[GUEST ACCESS MODE: Data is scrambled or limited to provide examples. Make requests using your API key to unlock full data. Check https://lunarcrush.ai/auth for authentication information.] #  @adele_bloch Adele Bloch Adele Bloch posts on X about events, yes to, friend, relationships the most. They currently have XXXXX followers and 1471 posts still getting attention that total XXXXXX engagements in the last XX hours. ### Engagements: XXXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::1265016744147447808/interactions)  - X Week XXXXXXX -XX% - X Month XXXXXXXXX +1,420% - X Months XXXXXXXXXX +2,574% - X Year XXXXXXXXXX +1,156% ### Mentions: XX [#](/creator/twitter::1265016744147447808/posts_active)  - X Week XX -XX% - X Month XXX +63% - X Months XXX +74% - X Year XXX +13% ### Followers: XXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::1265016744147447808/followers)  - X Week XXXXX +11% - X Month XXXXX +78% - X Months XXXXX +126% - X Year XXXXX +200% ### CreatorRank: XXXXXXX [#](/creator/twitter::1265016744147447808/influencer_rank)  ### Social Influence **Social category influence** [celebrities](/list/celebrities) #7255 [musicians](/list/musicians) #5219 [finance](/list/finance) [countries](/list/countries) **Social topic influence** [events](/topic/events) #1979, [yes to](/topic/yes-to) #58, [friend](/topic/friend) #295, [relationships](/topic/relationships) #1911, [food](/topic/food), [the first](/topic/the-first), [topics](/topic/topics) #1022, [boring](/topic/boring) #306, [convo](/topic/convo) #2, [just a](/topic/just-a) ### Top Social Posts Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours "my friend asked if i have any tips for showing up to a party alone (of course I do) this is an underrated skill - knowing how to show up confidently makes events way less stressful tips: please don't hide in the corner on your phone - it will signal 'don't talk to me' the first XX minutes are ALWAYS the most awkward - push through. people are trickling in not everyone knows each other the room isn't filled yet i've hosted 100s of events and even *I* find the first XX minutes to be awkward ookay lol. it doesn't mean the event is doomed; it's just a function of events as the group energy" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1993510017094365689) 2025-11-26T02:40Z 8155 followers, 1.3M engagements "making friends as an adult is: get off your couch say YES to things even if you're tired find communities & groups you want to be a part of show up consistently to them (don't flake) try to meet X new person every time follow-up quickly when you vibe with someone make concrete plans - not just "we should hang sometime" ask follow-up questions remember the details be vulnerable don't forget about your old friends too prioritize friendship like you would exercise - it requires effort & time go put yourself out there people are waiting to meet you you got it" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1997736734533259719) 2025-12-07T18:35Z 8153 followers, 71.5K engagements "friendship tips that actually work: you only get a 5-12 hours of real social time per week - protect them for people who energize you not drain you reach out within XX hours of meeting someone cool. the momentum dies FAST. text them before you overthink it create friendship rituals: monthly dinners weekly walks sunday calls. consistency builds depth be the person who initiates. most people are waiting for someone else to make plans - be that person when you vibe with someone new don't wait for them to reach out. YOU can text first YOU can suggest plans show up fully when you're together. put" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1997356865466835152) 2025-12-06T17:26Z 8153 followers, 216.2K engagements "how to make friends in a new city: say yes to everything for the first X months ask locals what they like to do in the area - you can follow their recs for inspiration try multiple communities & events to see what resonates - don't commit to just one try to meet one new person at every event you go to when you vibe with someone ask to hang. don't wait for them to initiate you can be direct & open - "I just moved here & want to meet more people want to grab coffee" be specific about meeting up *at a specific day/time* not just some distant point in the future don't take rejection personally -" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1999970215850074147) 2025-12-13T22:30Z 8155 followers, 112.9K engagements "how to be unapologetically expressive: don't dim your light to make others comfortable - that's just neglecting yourself people actually LOVE when you're genuinely excited. it's your GIFT & it's refreshing stop worrying about looking "too much" - you'll attract the right people and repel away the wrong ones by being authentically you tbh playing it cool is overrated and your people will never be able to find you that way our world is missing expressiveness; you bring the light that's been fading embrace your energy - it makes you unique and MEMORABLE surround yourself with people and spaces" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/2000089621527773277) 2025-12-14T06:25Z 8154 followers, 77.5K engagements "the night I met my boyfriend I literally couldnt sleep because I was smiling so hard from how much fun we had we met up again the next day for burritos even though Id had a tooth filling and half my face was numb from novocaine but we were excited to see each other again and both wanted burritos there was an ease about it all. a natural chemistry and comfort. thats what you want to look for and feel when youre dating. when its the right person you wont need a green flags list youll just feel at ease. youll feel it. the ease" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1992283446178185349) 2025-11-22T17:26Z 8153 followers, 2.1M engagements "how to have fun as