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# ![@therealjayber Avatar](https://lunarcrush.com/gi/w:26/cr:twitter::67919842.png) @therealjayber Jay 💊

There are various discussions happening about relationships, marriage, and dating. Some individuals are sharing their thoughts on why men may or may not want to get married or settle down, with some suggesting it's due to a lack of "game" or a desire for control. Others are commenting on women's motivations for having children and the dynamics of relationships.

### Engagements: XXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::67919842/interactions)
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### Mentions: XX [#](/creator/twitter::67919842/posts_active)
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### Followers: XXXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::67919842/followers)
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### CreatorRank: XXXXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::67919842/influencer_rank)
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### Social Influence [#](/creator/twitter::67919842/influence)
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**Social category influence**
[countries](/list/countries)  XXXX% [celebrities](/list/celebrities)  XXXX% [finance](/list/finance)  XXXX% [stocks](/list/stocks)  XXXX%

**Social topic influence**
[brazil](/topic/brazil) #1337, [vietnam](/topic/vietnam) 0.25%, [fool](/topic/fool) 0.13%, [take the](/topic/take-the) 0.13%, [instead of](/topic/instead-of) 0.13%, [korea](/topic/korea) 0.13%, [san marino](/topic/san-marino) 0.13%, [looking for the](/topic/looking-for-the) 0.13%, [india](/topic/india) 0.13%, [nigeria](/topic/nigeria) XXXX%

**Top accounts mentioned or mentioned by**
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### Top Social Posts [#](/creator/twitter::67919842/posts)
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Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours

"Watch and learn gentlemen. THIS is the kind of girl you should be dating: * Mid/Plain Jane * Isn't fat/obese * Doesn't wear make-up * Dorky and goofy * Mostly unnoticeable to other men It's the same fucking box at the end of the day. Go for the one that's the least of a pain in the ass"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1967761553392013373) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-09-16T01:24Z 13.8K followers, 125.1K engagements


"LMAAAOOO. Does this fool think he can get under my skin I guarantee that I've fucked more white girls than this guy has ever shaken hands with. 😂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978442527507169548) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T12:47Z 13.8K followers, 21.7K engagements


""That's because you picked the wrong women." This is classic deflection. Whenever we men compare notes and talk about female nature the very first thing women and tradcons do is to let a small group of women take the heat so that the idea of female infallibility remains intact. They try to blame it on you for associating with the "wrong" women instead of admitting maybe women themselves as a whole is the problem. (Very similar line of argument with the pitbull nutters: "It's not the breed it's the owners.") This type of gaslighting might have worked in the past but in the age of social media"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1977465564298903812) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-12T20:05Z 13.9K followers, 5776 engagements


"@usg_ishimuraX Same with Korea too"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978301070615925215) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T03:25Z 13.9K followers, 1086 engagements


"@thepanta82 @husafell_stone Unless you're in the Vatican or San Marino"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978407095457161581) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T10:26Z 13.9K followers, XX engagements


"@SpectreDaygame These "top men" are getting smarter methinks. Elon never remarried same with Gates (though Bezos the bozo just had to ruin the hat-trick)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979435163043168412) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-18T06:31Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"@Jack___Insten For bedroom practice sure. For marriage and serious commitment hell no"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1973350572435841175) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-01T11:33Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"@Jack___Insten Just know that if there's X woman like that there are more out there. Don't give into oneitis"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1973618899456500010) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-02T05:19Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"The higher your body count the less you care about a girl's body count. Funny how that works. I hate to say it but the extent to which you care about a girl's body count reflects your own SMV. We experienced guys don't care about body count not because we're cucks who love sloppy seconds. It's because body count only matters if you're looking for "the one" a concept that we've long outgrown. Snap out of your Disney/Hallmark mindset. It's just incompatible with female nature"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1974265339115696456) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-04T00:08Z 13.8K followers, 4232 engagements


