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# ![@therealjayber Avatar](https://lunarcrush.com/gi/w:26/cr:twitter::67919842.png) @therealjayber Jay 💊

There are various discussions happening about relationships, marriage, and dating. Some individuals are sharing their thoughts on why men may or may not want to get married or settle down, with some suggesting it's due to a lack of "game" or a desire for control. Others are commenting on women's motivations for having children and the dynamics of relationships.

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### Social Influence

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[if you](/topic/if-you) 2.56%, [relationships](/topic/relationships) #1914, [matter](/topic/matter) #1535, [all the](/topic/all-the) 1.71%, [looking for](/topic/looking-for) #1090, [money](/topic/money) #2311, [unpopular opinion](/topic/unpopular-opinion) #63, [strong](/topic/strong) 0.85%, [dont get](/topic/dont-get) 0.85%, [mesa](/topic/mesa) XXXX%

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### Top Social Posts
Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours

"Panicking does NOT help ageing women get a life partner. I've never seen it work. The moment she panicks and goes into a strong agenda mode she emanates such a repulsive energy that it simply repels all the guys she meets. I know she can't help it but the moment men sense that she's in a rush they bail. It has never ever worked. I know you ladies think you're "locking in" when you do that agenda mode shit but you're only creating a lose-lose situation for yourself: X. You won't get a husband. X. You won't even have any fun or enjoyment out of the process. Congratulations you screwed yourself."  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1995894689619468676)  2025-12-02T16:35Z 16.9K followers, 9950 engagements


"@wannafigh Al-Andalus indeed. I think Spanish people are in denial that they're part Moor/Arab. They're mostly white yes but they have a tinge of brown in them. Must be the Moorish DNA in them XXX years of direct rule by the Moors there's bound to be some race-mixing"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998534620170592718)  2025-12-09T23:25Z 16.9K followers, 1535 engagements


"Don't discount age-gap relationships out of pride or even shame. Older guys date that sweet young thing if you want to. Younger guys date that childless hag if you want to"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1994548982031552669)  2025-11-28T23:28Z 16.9K followers, 8255 engagements


"I have quite a few customers who pay via PayPal. I'm wondering if I removed PayPal would those customers pay via credit card or would they just not buy 🤔 PayPal fees are higher than Stripe's by quite a bit"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1995604897581195701)  2025-12-01T21:24Z 16.9K followers, 2839 engagements


"This is why I say guys who say "don't confirm on the day itself" are idiots. You always confirm multiple times if necessary. And obviously don't do fucking dinner for a first date"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996128486088737115)  2025-12-03T08:04Z 16.9K followers, 26.1K engagements


"Women love yapping. Even if they're sexually attracted to you you'll need to almost always clock a certain number of minutes of yapping time first before she lets you hit. Women love yapping at men so much that after yapping for an hour straight they have the nerve to ask: "So what about you" She's not asking because she gives a damn about what you have to say oh no. She's only asking that because it got too awkward that she yapped for the whole damn hour while you simply nodded or went "mm hmm." I used to think women liked yapping at men because they're thirsty for male validation/attention"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996128861701165232)  2025-12-03T08:06Z 16.9K followers, 83.6K engagements


"Wives are just politically-correct and socially-acceptable prostitutes. So I don't get why guys are so prideful about hiring a hooker. .when in the same breath they say they're looking for a wife. Same shit different name no"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996339142146535667)  2025-12-03T22:01Z 16.9K followers, 7029 engagements


"@handsome_river Well the sex was not wild"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1997183464123387907)  2025-12-06T05:56Z 16.8K followers, XXX engagements


"Dating apps used to be fun places filled with girls who are down for a good time back in the 2010s. Nowadays they're just INFESTED by beta provider hunters and gold diggers. What changed 🤔"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1988517874097680799)  2025-11-12T08:03Z 16.9K followers, 64.1K engagements