an adult: say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned cap venting to XX% of total hang time; any longer and it's time to move on to more fun topics stop opting for boring hangs. switch things up with your friends. try something new stop making everything productive - not every hobby needs to "go somewhere" ok be X% more silly in your life. dance in your room sing badly in the car crack a bad joke. let's grow the silly muscle hang out with people who make you laugh not just people who "make sense" take a random class just for" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1997207883185115484) 2025-12-06T07:34Z 8155 followers, 1.5M engagements "how to beat social anxiety: stay at events 10-15 min longer than you want to - push through the initial discomfort pick one new social challenge per week that feels a little more daring than usual talk to a stranger in line do something alone reach out to an old friend strike up a convo at an event - start small it will be like growing a muscle so get your reps in remember people are WAY less focused on you than you think. they're in their own heads too train your brain to look for what went well - not just what you viewed as a 'mistake' have the audacity to believe that people ARE curious" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1997544793845666294) 2025-12-07T05:52Z 8153 followers, 361.2K engagements "how to life maxx more: get off your phone say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned talk to strangers - at coffee shops events literally anywhere. serendipity maxx make a bucket list and work your way through said bucket list stop opting for boring hangs. switch things up with your friends. try something new start a random hobby just for fun - pottery dance improv cooking. not everything needs to "be productive" ok be X% more silly in your life. dance in your room sing badly in the car crack a bad joke. it's not that serious. grow the silly" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1998149513933111763) 2025-12-08T21:55Z 8154 followers, 363.7K engagements "hot take: making friends requires the same intentionality we give to (early) dating we're in a loneliness crisis. we need to remember real friendship takes time and effort. in school it was built-in: shared routines daily run-ins automatic consistency. in adulthood: you must create it for yourself. put yourself out there. show up even when it's scary. smile at a stranger. ask to connect. ask genuine questions. be curious. put in effort. the results are worth it people" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1998944648824533149) 2025-12-11T02:35Z 8154 followers, 168.3K engagements "how to have fun as an adult: say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned do something JUST because it sounds fun challenge yourself to talk about topics beyond work & complaining (called out) always have something to look forward to on your calendar create lightweight ways to stay in touch with friends - send a voice memo random calls texts for a quick walk around town ask friends to bring a sleeping bag to your home and have a movie night on the floor dance when a good song comes on stay up late talking with a friend let yourself laugh until" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/2000272075122933899) 2025-12-14T18:30Z 8154 followers, 34.8K engagements "my favorite ways to talk to a stranger: - offer to take a photo for them in pretty places - ask what food they ordered - comment on how beautiful the weather is - give them a casual compliment - ask what they're reading - ask for directions - casual smile when you walk by either it leads to a longer convo or it's just a positive human interaction of the day serendipity maxxing" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1998278052229562375) 2025-12-09T06:26Z 8153 followers, 209.4K engagements "my favorite ways to talk to a stranger: - offer to take a photo for them in pretty places - ask what food they ordered - comment on how beautiful the weather is - give them a casual compliment - ask what they're reading - ask for directions - casual smile when you walk by either it leads to a longer convo or it's just a positive human interaction of the day serendipity maxxing" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1999008409983791571) 2025-12-11T06:48Z 8154 followers, 655.1K engagements "a dating manifesto for anyone who needs a lil reminder of their worth in relationships 🤍" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1801136379356958852) 2024-06-13T06:15Z 8148 followers, 268.4K engagements "my friend asked if i have any tips for when great friendships start drifting apart (of course I do) this is a hard part of adulting and most people struggle with it silently tips: you're not a bad person for outgrowing a friend there's this idea that you make a "set" of friends and keep them forever - but the reality is people change every few years. different life stages different priorities different cities. it's all normal you can think of friendships as having different frequencies - daily weekly monthly quarterly yearly. people drift between these naturally the friends who are meant to" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1996360290494255416) 2025-12-03T23:25Z 8075 followers, 27.9K engagements "my friend asked if i have any tips to stop overthinking every social interaction at a party (of course I do) this is an underrated skill - not letting rumination ruin a good night out tips: please don't spiral about that one thing you said for the next X days you're not weird for replaying conversations in your head - most people do it but people are WAY less focused on you than you think. they're probably at home overthinking their OWN interactions not judging yours most "awkward" moments you're obsessing over its very likely the other person already forgot