the long term impact neglect can have on someone's sense of self their psychological emotional and physical well being. Ten Signs of Narcissistic Neglect in a Relationship" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=oFb4w8p4s6E) 2023-05-29T16:04Z 155K followers, 26.6K engagements "The Nature of Addiction and Recovery with Dr Darren Haber Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Dr Darren Haber is a psychotherapist based in California and author of " Addiction Accommodation and Vulnerability in Psychoanalysis: Circles without Centres" In this podcast we discuss the nature of addiction and the path to recovery. For more information visit: https://therapistinlosangeles.com/ Darren's Substack can be found at: https://substack.com/@darrenhaber Darren's book can be found on Amazon:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=pKChwMj_Ju8) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Oppositional Defiant Disorder in Adulthood Oppositional Defiant Disorder sometimes referred to as ODD is a condition characterised by a continuing pattern of behaviour that can be defiant hostile un-cooperative and disruptive towards others in particular authority figures. This video looks at some of the common characteristics and traits of ODD and how they present in day to day life relationships and at work. 00:00 Intro What is ODD 01:50 Co Morbidity 02:21 Common Characteristics 04:49 Defiance Disorder in Relationships 06:47 Defiance Disorder at work 08:58 Living with ODD Other videos you" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=tdq1Qn7ZkrA) 2022-10-24T15:00Z 155K followers, 35.3K engagements "The Dark Tetrad: Exploring the Depths of Sadism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Although sadistic personality in no longer part of the DSM there has been recent renewed interest in research particularly as a component of the Dark Tetrad which also contains traits of psychopathy narcissism and Machiavellianism. This podcast looks at the sadistic side of the Dark Tetrad and gives examples of how it manifests when co-morbid with the other traits" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=uK55f676ql4) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "The Hero Child - Roles in Narcissistic / Dysfunctional Families The Hero Child is often the child who grows up in a dysfunctional family and learns to adapt to the neglect the abuse the lie that the family are all living. families where there are narcissistic parents metal illness or addiction. They often become what they believe the family needs them to be sacrificing their childhood to bring a sense of honour and normality. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics of the Hero Child and how they may differ in different kinds of family. If you find this video" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ule0FtPUpLg) 2022-03-21T16:00Z 155K followers, 21.3K engagements "Post Separation Abuse: With Sara Davison Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Sara Davison best known as The Divorce Coach is a multi award-winning Coach twice best selling author and podcast host of 'Heartbreak to Happiness'. She joins me today to talk about what to expect when separating or divorcing a narcissistic person post separation abuse and some ideas to help navigate your way through. For more details about Sara her work or for information on how to train as a divorce coach visit: https://www.saradavison.com/ Youtube Channel" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=vhJq6I9M1rc) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Narcissistic Shared Fantasy: From Idealising to Devaluing This is a short clip from a conversation I had with Dr Peter Salerno discussing the shared fantasies that can develop in relationships friendships and even workplaces and how they differ with narcissistic people. Dr Salerno elaborates on the concept of idealisation suggesting it plays a role in how these fantasies are formed. We discuss how this relates to narcissism and the dynamics of narcissistic personality disorder. Dr Salerno's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DrPeterSalerno Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=w-w-haxT-k0) 2026-02-04T18:31Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder: Changing the Narrative with Bryan Ingram Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Bryan Ingram is a social media influencer and award winning mental health advocate. He has Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder which he describes as the 'scapegoated disorder'. I initially spoke with Bryan in October [----] about living with Quiet BPD and his work as a mental health advocate. We have had a catch up chat where he discusses life since then how therapy has helped him on his journey and his recent move into stand up comedy." [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=wpWIw_kPOz0) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Relationships with Narcissists Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) James and Teri Craft invited mo onto their channel to discuss navigating relationships with narcissistic people betrayal trauma and managing boundaries. They have very kindly allowed me to share our conversation. For help and support contact James and Teri: Get the course on Betrayal Trauma: "What Now The Couples Guide to Surviving Crisis in Marriage" here: marriagehealth.org/what-now Link for James and Teri's course:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=G8MU5lTHRAg) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "The Mid Range Narcissist Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Mid to High range narcissism refers to someone with deeply ingrained narcissistic traits and characteristics but doesn't meet the threshold for a personality disorder as outlined in the DSM [--]. They can range from just being selfish pests to being a master of emotional manipulation. This presentation looks into the characteristics behaviours and traits of the sub clinical narcissist and explores how they operate in relationships friendships and even in the workplace. Looking at how traits" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=NL_Bln05PZE) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "The Dark Tetrad: Psychopathy Unmasked Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Psychopaths can be charming and charismatic often making a strong initial impression. They use their charm to manipulate others and control their partners. They may lie frequently and convincingly using deception to create a facade that hides their true nature. Common characteristics include being callous and having a disregard for the safety of others. They can be quite parasitical impulsive and engage in anti social behaviours. It can be part of the the Dark Tetrad which" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=dwyGWGNFFiY) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "The Dark Tetrad: Narcissism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) The Dark Tetrad refers to a set of four personality traits linked to exploitative and harmful behaviours. It builds on the Dark Triad which includes Machiavellianism narcissism and psychopathy by adding a fourth trait: sadism. These traits are linked to cruel manipulative self-centered and antisocial behaviours. This podcast is the fourth part in a series looking at the different elements of the dark Tetrad focusing on how narcissism co-occurs with the other traits and how it manifests" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=uW9cQUGPrKc) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Why Do Narcissists Pick Certain People There are different kinds and types of narcissism and many look for different people to play different roles and act as a supply for them. In this video Darren Magee explains what attracts them to certain people and how they choose their victims / targets If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissism #narcissisticrelationships #narcissisticabusecycle how do narcissists choose victims why did the narcissist choose me why did the" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=MdVc9O-AIzM) 2021-07-31T17:30Z 155K followers, 290.8K engagements "What is Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics of Quiet borderline Personality Disorder sometimes referred to as High Functioning or Discouraged borderline. Part of the Cluster B group of disorders it can be difficult to spot and sometimes diagnose because many of the symptoms are hidden. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #quietborderline #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #BPD what is quiet borderline" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=RKh6BgC3Kw0) 2021-03-30T19:00Z 155K followers, 80.6K engagements "Word Salad and Linguistic Ambiguity Word salad is a term often described as a form of manipulative communication which seems to go round in circles is confusing inaccurate and duplicitous. It's aimed at deflecting avoiding issues and shutting down conversations. It involves linguistic ambiguity which can mean nothing or mean any number of things so keeps other having to guess or decipher what is going on. Commonly used by narcissistic people as a form of gaslighting or politicians to avoid answering specific questions this video outlines some of the common reasons why people use word salad" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=jiayFIBYIW0) 2023-05-01T16:00Z 155K followers, 11.4K engagements "What happens when the Narcissist Loses control over you In relationships with narcissistic people sooner or later people begin to realise something's not quite right. They may set boundaries go Grey Rock no contact and so on. So what happens when a narcissistic person realises they are losing control over someone In this video outlines some of the common behaviours including vindictiveness trauma bonding and manipulation. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissism" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=lKxmFPmzzx4) 2022-03-28T15:15Z 155K followers, 5.4M engagements "Dealing with Delusional People In this video Darren Magee discusses ways to handle yourself when dealing with people who are delusional. Exploring different types of delusions such as eromatic somatic grandiose persecutory to jealous delusions. Looking also at what may be lying behind the delusions such as schizoaffective disorder psychosis delusion disorder substance misuse narcissism and pathological jealousy. Some delusions may manifest as hallucinations unshakeable fixed beliefs constant accusations of infidelity psychotic depression - some are pathological delusions some may be" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=vhthI6jpG-A) 2021-04-28T16:00Z 155K followers, 30.8K engagements "The Dark Tetrad: The Labyrinth of Machiavellianism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Machiavellianism is characterised by being manipulative duplicitous and having a willingness to deceive and exploit others for personal gain. The word comes from Italian philosopher Niccol Machiavelli who wrote the 'The Prince' in the 1500s which encourages the end justifies the means behaviour. Someone who is machiavellian is cunning sneaky and lacks a moral code. This podcast looks at Machiavellianism in the context of The Dark Tetrad which also consists of" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=xYIA_kRFJR0) 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements "Why Narcissists Hook You With Love Then Take It Away #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic relationships often start with charm and promises then shift into criticism and control. This video explains the bait and switch that creates confusion dependency and emotional exhaustion. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissistbehavior #whynarcissistschange #narcissistmaskslipping #narcissisticabuse" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=-W1vPR_VdmE) 2025-12-21T18:59Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Reconnecting with People after Narcissistic Abuse Narcissistic people often isolate their victims from friends and family. Coming out of an abusive relationship people can still feel isolated and find it difficult to connect or reconnect with others. This livestream looks at why this is and gives some ideas to help reach out and rebuild a social support network" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=-teGMec1XrE) 2025-11-02T16:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "They Make You Feel Responsible for Their Pain Thats Manipulation #narcissism #narcisist Emotional manipulators know exactly how to make you feel guilty for setting boundaries. They say things like After all Ive done for you or Youre the only one who can help me leading you to believe that their pain is your responsibility. This is how guilt and obligation become tools of control. In this video Lisa A. Romano breaks down how manipulators use guilt fear and emotional debt to keep you trapped in toxic cycles. Youll learn how to recognize when someone is trying to make you feel responsible for" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0ulQKFlWg9s) 2025-11-12T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "How Emotional Abusers Twist Your Conscience to Get Their Way #shorts Emotional blackmail is one of the most subtle yet powerful forms of psychological manipulation. In this video we explore how emotional abusers use guilt fear and obligation to control others. Whether it shows up as guilt-tripping dry begging or covert manipulation these tactics can slowly erode your sense of self and emotional safety. Youll learn how to recognize emotional blackmail in relationships the difference between gaslighting and guilt manipulation and how to start setting healthy boundaries that protect your mental" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=30_Bm5Ydenw) 2025-11-02T15:44Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "Characteristics of a Sociopath Darren Magee outlines the characteristics and traits of a sociopath. One of the anti-social personality disorders and part of the Cluster B group of personalities. Common traits include narcissism superficial charm manipulation impulsive behaviour and being irresponsible. Also looking at the sociopathic stare sometimes referred to as the psychopathic stare an intense and fixated look which often appears just prior to an act of domination sensation seeking or ego gratification. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4M82PGQXjV8) 2021-02-20T17:15Z 154K followers, 70.7K engagements "Why Narcissists Act Different Around You #narcissism #narcisist In this video we explore why narcissists act completely different around you compared to everyone else. Narcissistic people often rely on charm attention and validation from others but behind closed doors they use manipulation criticism and subtle put downs. You see their true behavior because you are the one they try to control. We look at how the narcissist mask slips why they target certain people and how their tactics create confusion self doubt and emotional distress. If you have ever wondered why everyone else sees a" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4mKUNYmkmH8) 2025-12-11T15:04Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "How Enablers Fuel Narcissists This livestream looks at the complex and often toxic dynamic between the sometimes unwitting enablers and narcissists exploring how enabling behaviour can inadvertently fuel narcissist traits. Enablers often with the best of intentions can inadvertently create a psychological drama that allows narcissists to thrive using tactics such as gaslighting to manipulate and control those around them. Understanding the nuances of enabling behaviour and its role in fuelling narcissism is crucial for managing boundaries personal growth emotional well-being and developing" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=58LymIZ51Nw) 2025-11-23T22:13Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Why You Blame Yourself After Narcissistic Abuse #narcisist #narcisist If youve ever been in a narcissistic relationship youve likely asked yourself Was it my fault or Why wasnt I enough This constant guilt and self-blame are not signs of weakness theyre symptoms of emotional conditioning. Narcissists manipulate your sense of responsibility until you start believing youre the problem. In this video well explore why survivors of narcissistic abuse so often carry shame and guilt even long after the relationship ends. Youll learn how gaslighting projection and emotional manipulation create deep" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=6ZS0lNXejyE) 2025-10-29T17:30Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Reject Any Reality That Threatens Their Ego #narcissism #narcisist When you deal with someone who lives inside a distorted reality the truth never gets through. They only hear what fits their narrative and reject anything that threatens their fragile ego. This video breaks down how narcissistic denial projection gaslighting and emotional manipulation protect a false self that cannot handle accountability. Understanding these patterns is a crucial step in trauma recovery emotional healing and breaking free from toxic behavior and narcissistic abuse. If you grew up with" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=80qzchPPXRE) 2025-11-19T16:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "The fear of Losing Loved Ones - Thanatophobia In this video Darren Magee discusses the fear of losing loved ones through dying and death. Freud called this Thanatophobia sometimes referred to as death anxiety or a form of separation anxiety. Today it is considered as a general anxiety. Discussing some of the anxiety symptoms including avoidant behaviours causes of the anxiety such as codependancy and the fear of the grief and loss. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=8iyxGpG09fo) 2021-02-11T17:00Z 143K followers, 30.9K engagements "Why Narcissists Say Im Hurting But Cant Explain Why #narcisist #narcissism Narcissists often say theyre hurt yet they cant explain why theyre hurting or take responsibility for their pain. Thats because many people with strong narcissistic traits lack emotional insight. They are either unable or unwilling to self-reflect as doing so would trigger deep shame and vulnerability. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=8xNNKyeWOVM) 2025-10-18T17:00Z 152K followers, [----] engagements "James T Kirk: Personality Analysis As it's the end of the year I thought I'd go out on something light - discussing one of my childhood heroes Captain James T Kirk commanding officer of two ships to carry the name USS Enterprise NCC [----] and NCC 1701-A. If you've nothing better to do join me as I waffle away. #captainkirk #startrek James T Kirk Captain Kirk character analysis Star Trek Five factor model of personality USS Enterprise NCC [----] NCC 1701-A analysis of James T Kirk Starship Enterprise James T Kirk Captain Kirk character analysis Star Trek Five factor model of personality USS" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=9Y8U5djuiJE) 2025-12-29T09:39Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Fear of Success Darren Magee discusses why we are afraid of succeeding the fear of success and being successful Sometimes it can be the fear of failing at being successful fearing the envy and scorn of others and fearing rejection. Exploring the beliefs behind the anxiety and self defeating behaviours that lead to procrastinating. Looking also at some tips to help overcome the fear of succeeding and motivate yourself. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #fearofsuccess" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=A39CiqT4EAw) 2020-06-21T09:15Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Ostracism - Being abused without a word being said To be ostracised excluded by others can be one of the most insidious forms of emotional abuse in the sense that the aggressors don't have to actually do anything except ignore their target. It can happen at work in communities friendship groups and even families. In this video I outline what it is the affects on someone's mental health and refer to research carried out by Professor Kipling D Williams. For further information:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=B9BAXkwVNj0) 2022-04-25T15:00Z 153K followers, 98.2K engagements "Why Narcissists Make You Feel Like You're Nothing Devaluing and minimising others is a form of psychological manipulation deeply rooted in a narcissists fear of not being seen as superior. Theyll minimise your pain your ideas your qualities achievements all out of fear of losing their sense of superiority being held accountable or even just having to share the spotlight. This video delves into the complex dynamics of narcissistic behaviour focusing on the destructive tactics of devaluation minimisation and diminishment. Outlining why narcissists engage in such behaviours how it impact their" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=BAsrJx7TcRo) 2025-02-17T18:31Z 143K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Think They Are Special Why do narcissists believe they are special unique and superior to everyone around them In this video we explore the psychology behind narcissism including narcissistic personality disorder inflated self image entitlement fantasies and the constant need for narcissistic supply. You will also learn how these traits show up in everyday behavior how to spot a narcissist and why their attempts to stand out often appear childish or exaggerated. We also look at vulnerable narcissism narcissistic mothers competitive comparisons and the emotional immaturity that" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Bo5p5oY6LBc) 2025-11-17T20:05Z 153K followers, 14.4K engagements "Why Narcissistic Martyrs Are Drawn to Broken People #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic martyrs are often drawn to people with problems because fixing others makes them feel important. While their advice can sound helpful it is usually shallow self-focused and driven by image rather than real understanding. This video explains why their help often lacks depth. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=CCiuy-K4WYQ) 2026-01-03T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissistic Delusion and Fantasy #narcissism #narcissist #narcissitic Short clip from a recent video looking at narcissism and regret #mentalhealth #narcissisticregret #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Cq5FgZ9BLLg) 2024-06-28T15:00Z 155K followers, 30.6K engagements "How Narcissists Use Curiosity to Control You #narcissism #narcisist This video explains how narcissists use dry begging and cryptic comments to trigger curiosity and concern. By speaking in vague emotional clues they keep people hooked seeking answers and giving them attention. Learn how this subtle tactic works and why it leaves you feeling confused and responsible for their emotions. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=CvrkZ9I0An0) 2025-12-15T17:00Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "How to spot Word Salad #wordsalad #manipulation Three indicators of word salad #narcissism #narcissistic" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=D6r8YVU2FyQ) 2024-08-09T18:59Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "What Are "Bad Faith" Arguments (And How to Spot Them) #shorts #narcissism Ever feel like a simple question turned into a psychological trap Thats the "Bait and Switch." 🎣 In this video we break down how manipulators use bad faith arguments and "induced conversations" to lure you in. They aren't actually curiousthey have a hidden agenda aimed at disempowering you or avoiding accountability. Watch this to learn how to spot the signs of disingenuous interactions and stop taking the bait. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=DBcsGs0ofLk) 2025-12-28T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "NPD ASPD ADHD PTSD - her raw story Sara Crouson has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder Anti-social Personality Disorder ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits. She is the host of the YouTube channel 'Cluster B Milkshake' where she educates people about narcissism and predatory behaviours. We discussed her history and how her diagnoses manifest in day to life as well as in her relationships and interactions. In part one of our discussion we explored the complexities of anger and regret particularly how it can be used in relationships to" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=FHVnGNEO9HU) 2026-01-25T17:41Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Narcissistic Sociopath (Malignant Narcissism) Sociopath is a term that would come under Anti Social Personality. The narcissistic sociopath sometimes referred to as a narcopath or more commonly a malignant narcissist is when sociopathy and narcissistic personality are co-morbid. In this video Darren Magee outlines the common characteristics and traits of a malignant narcissist including a disregard for rules and social norms lack of morality narcissistic rage and impulsivity. Narcissistic Personality Disorder https://youtu.be/0qhi-EdKhtU Anti-Social Personality Disorder" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=FnC38brDeZI) 2022-05-02T15:00Z 154K followers, 70K engagements "9 Ways to Deal with Toxic and Disrespectful People Are you tired of dealing with toxic disrespectful or manipulative people who drain your energy In this video well explore [--] powerful ways to handle toxic people and narcissistic behavior without losing your peace. Youll learn how to stay calm under pressure protect your emotional boundaries and stop reacting to manipulation. Whether its a friend co-worker or family member these tools will help you respond with self-respect and confidence instead of frustration. Remember emotional regulation isnt weaknessits strength. 