"I've been to the following nude beaches in the US: * Gunnison Beach NJ * Haulover Beach FL * Black's Beach CA * San Onofre Beach CA * More Mesa Beach CA * Bates Beach CA * Pirate's Cove Beach CA * San Gregorio Beach CA * North Baker Beach CA Probably missing a few here and there lol. Not all permits fucking but I've fucked on all of them. Cue the bookmarks below. 🤣"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1993147881675800913)  2025-11-25T02:41Z 16.9K followers, 7578 engagements


"Seriously the lighter-skinned the girl the darker meat she craves. Can someone explain this to me 🤔"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1994523665082565060)  2025-11-28T21:47Z 16.9K followers, 100.7K engagements


"I legit did this for X years straight. It was probably the happiest time of my life no joke. 😂 After that I just got so sick of being broke that I just cut the hookups off cold turkey (also coincided with Covid lockdown) to work on my business. So glad I did that because I've been able to quit my job for 5+ years now. I may not be retired retired but the important thing is I feel retired: I can wake up anytime I want take days off anytime I want travel anytime I want shop on a Tuesday afternoon surf on a Wednesday evening etc. And very soon I'm leaving the US for good but I'm able to do so"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1994687617712226326)  2025-11-29T08:39Z 16.9K followers, 516.2K engagements


"Betas do relationships. Alphas do situationships. Learn the difference. 🧠"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1995625065891954797)  2025-12-01T22:44Z 16.9K followers, 34.6K engagements


"Women ALWAYS think they're hot shit after they lose some weight get a boob job get a promotion etc. The FIRST thing they do is divorce their current husband to monkey-branch upwards on the social ladder. No fucking loyalty whatsoever with this bunch. 👎"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996131910679146961)  2025-12-03T08:18Z 16.9K followers, 24.8K engagements


"Women put men into X categories: X. Provider/ATM X. Fuck-material X. Incel/Subhuman There's no in-between. Honestly if she sees you as X you might as well be X to her. At least you aren't being used. but maybe that's just me"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996715946044797255)  2025-12-04T22:59Z 16.9K followers, 42.3K engagements


"Adam recently shared his international dating experience in my private community. Duds: Potential: GREAT SUCCESS: LET'S FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOO. 🔥🔥🔥 (PS For those who aren't aware I was born and raised in Malaysia until I was 15.)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996747483452788811)  2025-12-05T01:04Z 16.9K followers, 5270 engagements


"I'd happily pay for a girl's Uber to come over to my house. But I'd rather die than to pay for a girl's dinner at a restaurant date. In both scenarios I'm paying. What's the difference Anyone knows 🙂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1997056766233006323)  2025-12-05T21:33Z 16.9K followers, 7048 engagements


"Iberia is the worst. Flight delayed for 3+ hours now. Not a good start"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1997916348295631065)  2025-12-08T06:29Z 16.9K followers, 2103 engagements


"Because women are insufferable especially without the possibility of sexual access. But men's platonic companionship actually holds value even without their sexual companionship"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998134566306099705)  2025-12-08T20:56Z 16.9K followers, 61.3K engagements


"Ladies why do you make the guy you see a future with wait while you let the guy you don't see a future with smash 🤔 It's ass-backwards"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998302348612174159)  2025-12-09T08:03Z 16.9K followers, 241.8K engagements


"Yes sir. I contemplated either an AirBnB or some kind of shared housing to start out. Didn't want to come back to an apartment alone every day so I decided to do this European thing called "coliving." Where it's month-to-month and you can extend at will if you want. I found this place on"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998563240427614212)  2025-12-10T01:19Z 16.9K followers, XXX engagements


"@SirKrispyiii Where are you thinking of moving to"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998572420987564246)  2025-12-10T01:56Z 16.9K followers, XXX engagements


"@82sherlock How the fuck do people live like this"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998806550748828110)  2025-12-10T17:26Z 16.9K followers, XX engagements