about them if you said something" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1996788231938212259) 2025-12-05T03:46Z 8129 followers, 19.7K engagements "was shockingly surprised by a conversation today. i asked an acquaintance "how you been" and immediately he said "not great actually" it caught me off guard - i feel like we've all come to expect the textbook conversational flow "oh been well" he opened up to me about being recently diagnosed with celiac disease and how it's been hard on him we spent another XX minutes having a really genuine conversation about it asking questions sharing stories. what could have been a passive forgettable conversation turned into something genuine good reminder this only happened because he gave me a rare" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1997189593326899638) 2025-12-06T06:21Z 8130 followers, 12.2K engagements "how to bring back house parties: BE the change you wish to see people a good party has a balance of old friends + new faces make a list of everyone you'd love to know better - from neighbors to that person you always say "let's hang" to that's your invite list give people a plus-one option - it takes pressure off you AND them send a personalized message about why you'd love to see each person there - it will help increase RSVP rates you don't need a million friends a perfect place or an overly complicated plan keep it simple - snacks drinks music typically does the job. MAYBE an activity or a" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1997910018793095538) 2025-12-08T06:04Z 8141 followers, 11.3K engagements "a girl just complimented how high I jumped for a pull up bar at the gym and then it turned into a XX min convo about our passion projects and then we exchanged numbers and now I have a new friend" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1998594455973302441) 2025-12-10T03:23Z 8124 followers, 114.5K engagements "its cool to care. Care about your goals. Care about your relationships. Care about your passions. Care about making your dreams come to life. find things to care about. Caring is cool" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1998777225555083624) 2025-12-10T15:30Z 8076 followers, 3536 engagements "solving the loneliness crisis is: get off your phone challenge yourself to talk to strangers - at coffee shops events literally anywhere prioritize friendship like you do exercise - it requires maintenance and investment find communities & groups you want to be a part of when you vibe with someone ask to hang - don't wait for them to initiate host gatherings in your area (even just X people for dinner counts) heal your own relationship to rejection putting yourself out there authentic expression - anything that gets in the way of you putting yourself out there solving loneliness systemically" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1994988508965208418) 2025-11-30T04:35Z 8154 followers, 417.8K engagements "my friend asked if i have any tips for finding hobbies as an adult (of course I do) this is an underrated skill - finding hobbies that light you up makes life so much richer tips: you will *not* find hobbies sitting on your couch so make sure that you are trying new things a hobby can be anything hiking once a week painting on weekends tinkering with gadgets trying new restaurants. there's no one definition - it's just about trying new things that light you up it's NEVER too late to find your hobbies btw but you must be intentional about making time for it - just as you would exercise or" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1995351406480601218) 2025-12-01T04:37Z 8154 followers, 155.6K engagements "good end of year activity: brain dump every single open loop in your head (projects emails tasks) figure out which one of them you want to close out spend X hours doing what you need to do to close every loop you no longer want to pursue (I just did this) FEELS GOOD" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1998414836896505899) 2025-12-09T15:30Z 8154 followers, 88.6K engagements "how to build a social life from scratch: find communities that interest you show up consistently to them (don't flake) make an effort to put yourself out there - meet one new person each time ask if anyone wants to grab lunch/dinner literally right after the event follow-up quickly when you vibe with someone make concrete plans - not just "we should hang sometime" say yes to everything - you never know if your new best friend will be there ask follow-up questions remember the details be vulnerable prioritize building your social life like you would exercise don't be discouraged if the first" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/1998656679756304628) 2025-12-10T07:31Z 8154 followers, 91.5K engagements "it takes a lot of heart to be who you are" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/2000418750701658388) 2025-12-15T04:12Z 8154 followers, 14.9K engagements "deep connection is right in front of you but you keep missing your chance to lean in people drop hints about themselves ALL the time a comment as simple as "I went to Peru this year" - a GOLDMINE of interesting convo why Peru what drew you there what moment stands out what surprised you your chance to connect deeply is right there - you just keep walking right past it" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/2000590924557189529) 2025-12-15T15:37Z 8155 followers, 78.6K engagements "@esha_hq omg I love yours" [X Link](https://x.com/adele_bloch/status/2001055891878006958) 2025-12-16T22:24Z 8154 followers, XX engagements
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@adele_bloch Adele Bloch
Adele Bloch posts on X about events, yes to, friend, relationships the most. They currently have XXXXX followers and 1471 posts still getting attention that total XXXXXX engagements in the last XX hours.