"This bitch is trying to sell this as a benefit of marriage like come on. 😂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1977476473637511475) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-12T20:48Z 13.8K followers, 3128 engagements


"How does marriage benefit a woman Women marry up economically XX% of the time (stat: only X% of alimony is paid from ex-wife to ex-husband). When they file for divorce which they do XX% of the time they're left economically better off than before they entered the marriage"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1977611576573309126) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-13T05:45Z 13.8K followers, 71.9K engagements


"His ex-wife was supposed to get 15M in the divorce but she only got 60k. All because he had the good sense to transfer all of his assets to his mother. Which while unlawful under the shitty US family laws is completely permissible under Moroccan Islamic law. 🔥 Islam 1-0 Christianity"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1977683458341371942) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-13T10:30Z 13.8K followers, 9139 engagements


""Always the brokest men worrying about losing their non-existent assets in divorce court." Women always say this to shame men into marrying them. Well I don't know about the brokest men. What I do know is if you're trying to marry me then I must definitely be richer than you. Women almost never marry down economically -- women aren't stupid. They're cold-blooded mercenaries. They're extremely clear-minded and realistic about marriage. (unlike men who are often too idealistic and romantic for their own good) So if you're trying to marry me that means you're the broke one not me. Relatively"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1977994161661018518) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-14T07:05Z 13.8K followers, 5979 engagements


"@WifiMoneyPlant For sure. I think if you haven't had the cops called on you before you haven't taken enough risks with your field game. Very few police reports result in an arrest let alone a charge or a conviction. It's a good skill to learn too -- making potential legal charges go away"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978236721570501106) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-14T23:09Z 13.8K followers, XX engagements


"@jiraifan "Yup I really don't care if you've kept your body in shape." Same that's irrelevant. We want actual youth not simulated youth"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978263646569415131) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T00:56Z 13.9K followers, XXX engagements


"@InsiderWire How do they determine this though Even people in India and Nigeria have VPNs. 🤔"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978358835656945880) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T07:14Z 13.8K followers, 3188 engagements


"At this point I've probably watched most if not all of these TV shows just from TikToks and Shorts: * Suits * House MD * Shameless * SWAT * The Rookie * Blue Bloods * Young Sheldon * Georgie & Mandy's First Marriage * How to Get Away with Murder * Grey's Anatomy * Chicago Med Don't know why these are the ones my algorithm recommended to me. 🤷♀"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979072585351729383) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-17T06:30Z 13.8K followers, 1379 engagements


""Ironically many so-called good girls and stay-at-home moms are the first to weaponize divorce alimony and take everything after." 🛎🛎🛎 Women lie women change and women have agency. All vetting pre-marriage tells you practically nothing about how she would behave post-marriage when she finally has power and leverage over you"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1975325357894213774) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-06T22:20Z 13.8K followers, 8594 engagements


"Nothing wrong with this .I'll just leave other men to do it. 🙃"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1976017987292594507) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-08T20:12Z 13.8K followers, 7209 engagements


"I just rewatched it. He put up with his crazy wife and didn't divorce her all these years "for the sake of the kids." And now to discover those kids he sacrificed and put up with so much nonsense for aren't even his. 😭 Fucking cruel fucking brutal. He wasted his whole damn life on some other men's sperm. And ironically he was a family court judge for decades. 🤦♂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1977810186510413900) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-13T18:54Z 13.8K followers, 11.8K engagements


"Man I'm jealous. 🥺"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1977900556447596825) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-14T00:53Z 13.8K followers, 41.1K engagements


"HOES GONNA HOE. 😂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978245089819275373) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-14T23:42Z 13.8K followers, 12.9K engagements


"I've always believed in negotiating finances upfront with a woman. Fuck the whole "men must provide" bullshit that women have been happily exploiting for so long now. She goes "Let's have dinner" I go "Cool who's paying" I don't give a fuck about looking cheap. I'm way more concerned about setting a bad precedent of BRIBING her for her company like mine is worthless and hers is worth everything. 👎"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978431037463257190) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T12:01Z 13.8K followers, 25.1K engagements