"You'll never be able to convince me that men want babies just as much as women do. The truth is women's bodies are DYING to bear babies. They just make it sound like a grand self-sacrificial gesture (that she's having "your" baby) to secure your money and resources"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998839527767675050)  2025-12-10T19:37Z 16.9K followers, 28.7K engagements


"OK I'm moving to a new city I've never been to before. I'm looking for short-term accommodation that's not a hotel or AirBnB while I figure out some stuff like: X. Submit my residency application X. Find long-term accommodation X. Take small day trips to explore the city/surrounding area I really want the social/community feel in my first few days there -- I don't want to be stuck alone in a hotel room in a foreign land during my first days. I've had great experiences with higher-end hostels in the past. Should I go for a hostel again (I'll be paying for a private room) or a more"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1995709206951801055)  2025-12-02T04:18Z 16.8K followers, 3956 engagements


"@NogitZuune Yup I noticed this too. Back then it was a given that every XXX who went out to "find themselves" in their 20s would get a soft landing with their very own beta bucks in their 30s. I think the beta bucks supply side is getting thin"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996322657642713365)  2025-12-03T20:56Z 16.8K followers, XXX engagements


"Smart men don't get married. But wait that's not exactly true either. It's more accurate to say: Smart men know they shouldn't get married. But only abundant men can successfully pull it off. It's not a matter of knowledge. It's a matter of having the leverage to do it. Without the leverage you can be freaking Einstein reincarnated and you'll still succumb to it due to your thirst and inexperience"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996779714120503317)  2025-12-05T03:12Z 16.9K followers, 5798 engagements


"I would be ashamed to be photographed like this with a woman who supposedly loves me where she had THAT kind of body language"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996706578918150519)  2025-12-04T22:22Z 16.9K followers, 44.7K engagements


"No she does not. I'm starting to think this guy is a fraud"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1982708228485226897)  2025-10-27T07:17Z 16.9K followers, 29.7K engagements


"@martyrdison You women are such fucking losers. You care more about APPEARING to have a man than to actually have a man you love/respect. It's all about optics with you shallow performative creatures"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1995997172622655612)  2025-12-02T23:23Z 16.9K followers, 7137 engagements


"You had your shot (2 actually) and you blew it. You have no one to blame but yourself"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996037942691926253)  2025-12-03T02:05Z 16.9K followers, 13.3K engagements


"Unpopular opinion: His wife and even kids are weighing him down"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996562106393747908)  2025-12-04T12:47Z 16.9K followers, 11.3K engagements


"@Ayannawilldo Did you say "hot dog water" Don't forget the chocolate starfish too"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996763740348518485)  2025-12-05T02:09Z 16.9K followers, XXX engagements


"Seriously. Fuck women"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996855800669868196)  2025-12-05T08:14Z 16.9K followers, 80.2K engagements


"@RSPY_critical "- forgot what sex is or goes elsewhere" Why the hell are women so asexual nowadays"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996865849823842808)  2025-12-05T08:54Z 16.9K followers, 3314 engagements


"@MyLatinLife That's what Trump did with his Gold Card"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1997790467141075372)  2025-12-07T22:08Z 16.9K followers, XXX engagements


"@grok @RSPY_critical @ACrollox89749 @wannafigh I thought Slavs and Balkans are different. When I think "Slav" I think Polish or Belarussian"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998915695653089725)  2025-12-11T00:40Z 16.9K followers, XX engagements


"This is what looksmaxxing as an edgy bad boy looks like. X. Wifebeater X. Arm and neck tattoos X. Some muscles X. Silver chain X. Earrings X. Colored contacts Nothing crazy nothing complicated nothing unattainable. And the girls go crazy for guys like this especially on the dating apps. 🙃 And this guy's Asian too so you ricecels who keep using race as an excuse = BTFO"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1984623841398898878)  2025-11-01T14:09Z 16.9K followers, 64.3K engagements