Engagements: XXXXXX #
- X Week XXXXXXX -XX%
- X Month XXXXXXXXX +1,420%
- X Months XXXXXXXXXX +2,574%
- X Year XXXXXXXXXX +1,156%
Mentions: XX #
- X Week XX -XX%
- X Month XXX +63%
- X Months XXX +74%
- X Year XXX +13%
Followers: XXXXX #
- X Week XXXXX +11%
- X Month XXXXX +78%
- X Months XXXXX +126%
- X Year XXXXX +200%
CreatorRank: XXXXXXX #
Social Influence
Social category influence celebrities #7255 musicians #5219 finance countries
Social topic influence events #1979, yes to #58, friend #295, relationships #1911, food, the first, topics #1022, boring #306, convo #2, just a
Top Social Posts
Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours
"my friend asked if i have any tips for showing up to a party alone (of course I do) this is an underrated skill - knowing how to show up confidently makes events way less stressful tips: please don't hide in the corner on your phone - it will signal 'don't talk to me' the first XX minutes are ALWAYS the most awkward - push through. people are trickling in not everyone knows each other the room isn't filled yet i've hosted 100s of events and even I find the first XX minutes to be awkward ookay lol. it doesn't mean the event is doomed; it's just a function of events as the group energy"
X Link 2025-11-26T02:40Z 8155 followers, 1.3M engagements
"making friends as an adult is: get off your couch say YES to things even if you're tired find communities & groups you want to be a part of show up consistently to them (don't flake) try to meet X new person every time follow-up quickly when you vibe with someone make concrete plans - not just "we should hang sometime" ask follow-up questions remember the details be vulnerable don't forget about your old friends too prioritize friendship like you would exercise - it requires effort & time go put yourself out there people are waiting to meet you you got it"
X Link 2025-12-07T18:35Z 8153 followers, 71.5K engagements
"friendship tips that actually work: you only get a 5-12 hours of real social time per week - protect them for people who energize you not drain you reach out within XX hours of meeting someone cool. the momentum dies FAST. text them before you overthink it create friendship rituals: monthly dinners weekly walks sunday calls. consistency builds depth be the person who initiates. most people are waiting for someone else to make plans - be that person when you vibe with someone new don't wait for them to reach out. YOU can text first YOU can suggest plans show up fully when you're together. put"
X Link 2025-12-06T17:26Z 8153 followers, 216.2K engagements
"how to make friends in a new city: say yes to everything for the first X months ask locals what they like to do in the area - you can follow their recs for inspiration try multiple communities & events to see what resonates - don't commit to just one try to meet one new person at every event you go to when you vibe with someone ask to hang. don't wait for them to initiate you can be direct & open - "I just moved here & want to meet more people want to grab coffee" be specific about meeting up at a specific day/time not just some distant point in the future don't take rejection personally -"
X Link 2025-12-13T22:30Z 8155 followers, 112.9K engagements
"how to be unapologetically expressive: don't dim your light to make others comfortable - that's just neglecting yourself people actually LOVE when you're genuinely excited. it's your GIFT & it's refreshing stop worrying about looking "too much" - you'll attract the right people and repel away the wrong ones by being authentically you tbh playing it cool is overrated and your people will never be able to find you that way our world is missing expressiveness; you bring the light that's been fading embrace your energy - it makes you unique and MEMORABLE surround yourself with people and spaces"
X Link 2025-12-14T06:25Z 8154 followers, 77.5K engagements
"the night I met my boyfriend I literally couldnt sleep because I was smiling so hard from how much fun we had we met up again the next day for burritos even though Id had a tooth filling and half my face was numb from novocaine but we were excited to see each other again and both wanted burritos there was an ease about it all. a natural chemistry and comfort. thats what you want to look for and feel when youre dating. when its the right person you wont need a green flags list youll just feel at ease. youll feel it. the ease"
X Link 2025-11-22T17:26Z 8153 followers, 2.1M engagements
"how to have fun as an adult: say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned cap venting to XX% of total hang time; any longer and it's time to move on to more fun topics stop opting for boring hangs. switch things up with your friends. try something new stop making everything productive - not every hobby needs to "go somewhere" ok be X% more silly in your life. dance in your room sing badly in the car crack a bad joke. let's grow the silly muscle hang out with people who make you laugh not just people who "make sense" take a random class just for"