🔹 Topics Covered: - How" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=FvRZW9oyVyw) 2025-11-03T00:30Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "The Narcissists Reality Warp: When Facts Dont Matter #narcisist #narcissism When you confront a narcissist with facts or evidence it never seems to matter. Theyll twist reality deny whats in front of them and rewrite the story to stay right. This is the hallmark of narcissistic denial and gaslightingtactics that protect their fragile ego and keep you doubting yourself. In this video well explore why narcissists cant admit theyre wrong how cognitive dissonance fuels their behavior and what happens when you try arguing with a narcissist. Youll also learn the deeper psychology behind" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=GhZcEAiVHR4) 2025-11-01T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "How To Heal After a Toxic Relationship Understanding the Trauma Bond Are you struggling to move on from a toxic relationship or narcissistic abuse Understanding the trauma bond is the first step toward true relationship recovery. In this video we break down how to recognize the signs of a toxic attachment heal after emotional pain and finally take control of your life. Learn practical strategies for healing after a breakup breaking free from toxic love and overcoming toxic relationships. We cover how to stop the toxic cycle set personal boundaries and cope with emotional manipulation so you" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=H8okxyLTytw) 2025-11-05T19:20Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "Recognising Financial Abuse Financial abuse would come under the umbrella term of economic abuse a form of coercive control that involves the control and misuse of money and resources that limits someones choices and restricts their freedom. In this video Darren Magee outlines financial abuse and discusses some of the signs. Also looking at some of the ways in which financial abuse can continue following the end of a relationship. If you need support for being abused there are some helpful links below. https://mensallianceni.co.uk/ https://belfastwomensaid.org.uk/" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=IajHlGw_jTo) 2022-04-11T15:00Z 154K followers, 23.8K engagements "The Covert Narcissist's Playbook This video explores covert narcissism explaining how a covert narcissist internalizes feelings of superiority entitlement and grandiosity rather than displaying them openly. Unlike a grandiose narcissist covert narcissists often appear humble shy or victimized yet still possess strong narcissistic traits that emerge through subtle manipulation emotional control and hidden power dynamics. You will learn how covert narcissistic behavior shows up in relationships why covert narcissists are highly sensitive to criticism and how unmet emotional needs and early" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=JS3_pNXkW9Y) 2025-12-03T18:30Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "The Psychology of Hoarding: Narcissists vs. Trauma Victims This video explores how both individuals with narcissism and survivors of narcissistic abuse can sometimes present as hoarders but the reasons behind the behaviour are very different. The video explores the different motivations behind hoarding tendencies in both groups. 00:00 Intro 00:29 Why Trauma Victims Hoard 03:39 Narcissists and Hoarding 09:17 Hoarding Behaviours #narcissism #hoarding #mentalhealth" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=JfJRkglTag8) 2025-07-08T18:50Z 154K followers, 17.7K engagements "Male vs Female Sociopaths Individuals with ASPD or sociopathy often exhibit a disregard for societal norms and rules coupled with a lack of empathy and remorse for their actions. They may engage in manipulative and deceitful behaviors to exploit others for personal gain or pleasure. They tend to have a history of persistent patterns of antisocial behavior since childhood including aggression impulsivity and a disregard for the safety and rights of others. This video outlines some of the differences in how the traits of sociopathy manifest in men and women. References: Weiss B. Jonason P. &" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Krb8KfgVcvE) 2023-06-05T16:09Z 152K followers, 10.2K engagements "Characteristics of Narcissism: The Relentless Need for Validation Narcissistic people often display an unyielding need for validation and admiration. This is a complex aspect of their personality that often shapes their interactions with others. Rooted in fragile self-esteem and the desire for external validation their behaviours can include attention seeking and bragging whether in their personal relationships at work or even on social media but ultimately often lead to and negative outcomes for others as well as eventually themselves. Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=LLQFfWlDLns) 2023-08-14T17:00Z 154K followers, 13.4K engagements "The Narcissists Trauma Olympics Explained #narcissism #narcisist Some narcissists turn suffering into a competition often called the trauma Olympics. In this pattern every conversation becomes about their pain their sacrifices and their struggles used to dismiss others dominate discussions and avoid accountability for harmful behavior. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #traumaolympics" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=LgxD3ipI5O0) 2026-01-05T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Inside The Narcissistic Father-Son Dynamic In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common dynamics in a narcissistic father and son relationship. Common characteristics of narcissism include a sense of entitlement being resistant or sensitive to criticism an over inflated sense of importance and a lack of empathy. In the father / son relationship this often plays out as being emotionally distant authoritarian parenting and unrealistic or unfair expectations on the son. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=MLFc36iFL7k) 2021-03-27T13:00Z 153K followers, 97.1K engagements "Why Going No Contact Feels So Hard (But You Must Do It Anyway) #shorts Going no contact can feel like emotional withdrawal. You might feel anxious lonely or even guilty for walking away. But remember if youve chosen no contact its because the relationship was draining you. Whether its a toxic partner family member or friend the urge to go back is part of the healing process. In this video well explore why no contact feels so painful why it triggers anxiety and self-doubt and how to stay grounded when they try to pull you back in. If youre struggling with detachment trauma bonds or emotional" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=PXgnBWdD9iw) 2025-11-08T13:12Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "Differences between Psychopaths and Sociopaths Psychopaths and sociopaths share a lot of traits such as a lack of remorse being deceitful and manipulative. Both come under Anti Social Personality Disorder. and are often confused. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the differences between the two. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #psychopath #sociopath #personalitydisorder" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=PjgoREUOVNA) 2022-03-23T16:00Z 154K followers, 15.6K engagements "The Narcissistic Martyrs Addiction to Struggle #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic martyrs often need constant hardship chaos or crisis to feel a sense of purpose. When stability appears they may create new problems to keep the drama going using ongoing struggle to gain attention while leaving others emotionally exhausted. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #narcissisticmartyr #covertnarcissist" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Pv2E_6tADXM) 2026-01-11T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How Narcissists React When You Say No When you set a boundary not everyone will respect it. Some people experience your boundary as a personal attack a betrayal or an act of cruelty. This video explains why that happens and how manipulative and narcissistic individuals respond when you say no. You will learn how entitled people ignore boundaries deny reality distort facts invalidate your no demand endless explanations guilt trip you shame you play the victim and punish you for asserting yourself. These behaviors are not misunderstandings. They are deliberate attempts to wear you down until" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=R-HijlJ4lNQ) 2026-01-05T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How Manipulative People Push Past Your Boundaries #boundaries Not everyone who questions your boundary is trying to manipulate you. Healthy people may want to talk negotiate or reach a fair agreement. Manipulative people feel entitled lack empathy and use pressure or tactics to force compliance. Learning the difference helps you protect your boundaries without shutting down healthy communication. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=S6Azmaj6PKQ) 2026-01-18T16:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How Manipulators Make You Feel Responsible for Their Pain #narcisist #shorts Emotional manipulation doesnt always sound loud or angry. Sometimes it sounds like guilt silence and self-pity. Phrases like Dont worry Ill suffer alone or You go Ill just sit here are subtle ways manipulators use guilt to control others. In this video we explore how emotional blackmail works when someone makes you feel responsible for their pain and how to recognize these covert patterns before they take hold. Youll learn how guilt trips and emotional martyrdom create toxic dependency how emotional abusers twist" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=TU68zqPNVN4) 2025-11-05T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "Emotional Blackmail: The Hidden Form of Psychological Manipulation #narcissism #narcisist Emotional blackmail is one of the most powerful and invisible forms of psychological manipulation. Its emotional abuse disguised as care concern or love. Manipulators often target your conscience and guilt to pressure you into compliance to give your time energy or resources at the expense of your own well-being. In this video Lisa A. Romano explains how emotional blackmail works from obvious demands to subtle dry begging the hints and guilt trips that make you feel responsible for another persons" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=TtX5K1oJWTk) 2025-11-14T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "The Truth About Empathy The Truth About Empathy Empathy isnt just about feeling sorry for people. Its about understanding their emotions experiences and perspectives without losing yourself in the process. In this video Darren F Magee explains what empathy really means and how to use it in a healthy balanced way. Youll learn the difference between empathy and sympathy explore cognitive affective and somatic empathy and discover how empathy works on both emotional and psychological levels. When empathy is balanced with boundaries it becomes one of the greatest strengths we can develop. Without" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=VHcMgNaXX_8) 2025-10-30T18:37Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "War of the Worlds: The Social Anxieties Behind Science Fiction's Most Influential Novel In this joint livestream I'll be discussing the HG Wells classic 'War of the Worlds' with @DrPaulA.Taylor (Readers of the Lost Art) Why the story continues to be so popular its many adaptations and what it tells us about the social anxieties and paranoia present not only in Victorian times but today as well. For more Readers of the Lost Art content visit @DrPaulA.Taylor 🎙 New to streaming or looking to level up Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/6699909169676288" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=VLNrwQQbCmA) 2026-01-11T05:56Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Managing Insecurities - Judgement or Acceptance This livestream looks into the complex world of managing insecurities where the line between judgement and acceptance can be blurry. Understanding the dynamics at play in our relationships with others as well as with ourselves in everyday interactions and inner dialogues. Learn how to recognise the signs of insecurity understand the differences between judgement and acceptance and discover practical tips to cultivate self-acceptance and overcome the fear of being judged. Whether you're struggling with low self-esteem social anxiety or feelings" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=W7JZC4jaUNc) 2026-01-19T10:27Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty Setting Boundaries Do you struggle to say no without feeling guilty In this video Darren F Magee explains how to set healthy boundaries and communicate assertively so you can protect your peace boost your confidence and strengthen your self-worth. Learn practical assertiveness tips to stop people-pleasing build emotional resilience and maintain strong boundaries in your relationships. Discover how to handle guilt set limits with confidence and honor your needs without fear or shame. This video will help you: ✅ Understand what healthy boundaries look like ✅" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=Ws_HkA-kh6k) 2025-10-27T18:38Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "The Strengths and Struggles of a Highly Sensitive Person Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is a term first coined in the 1990's by Psychologist Elaine Aron to describe people who experience increased sensitivity to social emotional and physical stimuli. Some of the common characteristics include being highly empathetic compassionate and feeling things more deeply than others. Sometimes negatively described by others as being 'too sensitive' in this video Darren Magee discusses some of the strengths and struggles of of being a highly sensitive person from excessive rumination to creativity and" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=XJkCLWhGv0g) 2022-05-16T15:00Z 155K followers, 42.9K engagements "Recognise When Narcissists Test Your Boundaries This video looks at the tactics manipulative and narcissistic individuals use to test and circumvent your personal boundaries. From feigning confusion guilt tripping grinding you down and even just ignoring them. #narcissism #manipulation #mentalhealth psychology manipulation narcissism setting boundaries emotional abuse boundaries mental health narcissist psychology manipulation narcissism setting boundaries emotional abuse boundaries mental health narcissist" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ZcgAfr7wMpU) 2025-12-21T22:30Z 155K followers, 16.2K engagements "It isn't Always Narcissism With so many channels articles and podcasts about narcissism this livestream looks to bust a few myths #narcissism #mentalhealth #relationship narcissistic martyr narcissistic martyr syndrome narcissism and martyrdom narcissistic victim mentality covert narcissist martyr narcissistic supply narcissistic manipulation narcissism narcissist self sacrifice narcissist control tactics narcissist in relationships narcissist emotional abuse trauma bonding narcissistic abuse recovery covert narcissism explained narcissistic behavior patterns narcissistic martyr in" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=b3FTYsKLkzs) 2026-01-12T09:40Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Need to Be Seen as Selfless #narcissism #narcisist Narcissists often present themselves as selfless and endlessly sacrificing but this behavior is usually about securing attention and admiration also known as narcissistic supply. This video explains how public suffering and self-sacrifice are used as strategies for control validation and superiority. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=bo61LsIKh38) 2026-01-09T17:01Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "A Narcissist's Prayer #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissistsprayer 'A Narcissist's Prayer' by Dayna Craig. Short clip from the video 'Why Narcissists Make You Feel Like You're Nothing'. Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/BAsrJx7TcRo #mentalhealth #narcissisticbehavior #manipulation" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=cU86df7YgU8) 2025-02-19T18:00Z 155K followers, 16.3K engagements "Incels: Can Loneliness Really Change Who You Are The dark world of incel ideology is a subculture of individuals who identify as involuntarily celibate and are often plagued by chronic loneliness social anxiety and a deep sense of isolation. This video explores the psychology and ideology behind this internet subculture where individuals often exhibit traits of narcissism covert narcissism and a distorted view of reality. Through the lens of the five factor model of personality I explore how these traits contribute to the ideology of incels digital narcissism and the risks of online" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=celL43yWWrc) 2025-03-03T18:30Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "How Narcissists Twist Reality to Justify Their Abuse #narcisist #narcissism When you confront a narcissist or simply react to their behavior they twist the situation to make you the problem. This is a classic example of projective identification a psychological defense mechanism where the narcissist provokes an emotional reaction and then uses it as proof that youre the toxic one. In this video well explore how narcissists justify abuse why blame-shifting and gaslighting keep you stuck and how emotional manipulation plays out in real time. Youll learn to recognize narcissistic projection" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=dB0niSz5RLg) 2025-10-30T12:37Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "The Bait and Switch Tactics Manipulators Use to Control You Learn how to recognize and protect yourself from the 'bait and switch' tactics manipulators use to misguide misdirect and control others. In this video we will explore the common techniques used by manipulators to bait and switch by understanding the psychology behind these manipulative behaviours and cultivating your emotional intelligence you can become more resilient to their effects and make more informed decisions in your personal and professional life. Check out Sara Davison's channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SaraDavison" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=dSAUeY6lVj4) 2025-12-08T09:39Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "The Manipulation You Do Not Notice Until It Is Too Late #narcissism #narcisist This video explains why skilled manipulation is often subtle and hard to recognize. Unlike obvious guilt trips or pressure tactics effective manipulation can look like normal care interest or concern. Over time these small behaviors form patterns that slowly erode your self trust and confidence. Learn how to tell the difference between healthy persuasion and long term emotional manipulation. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=dm1tNS199Ak) 2026-01-20T19:22Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissism vs Authenticity #narcissism #narcissitic #authenticity Short clip from the video "What happens when a narcissist meets someone they can't control" Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/4HMcJw97nJ8 #narcissisticmanipulation #coervicecontrol #narcissisticabuseawareness" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=f7DPDLneJ6c) 2024-06-07T15:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Treat You The Way They Do This livestream explores toxic relationships and narcissistic behaviour from a narcissist's perspective and answers questions from the audience. 00:00 Intro 01:34 Book Reviews 02:26 Reactive Abuse / Reactive Defence 06:54 Complex Trauma 12:53 Malignant Narcissism and The Dark Tetrad 23:13 From a narcissist's perspective 42:35 Live Q&A #mentalhealth #narcissism #narcissisticrecovery" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=f9UWnXiMFHc) 2025-02-16T21:27Z 143K followers, [----] engagements "Schizoid Personality Disorder Schizoid Personality Disorder is part of the Cluster A group of disorders. It is often characterised by an emotional flatness no interest in relationships a deficit in social skills and being indifferent to either praise or criticism. In this video Darren Magee goes through the diagnostic criteria as set out by DSM [--] and gives examples of common behaviours and characteristics. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #schizoidpersonality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=fDlJmYpv8Mo) 2021-11-29T16:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How Manipulators Trap You With Fake Curiosity #narcissism #narcisist Disingenuous questions are a subtle form of manipulation. What looks like curiosity is often a bait and switch designed to provoke confuse or regain control. Learn how to recognize it before you get pulled in. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissistbehavior #whynarcissistschange #narcissistmaskslipping #narcissisticabuse" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=flyJfHZNoiM) 2025-12-26T17:45Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Narcissistic Martyr #narcisist #narcissism Narcissistic victimhood and martyrdom can look similar but they serve different purposes. In this video I explain how narcissists use suffering sacrifice and being misunderstood as tools for control admiration and attention. Once you understand the pattern their behavior becomes highly predictable. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #narcissisticmartyr" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=hShnqjln78A) 2026-01-01T17:01Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How Gaslighting Destroys Self Trust #narcisist #narcissism This video explores emotional manipulation gaslighting and narcissistic abuse and how these experiences slowly erode self worth and self trust. If you have been healing from gaslighting emotional abuse or a toxic relationship this message reminds you that being manipulated or lied to is not a reflection of who you are. It addresses trauma bonding self blame psychological abuse and the confusion that follows narcissistic manipulation while guiding you toward rebuilding self compassion and trusting yourself again. Whether you are" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=hmESIivILU4) 2025-11-30T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "How Manipulators Use Fear of Loss to Control You #narcissist #shorts When someone says If you do this were done it isnt loveits control. Emotional threats and ultimatums are powerful tools of manipulation used to create fear guilt and confusion. This video breaks down how emotional blackmail works why fear of loss keeps people trapped and how to begin freeing yourself from toxic emotional control. Youll learn how abusers use fear of abandonment to gain power what emotional coercion looks like in relationships and how to set firm boundaries without feeling guilty. If youve ever been forced to" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=huUDtQrjwmo) 2025-11-04T17:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "The Weird Truth About Narcissist Accusations Why do narcissists always accuse others of the very things theyre guilty of This video explores the strange psychology behind narcissistic accusations projection and paranoia. Youll learn why narcissists think everyone is out to get them why they cant trust anyone and how they twist reality to protect their fragile self-image. Also breaking down how envy and jealousy fuel their paranoia why they constantly need to feel superior and what happens when someone challenges their false sense of self. If youve ever been blamed accused or gaslighted by a" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=iK8sBpS2spE) 2025-10-21T17:35Z 153K followers, 11.4K engagements "The Hidden Agenda Behind Disingenuous Discussions #narcissism #narcisist Bait and switch conversations are a form of bad faith manipulation. What appears to be curiosity an innocent question or an invitation to talk is often a setup designed to extract information misrepresent your words or avoid accountability. This video explains how induced conversations work why they feel confusing and draining and how hidden agendas turn dialogue into control tactics. Learning to recognize disingenuous questioning helps protect your boundaries and emotional energy. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=iKLQJYAg37o) 2025-12-24T17:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Real Reason Narcissists Demand Special Treatment #narcissism #narcisist If you have ever felt drained confused or obligated around someone who always expects more from you you may be dealing with narcissistic entitlement. Narcissistic abuse often shows up through constant demands emotional manipulation and fear tactics that make you feel responsible for their comfort. In this video we break down common narcissist control tactics narcissist red flags and the psychology behind why narcissists feel entitled to your time energy money and attention. You will learn how narcissistic personality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=iXlcxsSzP0I) 2025-11-21T15:15Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Fear Being Seen as Flawed #narcissism #narcisist At the core of narcissism lies a deep sense of shame the fear of being flawed ordinary or exposed. This is why narcissistic people react so strongly when someone knows something they do not. It touches the very insecurity they work so hard to hide. In this video we explore the paradox at the heart of narcissism the shame they carry and the shameful behaviors they use to escape it. Understanding this dynamic helps you see their reactions and attacks for what they truly are fear driven defenses rooted in deep emotional wounds. If" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=jKq_KUUsTPQ) 2025-11-28T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Crave Attention but Cant Handle Criticism #narcisist #narcissism Narcissists may appear confident charming or even self-pitying but beneath the surface lies a fragile sense of self that constantly craves validation and admiration. In this video I explain the two main types of narcissism: - Grandiose Narcissism loud arrogant attention-seeking dismissive of criticism - Vulnerable Narcissism quiet self-pitying guilt-tripping always the victim RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=jQqWRfK9r_A) 2025-10-22T16:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "What is the Grey Rock Method Grey Rock is a term first coined in [----] in an article by a blogger named Skylar. It refers to making yourself so boring an uninteresting to a narcissistic person that they just leave you alone. It is a technique many people practice when having to manage the toxic people in their lives when no contact isn't an option. In this video Darren Magee outlines the Grey Rock method looks at where it came from what it looks like in practice and both the pros and cons of using this technique. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=jmjlpYpfKdg) 2022-03-07T16:00Z 155K followers, 44.9K engagements "Why Narcissists Decide Who Deserves Your Help #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic martyrs often appear generous by volunteering other peoples time energy or resources without consent. This forced generosity puts others in impossible positions and is later used to shame them for setting boundaries or asking for their own things back. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #narcissisticmartyr" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=k283RDFIvY0) 2026-01-07T17:01Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "The Hidden Behaviors That Reveal a Covert Narcissist #narcissism #narcisist In this video we explore the confusing and often painful dynamics of covert narcissism. Covert narcissists may appear caring empathetic and selfless in public yet show selfish and self serving behavior behind closed doors. This split creates a double life that can leave you feeling confused invalidated and emotionally drained. You will learn how covert narcissists swing between quiet superiority and obvious vulnerability how they use false empathy to hide shame and envy and why they often present themselves as" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=lK215rPQoVs) 2025-12-05T14:54Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "The Truth Behind a Narcissists First Impression #narcissism #narcisist In this video we look at how narcissistic people create powerful first impressions by appearing kind charming and attentive. No one meets them and sees the selfish or deluded behavior that shows up later. Narcissists have a public face and a private face and the people closest to them experience a very different side from what the world sees. They are skilled at impression management they read social cues quickly and they know how to build a polished public persona that hides their true intentions. This video explains why" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=lZHSEyw5tPA) 2025-12-17T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Say Im Hurting but Cant Explain Why #narcisist #narcissism Why do narcissists claim theyre hurting yet have no real understanding of why theyre in pain In this video I break down one of the most confusing patterns in narcissistic behavior the intense frustration anxiety and emotional misery they experience when things dont go their way yet their complete lack of self-reflection or accountability. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=n127oOKZ5AM) 2025-10-20T15:01Z 152K followers, [----] engagements "Why You Cant Relax After Narcissistic Abuse #narcisist #narcissism When youve lived through narcissistic abuse your body often forgets how to feel safe. Constant criticism gaslighting and emotional chaos keep you trapped in hyperarousal and fight-or-flight mode. Your nervous system stays flooded with cortisol leaving you anxious hyper-vigilant and craving small hits of approval just to ease the pain. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=n49I9XL4NTg) 2025-10-27T15:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "When the Narcissist Pretends to Be Sorry #narcisist #narcissism When a narcissist says Ill always love you after hurting you its rarely about love. Its about control. Behind their emotional words and tears often hides manipulation guilt and veiled threats meant to pull you back into the same painful cycle. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissistemotionalinsight #narcissistlackslefawareness" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=nFjIxG8OhRU) 2025-10-25T17:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "How to Handle Reactive Abuse Reactive abuse is a common form of coercive control and gaslighting in narcissistic relationships where the abuser plays the victim and turns the tables on their partner making them feel guilty anxious or responsible for their actions. This video explore the signs of reactive abuse how to identify it and most importantly how to handle it in a healthy and constructive way. From setting boundaries to seeking support covering the essential strategies to help you regain control and confidence in your relationships. Learn about reactive abuse and how to break free from" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=nMKHSwtRwi4) 2025-06-02T21:39Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Create Conflict #narcissism #narcissistic #conflict Short clip from the video looking at why narcissists create drama. Watch y=the full video here https://youtu.be/3RBpGKe0wq0 #mentalhealth #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuse" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=nqmPxFo40GY) 2025-02-26T18:00Z 144K followers, [----] engagements "From Victim to Victor: Shifting the Paradigm" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=orbz5mt__9Y) 2025-02-22T20:15Z 143K followers, [----] engagements "When Spirituality Turns Into Manipulation Spiritual Abuse is an insidious form of coercive control that is carried out by a person in a position of 'moral or religious superiority' or someone the victims look to for guidance and support. The abuse is often carried out whilst claiming to be either for the victim's 'own good' or for the greater good. Although it's sometimes referred to a Religious abuse but is not exclusive to a religious setting or by religious people. Spiritual abuse can happen in relationships families the workplace or the community. It can also happen in political or" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=plpVduUwypY) 2026-01-05T09:48Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissistic Supply #narcissism #narcissisticsupply #narcissistic Short clip from one of my videos asking what is narcissistic supply. #mentalhealth #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #darkpersonality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=pugvZEzYCgU) 2025-02-25T18:00Z 144K followers, [---] engagements "Why Narcissists Panic When You Stop Playing Their Game #narcisist #narcissism If youve ever been in a relationship with a narcissist you know the chaos that unfolds when they lose control. Whether it was a partner friend or family member the moment you stop feeding their ego they begin to manipulate guilt-trip and shame to regain power. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissisticabuse #healingjourney" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=r-ji5Di9jlg) 2025-10-23T15:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "How to Spot Bad Faith Arguments In this video we break down how trolls narcissists and other bad actors use bad faith arguments to manipulate conversations. You will learn how deceptive tactics like bait and switch disingenuous questions and induced conversations are used to mislead control and provoke emotional reactions. We explore how these behaviors show up in online discussions personal relationships and narcissistic dynamics including how false curiosity leading questions and hidden agendas are used to gain power avoid accountability or extract emotional supply. Understanding bad faith" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=rIGgAE4ar58) 2025-12-15T19:34Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Stalkers: Motivations and Personality Stalking is defined as repeated and persistent unwanted communications approaches and intrusions into someones life into their privacy and there are many levels to it. It can a form of mental assault. This video looks at the different kinds of stalker (rejected resentful incompetent intimacy seeker and predator) as well as the difference between when the stalker is stranger and someone you know such as an ex partner. Looking also at the impact being stalked can have on victims. 00:00 Intro 0:38 What is stalking 02:04 The dark side of stalking [-----] Social" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=sXry2KtNQc0) 2022-09-12T15:00Z 153K followers, 90.8K engagements "The Early Warning Signs Before Full Manipulation Takes Hold Ever feel like conversations go in circles and no matter how clearly you explain yourself you are still misunderstood This can be an early sign of subtle manipulation. Manipulation often starts quietly and can look like normal everyday interaction. In this video I break down the early warning signs of psychological manipulation including gaslighting emotional blackmail guilt tripping and confusing word salad tactics designed to create self doubt and emotional confusion. If you feel constantly frustrated second guessing yourself or" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=srZE5uAQjNA) 2025-12-30T17:45Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "Adult Narcissistic Children This video addresses the questions around the relationship between a parent and a narcissistic adult child the family conflict and triangulation with other siblings. Looking also at elder abuse and manipulation. Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissisticfamily #narcissisticson #narcissisticdaughter" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=tEFbBiVomf0) 2023-05-15T16:00Z 154K followers, 105.9K engagements "Aging Narcissists - What happens as they Grow Older What kind of things do narcissistic people face from middle age and approach old age and how they react Whether a parent partner or friend this video answers questions about 'How do narcissists behave as they grow older Do they change if so is it for the better or do they get worse' Also answering the question 'What can friends and family experience as the narcissist grows older' Narcissism is characterised by a sense of entitlement being disagreeable highly resistant to criticism and having a lack of empathy for others. Other videos on this" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=tt7YwF5lH_Y) 2022-10-31T16:00Z 154K followers, 1.4M engagements "Narcissism and Impression Management Why They Fool Everyone Why do narcissists seem so charming in public yet so cruel and manipulative in private In this video we look at how narcissists use impression management to fool entire rooms of people. We explore why they make such powerful first impressions how they use charisma flattery stories and confidence to reel people in and why so many of us fall for it again even when we know better. Narcissistic people need validation. They need an audience. They shape a public persona that looks kind witty confident and altruistic. Behind closed doors" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ub2z2xpbMdc) 2025-12-08T19:09Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Why Do We STILL Crave Something from a Narcissist After Breakup Whether going no contact having been discarded or being ghosted following the end of an unhealthy relationship or dynamic many people can't stop thinking about their narcissistic ex or family even after the breakup. Breaking free from a toxic relationship can be challenging but understanding the psychological factors that drive your cravings for contact with a narcissist is key to moving on. In this livestream I'll look at the complexities of narcissistic personality disorder and the manipulative tactics used to keep you hooked." [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=xGCPioqUxQQ) 2025-10-27T09:48Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "The Truth Behind Narcissistic Denial #narcissism #narcisist If you have ever wondered why a narcissist denies the truth even when it is obvious this video breaks it down. Narcissistic collapse happens when reality gets too close and their fragile defenses can no longer protect them. Denial is one of the most common narcissistic traits often rooted in early childhood patterns that never developed into healthy coping mechanisms. Understanding these reactions helps you see the signs of narcissism more clearly and gives you tools to protect yourself in toxic relationships. If you are healing from" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=xjluIACPb2M) 2025-11-16T16:53Z 153K followers, [----] engagements "How Toxic People Twist Your Emotions to Keep Power #narcissism Discover how manipulators use fear guilt and emotional control to keep you silent and confused. In this video we break down the hidden tactics behind emotional manipulation toxic relationships gaslighting and reputation threats. If you have ever dealt with narcissistic behavior emotional blackmail or psychological abuse this will help you understand what is really happening and why it is not your fault. You will learn how to recognize manipulation early set stronger boundaries rebuild your self worth and start your healing journey" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=xvqc7aGt3Fw) 2025-11-23T18:08Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Delusion Disorder In this video Darren Magee outlines delusion disorder a mental illness previously known as paranoid disorder. Though sometimes delusions may be symptoms of another mental health illness such as schizophrenia Delusion disorder is both distinct and quite rare. It is a disorder where someone finds it difficult to distinguish between fact and what is imagined and someone with this disorder can experience paranoia. Common delusions include: Persecutory delusions - the belief that there is injustice of some kind someone may believe there are conspiracies against them. Grandiose or" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=y6-QEzCnDws) 2021-01-15T10:15Z 155K followers, [----] engagements "How Narcissists Tear Others Down to Feel Superior #narcissism #narcisist Narcissists often break the rules they expect everyone else to follow and they do it to protect a fragile ego built on comparison. When their self esteem feels threatened they turn to judgment gossip and subtle manipulation to tear others down. These patterns are not confidence they are signs of a narcissist trying to stay above everyone around them. In this video we explore the psychology behind narcissist behavior why they target people who succeed and how these toxic behavior patterns impact your emotional health." [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=yDbnP5nxc-s) 2025-12-08T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissism or Addiction This video looks at the psychology behind narcissistic personality traits and how they intersect with addiction and addictive behaviours. Looking at the signs of narcissism the root causes of addiction whether one fuels the other and trying to tell the difference. References: Dr Darren Haber [----] "Addiction Accommodation and Vulnerability in Psychoanalysis: Circles without Centres" Personality and Individual Differences https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306460318312590 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886923000958 Nature" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=yjdzapesTiw) 2025-02-24T18:31Z 143K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Parentify and Infantilise Others This video explores the complex and often toxic dynamics of narcissistic relationships where the narcissist both parentifies and infantilises others. How they hold others accountable for their feelings and actions making them responsible for for their feelings. Although his behaviour can can come from low emotional intelligence childhood trauma and an inflated sense of entitlement it can have devastating effects on the well-being of those on the receiving end often leading to emotional abuse. #narcissism #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=-Dw4loSrWo8) 2025-08-26T17:38Z 150K followers, [----] engagements "How to Handle Weaponised Accusations Using accusations or the threat of accusations and allegations is a powerful manipulation tactic often employed by narcissists to control and dominate others. It relies on people fearing the allegations or fearing the consequences of the false accusation. This video gives some ideas on how to stay grounded and manage your boundaries. #emotionalabuse #narcissisticmanipulation #mentalhealth" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=-qtZY8O2rAs) 2024-12-05T18:00Z 139K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissistic Envy + Jealousy = Resentment In this livestream I'll be looking at envy and jealousy from the perspective of narcissism and how it can lead to resentment and bitterness. Hope to see you then. #envy #jealousy #narcissism" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=-u4MndMvWac) 2024-09-02T08:21Z 136K followers, [----] engagements "Why Do Some People Act Superior But Feel Insecure #narcissistic Short clip looking at what's at the root of a narcissist's envy jealousy and resentment. #narcissism #mentalhealth #resentment" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=-xzrXM5H5NQ) 2025-05-14T23:00Z 147K followers, [----] engagements "'Gotcha' Questions - and how to handle them 'Gotcha' questions are designed to put someone on the defensive to trap them into saying something specific or to confuse and disorientate. They are a tactic aimed at manipulating conversations by framing questions in a way that no matter what the response the answer can be twisted and used against the person being asked. People often associate gotcha questions with interviews and debates with politicians and controversial figures however they can come up in workplaces relationships in social groups and these days especially from trolls on social" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=00wqJT9k5Cc) 2024-11-11T18:30Z 137K followers, [----] engagements "Can you ever win against a narcissist #mentalhealth #narcissism #narcissist Given the nature of narcissistic personality disorder can you ever 'win' and what would winning look like #narcissisticmanipulation #recoveryispossible #narcissistic" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0AbyU0XEVOA) 2024-12-22T16:00Z 140K followers, [----] engagements "Stop Trying to 'Handle' Narcissists Many people who have been in relationships or environments with narcissists wonder why they never seem to be able to get through to them come to a resolution or feel listened to. Many of the questions I get are about advice regarding what to do or what to say. This video will address these questions. Hope to see you then. #narcissism #narcissistic #boundaries" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0Jji4CqHnOY) 2025-03-23T21:20Z 145K followers, [----] engagements "How Narcissists React When Youre Happy Have you ever wondered why a narcissistic person can become angry or upset when you're celebrating your achievements or sharing good news It's a weird phenomenon right But in narcissistic relationships it's unfortunately pretty normal. They can react with negativity whenever you show any kind of happiness joy success or independence. This video explores the psychology behind why they get mad when you're happy. From their feelings of inadequacy to envy jealousy and insecurity and looking at the different motivations and common reasons behind this" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0MXtOLT1dlY) 2025-06-16T17:32Z 148K followers, [----] engagements "Are You Being Emotionally Manipulated Without Knowing Do you often find yourself feeling confused guilty or anxious in your relationships without quite understanding why You may be a victim of emotional blackmail and manipulation where someone is using mind games to influence your thoughts and feelings. Recognizing manipulation is crucial to breaking free from control issues and regaining your emotional autonomy. This video looks at the different signals and manipulation signs that you need to be aware of to protect yourself from being controlled or exploited. By developing your manipulation" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0McTW0yMu94) 2025-09-15T18:19Z 151K followers, [----] engagements "Why Do People Refuse To Admit They're Wrong This short clip looks at why people stubbornly stick to their arguments even when they lack support. It touches upon potential embarrassment or shame at admitting errors linking this to the concept of cognitive biases. Understanding these biases is crucial for improving critical thinking and decision making. #cognitivebiases #decisionmaking #criticalthinking" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=0UWFbuXLAwc) 2025-07-15T17:39Z 149K followers, [----] engagements "Recognising and Managing Emotional Blackmail Do you often find yourself feeling trapped guilty or anxious in your relationships Emotional blackmail is a common manipulation tactic used by others to control and influence your emotions and actions. In this livestream I'll outline the signs of emotional blackmail how to recognise it and most importantly how to manage and overcome it. Learn how to set healthy boundaries communicate effectively and break free from the toxic cycle of emotional manipulation. #narcissism #emotionalmanipulation #mentalhealth" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=179rt6q-eHM) 2025-08-02T05:26Z 149K followers, [----] engagements "Eight Signs You're Just Being Used Are you in a toxic relationship or environment where feel you're just being used by someone The only time they bother with you is when they want something Do you get the sense sometimes you're only valued by someone depending on what you can give them This video outlines eight signs you might not necessarily be valued as a person but explioted as a resource by manipulative people. #mentalhealth #toxicrelationships #beingused" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1E7-cdIsz6U) 2025-01-14T18:30Z 142K followers, [----] engagements "Two Types of Narcissists #narcisist #shorts Narcissists often appear confident charming or even victimized but beneath it all lies a fragile sense of self. Whether they present as grandiose or vulnerable both types share the same core traits: a constant need for admiration entitlement and a deep inability to handle criticism. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissismexplained #typesofnarcissists" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1HBg-f0Ol2U) 2025-10-16T12:16Z 152K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissism: Confidence without the Competence This clip from the video 'Dunning-Kruger: When Confidence is Greater than Competence' explains how the Dunning-Kruger effect can mix with arrogance especially in people with narcissistic traits. It uses relatable examples to show how some people act overly confident about things they don't really understand tying it to a sense of superiority. It also touches upon how it relates to cognitive biases. Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/lWlifD_TaNQ #narcissism #overconfidence #cognitivebias" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1M8tHJgmkzI) 2025-07-16T17:56Z 149K followers, [----] engagements "Therapist Rants About People Who Drain Your Joy Some people drain your energy joy and everything else by constantly accusing and dehumanising those they don't like. Often found on social media platforms they complain blame and find everything 'problematic'. Short Clip from the livestream 'Who are the Toxic People you should Avoid' https://youtube.com/live/C6VhfWIcby4 #mentalhealth #troll #energyvampires" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1Vue1TVFQtM) 2025-05-21T19:45Z 147K followers, [----] engagements "Psychopathic Mother and her kids Short clip looking at how a mother with psychopathic traits can impact her husband and children. Watch the full video 'The Psychopathic Wife' here: https://youtu.be/c5rB8BpZFYw #psychopath #narcissisticpsychopath #narcissism" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1WjLO-YBefE) 2025-09-07T17:30Z 151K followers, [----] engagements "A Narcissist's Deluded Sense of Entitlement Short clip looking at the delusional nature of a narcissist's inflated sense of entitlement. #mentalhealth #narcissism #entitledpeople" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=1YxH5ULpcpk) 2025-05-28T20:11Z 148K followers, [----] engagements "Eight Things Narcissists Fear With narcissism we often see over confidence and arrogance. Narcissistic people always seem to have an answer for everything and have an uncanny knack of being able to con people into believing they are intelligent noble morally upstanding members of society. This video looks at eight different things which can cause narcissistic people anxiety distress amnd sometimes even panic it also looks at why they feel distress in these moments and how they typically react. #mentalhealth #narcissism #narcissistic" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=21WP8MsTVxw) 2024-12-23T18:30Z 140K followers, [----] engagements "Signs You're ACTUALLY Healing From Narcissistic Abuse What does it mean to actually heal and move on from having been in an abusive narcissistic family relationship or environment How long does recovery take #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse #personaldevelopment" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=22BEjMYSAAU) 2025-07-14T09:14Z 149K followers, [----] engagements "The Dark Tetrad: Exploring the depths of Sadism The Dark Tetrad is a psychological concept that refers to the combination of four personality traits: narcissism Machiavellianism psychopathy and sadism. This podcast looks at the trait of sadism and the different ways it manifests when co-morbid with the other traits. This podcast is also available on most podcast platforms #darktetrad #sadistic #dark personality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=25NFdowNm1E) 2024-04-06T17:41Z 120K followers, [----] engagements "The Dark Side of Loneliness Online This clip looks at how resentment can build from loneliness and can be a component of behaviours such as trolling and stalking. #troll #trolling #onlinetrolling" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=2M4Ndxazn90) 2025-08-16T17:30Z 151K followers, [----] engagements "What Happens to a Narcissist When You Stop Caring A narcissist's need for attention and control can be profound. But what happens when you're no longer willing to pander to their whims This video looks at how showing indifference to a narcissist can be a potent response how it can be more impactful than displays of anger or distress particularly within a toxic relationship. And also looking at how your not caring about their nonsensical yet controlling can cause among other things narcissistic depletion. 00:00 What concerns a narcissist 01:08 Narcissistic Depletion 02:38 Indifference 03:44" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3CH-fmpa6ZM) 2025-07-02T19:16Z 149K followers, 20.6K engagements "Why Narcissists Thrive on Drama and Crisis Narcissists often crave excitement and emotional intensity. Some of the ways they get this excitement is to create dramas crisis emergencies or mysteries where people have to figure things out for them rescue them or take some kind of action. This video explores why narcissists create crises and thrive in environments of tension and instability from seeking attention and control to deflecting accountability with examples of the tactics they use to manipulate those around them. #Narcissism #Drama #MentalHealth #ToxicRelationships" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3RBpGKe0wq0) 2025-01-06T18:30Z 141K followers, [----] engagements "Three ways you are manipulated and how to protect yourself Are you aware of the subtle ways you're being manipulated every day From coercive control to emotional manipulation it's essential to develop emotional intelligence and resilience to protect yourself. In this livestream I'll explore three common tactics used by manipulative people including narcissistic individuals and provide you with practical tips on how to spot manipulation and set healthy boundaries. Discover the signs of manipulation learn how to recognise the tactics used by manipulators and develop the skills to maintain your" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3XYcMoB9gZU) 2025-05-12T08:03Z 147K followers, [----] engagements "A Narcissist's Lack of Insight and Self Reflection Experiencing constant suspicion and the feeling of being watched can lead to significant trust issues in relationships. Over time projection of negative traits and behaviours can erode connections leaving individuals feeling alone and isolated. This profound loneliness significantly impacts mental health fostering a deep sense of despair. #narcissism #mentalhealth #suspiciousminds" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3Yd1Ea4rHkE) 2025-09-08T18:57Z 151K followers, [----] engagements "How Logical Fallacies Work #fallacy #logicalfallacies #manipulation Short clip from the video 'How to Spot Logical Fallacies' outlinging the different types and how they exploit cognitive biases and emotional responses. Watch the full video here https://youtu.be/_pLU_Txx8Zo #coercivecontrol #mindcontrol #darkpersonality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3ouHjO-xMzU) 2025-02-05T16:30Z 143K followers, [---] engagements "Are You Being Blamed for Their Bad Behaviour This clip looks at how narcissists use manipulation to condition people not to challenge them to avoid taking responsibility. They can use a circular arguments to gaslight you and shift blame. #gaslighting #narcissism #mentalhealth" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=3pgBwaokq8E) 2025-07-28T17:30Z 149K followers, [----] engagements "Breaking Free From a Narcissist's Narrative of You Many people who have been in Narcissistic relationships and environments doubt themselves their choices and their abilities. In this livestream I'll be looking at ways to help break their 'programming' and move forward. Hope to see you then. #recoveryfromnarcissism #motivation #mentalhealth" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4-73dUpPHX8) 2024-08-12T08:33Z 129K followers, [----] engagements "Why Narcissists Attack what's Important to YOU Have you ever wondered why narcissists tend to zero in on what's most important to you and then attack it with spite and vengeance It's not just a coincidence - it's a deliberate tactic to assert their need for control and dominance over you. This video looks into the world of emotional abuse and explores how narcissists use vindictiveness shaming cruel humour gaslighting and fear to break down your boundaries and erode your sense of self-worth. #narcissism #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4PJmDeCxQbg) 2025-05-28T19:57Z 148K followers, [----] engagements "The Secret Reason Narcissists Always Want More #narcissism Short clip looking at why narcissistic people constantly demand attention and validation. #mentalhealth #narcissistic #narcissisticpersonality" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4aAC2oLy0o0) 2025-05-16T23:00Z 147K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissist's Destabilising Tactics Short clip looking at how narcissistic people target your fear of public opinion make you fear for your reputation in order to coerce and control you. #narcissism #mentalhealth #coercivecontrol" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4zn2I1uRWEw) 2025-06-13T19:52Z 148K followers, [----] engagements "Signs and Characteristics of Communal Narcissists Communal narcissists are often outgoing just like grandiose narcissists. Both have similar traits and motives regarding entitlement and the need for admiration but employ different behaviours in order to achieve them. They typically seek out and like to have important or moral roles in society and they experience immense validation from feeling like they are the most virtuous dedicated hardest working people involved. This video looks at some of the common signs and traits of communal narcissism including altruism and virtue signalling and" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=5H7hRPtJ9LU) 2022-11-15T16:00Z 148K followers, 24.2K engagements "The Power of Small Steps Sometimes we view necessary steps as obstacles. This video encourages viewers to focus on small manageable actions. Ask yourself what one small step could I do today for self development and self growth #mentalhealth #personaldevelopment #traumarecovery" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=5RLhAECGUlA) 2025-08-20T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissists Can't Let Go of Grudges Short clip looking at the vindictive and resentful nature of narcissists and how they can hold grudges for a long time. #narcissism #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=5j4QuPq31Lw) 2025-05-31T19:54Z 148K followers, [----] engagements "The Secret Side Of Bullies Exposed This short clip looks at how narcissistic people can use their anger rage and vitriol to abuse control and dominate others. #mentalhealth #narcissism #coercivecontrol" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=6ex9yoP0tCA) 2025-09-03T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements "Why Some People Follow the Cult #cults #cultmembers #narcissisticcults Short clip from the video looking at vicarious narcissism #narcissism #narcissistic #ideology" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=6ktiCNVUYT8) 2025-02-27T18:00Z 144K followers, [---] engagements "Narcissistic Family and Social Dynamics #narcissism #cultdynamics #narcissistic Short clip looking at how narcissists exhibit a 'moral superiority' and engage in cult like behaviours with their friends family and in society at large. #narcissisticabuse #cultleader #narcissisticfamily" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=7PQIeouu_y0) 2025-05-08T17:30Z 147K followers, [----] engagements "The Real Reason You Over Explain After Narcissistic Abuse Have you ever wondered why survivors of narcissistic abuse sometimes tend to over explain themselves give way to much information Or even why they apologise when theyve nothing to apologise for Well these can be trauma responses due to the impact of prolonged emotional and psychological manipulation and abuse. Many who have been on the wrong end of a narcissist are left feeling dazed confused vulnerable and exposed. This video outlines how long term exposure to narcissistic abuse can lead to altered communication a desperate need for" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=7ayfLKbnq_U) 2025-05-11T10:44Z 147K followers, [----] engagements "What Happens When You Try to Validate a Narcissist The video uses the Grand Canyon as an analogy to explain that a narcissist's need for validation is insatiable. No matter how much attention or approval you provide it will never fill their inner emptiness. This explanation is key to understanding narcissistic abuse. Watch the full livestream here https://youtube.com/live/yLhhsY69Rug #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #mentalhealth" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=7u5vjYLWDjY) 2025-06-22T18:51Z 148K followers, [----] engagements "The Most Common Stalker: The Ex-Partner This clip explores the psychology behind stalking particularly focusing on ex- partner stalkers and their motivations in potentially toxic relationships. Watch the full video here: Stalkers: Personality Types and Motivations https://youtu.be/sXry2KtNQc0 #stalking #stalkers #onlinestalking" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=7xMOM3mDBSE) 2025-07-27T17:30Z 149K followers, [----] engagements "Are You Being Blamed for Reacting to Abuse Are you blamed for reacting to emotional and psychological abuse You're not alone. It's a common yet insidious form of coercive control and gaslighting common in narcissistic relationships. Reactive abuse can have devastating and long-lasting effects on its victims often leaving them feeling powerless anxious and depressed. In this video I outline what reactive abuse is and look at the lasting impact on victims including the emotional and psychological toll it can take. From feelings of guilt and shame to difficulties in forming healthy relationships" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=85m88hYMl8o) 2025-05-19T17:30Z 147K followers, [----] engagements "Narcissism: Paranoia vs Low Resolution Thinking Narcissistic people tend to be preoccupied with how others see them. They are very self focused and interpret situations and interactions as being about them even when they arent. They can be paranoid as they are always scanning for criticism betrayal or any undermining and this can lead to bizarre accusations non sensical reasoning and emotive arguments. Along with the paranoia we also see rigid and low resolution thinking. This refers to a simplified all or nothing cognitive style where they fail to see nuance context ot exceptions so they" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=8laB5NACmRQ) 2024-12-14T06:58Z 140K followers, [----] engagements "A Therapist's Opinion on The Riddler Darren Magee looks at Paul Dano's portrayal of The Riddler in the [----] move 'The Batman' and discusses what could be behind the character from a therapist's perspective. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #theriddler #thebatman #darrenmagee" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=9GACWhW36bc) 2022-03-30T17:15Z 152K followers, [----] engagements "The Covert Narcissists Favorite Tactic #narcissistic #narcissism Are you constantly walking on eggshells around your partner Do they turn every solution into a problem twist your concerns into accusations or drain your energy with constant negativity In this video we break down one of the most destructive patterns in toxic and covert narcissistic relationships chronic criticism emotional sabotage and manipulation disguised as concern. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=9YYQft7CtZo) 2025-10-12T14:14Z 152K followers, [----] engagements "Stuck In Life Ask Yourself these Questions Having trouble with something in your life This excerpt from the livestream 'From Victim to Victor: Shifting the Paradigm' introduces some simple solution focused questions that can help you become unstuck and approach problem solving more effectively. Also looking at the 'miracle question' from Solution Focused Brief Therapy to help explore and motivate positive change and growth. By asking yourself if you can change the situation and how to change it you can begin your self improvement journey. Watch the full livestream here:" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=9Zf5fuhMmlo) 2025-09-01T17:34Z 150K followers, [---] engagements "Six ways to Manage Emotional Burnout Are you feeling drained exhausted and depleted Emotional burnout can be overwhelming but it can be managed even prevented. This video outlines six practical ways to manage emotional burnout and find inner peace. From prioritizing self-care and setting healthy boundaries to cultivating mental clarity and mindfulness looking at the strategies that will help you regain control of your emotional well-being. By implementing these simple yet powerful techniques you'll be able to reduce stress increase your energy levels and find a sense of calm and clarity in" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=AIguVOmV30o) 2025-08-19T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements "Rebuilding Self Trust and Confidence after Narcissistic Abuse It's common to experience self doubt when you've been in a difficult or abusive environment which can erode your self confidence. This clip from the livestream 'How Narcissistic Abuse Leaves You Feeling Destabilised' provides insights on self improvement especially regarding trusting your intuition and rebuilding your self worth. Learn how to cultivate a healthier mindset and address limiting beliefs to regain your confidence. Watch the full livestream here: https://youtube.com/live/FYfo_TlJe2E #recoveryfromnarcissisticabuse" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ALJzuNRxBXk) 2025-08-22T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements "Dominance and Aggression from a Male Psychopath This clip outlines how a male psychopath uses terror manipulation and social isolation as forms of coercive control in toxic relationships. #psychopath #mentalhealth #coercivecontrol" [YouTube Link](https://youtube.com/watch?v=AhfTs5GkWhc) 2025-09-04T17:30Z 152K followers, [----] engagements Limited data mode. Full metrics available with subscription: lunarcrush.com/pricing
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"Narcissus and Echo: A Cautionary Tale of Self Obsession Narcissism is often discussed as a modern psychological concept but its roots go back thousands of years. This explores the ancient Greek myth of Narcissus and Echo and how this story mirrors what we now understand as narcissistic personality traits and narcissistic abuse. This cautionary tale reveals the difference between healthy self love and obsessive self focus the devastating impact narcissistic behaviour has on others and why narcissistic relationships so often leave people feeling erased confused and broken. Through the story of"
YouTube Link 2026-02-16T18:30Z 155K followers, [---] engagements
"Co Parenting with a Narcissistic Ex Partner In this video Darren Magee gives some ideas how to co parent with a toxic narcissistic ex partner. Looking at sticking to agreements how to communicate preparing and managing vindictive and character assassinating behaviours. Looking also at doing what is best for the kids managing boundaries and keeping your integrity. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissisticex #coparentingwithanarcissist #toxicex co parenting with a"
YouTube Link 2021-04-04T19:00Z 155K followers, 17.4K engagements
"Why You Cant Get Through to a Narcissist I Darren F Magee Why cant I get through to a narcissist no matter how clearly I explain myself In this video I talk about why reasoning negotiating and trying to be understood by a narcissistic person almost always fails. Many people who have been in narcissistic relationships families or workplaces believe that if they can just find the right words the other person will finally understand. I explain why that belief keeps people stuck. I break down how narcissistic thinking works why narcissists pretend not to understand and why empathy remorse and"
YouTube Link 2026-02-11T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Vulnerable Narcissistic Wife In this video Darren Magee discusses the characteristics and traits in vulnerable (covert) narcissism and what to expect if in a relationship with a covert / vulnerable narcissistic wife. Different from a grandiose narcissist a lot of the abuse comes through neglect and invalidation as opposed to anything actually done to cause distress. Behaviours/characteristics include narcissistic abuse through emotional neglect [--] Constant state of unfulfilment strain and disappointment [--] Constantly disagreeable [--] Husband is always wrong / always sides with others against"
YouTube Link 2020-10-12T21:45Z 155K followers, 354.7K engagements
"How Long Does It Take To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Healing from narcissistic abuse is a unique and individualized process and the time it takes to recover can vary greatly from person to person. This video explores the complexities of narcissistic abuse recovery and provide insight into what you can expect during the healing process. Whether you're just starting to recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse or you're further along in your journey this video aims to offer support guidance and validation. Looking"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T18:19Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Effects of Loveless and Sexless Relationships This video is part three in a series looking at intimacy in relationships. The absence of love and physical intimacy can erode emotional connection breed feelings of loneliness and create a sense of dissatisfaction and frustration. This video looks at the toll that a loveless and sexless relationship can take on self-esteem self-worth and overall well-being such as emotional distress feelings of rejection and how the lack of intimacy can contribute to a cycle of disconnection communication breakdowns and potential conflict. Please feel free to"
YouTube Link 2023-07-02T17:00Z 155K followers, 49.6K engagements
"The Therapeutic Power of Stories: With Dr Paul Taylor Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Discover the transformative and therapeutic power of stories in my conversation with Dr. Paul A Taylor host of the Youtube channel 'Readers of the Lost Art' where we discuss narrative psychology and the 'post literate world'. We discuss 'safetyism' internet use and social media communication and explore how storytelling can inform inspire heal and foster emotional well-being. From ancient myths to modern-day conversations learn how narratives shape our minds and"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) and ways to overcome it The fear of missing out (FOMO) can be characterised by a pervasive apprehension that others might be having rewarding experiences from which youre absent. This fear often leads to a desire to stay continually connected with what others are doing. It refers to the feeling that others are having more fun or experiencing things youre not or living a better life than you are. Its the belief that you might be missing out on something important that others are experiencing or missing out on opportunities. The term was first coined by Dr Dan Herman"
YouTube Link 2024-05-28T16:41Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Narcissistic Psychopath Takeover Strategy"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T01:49Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissists and Denial #narcissism #narcissistic #denial Short clip from the video looking at Narcissistic Mortification #narcissists #narcissisticmortification #narcissisticdenial narcissism narcissistic narcissistic mortification denial narcissist denying reality narcissist denial narcissist deny facts narcissism denial rejection of reality Darren F Magee narcissistic personality disorder narcissistic traits signs of narcissism narcissism narcissistic narcissistic mortification denial narcissist denying reality narcissist denial narcissist deny facts narcissism denial rejection of reality"
YouTube Link 2024-07-06T15:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Origin of Modern Day Narcissism: The Myth of Narcissus I Darren F Magee Long before narcissism became a psychological term or a social media buzzword it was a tragic warning from ancient Greek mythology. In this livestream I discuss the myth of Narcissus and Echo the origin story behind modern-day narcissism. This is not just a story about vanity or self-love. It is a dark tale of cruelty emotional neglect obsession and a prophecy that sealed two fates. Narcissus was not simply in love with himself he was incapable of loving anyone else. Echo was not just heartbroken she was slowly erased"