"99% of husbands' sex life: (after begging for X days straight) She goes "Okay FINE let's get it over with." (3 minutes in) She goes "Did you hear the baby Can you go check" (after X minutes of her starfishing) She goes "Are you done yet" Fucking kill me please. 😂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1987068325445443898)  2025-11-08T08:03Z 16.9K followers, 15.2M engagements


"Why's this pairing so common nowadays"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1989242655180788039)  2025-11-14T08:03Z 16.9K followers, 530.8K engagements


"NEVER be the guy at the end. How do you know if you're the guy at the end Simple: If you were never one of the guys at the start"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1993694965189550525)  2025-11-26T14:54Z 16.9K followers, 1.5M engagements


"Reminder that his girl was dressed like that because she just got off a shift working at a pizza joint to save money to attend vet school. In the age of OnlyFans and online grifting which she could have easily done a girl who's willing to put in some elbow grease and do physical labor is worthy of our respect"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1994679214071591332)  2025-11-29T08:05Z 16.9K followers, 2.8M engagements


"Traveling pro-tip: NEVER accept the conversion rate at foreign ATMs. Whether you're withdrawing Euros Pesos Japanese Yen Korean Won and what have you always DECLINE the ATM conversion rate and let your bank handle the conversions. Your bank's conversion rate will be way closer to mid-market rate instead of these foreign ATMs/banks that will add a fat margin for themselves on top of the prevailing exchange rate. This applies to cross-border online payments too. My lawyer was billing me for some ancillary services in Euro earlier today and it gave me the choice of "paying in USD" or "paying in"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1995970924542394700)  2025-12-02T21:38Z 16.9K followers, 24.9K engagements


"It pains me to say this but Myron is a trick. 🙁"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996131377360867389)  2025-12-03T08:16Z 16.9K followers, 43.8K engagements


"Imagine paying all the bills doing all the hard manual labor putting up with her bullshit handling everything in the household etc. .and STILL needing to game your wife and "earn" sex from her completely at her whim and at her sole discretion. 🤦 What's the point of marriage again"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996681771866612058)  2025-12-04T20:43Z 16.9K followers, 126.2K engagements


"Unpopular opinion: Most guys are actually more jealous than disgusted by a girl's high body count. Please stop coping about this"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1997434173188153573)  2025-12-06T22:33Z 16.9K followers, 28K engagements


"@corijdkd89670 ShortER poorER ugliER"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998109225751331113)  2025-12-08T19:15Z 16.9K followers, XXX engagements


"Why even bother flirting with women at this point They'll still revert to their NPC provider-hunting script at the end of the day. 🤦"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998243133302464946)  2025-12-09T04:07Z 16.9K followers, 26.3K engagements


"I recently caught up with an old FWB. She went to Korea X years ago to be an English teacher. Just for some context she's the nerdy quiet introvert kind who has social anxiety. Hardly used make-up or dressed up she was always dressed in her dorky "jeans and T-shirt" combo. So imagine my shock when she just casually drops the fact that she "did group sex a few times" in Korea. I think she has been itching to share it with someone non-judgmental. And I guess I was chosen as her sounding board for that yap session. So I asked "Group sex like how" She went "Oh I tried a gang bang with X guys. A"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998465372736073756)  2025-12-09T18:50Z 16.9K followers, 42.1K engagements


"Highest incentive to divorce highest divorce rate. The incentives don't lie. "Show me the incentives and I'll show you the result.""  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998926495423889661)  2025-12-11T01:23Z 16.9K followers, 3574 engagements


"3 Black Pills women refuse to swallow: X. You alone will never be enough to sexually satisfy your man no matter how young or hot you are. All men want sexual variety deep down ideally for the rest of his life. X. Your platonic companionship is worth nothing to a man; in fact it's often a form of suffering for the man. Men only put up with your platonic crap and pretend to enjoy conversations/activities with you for continued sexual access. X. Once you're past a certain age it really doesn't matter how hot or even submissive you are anymore -- your fertility youthful innocence and joie de"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1986454357915934802)  2025-11-06T15:23Z 16.9K followers, 2.4M engagements