"Most guys just don't have what it takes to have casual sex/hookups. The same way not every guy is built to become a multimillionaire. And that's okay. It's not even a looks body height or even money thing. Either you have balls or you don't. What those guys are lacking is the "killer instinct." The innate urge to just go for the kill when they spot an opportunity. In my experience women reward courage more than anything else. Best of all Courage is free. All you have to do is stop being a wuss grow some balls and just do it"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978459596709822466) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T13:55Z 13.8K followers, 5830 engagements


"I wouldn't be creating content if I don't believe I'm bringing something new/fresh to the table. There are so many things that I say/talk about that I don't hear any other creator talking about. Sure there's the odd guy or X who share my exact sentiment on X (you know because game recognizes game). But not enough. I'm not here to repeat back standard cookie-cutter Red Pill bullshit just to validate your inner Blue Pill beliefs: * How to vet for marriage * How to find a loyal virgin * How to find out what a girl's body count is * How to set boundaries and mate-guard her * How to set up "date"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979082261724303576) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-17T07:09Z 13.8K followers, 2151 engagements


"@dagorenouf Al Pacino is good. Brad Pitt I really can't remember anything notable he's in. Except maybe Troy he was really good in that one"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979478696399712414) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-18T09:24Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"@The_Mad_Shangi Falling Down is GOATed"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979632459735269535) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-18T19:35Z 13.8K followers, XX engagements


"@Nilesthatcher To date I've never seen another MAGA hat in LA itself. Hope I'll be fine"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979672282961441227) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-18T22:13Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"The US passport really fell from its perch. Lost visa-free access to Brazil Vietnam Somalia Myanmar and Papua New Guinea recently. Holy shit. Mostly due to lack of reciprocity. Reciprocity is stupid though. Why should a "good" country have visa reciprocity with a shithole country 😂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979708899432464431) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-19T00:39Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"If the first time you've ever dated is in your mid-20s and up you're in trouble. Just for context: I had my first girlfriend at XX in 9th grade. By the time I was out of high school I've already outgrown monogamous relationships. I was already focused on hookups swinging (lol) and doing porn (lol) by my mid-20s. If women only started paying attention to you well into your 20s you don't stand a fucking chance. The sharks are circling and you're just defenseless prey. You can't help it but to do whatever she wants. Even if she gatekeeps all forms and manner of love intimacy and affection behind"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1975351714766274632) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-07T00:05Z 13.8K followers, 5214 engagements


"If you're a woman in your 30s/40s still posting thirst traps claiming that you "still got it" you're sorely missing the point. At that age it really isn't about how hot you are anymore. You're focusing on the hardware but your software is already corrupted beyond rescue. The sheer amount of emotional trauma and baggage you've accumulated over the years makes you a bitter and unpleasant shrew -- way too insufferable to be around. Plus there's no make-up Botox and Instagram filters for your eggs drying up is there Face facts: You had your shot and you blew it. Now fade away into obscurity and"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978251693499572575) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T00:08Z 13.8K followers, 11.2K engagements


"People think I'm lying when I say I have a high body count (250+). And people also think I'm lying when I say I never settle for anything less than my place for the first date. Here are the receipts. 👇 (You're welcome to reverse search these you won't find them anywhere.)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1871886522322141436) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2024-12-25T11:51Z 13.8K followers, 519.9K engagements


"@jimmybeansx @tiotheo01 Yeah Brazil and Vietnam are huge losses. Don't care about the rest"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979735013785743727) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-19T02:23Z 13.8K followers, XX engagements


"Men build. Women take over"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978269985681055781) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T01:21Z 13.8K followers, 12.4K engagements