X Link 2025-12-06T07:34Z 8155 followers, 1.5M engagements
"how to beat social anxiety: stay at events 10-15 min longer than you want to - push through the initial discomfort pick one new social challenge per week that feels a little more daring than usual talk to a stranger in line do something alone reach out to an old friend strike up a convo at an event - start small it will be like growing a muscle so get your reps in remember people are WAY less focused on you than you think. they're in their own heads too train your brain to look for what went well - not just what you viewed as a 'mistake' have the audacity to believe that people ARE curious"
X Link 2025-12-07T05:52Z 8153 followers, 361.2K engagements
"how to life maxx more: get off your phone say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned talk to strangers - at coffee shops events literally anywhere. serendipity maxx make a bucket list and work your way through said bucket list stop opting for boring hangs. switch things up with your friends. try something new start a random hobby just for fun - pottery dance improv cooking. not everything needs to "be productive" ok be X% more silly in your life. dance in your room sing badly in the car crack a bad joke. it's not that serious. grow the silly"
X Link 2025-12-08T21:55Z 8154 followers, 363.7K engagements
"hot take: making friends requires the same intentionality we give to (early) dating we're in a loneliness crisis. we need to remember real friendship takes time and effort. in school it was built-in: shared routines daily run-ins automatic consistency. in adulthood: you must create it for yourself. put yourself out there. show up even when it's scary. smile at a stranger. ask to connect. ask genuine questions. be curious. put in effort. the results are worth it people"
X Link 2025-12-11T02:35Z 8154 followers, 168.3K engagements
"how to have fun as an adult: say yes to spontaneous plans even when you're tired - some of the best nights are unplanned do something JUST because it sounds fun challenge yourself to talk about topics beyond work & complaining (called out) always have something to look forward to on your calendar create lightweight ways to stay in touch with friends - send a voice memo random calls texts for a quick walk around town ask friends to bring a sleeping bag to your home and have a movie night on the floor dance when a good song comes on stay up late talking with a friend let yourself laugh until"
X Link 2025-12-14T18:30Z 8154 followers, 34.8K engagements
"my favorite ways to talk to a stranger: - offer to take a photo for them in pretty places - ask what food they ordered - comment on how beautiful the weather is - give them a casual compliment - ask what they're reading - ask for directions - casual smile when you walk by either it leads to a longer convo or it's just a positive human interaction of the day serendipity maxxing"
X Link 2025-12-09T06:26Z 8153 followers, 209.4K engagements
"my favorite ways to talk to a stranger: - offer to take a photo for them in pretty places - ask what food they ordered - comment on how beautiful the weather is - give them a casual compliment - ask what they're reading - ask for directions - casual smile when you walk by either it leads to a longer convo or it's just a positive human interaction of the day serendipity maxxing"
X Link 2025-12-11T06:48Z 8154 followers, 655.1K engagements
"a dating manifesto for anyone who needs a lil reminder of their worth in relationships 🤍"
X Link 2024-06-13T06:15Z 8148 followers, 268.4K engagements
"my friend asked if i have any tips for when great friendships start drifting apart (of course I do) this is a hard part of adulting and most people struggle with it silently tips: you're not a bad person for outgrowing a friend there's this idea that you make a "set" of friends and keep them forever - but the reality is people change every few years. different life stages different priorities different cities. it's all normal you can think of friendships as having different frequencies - daily weekly monthly quarterly yearly. people drift between these naturally the friends who are meant to"
X Link 2025-12-03T23:25Z 8075 followers, 27.9K engagements
"my friend asked if i have any tips to stop overthinking every social interaction at a party (of course I do) this is an underrated skill - not letting rumination ruin a good night out tips: please don't spiral about that one thing you said for the next X days you're not weird for replaying conversations in your head - most people do it but people are WAY less focused on you than you think. they're probably at home overthinking their OWN interactions not judging yours most "awkward" moments you're obsessing over its very likely the other person already forgot about them if you said something"