YouTube Link 2026-01-31T03:36Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Grandiose and Vulnerable Narcissism Explained I Darren F Magee What is the real difference between grandiose and vulnerable narcissism and why do both still involve entitlement and superiority In this clip Dr Peter Salerno explains how grandiose and vulnerable narcissism share the same core trait grandiosity even though they present very differently on the surface. You will learn why vulnerable narcissists may appear anxious depressed or humble while still maintaining a deep sense of superiority and entitlement. Dr Salerno also explains the difference between narcissistic depression and"
YouTube Link 2026-02-05T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Looking through the Johari Window The Johari Window is a useful psychological tool that can help improve interactions with others by enhancing self-awareness and facilitating effective communication. The Johari Window was developed by Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham in [----] and is often used in therapy group dynamics and interpersonal communication to understand how individuals perceive themselves and how they are perceived by others. #johariwindow #selfawareness #mentalhealth self awareness self awareness know yourself self awareness and emotional intelligence johari window model explanation"
YouTube Link 2023-10-09T07:50Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Can You Spot a Tyrant in Charge Short clip looking at how narcissistic psychopaths employ tryannical sadism to either make up or use rules to control and dominate others. #mentalhealth #narcissism #psychopathy"
YouTube Link 2025-05-27T19:52Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Reactive Abuse - The Abused Abuser Darren Magee discusses the term 'Reactive Abuse' a common manipulation tactic employed by toxic people. A manipulation tactic of victim blaming narcissists often use to avoid responsibility and portray themselves as the victim. They become 'the abused abuser'. It can leave victims asking 'am I the abuser here' This video looks at what Reactive abuse is (blame shifting victim shaming gaslighting) Click below for an article on this subject https://sentientcounselling.co.uk/2017/05/29/reactive-abuse-abused-abuser/ If you find this video interesting please"
YouTube Link 2020-12-07T08:30Z 155K followers, 45.3K engagements
"Peter Pan Syndrome - and Narcissism Peter Pan was a fictional character famous as being the little boy who never grew up created by JM Barrie. Today Peter Pan Syndrome is a term given to men although it can affect anyone who have immature attitudes and behaviours. The term first appeared in Dr Dan Finlay's book back in [----] and today is often referred to as being a man child or a woman child. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common behaviours and characteristics associated with it such as emotional immaturity lack of responsibility and lack of commitment and the impact this has"
YouTube Link 2022-02-21T16:00Z 155K followers, 39.6K engagements
"Navigating Toxic Relationships and Breaking Free with Dr Ruth Ann Harpur Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Dr Ruth Ann Harpur is a clinical psychologist with experience and expertise in relationships and different personality types. We had a chat about the dynamics that take place in unhealthy toxic abusive relationships some of the obstacles to recovery the impact of abuse and some ideas to help navigate a better future. Visit Ruth's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drruthannharpur"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Bipolar Disorder - ReWriting the Script with Caz McGovern Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Caz McGovern is an award-winning filmmaker and writer based in London England. Her movie They Dont Leave has been screened at [--] festivals and won the Best Suspense Short award at four of them along with receiving The Big Sky Film Grant. Caz also has a diagnosis of Bipolar Type [--]. In this podcast we talk about her career and creativity ands as youll hear from our conversation how her diagnosis doesnt define her or hold her back. You can find Caz and her work"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Improving Communication Skills: With Sarika Singh Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Sarika Singh is an award winning communications coach and seasoned public speaker with almost three decades helping individuals groups and teams understand and improve their self confidence their communication skills whether written or verbal. She is also an online content creator and host of the Communicate 101: Speaking and Writing Skills Podcast where she discusses many different aspects of communication and regularly shares tips and ideas to help others improve"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"The Nature of Narcissism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) John-Paul Davies is a therapist based in the UK. He is the author of "Finding a Balanced Connection" and has a YouTube channel where he discussed mental health related issues and has conversations with other therapists. He invited me onto his channel where we discussed the nature of narcissism in the context of personal romantic and professional relationships. This was our conversation. Hope you find it interesting For more content visit my YouTube Channel"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Children of the Narcissist - The Golden Child In this video Darren Magee discusses the role of the Golden child one of the children of the narcissist and the dynamics of the narcissistic family which often operates like a cult. The narcissistic parent or parents often assign roles to their children to triangulate and create unhealthy competition and envy through emotional manipulation. Common characteristics of the golden child include grandiosity and bullying of their siblings - scapegoat / mascot / forgotten child can become adept at narcissistic manipulation If you find this video"
YouTube Link 2020-11-22T20:45Z 155K followers, 15K engagements
"Why Gaslighting Feels Confusing Before It Feels Abusive #narcissism #narcisist This video explains how gaslighting rarely starts with obvious denial and instead begins through small subtle moments that plant seeds of doubt. Skilled manipulators focus on minor details small inconsistencies and gentle questioning to slowly undermine your confidence in your own memory perception and reality. Over time these tactics build false evidence that keeps you questioning yourself while they avoid accountability. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:"
YouTube Link 2026-01-25T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Deflecting Accountability #narcissitic #blameshifting #narcissisticrelationship Narcissistic people struggle to accept responsibility for their actions and often deflect accountability for themselves onto others. Commonly referred to as blame shifting. Watch the full video here https://youtu.be/eqyaK_2UPf0 #blameshifting #narcissism #narcissisticabuseawareness"
YouTube Link 2024-05-09T15:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Adult Children Narcissists - The Scapegoat In this video Darren Magee discusses the grown up scapegoat child from a narcissistic family and what life as an adult can be like. The scapegoat sometimes referred to as the blacksheep of the family differs from the golden child as they were held responsible blamed shamed by narcissistic parents. As adults they may develop difficulties with trust low self esteem and an unhealthy inner critic. Unlike the Golden Child however they can have a sense of themselves recognise the toxicity and develop healthy boundaries and go on to have healthy"
YouTube Link 2021-02-03T23:00Z 155K followers, 26.6K engagements
"Manipulation: The Subtleties We Miss This livestream looks at how manipulation coercive control and gaslighting usually begins in subtle under the radar ways often disguised as normal everyday interactions. #narcissism #manipulation #mentalhealth emotional manipulation psychological manipulation covert manipulation manipulation signs psychological control how manipulation works manipulation in relationships manipulation awareness narcissistic manipulation manipulation narcissistic gaslighting red flags in relationships emotional abuse dealing with gaslighting mental health personality"
YouTube Link 2025-12-14T21:52Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissism and Cults: With Mark Vicente Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Mark Vicente is an award winning film maker and author. He is a former member and one of the whistle blowers that exposed the criminal activities going on in the nexium cult. His story is chronicled in the HBO series The Vow. He is host of the WTF is on my mind podcast and YouTube channel where he discusses among other things narcissism coercive behaviours dark personality and cult behaviours often seen in everyday life. I had the pleasure of talking to Mark about NXIVM and"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Narcissism and The Dark Tetrad #narcissism #narcissistic #darktetrad Short clip from recent video looking at how malignant narcissists behave when they lose control of others #malignantnarcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuseawareness narcissism narcissistic narcissistic personality disorder malignant narcissist dark tetrad personality dark tetrad personality traits dark tetrad traits Darren F Magee narcissistic traits characteristics of narcissism dark triad dark triad personality personality traits dark empath traits dark tetrad narcissistic psychopath dark traits dark"
YouTube Link 2024-09-07T15:00Z 155K followers, 34.7K engagements
"OCEAN: An Evolutionary perspective on The Five Factor Model of Personality - with Prof. Ed Dutton Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) The Five Factor Model describes personality using five broad dimensions: Openness to Experience Conscientiousness Extraversion Agreeableness and Neuroticism. These traits are considered to capture the essential elements of human personality. Professor Ed Dutton aka The Jolly Heretic is an Evolutionary Psychology Researcher. In this podcast we discuss the five factor model from an evolutionary perspective looking at the"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"The Dark Side of Online Trolling Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) If you've spent anytime on social media at some point you've interacted with a Troll. These are people who can be rude disrespectful and sometimes even threatening. But who are they What motivates someone to be antagonistic towards complete strangers In this podcast I discuss different kinds of trolls from the pest to those who are desperate for any kind of attention to those who are threatening and sadist. I look at the different motivations behind their behaviour and the"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Pathological vs Compulsive Lying Everyone tells a lies from time to time however with pathological and compulsive lying it's different. It's long term habitual and chronic. Sometimes the lying can be referred to as mythomania or pseudologia fantastica. However there can be some difference between psyhcological and compulsive lying and in this video Darren Magee outlines some of those differences. Sometimes it can be part of another disorder such as narcissistic personality disorder or histrionic personality disorder so there can be reason or intent for the lying other times there seems no"
YouTube Link 2021-09-04T15:00Z 155K followers, 82.1K engagements
"Ten Signs of Narcissistic Neglect This videos discusses the difference between narcissistic abuse and neglect how narcissists can abuse through neglect an some of the common kinds of neglect that can take place in a narcissistic relationship. Part Two - The Impact of Emotional Neglect https://youtu.be/oFb4w8p4s6E Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissisticneglect"
YouTube Link 2023-05-22T17:25Z 155K followers, 54.6K engagements
"Recognising and Responding to Gaslighting Gaslighting is a term used to describe forms of psychological and emotional manipulation aimed at confusing other people's sense of reality having them doubt their own thoughts feelings and experiences. It is a tactic abusive people use to create a sense of uncertainty in others have them believe different narratives and control them. This video outlines what gaslighting is how to recognise it when it happens and gives some ideas to consider when it comes to respond to it. Other videos on this topic you might find interesting: What is 'Gaslighting'"
YouTube Link 2022-11-07T16:11Z 155K followers, 28.5K engagements
"Proust: In Search of Lost Tme Paul Taylor Richard Grannon Stuart Shaw and myself come together to discuss why Proust's "In Search of Lost Time" is such an important book. In an age dominated by self-help books we discuss how Proust provides a useful alternative guide to life's ups and downs. We show how he captures some of the most subtle and nuanced psychological aspects of our memory and how we construct our sense of self through the various stages of our life. #proust #intrusivethoughts #memories 🎙 New to streaming or looking to level up Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount 😍"
YouTube Link 2026-02-12T23:35Z 155K followers, [---] engagements
"How Narcissists Pathologise You Narcissistic people frequently weaponise 'therapy speak' popular psychological terms like gaslighting boundaries triggered toxic narcissist projection and trauma in order to manipulate conversations deflect accountability and pathologise other people's normal reactions or valid concerns. This tactic makes them appear self-aware and emotionally sophisticated while framing the other person as flawed unstable or abusive. This livestream looks at how they do it and how to manage it. #narcissism #manipulation #pathology setting boundaries boundary setting with"
YouTube Link 2026-02-08T10:09Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How Covert Narcissists Manipulate In this video Darren Magee describes the common tactics covert narcissists use to coerce manipulate control and shame their victims. Other videos you might find interesting: The Narcissist's false sense of superiority https://youtu.be/rFtUyBx2eno How narcissists make their victims look like villains https://youtu.be/_2cHAjmArPE How Narcissists Bully Others https://youtu.be/ROkr8I4gIF8 Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack"
YouTube Link 2021-06-05T15:00Z 155K followers, 710.9K engagements
"The Reality of Life with NPD ASPD PTSD and ADHD This is part two of a conversation with Sara Crouson host of the YouTube channel Cluster B Milkshake. Sara has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder Anti-social Personality Disorder ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits. We discuss narcissism psychopathy predatory behaviour and how these things manifest in day to life as well as in her relationships and interactions. Among other things we also address infidelity envy lack of remorse narcissism and social media and the true nature of an"
YouTube Link 2026-01-26T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"What is Dry Begging Dry Begging is a subtle form of manipulation and coercion sometimes employed by narcissistic people to get them what they want while making it seem like its your idea. Rather than just making a request it works by exploiting social cues and emotional signals. It usually involves dropping hints or making emotional demonstrations aimed at creating a sense of obligation in others. Narcissists try to create a situation where the other person feels compelled to offer assistance or resources. This video outlines the motivations behind dry begging gives examples and some ways to"
YouTube Link 2024-10-14T17:30Z 155K followers, 472.7K engagements
"The Characteristics of Narcissism: In Conversation with Alex Khan Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Alex Khan has a YouTube channel where among other things he discusses motivation manifestation and self improvement. he invited me onto his channel to discuss the common traits and motivations behind narcissism. This is our conversation. Alex's channel can be found at https://www.youtube.com/@Alex_Khan"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Stalkers: Their Motivation and Personality Type Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Stalking is defined as repeated and persistent unwanted communications approaches and intrusions into someones life into their privacy and there are many levels to it. It can a form of mental assault. This video looks at the different kinds of stalker (rejected resentful incompetent intimacy seeker and predator) as well as the difference between when the stalker is stranger and someone you know such as an ex partner. Looking also at the impact being stalked can have"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance with Dr Peter Salerno Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance with Dr Peter Salerno Why does narcissistic abuse leave you feeling confused stuck and disconnected from your own reality In this in-depth conversation Dr Peter Salerno retired licensed psychotherapist and clinical psychologist explains traumatic cognitive dissonance a psychological state that develops through intentional manipulation coercive control and pathological abuse. This episode explores how narcissistic relationships distort belief systems create internal conflict and keep survivors trapped in cycles"
YouTube Link 2026-02-09T18:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"What is Self Destructive Borderline Personality Disorder In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics of self destructive borderline personality disorder a sub type of BPD part of the Cluster B group of personalities. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #Selfdestructiveborderline #BPD #borderlinepersonalitydisorder"
YouTube Link 2021-07-24T15:00Z 155K followers, 17.7K engagements
"Impact of Narcissistic Abuse: Anhedonia Anhedonia refers to the inability to experience pleasure in activities and experiences that would be considered to be enjoyable for most people. Theres also a difficulty finding pleasure finding motivation or feeling an anticipation even towards things they once enjoyed or events most other people would look forward to. More than feeling bored with things from time to time it can be a complex and multifaceted symptom often associated with depression and its presence can vary in intensity and duration from person to person. This video looks at some of"
YouTube Link 2024-02-05T18:30Z 155K followers, 18K engagements
"The Dark and Lonely World of Incels Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) This podcast looks at the complex world of incels (involuntary celibates) exploring their psychology through the Five Factor Model of Personality (Big Five). Outlining how traits like neuroticism extraversion and agreeableness shape their worldview alongside the role of covert narcissism and chronic loneliness in their identity. Drawing from psychological research and philosophical insights this video examines the emotional and social struggles behind the incel phenomenon"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"The Narcissistic Mother In Law In a marriage or long term relationship your relationship with your in laws can have an affect on your relationship with your partner and your children. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics and behaviours of a narcissistic mother in law and the affect those behaviours can have. Common behaviours include triangulation being disagreeable making the son or daughter in law feel unwelcome unkind humour gaslighting and manipulating the grandchildren. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or"
YouTube Link 2021-09-11T15:00Z 155K followers, 94K engagements
"The Impact of Emotional Neglect Emotional neglect in a relationship can have serious consequences for people. It can affect someone's sense of self worth their self esteem. They can find it difficult to trust others ask for support. It can even affect someone's mental and physical health. This video is the second part of a series looking at the differences between abuse and neglect in narcissistic relationships focusing on the long term impact neglect can have on someone's sense of self their psychological emotional and physical well being. Ten Signs of Narcissistic Neglect in a Relationship"
YouTube Link 2023-05-29T16:04Z 155K followers, 26.6K engagements
"The Nature of Addiction and Recovery with Dr Darren Haber Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Dr Darren Haber is a psychotherapist based in California and author of " Addiction Accommodation and Vulnerability in Psychoanalysis: Circles without Centres" In this podcast we discuss the nature of addiction and the path to recovery. For more information visit: https://therapistinlosangeles.com/ Darren's Substack can be found at: https://substack.com/@darrenhaber Darren's book can be found on Amazon:"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Oppositional Defiant Disorder in Adulthood Oppositional Defiant Disorder sometimes referred to as ODD is a condition characterised by a continuing pattern of behaviour that can be defiant hostile un-cooperative and disruptive towards others in particular authority figures. This video looks at some of the common characteristics and traits of ODD and how they present in day to day life relationships and at work. 00:00 Intro What is ODD 01:50 Co Morbidity 02:21 Common Characteristics 04:49 Defiance Disorder in Relationships 06:47 Defiance Disorder at work 08:58 Living with ODD Other videos you"
YouTube Link 2022-10-24T15:00Z 155K followers, 35.3K engagements
"The Dark Tetrad: Exploring the Depths of Sadism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Although sadistic personality in no longer part of the DSM there has been recent renewed interest in research particularly as a component of the Dark Tetrad which also contains traits of psychopathy narcissism and Machiavellianism. This podcast looks at the sadistic side of the Dark Tetrad and gives examples of how it manifests when co-morbid with the other traits"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"The Hero Child - Roles in Narcissistic / Dysfunctional Families The Hero Child is often the child who grows up in a dysfunctional family and learns to adapt to the neglect the abuse the lie that the family are all living. families where there are narcissistic parents metal illness or addiction. They often become what they believe the family needs them to be sacrificing their childhood to bring a sense of honour and normality. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics of the Hero Child and how they may differ in different kinds of family. If you find this video"
YouTube Link 2022-03-21T16:00Z 155K followers, 21.3K engagements
"Post Separation Abuse: With Sara Davison Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Sara Davison best known as The Divorce Coach is a multi award-winning Coach twice best selling author and podcast host of 'Heartbreak to Happiness'. She joins me today to talk about what to expect when separating or divorcing a narcissistic person post separation abuse and some ideas to help navigate your way through. For more details about Sara her work or for information on how to train as a divorce coach visit: https://www.saradavison.com/ Youtube Channel"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Narcissistic Shared Fantasy: From Idealising to Devaluing This is a short clip from a conversation I had with Dr Peter Salerno discussing the shared fantasies that can develop in relationships friendships and even workplaces and how they differ with narcissistic people. Dr Salerno elaborates on the concept of idealisation suggesting it plays a role in how these fantasies are formed. We discuss how this relates to narcissism and the dynamics of narcissistic personality disorder. Dr Salerno's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DrPeterSalerno Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From"
YouTube Link 2026-02-04T18:31Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder: Changing the Narrative with Bryan Ingram Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Bryan Ingram is a social media influencer and award winning mental health advocate. He has Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder which he describes as the 'scapegoated disorder'. I initially spoke with Bryan in October [----] about living with Quiet BPD and his work as a mental health advocate. We have had a catch up chat where he discusses life since then how therapy has helped him on his journey and his recent move into stand up comedy."