"The concept of a "sexless marriage" blows my mind. When I was younger it was assumed that husband and wife did it all the time. That's what married people do. And even back then it sounded like a pretty bad deal. Fuck X woman for the rest of my life who just gets older and older That fucking sucks. Surely there's more to like than that Nowadays it's a no-brainer whatsoever. I marry you and you can just go on sex strike Yeah that's just fucking stupid. Especially when I can get sex outside of marriage or even relationships anytime. The correlation between marriage and sex has never been weaker"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979007765822738807) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-17T02:13Z 13.8K followers, 3638 engagements


"A sexless marriage is a giant scam. You can't have sex with anyone else. But your wife won't have sex with you either. You're just supposed to starve to death. Poor husband-materials. 😂"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1976292429809713590) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-09T14:23Z 13.8K followers, 53K engagements


"I love sluts. They're great company they push for commitment a lot less and they're so easy to convince to do degenerate stuff like swinging threesomes orgies public sex porn ENM fetish shit etc. I'm not some beta male who's vetting for marriage and thus needs a boring asexual frigid cunt with a low body count to soothe my own ego. 🤣 Sluts are awesome. ♥"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1976668491660009759) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-10T15:17Z 13.8K followers, 9302 engagements


"Use her and she'll love you. Love her and she'll use you. Few"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1976746893377200539) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-10T20:29Z 13.8K followers, 39.6K engagements


"My friend took X Pfizer Covid vaccine shots + X booster in 2021. She has been sick with Covid for X days now. You can't make this shit up. 🤦 Surely I'm not the only guy old enough to remember that vaccines are supposed to grant you IMMUNITY to a certain disease. Just like I'm old enough to remember that they/them used to be a plural pronoun ONLY for a group of people not individuals. The world that we grew up in is gone"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1976767065601327125) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-10T21:49Z 13.8K followers, 3086 engagements


"All women hit the wall. Whether it's in their late-20s early-30s or late-30s. If you're a woman: You better pray that when that happens you already have some poor naive beta provider locked down in legal marriage. If not life is going to be VERY unpleasant for you. to put it mildly. Mother Nature might have endowed you with all your value at an early age. But Father Time is cruel and will take it all away before you even know it"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978123300384768180) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-14T15:38Z 13.8K followers, 81.9K engagements


"The age of consent is much of the world is XX. Some have it as low as XX (Germany Austria China Portugal Italy etc.). These aren't shithole uncivilized countries that are exploitative of women and children. They're highly-developed democracies with strong protections for human rights and gender equality. (except China but you'd be surprised how egalitarian communist societies can be from a gender perspective) I'm no Amos Yee or Ian Watkins I'm not trying to die on any hill so please don't tag the FBI or anything. But are we absolutely SURE that we have ours at the right age which is XX 🤔"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978292317913219423) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-15T02:50Z 13.8K followers, 28.7K engagements


"@NextedThat78868 Yup I don't see the downside of this. Unfortunately you just have to get girls out of their own way. The fact that you successfully fucked them by putting your age at XX shows that it's not a looks thing. They just have a mental block about it"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1978947398136205712) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-16T22:13Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"@wannafigh @BehizyTweets Guys don't want to accept that they're most likely just raising the next generation of corporate tax slaves. Ain't no legacy or empire you're just producing more cattle like the meat industrial complex"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979101070426280103) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-17T08:23Z 13.8K followers, XX engagements


"Which actor has the best movie catalog I'm debating between Leonardo DiCaprio Tom Hanks and Tom Cruise. All X of them had absolute bangers"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979461363996201444) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-18T08:15Z 13.8K followers, 1736 engagements


"@SpectreDaygame Sadly I think you're right. Just seems to be a rule where the smarter/more accomplished the guy is the dumber he is with women. I just can't explain why. Just seems to be the rule"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979632278889476106) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-18T19:34Z 13.8K followers, XXX engagements


"Is @IncelsCo right about women and looks 🤔"  
[X Link](https://x.com/therealjayber/status/1979744790544859314) [@therealjayber](/creator/x/therealjayber) 2025-10-19T03:01Z 13.8K followers, 2189 engagements