X Link 2025-12-05T03:46Z 8129 followers, 19.7K engagements
"was shockingly surprised by a conversation today. i asked an acquaintance "how you been" and immediately he said "not great actually" it caught me off guard - i feel like we've all come to expect the textbook conversational flow "oh been well" he opened up to me about being recently diagnosed with celiac disease and how it's been hard on him we spent another XX minutes having a really genuine conversation about it asking questions sharing stories. what could have been a passive forgettable conversation turned into something genuine good reminder this only happened because he gave me a rare"
X Link 2025-12-06T06:21Z 8130 followers, 12.2K engagements
"how to bring back house parties: BE the change you wish to see people a good party has a balance of old friends + new faces make a list of everyone you'd love to know better - from neighbors to that person you always say "let's hang" to that's your invite list give people a plus-one option - it takes pressure off you AND them send a personalized message about why you'd love to see each person there - it will help increase RSVP rates you don't need a million friends a perfect place or an overly complicated plan keep it simple - snacks drinks music typically does the job. MAYBE an activity or a"
X Link 2025-12-08T06:04Z 8141 followers, 11.3K engagements
"a girl just complimented how high I jumped for a pull up bar at the gym and then it turned into a XX min convo about our passion projects and then we exchanged numbers and now I have a new friend"
X Link 2025-12-10T03:23Z 8124 followers, 114.5K engagements
"its cool to care. Care about your goals. Care about your relationships. Care about your passions. Care about making your dreams come to life. find things to care about. Caring is cool"
X Link 2025-12-10T15:30Z 8076 followers, 3536 engagements
"solving the loneliness crisis is: get off your phone challenge yourself to talk to strangers - at coffee shops events literally anywhere prioritize friendship like you do exercise - it requires maintenance and investment find communities & groups you want to be a part of when you vibe with someone ask to hang - don't wait for them to initiate host gatherings in your area (even just X people for dinner counts) heal your own relationship to rejection putting yourself out there authentic expression - anything that gets in the way of you putting yourself out there solving loneliness systemically"
X Link 2025-11-30T04:35Z 8154 followers, 417.8K engagements
"my friend asked if i have any tips for finding hobbies as an adult (of course I do) this is an underrated skill - finding hobbies that light you up makes life so much richer tips: you will not find hobbies sitting on your couch so make sure that you are trying new things a hobby can be anything hiking once a week painting on weekends tinkering with gadgets trying new restaurants. there's no one definition - it's just about trying new things that light you up it's NEVER too late to find your hobbies btw but you must be intentional about making time for it - just as you would exercise or"
X Link 2025-12-01T04:37Z 8154 followers, 155.6K engagements
"good end of year activity: brain dump every single open loop in your head (projects emails tasks) figure out which one of them you want to close out spend X hours doing what you need to do to close every loop you no longer want to pursue (I just did this) FEELS GOOD"
X Link 2025-12-09T15:30Z 8154 followers, 88.6K engagements
"how to build a social life from scratch: find communities that interest you show up consistently to them (don't flake) make an effort to put yourself out there - meet one new person each time ask if anyone wants to grab lunch/dinner literally right after the event follow-up quickly when you vibe with someone make concrete plans - not just "we should hang sometime" say yes to everything - you never know if your new best friend will be there ask follow-up questions remember the details be vulnerable prioritize building your social life like you would exercise don't be discouraged if the first"
X Link 2025-12-10T07:31Z 8154 followers, 91.5K engagements
"it takes a lot of heart to be who you are"
X Link 2025-12-15T04:12Z 8154 followers, 14.9K engagements
"deep connection is right in front of you but you keep missing your chance to lean in people drop hints about themselves ALL the time a comment as simple as "I went to Peru this year" - a GOLDMINE of interesting convo why Peru what drew you there what moment stands out what surprised you your chance to connect deeply is right there - you just keep walking right past it"
X Link 2025-12-15T15:37Z 8155 followers, 78.6K engagements
"@esha_hq omg I love yours"
X Link 2025-12-16T22:24Z 8154 followers, XX engagements