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Relationships with Narcissists Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) James and Teri Craft invited mo onto their channel to discuss navigating relationships with narcissistic people betrayal trauma and managing boundaries. They have very kindly allowed me to share our conversation. For help and support contact James and Teri: Get the course on Betrayal Trauma: "What Now The Couples Guide to Surviving Crisis in Marriage" here: marriagehealth.org/what-now Link for James and Teri's course:"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"The Mid Range Narcissist Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Mid to High range narcissism refers to someone with deeply ingrained narcissistic traits and characteristics but doesn't meet the threshold for a personality disorder as outlined in the DSM [--]. They can range from just being selfish pests to being a master of emotional manipulation. This presentation looks into the characteristics behaviours and traits of the sub clinical narcissist and explores how they operate in relationships friendships and even in the workplace. Looking at how traits"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"The Dark Tetrad: Psychopathy Unmasked Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Psychopaths can be charming and charismatic often making a strong initial impression. They use their charm to manipulate others and control their partners. They may lie frequently and convincingly using deception to create a facade that hides their true nature. Common characteristics include being callous and having a disregard for the safety of others. They can be quite parasitical impulsive and engage in anti social behaviours. It can be part of the the Dark Tetrad which"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"The Dark Tetrad: Narcissism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) The Dark Tetrad refers to a set of four personality traits linked to exploitative and harmful behaviours. It builds on the Dark Triad which includes Machiavellianism narcissism and psychopathy by adding a fourth trait: sadism. These traits are linked to cruel manipulative self-centered and antisocial behaviours. This podcast is the fourth part in a series looking at the different elements of the dark Tetrad focusing on how narcissism co-occurs with the other traits and how it manifests"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Why Do Narcissists Pick Certain People There are different kinds and types of narcissism and many look for different people to play different roles and act as a supply for them. In this video Darren Magee explains what attracts them to certain people and how they choose their victims / targets If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissism #narcissisticrelationships #narcissisticabusecycle how do narcissists choose victims why did the narcissist choose me why did the"
YouTube Link 2021-07-31T17:30Z 155K followers, 290.8K engagements
"What is Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common characteristics of Quiet borderline Personality Disorder sometimes referred to as High Functioning or Discouraged borderline. Part of the Cluster B group of disorders it can be difficult to spot and sometimes diagnose because many of the symptoms are hidden. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #quietborderline #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #BPD what is quiet borderline"
YouTube Link 2021-03-30T19:00Z 155K followers, 80.6K engagements
"Word Salad and Linguistic Ambiguity Word salad is a term often described as a form of manipulative communication which seems to go round in circles is confusing inaccurate and duplicitous. It's aimed at deflecting avoiding issues and shutting down conversations. It involves linguistic ambiguity which can mean nothing or mean any number of things so keeps other having to guess or decipher what is going on. Commonly used by narcissistic people as a form of gaslighting or politicians to avoid answering specific questions this video outlines some of the common reasons why people use word salad"
YouTube Link 2023-05-01T16:00Z 155K followers, 11.4K engagements
"What happens when the Narcissist Loses control over you In relationships with narcissistic people sooner or later people begin to realise something's not quite right. They may set boundaries go Grey Rock no contact and so on. So what happens when a narcissistic person realises they are losing control over someone In this video outlines some of the common behaviours including vindictiveness trauma bonding and manipulation. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissism"
YouTube Link 2022-03-28T15:15Z 155K followers, 5.4M engagements
"Dealing with Delusional People In this video Darren Magee discusses ways to handle yourself when dealing with people who are delusional. Exploring different types of delusions such as eromatic somatic grandiose persecutory to jealous delusions. Looking also at what may be lying behind the delusions such as schizoaffective disorder psychosis delusion disorder substance misuse narcissism and pathological jealousy. Some delusions may manifest as hallucinations unshakeable fixed beliefs constant accusations of infidelity psychotic depression - some are pathological delusions some may be"
YouTube Link 2021-04-28T16:00Z 155K followers, 30.8K engagements
"The Dark Tetrad: The Labyrinth of Machiavellianism Send a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2327668/open_sms) Machiavellianism is characterised by being manipulative duplicitous and having a willingness to deceive and exploit others for personal gain. The word comes from Italian philosopher Niccol Machiavelli who wrote the 'The Prince' in the 1500s which encourages the end justifies the means behaviour. Someone who is machiavellian is cunning sneaky and lacks a moral code. This podcast looks at Machiavellianism in the context of The Dark Tetrad which also consists of"
YouTube Link 2026-02-14T17:58Z 155K followers, [--] engagements
"Why Narcissists Hook You With Love Then Take It Away #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic relationships often start with charm and promises then shift into criticism and control. This video explains the bait and switch that creates confusion dependency and emotional exhaustion. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissistbehavior #whynarcissistschange #narcissistmaskslipping #narcissisticabuse"
YouTube Link 2025-12-21T18:59Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Reconnecting with People after Narcissistic Abuse Narcissistic people often isolate their victims from friends and family. Coming out of an abusive relationship people can still feel isolated and find it difficult to connect or reconnect with others. This livestream looks at why this is and gives some ideas to help reach out and rebuild a social support network"
YouTube Link 2025-11-02T16:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"They Make You Feel Responsible for Their Pain Thats Manipulation #narcissism #narcisist Emotional manipulators know exactly how to make you feel guilty for setting boundaries. They say things like After all Ive done for you or Youre the only one who can help me leading you to believe that their pain is your responsibility. This is how guilt and obligation become tools of control. In this video Lisa A. Romano breaks down how manipulators use guilt fear and emotional debt to keep you trapped in toxic cycles. Youll learn how to recognize when someone is trying to make you feel responsible for"
YouTube Link 2025-11-12T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"How Emotional Abusers Twist Your Conscience to Get Their Way #shorts Emotional blackmail is one of the most subtle yet powerful forms of psychological manipulation. In this video we explore how emotional abusers use guilt fear and obligation to control others. Whether it shows up as guilt-tripping dry begging or covert manipulation these tactics can slowly erode your sense of self and emotional safety. Youll learn how to recognize emotional blackmail in relationships the difference between gaslighting and guilt manipulation and how to start setting healthy boundaries that protect your mental"
YouTube Link 2025-11-02T15:44Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"Characteristics of a Sociopath Darren Magee outlines the characteristics and traits of a sociopath. One of the anti-social personality disorders and part of the Cluster B group of personalities. Common traits include narcissism superficial charm manipulation impulsive behaviour and being irresponsible. Also looking at the sociopathic stare sometimes referred to as the psychopathic stare an intense and fixated look which often appears just prior to an act of domination sensation seeking or ego gratification. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or"
YouTube Link 2021-02-20T17:15Z 154K followers, 70.7K engagements
"Why Narcissists Act Different Around You #narcissism #narcisist In this video we explore why narcissists act completely different around you compared to everyone else. Narcissistic people often rely on charm attention and validation from others but behind closed doors they use manipulation criticism and subtle put downs. You see their true behavior because you are the one they try to control. We look at how the narcissist mask slips why they target certain people and how their tactics create confusion self doubt and emotional distress. If you have ever wondered why everyone else sees a"
YouTube Link 2025-12-11T15:04Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"How Enablers Fuel Narcissists This livestream looks at the complex and often toxic dynamic between the sometimes unwitting enablers and narcissists exploring how enabling behaviour can inadvertently fuel narcissist traits. Enablers often with the best of intentions can inadvertently create a psychological drama that allows narcissists to thrive using tactics such as gaslighting to manipulate and control those around them. Understanding the nuances of enabling behaviour and its role in fuelling narcissism is crucial for managing boundaries personal growth emotional well-being and developing"
YouTube Link 2025-11-23T22:13Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Why You Blame Yourself After Narcissistic Abuse #narcisist #narcisist If youve ever been in a narcissistic relationship youve likely asked yourself Was it my fault or Why wasnt I enough This constant guilt and self-blame are not signs of weakness theyre symptoms of emotional conditioning. Narcissists manipulate your sense of responsibility until you start believing youre the problem. In this video well explore why survivors of narcissistic abuse so often carry shame and guilt even long after the relationship ends. Youll learn how gaslighting projection and emotional manipulation create deep"
YouTube Link 2025-10-29T17:30Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Reject Any Reality That Threatens Their Ego #narcissism #narcisist When you deal with someone who lives inside a distorted reality the truth never gets through. They only hear what fits their narrative and reject anything that threatens their fragile ego. This video breaks down how narcissistic denial projection gaslighting and emotional manipulation protect a false self that cannot handle accountability. Understanding these patterns is a crucial step in trauma recovery emotional healing and breaking free from toxic behavior and narcissistic abuse. If you grew up with"
YouTube Link 2025-11-19T16:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"The fear of Losing Loved Ones - Thanatophobia In this video Darren Magee discusses the fear of losing loved ones through dying and death. Freud called this Thanatophobia sometimes referred to as death anxiety or a form of separation anxiety. Today it is considered as a general anxiety. Discussing some of the anxiety symptoms including avoidant behaviours causes of the anxiety such as codependancy and the fear of the grief and loss. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/"
YouTube Link 2021-02-11T17:00Z 143K followers, 30.9K engagements
"Why Narcissists Say Im Hurting But Cant Explain Why #narcisist #narcissism Narcissists often say theyre hurt yet they cant explain why theyre hurting or take responsibility for their pain. Thats because many people with strong narcissistic traits lack emotional insight. They are either unable or unwilling to self-reflect as doing so would trigger deep shame and vulnerability. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk"
YouTube Link 2025-10-18T17:00Z 152K followers, [----] engagements
"James T Kirk: Personality Analysis As it's the end of the year I thought I'd go out on something light - discussing one of my childhood heroes Captain James T Kirk commanding officer of two ships to carry the name USS Enterprise NCC [----] and NCC 1701-A. If you've nothing better to do join me as I waffle away. #captainkirk #startrek James T Kirk Captain Kirk character analysis Star Trek Five factor model of personality USS Enterprise NCC [----] NCC 1701-A analysis of James T Kirk Starship Enterprise James T Kirk Captain Kirk character analysis Star Trek Five factor model of personality USS"
YouTube Link 2025-12-29T09:39Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Fear of Success Darren Magee discusses why we are afraid of succeeding the fear of success and being successful Sometimes it can be the fear of failing at being successful fearing the envy and scorn of others and fearing rejection. Exploring the beliefs behind the anxiety and self defeating behaviours that lead to procrastinating. Looking also at some tips to help overcome the fear of succeeding and motivate yourself. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #fearofsuccess"
YouTube Link 2020-06-21T09:15Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Ostracism - Being abused without a word being said To be ostracised excluded by others can be one of the most insidious forms of emotional abuse in the sense that the aggressors don't have to actually do anything except ignore their target. It can happen at work in communities friendship groups and even families. In this video I outline what it is the affects on someone's mental health and refer to research carried out by Professor Kipling D Williams. For further information:"
YouTube Link 2022-04-25T15:00Z 153K followers, 98.2K engagements
"Why Narcissists Make You Feel Like You're Nothing Devaluing and minimising others is a form of psychological manipulation deeply rooted in a narcissists fear of not being seen as superior. Theyll minimise your pain your ideas your qualities achievements all out of fear of losing their sense of superiority being held accountable or even just having to share the spotlight. This video delves into the complex dynamics of narcissistic behaviour focusing on the destructive tactics of devaluation minimisation and diminishment. Outlining why narcissists engage in such behaviours how it impact their"
YouTube Link 2025-02-17T18:31Z 143K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Think They Are Special Why do narcissists believe they are special unique and superior to everyone around them In this video we explore the psychology behind narcissism including narcissistic personality disorder inflated self image entitlement fantasies and the constant need for narcissistic supply. You will also learn how these traits show up in everyday behavior how to spot a narcissist and why their attempts to stand out often appear childish or exaggerated. We also look at vulnerable narcissism narcissistic mothers competitive comparisons and the emotional immaturity that"
YouTube Link 2025-11-17T20:05Z 153K followers, 14.4K engagements
"Why Narcissistic Martyrs Are Drawn to Broken People #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic martyrs are often drawn to people with problems because fixing others makes them feel important. While their advice can sound helpful it is usually shallow self-focused and driven by image rather than real understanding. This video explains why their help often lacks depth. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism"
YouTube Link 2026-01-03T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissistic Delusion and Fantasy #narcissism #narcissist #narcissitic Short clip from a recent video looking at narcissism and regret #mentalhealth #narcissisticregret #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder"
YouTube Link 2024-06-28T15:00Z 155K followers, 30.6K engagements
"How Narcissists Use Curiosity to Control You #narcissism #narcisist This video explains how narcissists use dry begging and cryptic comments to trigger curiosity and concern. By speaking in vague emotional clues they keep people hooked seeking answers and giving them attention. Learn how this subtle tactic works and why it leaves you feeling confused and responsible for their emotions. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:"
YouTube Link 2025-12-15T17:00Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"How to spot Word Salad #wordsalad #manipulation Three indicators of word salad #narcissism #narcissistic"
YouTube Link 2024-08-09T18:59Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"What Are "Bad Faith" Arguments (And How to Spot Them) #shorts #narcissism Ever feel like a simple question turned into a psychological trap Thats the "Bait and Switch." 🎣 In this video we break down how manipulators use bad faith arguments and "induced conversations" to lure you in. They aren't actually curiousthey have a hidden agenda aimed at disempowering you or avoiding accountability. Watch this to learn how to spot the signs of disingenuous interactions and stop taking the bait. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:"
YouTube Link 2025-12-28T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"NPD ASPD ADHD PTSD - her raw story Sara Crouson has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder Anti-social Personality Disorder ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits. She is the host of the YouTube channel 'Cluster B Milkshake' where she educates people about narcissism and predatory behaviours. We discussed her history and how her diagnoses manifest in day to life as well as in her relationships and interactions. In part one of our discussion we explored the complexities of anger and regret particularly how it can be used in relationships to"
YouTube Link 2026-01-25T17:41Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Narcissistic Sociopath (Malignant Narcissism) Sociopath is a term that would come under Anti Social Personality. The narcissistic sociopath sometimes referred to as a narcopath or more commonly a malignant narcissist is when sociopathy and narcissistic personality are co-morbid. In this video Darren Magee outlines the common characteristics and traits of a malignant narcissist including a disregard for rules and social norms lack of morality narcissistic rage and impulsivity. Narcissistic Personality Disorder https://youtu.be/0qhi-EdKhtU Anti-Social Personality Disorder"
YouTube Link 2022-05-02T15:00Z 154K followers, 70K engagements
"9 Ways to Deal with Toxic and Disrespectful People Are you tired of dealing with toxic disrespectful or manipulative people who drain your energy In this video well explore [--] powerful ways to handle toxic people and narcissistic behavior without losing your peace. Youll learn how to stay calm under pressure protect your emotional boundaries and stop reacting to manipulation. Whether its a friend co-worker or family member these tools will help you respond with self-respect and confidence instead of frustration. Remember emotional regulation isnt weaknessits strength. 🔹 Topics Covered: - How"
YouTube Link 2025-11-03T00:30Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"The Narcissists Reality Warp: When Facts Dont Matter #narcisist #narcissism When you confront a narcissist with facts or evidence it never seems to matter. Theyll twist reality deny whats in front of them and rewrite the story to stay right. This is the hallmark of narcissistic denial and gaslightingtactics that protect their fragile ego and keep you doubting yourself. In this video well explore why narcissists cant admit theyre wrong how cognitive dissonance fuels their behavior and what happens when you try arguing with a narcissist. Youll also learn the deeper psychology behind"
YouTube Link 2025-11-01T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"How To Heal After a Toxic Relationship Understanding the Trauma Bond Are you struggling to move on from a toxic relationship or narcissistic abuse Understanding the trauma bond is the first step toward true relationship recovery. In this video we break down how to recognize the signs of a toxic attachment heal after emotional pain and finally take control of your life. Learn practical strategies for healing after a breakup breaking free from toxic love and overcoming toxic relationships. We cover how to stop the toxic cycle set personal boundaries and cope with emotional manipulation so you"
YouTube Link 2025-11-05T19:20Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"Recognising Financial Abuse Financial abuse would come under the umbrella term of economic abuse a form of coercive control that involves the control and misuse of money and resources that limits someones choices and restricts their freedom. In this video Darren Magee outlines financial abuse and discusses some of the signs. Also looking at some of the ways in which financial abuse can continue following the end of a relationship. If you need support for being abused there are some helpful links below. https://mensallianceni.co.uk/ https://belfastwomensaid.org.uk/"
YouTube Link 2022-04-11T15:00Z 154K followers, 23.8K engagements
"The Covert Narcissist's Playbook This video explores covert narcissism explaining how a covert narcissist internalizes feelings of superiority entitlement and grandiosity rather than displaying them openly. Unlike a grandiose narcissist covert narcissists often appear humble shy or victimized yet still possess strong narcissistic traits that emerge through subtle manipulation emotional control and hidden power dynamics. You will learn how covert narcissistic behavior shows up in relationships why covert narcissists are highly sensitive to criticism and how unmet emotional needs and early"
YouTube Link 2025-12-03T18:30Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"The Psychology of Hoarding: Narcissists vs. Trauma Victims This video explores how both individuals with narcissism and survivors of narcissistic abuse can sometimes present as hoarders but the reasons behind the behaviour are very different. The video explores the different motivations behind hoarding tendencies in both groups. 00:00 Intro 00:29 Why Trauma Victims Hoard 03:39 Narcissists and Hoarding 09:17 Hoarding Behaviours #narcissism #hoarding #mentalhealth"
YouTube Link 2025-07-08T18:50Z 154K followers, 17.7K engagements
"Male vs Female Sociopaths Individuals with ASPD or sociopathy often exhibit a disregard for societal norms and rules coupled with a lack of empathy and remorse for their actions. They may engage in manipulative and deceitful behaviors to exploit others for personal gain or pleasure. They tend to have a history of persistent patterns of antisocial behavior since childhood including aggression impulsivity and a disregard for the safety and rights of others. This video outlines some of the differences in how the traits of sociopathy manifest in men and women. References: Weiss B. Jonason P. &"
YouTube Link 2023-06-05T16:09Z 152K followers, 10.2K engagements
"Characteristics of Narcissism: The Relentless Need for Validation Narcissistic people often display an unyielding need for validation and admiration. This is a complex aspect of their personality that often shapes their interactions with others. Rooted in fragile self-esteem and the desire for external validation their behaviours can include attention seeking and bragging whether in their personal relationships at work or even on social media but ultimately often lead to and negative outcomes for others as well as eventually themselves. Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me"
YouTube Link 2023-08-14T17:00Z 154K followers, 13.4K engagements
"The Narcissists Trauma Olympics Explained #narcissism #narcisist Some narcissists turn suffering into a competition often called the trauma Olympics. In this pattern every conversation becomes about their pain their sacrifices and their struggles used to dismiss others dominate discussions and avoid accountability for harmful behavior. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #traumaolympics"
YouTube Link 2026-01-05T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Inside The Narcissistic Father-Son Dynamic In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the common dynamics in a narcissistic father and son relationship. Common characteristics of narcissism include a sense of entitlement being resistant or sensitive to criticism an over inflated sense of importance and a lack of empathy. In the father / son relationship this often plays out as being emotionally distant authoritarian parenting and unrealistic or unfair expectations on the son. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack"
YouTube Link 2021-03-27T13:00Z 153K followers, 97.1K engagements
"Why Going No Contact Feels So Hard (But You Must Do It Anyway) #shorts Going no contact can feel like emotional withdrawal. You might feel anxious lonely or even guilty for walking away. But remember if youve chosen no contact its because the relationship was draining you. Whether its a toxic partner family member or friend the urge to go back is part of the healing process. In this video well explore why no contact feels so painful why it triggers anxiety and self-doubt and how to stay grounded when they try to pull you back in. If youre struggling with detachment trauma bonds or emotional"
YouTube Link 2025-11-08T13:12Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"Differences between Psychopaths and Sociopaths Psychopaths and sociopaths share a lot of traits such as a lack of remorse being deceitful and manipulative. Both come under Anti Social Personality Disorder. and are often confused. In this video Darren Magee outlines some of the differences between the two. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #psychopath #sociopath #personalitydisorder"
YouTube Link 2022-03-23T16:00Z 154K followers, 15.6K engagements
"The Narcissistic Martyrs Addiction to Struggle #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic martyrs often need constant hardship chaos or crisis to feel a sense of purpose. When stability appears they may create new problems to keep the drama going using ongoing struggle to gain attention while leaving others emotionally exhausted. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #narcissisticmartyr #covertnarcissist"
YouTube Link 2026-01-11T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How Narcissists React When You Say No When you set a boundary not everyone will respect it. Some people experience your boundary as a personal attack a betrayal or an act of cruelty. This video explains why that happens and how manipulative and narcissistic individuals respond when you say no. You will learn how entitled people ignore boundaries deny reality distort facts invalidate your no demand endless explanations guilt trip you shame you play the victim and punish you for asserting yourself. These behaviors are not misunderstandings. They are deliberate attempts to wear you down until"
YouTube Link 2026-01-05T17:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How Manipulative People Push Past Your Boundaries #boundaries Not everyone who questions your boundary is trying to manipulate you. Healthy people may want to talk negotiate or reach a fair agreement. Manipulative people feel entitled lack empathy and use pressure or tactics to force compliance. Learning the difference helps you protect your boundaries without shutting down healthy communication. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:"
YouTube Link 2026-01-18T16:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How Manipulators Make You Feel Responsible for Their Pain #narcisist #shorts Emotional manipulation doesnt always sound loud or angry. Sometimes it sounds like guilt silence and self-pity. Phrases like Dont worry Ill suffer alone or You go Ill just sit here are subtle ways manipulators use guilt to control others. In this video we explore how emotional blackmail works when someone makes you feel responsible for their pain and how to recognize these covert patterns before they take hold. Youll learn how guilt trips and emotional martyrdom create toxic dependency how emotional abusers twist"