""Why don't you move to Thailand/Colombia/Mexico" Because I know what the 3rd world is like. I'm from there remember. The whole "low cost of living" thing is cool until: * The buses don't run on time. * The trains break down. * The streets are full of trash and gunk. * The air is suffocating just to breathe in due to the smells and pollution. * You get diarrhea drinking the tap water. * The people are rude uncivilized fucks. * The government bureaucrats don't give a fuck about anything. * The cops are corrupt fucks who would sell you out to the highest bidder. * You can get mugged on the"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1993357618669314367)  2025-11-25T16:34Z 16.9K followers, 248K engagements


"You don't need to speak Tagalog to fully understand this man's frustration. 🤣"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1993485389890461728)  2025-11-26T01:02Z 16.9K followers, 3.4M engagements


"Honestly Latino male-white female is the RAREST couple combination in the US. Almost unicorn-like. 🦄 Even Asian male-black female is more common (live in California you'll see quite a bit of it)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996544062179221930)  2025-12-04T11:36Z 16.9K followers, 16.6K engagements


"Hoeflation so fucking bad these days that a literal BILLIONAIRE is flexing a girlfriend. Jesus Christ"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996564965982093352)  2025-12-04T12:59Z 16.9K followers, 106K engagements


"I've said this before and I'll say it again. Women only put out if they fear you'll leave (and thus they'll lose their source of provision). If they don't think that's a reasonable possibility they stop putting out"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1996870029573607515)  2025-12-05T09:11Z 16.9K followers, 20.2K engagements


"Dinner date is a scam. She already planned to give you the "no spark/chemistry" speech at the end no matter how good of a dancing monkey you are at dinner (that you're paying for imagine paying to audition). Dating is really a humiliation ritual"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1997427110944932019)  2025-12-06T22:05Z 16.9K followers, 775.9K engagements


"So STOP looking for a fucking wife. You fucking Blue Pilled losers masquerading as Red Pill. 🤦"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1997483174574903426)  2025-12-07T01:47Z 16.9K followers, 8159 engagements


"Marriage monogamy cohabitation and even raising children are forced upon us men. This is not our true nature. In fact it runs counter to our true nature it violates our masculine imperative it lowers our Testosterone by a lot and basically it emasculates us thoroughly. A man who does what's expected of him by society instead of what he's ordained by nature to do will always be a deeply-unhappy man. Because he's forced to pretend to be someone he's not and he has to work round the clock to constantly fight against his base desires and true nature. It's tiresome it wears down on his soul and it"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998140113134723514)  2025-12-08T21:18Z 16.9K followers, 29.5K engagements


"And there it is she sees her husband as a retirement plan. She doesn't like him. Probably why he still doesn't exist to this day"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998253495741481049)  2025-12-09T04:48Z 16.9K followers, 8737 engagements


"This is my home for the next X months. I'm not living alone I have X housemates who are all women. A German chick a French chick a Polish chick and a Spanish chick. I've been here a day (mostly nursing my jet lag) but I haven't been brave enough yet to go out and meet them yet even though I hear the noise/commotion outside in the common areas. 😭 Not only am I the only guy I'm the only non-European too. What did I get myself into 🥲 Should I just go out and introduce myself (and come across as a creepy greaseball) or should I just avoid them as much as possible (not shitting where I eat and"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1998529904611393622)  2025-12-09T23:07Z 16.9K followers, 27.8K engagements


"@ContrarianSaver Studies I've heard of that contradict this are those where educated women file for divorce more. But I guess there's a difference between educated and being employed full-time"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1999087564498874513)  2025-12-11T12:03Z 16.9K followers, XX engagements