YouTube Link 2025-11-05T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"Emotional Blackmail: The Hidden Form of Psychological Manipulation #narcissism #narcisist Emotional blackmail is one of the most powerful and invisible forms of psychological manipulation. Its emotional abuse disguised as care concern or love. Manipulators often target your conscience and guilt to pressure you into compliance to give your time energy or resources at the expense of your own well-being. In this video Lisa A. Romano explains how emotional blackmail works from obvious demands to subtle dry begging the hints and guilt trips that make you feel responsible for another persons"
YouTube Link 2025-11-14T17:00Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"The Truth About Empathy The Truth About Empathy Empathy isnt just about feeling sorry for people. Its about understanding their emotions experiences and perspectives without losing yourself in the process. In this video Darren F Magee explains what empathy really means and how to use it in a healthy balanced way. Youll learn the difference between empathy and sympathy explore cognitive affective and somatic empathy and discover how empathy works on both emotional and psychological levels. When empathy is balanced with boundaries it becomes one of the greatest strengths we can develop. Without"
YouTube Link 2025-10-30T18:37Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"War of the Worlds: The Social Anxieties Behind Science Fiction's Most Influential Novel In this joint livestream I'll be discussing the HG Wells classic 'War of the Worlds' with @DrPaulA.Taylor (Readers of the Lost Art) Why the story continues to be so popular its many adaptations and what it tells us about the social anxieties and paranoia present not only in Victorian times but today as well. For more Readers of the Lost Art content visit @DrPaulA.Taylor 🎙 New to streaming or looking to level up Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/6699909169676288"
YouTube Link 2026-01-11T05:56Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Managing Insecurities - Judgement or Acceptance This livestream looks into the complex world of managing insecurities where the line between judgement and acceptance can be blurry. Understanding the dynamics at play in our relationships with others as well as with ourselves in everyday interactions and inner dialogues. Learn how to recognise the signs of insecurity understand the differences between judgement and acceptance and discover practical tips to cultivate self-acceptance and overcome the fear of being judged. Whether you're struggling with low self-esteem social anxiety or feelings"
YouTube Link 2026-01-19T10:27Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty Setting Boundaries Do you struggle to say no without feeling guilty In this video Darren F Magee explains how to set healthy boundaries and communicate assertively so you can protect your peace boost your confidence and strengthen your self-worth. Learn practical assertiveness tips to stop people-pleasing build emotional resilience and maintain strong boundaries in your relationships. Discover how to handle guilt set limits with confidence and honor your needs without fear or shame. This video will help you: ✅ Understand what healthy boundaries look like ✅"
YouTube Link 2025-10-27T18:38Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"The Strengths and Struggles of a Highly Sensitive Person Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is a term first coined in the 1990's by Psychologist Elaine Aron to describe people who experience increased sensitivity to social emotional and physical stimuli. Some of the common characteristics include being highly empathetic compassionate and feeling things more deeply than others. Sometimes negatively described by others as being 'too sensitive' in this video Darren Magee discusses some of the strengths and struggles of of being a highly sensitive person from excessive rumination to creativity and"
YouTube Link 2022-05-16T15:00Z 155K followers, 42.9K engagements
"Recognise When Narcissists Test Your Boundaries This video looks at the tactics manipulative and narcissistic individuals use to test and circumvent your personal boundaries. From feigning confusion guilt tripping grinding you down and even just ignoring them. #narcissism #manipulation #mentalhealth psychology manipulation narcissism setting boundaries emotional abuse boundaries mental health narcissist psychology manipulation narcissism setting boundaries emotional abuse boundaries mental health narcissist"
YouTube Link 2025-12-21T22:30Z 155K followers, 16.2K engagements
"It isn't Always Narcissism With so many channels articles and podcasts about narcissism this livestream looks to bust a few myths #narcissism #mentalhealth #relationship narcissistic martyr narcissistic martyr syndrome narcissism and martyrdom narcissistic victim mentality covert narcissist martyr narcissistic supply narcissistic manipulation narcissism narcissist self sacrifice narcissist control tactics narcissist in relationships narcissist emotional abuse trauma bonding narcissistic abuse recovery covert narcissism explained narcissistic behavior patterns narcissistic martyr in"
YouTube Link 2026-01-12T09:40Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Need to Be Seen as Selfless #narcissism #narcisist Narcissists often present themselves as selfless and endlessly sacrificing but this behavior is usually about securing attention and admiration also known as narcissistic supply. This video explains how public suffering and self-sacrifice are used as strategies for control validation and superiority. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism"
YouTube Link 2026-01-09T17:01Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"A Narcissist's Prayer #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissistsprayer 'A Narcissist's Prayer' by Dayna Craig. Short clip from the video 'Why Narcissists Make You Feel Like You're Nothing'. Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/BAsrJx7TcRo #mentalhealth #narcissisticbehavior #manipulation"
YouTube Link 2025-02-19T18:00Z 155K followers, 16.3K engagements
"Incels: Can Loneliness Really Change Who You Are The dark world of incel ideology is a subculture of individuals who identify as involuntarily celibate and are often plagued by chronic loneliness social anxiety and a deep sense of isolation. This video explores the psychology and ideology behind this internet subculture where individuals often exhibit traits of narcissism covert narcissism and a distorted view of reality. Through the lens of the five factor model of personality I explore how these traits contribute to the ideology of incels digital narcissism and the risks of online"
YouTube Link 2025-03-03T18:30Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"How Narcissists Twist Reality to Justify Their Abuse #narcisist #narcissism When you confront a narcissist or simply react to their behavior they twist the situation to make you the problem. This is a classic example of projective identification a psychological defense mechanism where the narcissist provokes an emotional reaction and then uses it as proof that youre the toxic one. In this video well explore how narcissists justify abuse why blame-shifting and gaslighting keep you stuck and how emotional manipulation plays out in real time. Youll learn to recognize narcissistic projection"
YouTube Link 2025-10-30T12:37Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"The Bait and Switch Tactics Manipulators Use to Control You Learn how to recognize and protect yourself from the 'bait and switch' tactics manipulators use to misguide misdirect and control others. In this video we will explore the common techniques used by manipulators to bait and switch by understanding the psychology behind these manipulative behaviours and cultivating your emotional intelligence you can become more resilient to their effects and make more informed decisions in your personal and professional life. Check out Sara Davison's channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SaraDavison"
YouTube Link 2025-12-08T09:39Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"The Manipulation You Do Not Notice Until It Is Too Late #narcissism #narcisist This video explains why skilled manipulation is often subtle and hard to recognize. Unlike obvious guilt trips or pressure tactics effective manipulation can look like normal care interest or concern. Over time these small behaviors form patterns that slowly erode your self trust and confidence. Learn how to tell the difference between healthy persuasion and long term emotional manipulation. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:"
YouTube Link 2026-01-20T19:22Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissism vs Authenticity #narcissism #narcissitic #authenticity Short clip from the video "What happens when a narcissist meets someone they can't control" Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/4HMcJw97nJ8 #narcissisticmanipulation #coervicecontrol #narcissisticabuseawareness"
YouTube Link 2024-06-07T15:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Treat You The Way They Do This livestream explores toxic relationships and narcissistic behaviour from a narcissist's perspective and answers questions from the audience. 00:00 Intro 01:34 Book Reviews 02:26 Reactive Abuse / Reactive Defence 06:54 Complex Trauma 12:53 Malignant Narcissism and The Dark Tetrad 23:13 From a narcissist's perspective 42:35 Live Q&A #mentalhealth #narcissism #narcissisticrecovery"
YouTube Link 2025-02-16T21:27Z 143K followers, [----] engagements
"Schizoid Personality Disorder Schizoid Personality Disorder is part of the Cluster A group of disorders. It is often characterised by an emotional flatness no interest in relationships a deficit in social skills and being indifferent to either praise or criticism. In this video Darren Magee goes through the diagnostic criteria as set out by DSM [--] and gives examples of common behaviours and characteristics. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #schizoidpersonality"
YouTube Link 2021-11-29T16:00Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How Manipulators Trap You With Fake Curiosity #narcissism #narcisist Disingenuous questions are a subtle form of manipulation. What looks like curiosity is often a bait and switch designed to provoke confuse or regain control. Learn how to recognize it before you get pulled in. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissistbehavior #whynarcissistschange #narcissistmaskslipping #narcissisticabuse"
YouTube Link 2025-12-26T17:45Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Narcissistic Martyr #narcisist #narcissism Narcissistic victimhood and martyrdom can look similar but they serve different purposes. In this video I explain how narcissists use suffering sacrifice and being misunderstood as tools for control admiration and attention. Once you understand the pattern their behavior becomes highly predictable. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #narcissisticmartyr"
YouTube Link 2026-01-01T17:01Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How Gaslighting Destroys Self Trust #narcisist #narcissism This video explores emotional manipulation gaslighting and narcissistic abuse and how these experiences slowly erode self worth and self trust. If you have been healing from gaslighting emotional abuse or a toxic relationship this message reminds you that being manipulated or lied to is not a reflection of who you are. It addresses trauma bonding self blame psychological abuse and the confusion that follows narcissistic manipulation while guiding you toward rebuilding self compassion and trusting yourself again. Whether you are"
YouTube Link 2025-11-30T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"How Manipulators Use Fear of Loss to Control You #narcissist #shorts When someone says If you do this were done it isnt loveits control. Emotional threats and ultimatums are powerful tools of manipulation used to create fear guilt and confusion. This video breaks down how emotional blackmail works why fear of loss keeps people trapped and how to begin freeing yourself from toxic emotional control. Youll learn how abusers use fear of abandonment to gain power what emotional coercion looks like in relationships and how to set firm boundaries without feeling guilty. If youve ever been forced to"
YouTube Link 2025-11-04T17:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"The Weird Truth About Narcissist Accusations Why do narcissists always accuse others of the very things theyre guilty of This video explores the strange psychology behind narcissistic accusations projection and paranoia. Youll learn why narcissists think everyone is out to get them why they cant trust anyone and how they twist reality to protect their fragile self-image. Also breaking down how envy and jealousy fuel their paranoia why they constantly need to feel superior and what happens when someone challenges their false sense of self. If youve ever been blamed accused or gaslighted by a"
YouTube Link 2025-10-21T17:35Z 153K followers, 11.4K engagements
"The Hidden Agenda Behind Disingenuous Discussions #narcissism #narcisist Bait and switch conversations are a form of bad faith manipulation. What appears to be curiosity an innocent question or an invitation to talk is often a setup designed to extract information misrepresent your words or avoid accountability. This video explains how induced conversations work why they feel confusing and draining and how hidden agendas turn dialogue into control tactics. Learning to recognize disingenuous questioning helps protect your boundaries and emotional energy. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on"
YouTube Link 2025-12-24T17:30Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Real Reason Narcissists Demand Special Treatment #narcissism #narcisist If you have ever felt drained confused or obligated around someone who always expects more from you you may be dealing with narcissistic entitlement. Narcissistic abuse often shows up through constant demands emotional manipulation and fear tactics that make you feel responsible for their comfort. In this video we break down common narcissist control tactics narcissist red flags and the psychology behind why narcissists feel entitled to your time energy money and attention. You will learn how narcissistic personality"
YouTube Link 2025-11-21T15:15Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Fear Being Seen as Flawed #narcissism #narcisist At the core of narcissism lies a deep sense of shame the fear of being flawed ordinary or exposed. This is why narcissistic people react so strongly when someone knows something they do not. It touches the very insecurity they work so hard to hide. In this video we explore the paradox at the heart of narcissism the shame they carry and the shameful behaviors they use to escape it. Understanding this dynamic helps you see their reactions and attacks for what they truly are fear driven defenses rooted in deep emotional wounds. If"
YouTube Link 2025-11-28T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Crave Attention but Cant Handle Criticism #narcisist #narcissism Narcissists may appear confident charming or even self-pitying but beneath the surface lies a fragile sense of self that constantly craves validation and admiration. In this video I explain the two main types of narcissism: - Grandiose Narcissism loud arrogant attention-seeking dismissive of criticism - Vulnerable Narcissism quiet self-pitying guilt-tripping always the victim RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:"
YouTube Link 2025-10-22T16:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"What is the Grey Rock Method Grey Rock is a term first coined in [----] in an article by a blogger named Skylar. It refers to making yourself so boring an uninteresting to a narcissistic person that they just leave you alone. It is a technique many people practice when having to manage the toxic people in their lives when no contact isn't an option. In this video Darren Magee outlines the Grey Rock method looks at where it came from what it looks like in practice and both the pros and cons of using this technique. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or"
YouTube Link 2022-03-07T16:00Z 155K followers, 44.9K engagements
"Why Narcissists Decide Who Deserves Your Help #narcissism #narcisist Narcissistic martyrs often appear generous by volunteering other peoples time energy or resources without consent. This forced generosity puts others in impossible positions and is later used to shame them for setting boundaries or asking for their own things back. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissism #narcissisticmartyr"
YouTube Link 2026-01-07T17:01Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"The Hidden Behaviors That Reveal a Covert Narcissist #narcissism #narcisist In this video we explore the confusing and often painful dynamics of covert narcissism. Covert narcissists may appear caring empathetic and selfless in public yet show selfish and self serving behavior behind closed doors. This split creates a double life that can leave you feeling confused invalidated and emotionally drained. You will learn how covert narcissists swing between quiet superiority and obvious vulnerability how they use false empathy to hide shame and envy and why they often present themselves as"
YouTube Link 2025-12-05T14:54Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"The Truth Behind a Narcissists First Impression #narcissism #narcisist In this video we look at how narcissistic people create powerful first impressions by appearing kind charming and attentive. No one meets them and sees the selfish or deluded behavior that shows up later. Narcissists have a public face and a private face and the people closest to them experience a very different side from what the world sees. They are skilled at impression management they read social cues quickly and they know how to build a polished public persona that hides their true intentions. This video explains why"
YouTube Link 2025-12-17T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Say Im Hurting but Cant Explain Why #narcisist #narcissism Why do narcissists claim theyre hurting yet have no real understanding of why theyre in pain In this video I break down one of the most confusing patterns in narcissistic behavior the intense frustration anxiety and emotional misery they experience when things dont go their way yet their complete lack of self-reflection or accountability. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:"
YouTube Link 2025-10-20T15:01Z 152K followers, [----] engagements
"Why You Cant Relax After Narcissistic Abuse #narcisist #narcissism When youve lived through narcissistic abuse your body often forgets how to feel safe. Constant criticism gaslighting and emotional chaos keep you trapped in hyperarousal and fight-or-flight mode. Your nervous system stays flooded with cortisol leaving you anxious hyper-vigilant and craving small hits of approval just to ease the pain. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website:"
YouTube Link 2025-10-27T15:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"When the Narcissist Pretends to Be Sorry #narcisist #narcissism When a narcissist says Ill always love you after hurting you its rarely about love. Its about control. Behind their emotional words and tears often hides manipulation guilt and veiled threats meant to pull you back into the same painful cycle. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissistemotionalinsight #narcissistlackslefawareness"
YouTube Link 2025-10-25T17:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"How to Handle Reactive Abuse Reactive abuse is a common form of coercive control and gaslighting in narcissistic relationships where the abuser plays the victim and turns the tables on their partner making them feel guilty anxious or responsible for their actions. This video explore the signs of reactive abuse how to identify it and most importantly how to handle it in a healthy and constructive way. From setting boundaries to seeking support covering the essential strategies to help you regain control and confidence in your relationships. Learn about reactive abuse and how to break free from"
YouTube Link 2025-06-02T21:39Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Create Conflict #narcissism #narcissistic #conflict Short clip from the video looking at why narcissists create drama. Watch y=the full video here https://youtu.be/3RBpGKe0wq0 #mentalhealth #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuse"
YouTube Link 2025-02-26T18:00Z 144K followers, [----] engagements
"From Victim to Victor: Shifting the Paradigm"
YouTube Link 2025-02-22T20:15Z 143K followers, [----] engagements
"When Spirituality Turns Into Manipulation Spiritual Abuse is an insidious form of coercive control that is carried out by a person in a position of 'moral or religious superiority' or someone the victims look to for guidance and support. The abuse is often carried out whilst claiming to be either for the victim's 'own good' or for the greater good. Although it's sometimes referred to a Religious abuse but is not exclusive to a religious setting or by religious people. Spiritual abuse can happen in relationships families the workplace or the community. It can also happen in political or"
YouTube Link 2026-01-05T09:48Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissistic Supply #narcissism #narcissisticsupply #narcissistic Short clip from one of my videos asking what is narcissistic supply. #mentalhealth #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #darkpersonality"
YouTube Link 2025-02-25T18:00Z 144K followers, [---] engagements
"Why Narcissists Panic When You Stop Playing Their Game #narcisist #narcissism If youve ever been in a relationship with a narcissist you know the chaos that unfolds when they lose control. Whether it was a partner friend or family member the moment you stop feeding their ego they begin to manipulate guilt-trip and shame to regain power. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissisticabuse #healingjourney"
YouTube Link 2025-10-23T15:01Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"How to Spot Bad Faith Arguments In this video we break down how trolls narcissists and other bad actors use bad faith arguments to manipulate conversations. You will learn how deceptive tactics like bait and switch disingenuous questions and induced conversations are used to mislead control and provoke emotional reactions. We explore how these behaviors show up in online discussions personal relationships and narcissistic dynamics including how false curiosity leading questions and hidden agendas are used to gain power avoid accountability or extract emotional supply. Understanding bad faith"
YouTube Link 2025-12-15T19:34Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Stalkers: Motivations and Personality Stalking is defined as repeated and persistent unwanted communications approaches and intrusions into someones life into their privacy and there are many levels to it. It can a form of mental assault. This video looks at the different kinds of stalker (rejected resentful incompetent intimacy seeker and predator) as well as the difference between when the stalker is stranger and someone you know such as an ex partner. Looking also at the impact being stalked can have on victims. 00:00 Intro 0:38 What is stalking 02:04 The dark side of stalking [-----] Social"
YouTube Link 2022-09-12T15:00Z 153K followers, 90.8K engagements
"The Early Warning Signs Before Full Manipulation Takes Hold Ever feel like conversations go in circles and no matter how clearly you explain yourself you are still misunderstood This can be an early sign of subtle manipulation. Manipulation often starts quietly and can look like normal everyday interaction. In this video I break down the early warning signs of psychological manipulation including gaslighting emotional blackmail guilt tripping and confusing word salad tactics designed to create self doubt and emotional confusion. If you feel constantly frustrated second guessing yourself or"
YouTube Link 2025-12-30T17:45Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"Adult Narcissistic Children This video addresses the questions around the relationship between a parent and a narcissistic adult child the family conflict and triangulation with other siblings. Looking also at elder abuse and manipulation. Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #narcissisticfamily #narcissisticson #narcissisticdaughter"
YouTube Link 2023-05-15T16:00Z 154K followers, 105.9K engagements
"Aging Narcissists - What happens as they Grow Older What kind of things do narcissistic people face from middle age and approach old age and how they react Whether a parent partner or friend this video answers questions about 'How do narcissists behave as they grow older Do they change if so is it for the better or do they get worse' Also answering the question 'What can friends and family experience as the narcissist grows older' Narcissism is characterised by a sense of entitlement being disagreeable highly resistant to criticism and having a lack of empathy for others. Other videos on this"
YouTube Link 2022-10-31T16:00Z 154K followers, 1.4M engagements
"Narcissism and Impression Management Why They Fool Everyone Why do narcissists seem so charming in public yet so cruel and manipulative in private In this video we look at how narcissists use impression management to fool entire rooms of people. We explore why they make such powerful first impressions how they use charisma flattery stories and confidence to reel people in and why so many of us fall for it again even when we know better. Narcissistic people need validation. They need an audience. They shape a public persona that looks kind witty confident and altruistic. Behind closed doors"
YouTube Link 2025-12-08T19:09Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Do We STILL Crave Something from a Narcissist After Breakup Whether going no contact having been discarded or being ghosted following the end of an unhealthy relationship or dynamic many people can't stop thinking about their narcissistic ex or family even after the breakup. Breaking free from a toxic relationship can be challenging but understanding the psychological factors that drive your cravings for contact with a narcissist is key to moving on. In this livestream I'll look at the complexities of narcissistic personality disorder and the manipulative tactics used to keep you hooked."
YouTube Link 2025-10-27T09:48Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"The Truth Behind Narcissistic Denial #narcissism #narcisist If you have ever wondered why a narcissist denies the truth even when it is obvious this video breaks it down. Narcissistic collapse happens when reality gets too close and their fragile defenses can no longer protect them. Denial is one of the most common narcissistic traits often rooted in early childhood patterns that never developed into healthy coping mechanisms. Understanding these reactions helps you see the signs of narcissism more clearly and gives you tools to protect yourself in toxic relationships. If you are healing from"
YouTube Link 2025-11-16T16:53Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"How Toxic People Twist Your Emotions to Keep Power #narcissism Discover how manipulators use fear guilt and emotional control to keep you silent and confused. In this video we break down the hidden tactics behind emotional manipulation toxic relationships gaslighting and reputation threats. If you have ever dealt with narcissistic behavior emotional blackmail or psychological abuse this will help you understand what is really happening and why it is not your fault. You will learn how to recognize manipulation early set stronger boundaries rebuild your self worth and start your healing journey"
YouTube Link 2025-11-23T18:08Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Delusion Disorder In this video Darren Magee outlines delusion disorder a mental illness previously known as paranoid disorder. Though sometimes delusions may be symptoms of another mental health illness such as schizophrenia Delusion disorder is both distinct and quite rare. It is a disorder where someone finds it difficult to distinguish between fact and what is imagined and someone with this disorder can experience paranoia. Common delusions include: Persecutory delusions - the belief that there is injustice of some kind someone may believe there are conspiracies against them. Grandiose or"
YouTube Link 2021-01-15T10:15Z 155K followers, [----] engagements
"How Narcissists Tear Others Down to Feel Superior #narcissism #narcisist Narcissists often break the rules they expect everyone else to follow and they do it to protect a fragile ego built on comparison. When their self esteem feels threatened they turn to judgment gossip and subtle manipulation to tear others down. These patterns are not confidence they are signs of a narcissist trying to stay above everyone around them. In this video we explore the psychology behind narcissist behavior why they target people who succeed and how these toxic behavior patterns impact your emotional health."
YouTube Link 2025-12-08T17:01Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissism or Addiction This video looks at the psychology behind narcissistic personality traits and how they intersect with addiction and addictive behaviours. Looking at the signs of narcissism the root causes of addiction whether one fuels the other and trying to tell the difference. References: Dr Darren Haber [----] "Addiction Accommodation and Vulnerability in Psychoanalysis: Circles without Centres" Personality and Individual Differences https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306460318312590 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886923000958 Nature"
YouTube Link 2025-02-24T18:31Z 143K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Parentify and Infantilise Others This video explores the complex and often toxic dynamics of narcissistic relationships where the narcissist both parentifies and infantilises others. How they hold others accountable for their feelings and actions making them responsible for for their feelings. Although his behaviour can can come from low emotional intelligence childhood trauma and an inflated sense of entitlement it can have devastating effects on the well-being of those on the receiving end often leading to emotional abuse. #narcissism #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse"
YouTube Link 2025-08-26T17:38Z 150K followers, [----] engagements
"How to Handle Weaponised Accusations Using accusations or the threat of accusations and allegations is a powerful manipulation tactic often employed by narcissists to control and dominate others. It relies on people fearing the allegations or fearing the consequences of the false accusation. This video gives some ideas on how to stay grounded and manage your boundaries. #emotionalabuse #narcissisticmanipulation #mentalhealth"
YouTube Link 2024-12-05T18:00Z 139K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissistic Envy + Jealousy = Resentment In this livestream I'll be looking at envy and jealousy from the perspective of narcissism and how it can lead to resentment and bitterness. Hope to see you then. #envy #jealousy #narcissism"
YouTube Link 2024-09-02T08:21Z 136K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Do Some People Act Superior But Feel Insecure #narcissistic Short clip looking at what's at the root of a narcissist's envy jealousy and resentment. #narcissism #mentalhealth #resentment"
YouTube Link 2025-05-14T23:00Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"'Gotcha' Questions - and how to handle them 'Gotcha' questions are designed to put someone on the defensive to trap them into saying something specific or to confuse and disorientate. They are a tactic aimed at manipulating conversations by framing questions in a way that no matter what the response the answer can be twisted and used against the person being asked. People often associate gotcha questions with interviews and debates with politicians and controversial figures however they can come up in workplaces relationships in social groups and these days especially from trolls on social"
YouTube Link 2024-11-11T18:30Z 137K followers, [----] engagements
"Can you ever win against a narcissist #mentalhealth #narcissism #narcissist Given the nature of narcissistic personality disorder can you ever 'win' and what would winning look like #narcissisticmanipulation #recoveryispossible #narcissistic"
YouTube Link 2024-12-22T16:00Z 140K followers, [----] engagements
"Stop Trying to 'Handle' Narcissists Many people who have been in relationships or environments with narcissists wonder why they never seem to be able to get through to them come to a resolution or feel listened to. Many of the questions I get are about advice regarding what to do or what to say. This video will address these questions. Hope to see you then. #narcissism #narcissistic #boundaries"
YouTube Link 2025-03-23T21:20Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"How Narcissists React When Youre Happy Have you ever wondered why a narcissistic person can become angry or upset when you're celebrating your achievements or sharing good news It's a weird phenomenon right But in narcissistic relationships it's unfortunately pretty normal. They can react with negativity whenever you show any kind of happiness joy success or independence. This video explores the psychology behind why they get mad when you're happy. From their feelings of inadequacy to envy jealousy and insecurity and looking at the different motivations and common reasons behind this"
YouTube Link 2025-06-16T17:32Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"Are You Being Emotionally Manipulated Without Knowing Do you often find yourself feeling confused guilty or anxious in your relationships without quite understanding why You may be a victim of emotional blackmail and manipulation where someone is using mind games to influence your thoughts and feelings. Recognizing manipulation is crucial to breaking free from control issues and regaining your emotional autonomy. This video looks at the different signals and manipulation signs that you need to be aware of to protect yourself from being controlled or exploited. By developing your manipulation"
YouTube Link 2025-09-15T18:19Z 151K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Do People Refuse To Admit They're Wrong This short clip looks at why people stubbornly stick to their arguments even when they lack support. It touches upon potential embarrassment or shame at admitting errors linking this to the concept of cognitive biases. Understanding these biases is crucial for improving critical thinking and decision making. #cognitivebiases #decisionmaking #criticalthinking"
YouTube Link 2025-07-15T17:39Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"Recognising and Managing Emotional Blackmail Do you often find yourself feeling trapped guilty or anxious in your relationships Emotional blackmail is a common manipulation tactic used by others to control and influence your emotions and actions. In this livestream I'll outline the signs of emotional blackmail how to recognise it and most importantly how to manage and overcome it. Learn how to set healthy boundaries communicate effectively and break free from the toxic cycle of emotional manipulation. #narcissism #emotionalmanipulation #mentalhealth"
YouTube Link 2025-08-02T05:26Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"Eight Signs You're Just Being Used Are you in a toxic relationship or environment where feel you're just being used by someone The only time they bother with you is when they want something Do you get the sense sometimes you're only valued by someone depending on what you can give them This video outlines eight signs you might not necessarily be valued as a person but explioted as a resource by manipulative people. #mentalhealth #toxicrelationships #beingused"
YouTube Link 2025-01-14T18:30Z 142K followers, [----] engagements
"Two Types of Narcissists #narcisist #shorts Narcissists often appear confident charming or even victimized but beneath it all lies a fragile sense of self. Whether they present as grandiose or vulnerable both types share the same core traits: a constant need for admiration entitlement and a deep inability to handle criticism. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darren-f-magee-b114b227/originalSubdomain=uk 🌐 Visit my website: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk #narcissismexplained #typesofnarcissists"
YouTube Link 2025-10-16T12:16Z 152K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissism: Confidence without the Competence This clip from the video 'Dunning-Kruger: When Confidence is Greater than Competence' explains how the Dunning-Kruger effect can mix with arrogance especially in people with narcissistic traits. It uses relatable examples to show how some people act overly confident about things they don't really understand tying it to a sense of superiority. It also touches upon how it relates to cognitive biases. Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/lWlifD_TaNQ #narcissism #overconfidence #cognitivebias"
YouTube Link 2025-07-16T17:56Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"Therapist Rants About People Who Drain Your Joy Some people drain your energy joy and everything else by constantly accusing and dehumanising those they don't like. Often found on social media platforms they complain blame and find everything 'problematic'. Short Clip from the livestream 'Who are the Toxic People you should Avoid' https://youtube.com/live/C6VhfWIcby4 #mentalhealth #troll #energyvampires"
YouTube Link 2025-05-21T19:45Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"Psychopathic Mother and her kids Short clip looking at how a mother with psychopathic traits can impact her husband and children. Watch the full video 'The Psychopathic Wife' here: https://youtu.be/c5rB8BpZFYw #psychopath #narcissisticpsychopath #narcissism"
YouTube Link 2025-09-07T17:30Z 151K followers, [----] engagements
"A Narcissist's Deluded Sense of Entitlement Short clip looking at the delusional nature of a narcissist's inflated sense of entitlement. #mentalhealth #narcissism #entitledpeople"
YouTube Link 2025-05-28T20:11Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"Eight Things Narcissists Fear With narcissism we often see over confidence and arrogance. Narcissistic people always seem to have an answer for everything and have an uncanny knack of being able to con people into believing they are intelligent noble morally upstanding members of society. This video looks at eight different things which can cause narcissistic people anxiety distress amnd sometimes even panic it also looks at why they feel distress in these moments and how they typically react. #mentalhealth #narcissism #narcissistic"
YouTube Link 2024-12-23T18:30Z 140K followers, [----] engagements
"Signs You're ACTUALLY Healing From Narcissistic Abuse What does it mean to actually heal and move on from having been in an abusive narcissistic family relationship or environment How long does recovery take #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse #personaldevelopment"
YouTube Link 2025-07-14T09:14Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"The Dark Tetrad: Exploring the depths of Sadism The Dark Tetrad is a psychological concept that refers to the combination of four personality traits: narcissism Machiavellianism psychopathy and sadism. This podcast looks at the trait of sadism and the different ways it manifests when co-morbid with the other traits. This podcast is also available on most podcast platforms #darktetrad #sadistic #dark personality"
YouTube Link 2024-04-06T17:41Z 120K followers, [----] engagements
"The Dark Side of Loneliness Online This clip looks at how resentment can build from loneliness and can be a component of behaviours such as trolling and stalking. #troll #trolling #onlinetrolling"
YouTube Link 2025-08-16T17:30Z 151K followers, [----] engagements
"What Happens to a Narcissist When You Stop Caring A narcissist's need for attention and control can be profound. But what happens when you're no longer willing to pander to their whims This video looks at how showing indifference to a narcissist can be a potent response how it can be more impactful than displays of anger or distress particularly within a toxic relationship. And also looking at how your not caring about their nonsensical yet controlling can cause among other things narcissistic depletion. 00:00 What concerns a narcissist 01:08 Narcissistic Depletion 02:38 Indifference 03:44"
YouTube Link 2025-07-02T19:16Z 149K followers, 20.6K engagements
"Why Narcissists Thrive on Drama and Crisis Narcissists often crave excitement and emotional intensity. Some of the ways they get this excitement is to create dramas crisis emergencies or mysteries where people have to figure things out for them rescue them or take some kind of action. This video explores why narcissists create crises and thrive in environments of tension and instability from seeking attention and control to deflecting accountability with examples of the tactics they use to manipulate those around them. #Narcissism #Drama #MentalHealth #ToxicRelationships"
YouTube Link 2025-01-06T18:30Z 141K followers, [----] engagements
"Three ways you are manipulated and how to protect yourself Are you aware of the subtle ways you're being manipulated every day From coercive control to emotional manipulation it's essential to develop emotional intelligence and resilience to protect yourself. In this livestream I'll explore three common tactics used by manipulative people including narcissistic individuals and provide you with practical tips on how to spot manipulation and set healthy boundaries. Discover the signs of manipulation learn how to recognise the tactics used by manipulators and develop the skills to maintain your"
YouTube Link 2025-05-12T08:03Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"A Narcissist's Lack of Insight and Self Reflection Experiencing constant suspicion and the feeling of being watched can lead to significant trust issues in relationships. Over time projection of negative traits and behaviours can erode connections leaving individuals feeling alone and isolated. This profound loneliness significantly impacts mental health fostering a deep sense of despair. #narcissism #mentalhealth #suspiciousminds"
YouTube Link 2025-09-08T18:57Z 151K followers, [----] engagements
"How Logical Fallacies Work #fallacy #logicalfallacies #manipulation Short clip from the video 'How to Spot Logical Fallacies' outlinging the different types and how they exploit cognitive biases and emotional responses. Watch the full video here https://youtu.be/_pLU_Txx8Zo #coercivecontrol #mindcontrol #darkpersonality"
YouTube Link 2025-02-05T16:30Z 143K followers, [---] engagements
"Are You Being Blamed for Their Bad Behaviour This clip looks at how narcissists use manipulation to condition people not to challenge them to avoid taking responsibility. They can use a circular arguments to gaslight you and shift blame. #gaslighting #narcissism #mentalhealth"
YouTube Link 2025-07-28T17:30Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"Breaking Free From a Narcissist's Narrative of You Many people who have been in Narcissistic relationships and environments doubt themselves their choices and their abilities. In this livestream I'll be looking at ways to help break their 'programming' and move forward. Hope to see you then. #recoveryfromnarcissism #motivation #mentalhealth"
YouTube Link 2024-08-12T08:33Z 129K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Narcissists Attack what's Important to YOU Have you ever wondered why narcissists tend to zero in on what's most important to you and then attack it with spite and vengeance It's not just a coincidence - it's a deliberate tactic to assert their need for control and dominance over you. This video looks into the world of emotional abuse and explores how narcissists use vindictiveness shaming cruel humour gaslighting and fear to break down your boundaries and erode your sense of self-worth. #narcissism #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse"
YouTube Link 2025-05-28T19:57Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"The Secret Reason Narcissists Always Want More #narcissism Short clip looking at why narcissistic people constantly demand attention and validation. #mentalhealth #narcissistic #narcissisticpersonality"
YouTube Link 2025-05-16T23:00Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissist's Destabilising Tactics Short clip looking at how narcissistic people target your fear of public opinion make you fear for your reputation in order to coerce and control you. #narcissism #mentalhealth #coercivecontrol"
YouTube Link 2025-06-13T19:52Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"Signs and Characteristics of Communal Narcissists Communal narcissists are often outgoing just like grandiose narcissists. Both have similar traits and motives regarding entitlement and the need for admiration but employ different behaviours in order to achieve them. They typically seek out and like to have important or moral roles in society and they experience immense validation from feeling like they are the most virtuous dedicated hardest working people involved. This video looks at some of the common signs and traits of communal narcissism including altruism and virtue signalling and"
YouTube Link 2022-11-15T16:00Z 148K followers, 24.2K engagements
"The Power of Small Steps Sometimes we view necessary steps as obstacles. This video encourages viewers to focus on small manageable actions. Ask yourself what one small step could I do today for self development and self growth #mentalhealth #personaldevelopment #traumarecovery"
YouTube Link 2025-08-20T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissists Can't Let Go of Grudges Short clip looking at the vindictive and resentful nature of narcissists and how they can hold grudges for a long time. #narcissism #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse"
YouTube Link 2025-05-31T19:54Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"The Secret Side Of Bullies Exposed This short clip looks at how narcissistic people can use their anger rage and vitriol to abuse control and dominate others. #mentalhealth #narcissism #coercivecontrol"
YouTube Link 2025-09-03T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Some People Follow the Cult #cults #cultmembers #narcissisticcults Short clip from the video looking at vicarious narcissism #narcissism #narcissistic #ideology"
YouTube Link 2025-02-27T18:00Z 144K followers, [---] engagements
"Narcissistic Family and Social Dynamics #narcissism #cultdynamics #narcissistic Short clip looking at how narcissists exhibit a 'moral superiority' and engage in cult like behaviours with their friends family and in society at large. #narcissisticabuse #cultleader #narcissisticfamily"
YouTube Link 2025-05-08T17:30Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"The Real Reason You Over Explain After Narcissistic Abuse Have you ever wondered why survivors of narcissistic abuse sometimes tend to over explain themselves give way to much information Or even why they apologise when theyve nothing to apologise for Well these can be trauma responses due to the impact of prolonged emotional and psychological manipulation and abuse. Many who have been on the wrong end of a narcissist are left feeling dazed confused vulnerable and exposed. This video outlines how long term exposure to narcissistic abuse can lead to altered communication a desperate need for"
YouTube Link 2025-05-11T10:44Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"What Happens When You Try to Validate a Narcissist The video uses the Grand Canyon as an analogy to explain that a narcissist's need for validation is insatiable. No matter how much attention or approval you provide it will never fill their inner emptiness. This explanation is key to understanding narcissistic abuse. Watch the full livestream here https://youtube.com/live/yLhhsY69Rug #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #mentalhealth"
YouTube Link 2025-06-22T18:51Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"The Most Common Stalker: The Ex-Partner This clip explores the psychology behind stalking particularly focusing on ex- partner stalkers and their motivations in potentially toxic relationships. Watch the full video here: Stalkers: Personality Types and Motivations https://youtu.be/sXry2KtNQc0 #stalking #stalkers #onlinestalking"
YouTube Link 2025-07-27T17:30Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"Are You Being Blamed for Reacting to Abuse Are you blamed for reacting to emotional and psychological abuse You're not alone. It's a common yet insidious form of coercive control and gaslighting common in narcissistic relationships. Reactive abuse can have devastating and long-lasting effects on its victims often leaving them feeling powerless anxious and depressed. In this video I outline what reactive abuse is and look at the lasting impact on victims including the emotional and psychological toll it can take. From feelings of guilt and shame to difficulties in forming healthy relationships"
YouTube Link 2025-05-19T17:30Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"Narcissism: Paranoia vs Low Resolution Thinking Narcissistic people tend to be preoccupied with how others see them. They are very self focused and interpret situations and interactions as being about them even when they arent. They can be paranoid as they are always scanning for criticism betrayal or any undermining and this can lead to bizarre accusations non sensical reasoning and emotive arguments. Along with the paranoia we also see rigid and low resolution thinking. This refers to a simplified all or nothing cognitive style where they fail to see nuance context ot exceptions so they"
YouTube Link 2024-12-14T06:58Z 140K followers, [----] engagements
"A Therapist's Opinion on The Riddler Darren Magee looks at Paul Dano's portrayal of The Riddler in the [----] move 'The Batman' and discusses what could be behind the character from a therapist's perspective. If you find this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon or Substack https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee https://darrenfmagee.substack.com/ #theriddler #thebatman #darrenmagee"
YouTube Link 2022-03-30T17:15Z 152K followers, [----] engagements
"The Covert Narcissists Favorite Tactic #narcissistic #narcissism Are you constantly walking on eggshells around your partner Do they turn every solution into a problem twist your concerns into accusations or drain your energy with constant negativity In this video we break down one of the most destructive patterns in toxic and covert narcissistic relationships chronic criticism emotional sabotage and manipulation disguised as concern. RESOURCES & LINKS 📲 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/darrenfmagee 📘 LinkedIn:"
YouTube Link 2025-10-12T14:14Z 152K followers, [----] engagements
"Stuck In Life Ask Yourself these Questions Having trouble with something in your life This excerpt from the livestream 'From Victim to Victor: Shifting the Paradigm' introduces some simple solution focused questions that can help you become unstuck and approach problem solving more effectively. Also looking at the 'miracle question' from Solution Focused Brief Therapy to help explore and motivate positive change and growth. By asking yourself if you can change the situation and how to change it you can begin your self improvement journey. Watch the full livestream here:"
YouTube Link 2025-09-01T17:34Z 150K followers, [---] engagements
"Six ways to Manage Emotional Burnout Are you feeling drained exhausted and depleted Emotional burnout can be overwhelming but it can be managed even prevented. This video outlines six practical ways to manage emotional burnout and find inner peace. From prioritizing self-care and setting healthy boundaries to cultivating mental clarity and mindfulness looking at the strategies that will help you regain control of your emotional well-being. By implementing these simple yet powerful techniques you'll be able to reduce stress increase your energy levels and find a sense of calm and clarity in"
YouTube Link 2025-08-19T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements
"Rebuilding Self Trust and Confidence after Narcissistic Abuse It's common to experience self doubt when you've been in a difficult or abusive environment which can erode your self confidence. This clip from the livestream 'How Narcissistic Abuse Leaves You Feeling Destabilised' provides insights on self improvement especially regarding trusting your intuition and rebuilding your self worth. Learn how to cultivate a healthier mindset and address limiting beliefs to regain your confidence. Watch the full livestream here: https://youtube.com/live/FYfo_TlJe2E #recoveryfromnarcissisticabuse"
YouTube Link 2025-08-22T17:30Z 150K followers, [----] engagements
"Dominance and Aggression from a Male Psychopath This clip outlines how a male psychopath uses terror manipulation and social isolation as forms of coercive control in toxic relationships. #psychopath #mentalhealth #coercivecontrol"
YouTube Link 2025-09-04T17:30Z 152K followers, [----] engagements
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