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# ![@LizWolfeReason Avatar](https://lunarcrush.com/gi/w:26/cr:twitter::3380357519.png) @LizWolfeReason Liz Wolfe

Liz Wolfe is a libertarian journalist who has been involved in online discussions and has written about various topics, including personal finance and politics. Recently, there have been concerns expressed about her safety and well-being, with some people suggesting that she is being targeted by others. Wolfe has also been sharing personal updates, including the upcoming birth of her second son who has a disability.

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### Social Influence

**Social category influence**
[travel destinations](/list/travel-destinations)  8.04% [finance](/list/finance)  7.14% [countries](/list/countries)  3.57% [social networks](/list/social-networks)  1.79% [technology brands](/list/technology-brands)  1.79% [stocks](/list/stocks)  0.89% [celebrities](/list/celebrities)  0.89%

**Social topic influence**
[parenting](/topic/parenting) 7.14%, [new york city](/topic/new-york-city) 6.25%, [york city](/topic/york-city) 5.36%, [in the](/topic/in-the) 5.36%, [sol](/topic/sol) 4.46%, [new york](/topic/new-york) 4.46%, [baby](/topic/baby) 3.57%, [fine](/topic/fine) 2.68%, [strong](/topic/strong) 2.68%, [wise](/topic/wise) 2.68%

**Top accounts mentioned or mentioned by**
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### Top Social Posts
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"Not to start A Discourse but I was invited to a child-free wedding on the West Coast in January. It will be [--] wks after I have my baby. Does "child-free wedding" also include very young newborns Curious about thoughts. Newborns (to my mind) are basically nonexistent"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989417514322071582)  2025-11-14T19:37Z 42.7K followers, 13.4M engagements


"There's no problem with this (Though I would choose babywearing not bringing a clunky stroller in.) We can't just banish adults from society once they have kids and provided they use decent judgment--i.e. kids aren't causing absolute mayhem ruining the space for everyone else; kids aren't out at like midnight or routinely operating at massive sleep deficits--we should give much more social leeway & even encourage this. I'm not sure when extreme separation of kid and adult spaces started but it ends up being somewhat bad for both groups: Kids don't learn how to behave in adult spaces or how to"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2020137073596924316)  2026-02-07T14:06Z 42.7K followers, 94.1K engagements


"Example of society not built for mothers who take (daytime) care of their kids: Children's hospital tells me I cannot bring my (medically fragile) baby to my 3-year-old's cardiologist appointment nor can I bring my 3-year-old to my baby's ortho appointment there. So I need.a babysitter (3ish hour chunks) for both so [--] hours x $25/hr. $150 of care all for what reason exactly I can manage my kids at drs appointments And it is safer for my baby to stay with me vs. someone who doesn't know his medical specifics. My toddler went with me to every OB appointment when I was pregnant with his brother."  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2020139825471393841)  2026-02-07T14:17Z 42.7K followers, 54.9K engagements


"@code_mom_ I have been to multiple climbing gyms --in TX Costa Rica Guatemala -- that don't have these strict rules yet rely on discretion and somehow manage. This is my strong preference. (Been climbing for [--] years fwiw)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2020297451328905711)  2026-02-08T00:43Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements


"@Chesedgirl @avasofiamattox Yeah this is extremely normal -- even the "cramped bar" part -- in many countries. Have done this in Portugal Romania Norway. All indoor spaces are kinda cramped in NYC My older son used to sleep in a closet-nursery so he's not really bothered by small spaces"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2020489684497887508)  2026-02-08T13:27Z 42.7K followers, [--] engagements


"You're not really operating in good faith afaict. Sure some places are bad for children -- strip clubs and cigar bars ok. But my point is that we should have broader integration and a wider Overton window (the way many other countries do the way our country used to) for what types of spaces kids can be in. Places like NYC are uniquely bent on both avoiding liability and culturally segregating the two groups which creates a worse culture for parents kids *and* childless people"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2020491911585226855)  2026-02-08T13:36Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements


"@HormoneHangover yeah i think kids should be forced to walk as soon as their capable. strollers are really inconvenient and annoying. babywearing -- independent walking most places is the move if u can hack it"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2020594532639777178)  2026-02-08T20:24Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements


"Think of all the people we could evangelize if babies could be safely taken into "cramped" bars on a Friday night Caption says first time holding a baby and now she wants [--] https://t.co/QFA7LDBU1A Caption says first time holding a baby and now she wants [--] https://t.co/QFA7LDBU1A"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2020595522453774591)  2026-02-08T20:28Z 42.7K followers, 20K engagements


"Homeless on the streets of VEGAS"  
[X Link](https://reason.com/2025/11/20/tradwives-are-feminists-too/)  2025-11-17T19:31Z 42.7K followers, 57.6K engagements


"What are the left-coded dude hobbies and obsessions I can think of a million right-coded onesweed and DMT and UFC and weightlifting and comedy and nutrition and weird supplements and paranormal shitbut what are the equivalents on the left "Liberals need to build their own Joe Rogan" is something someone could only think if you've never listened to Rogan or ever met anyone who listens to Rogan. It betrays a fundamental misunderstanding of what Rogan is and why so many men listen to him. "Liberals need to build their own Joe Rogan" is something someone could only think if you've never listened"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1856154091820593484)  2024-11-12T01:56Z 42.7K followers, 4.3M engagements


"Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him off of breathing tubes--to nurse and play and snuggle--but now he's so sick we're not even able to hold him. We would love your prayers for wise King Solomon our sweet baby"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2007502836419195239)  2026-01-03T17:22Z 42.7K followers, 1.3M engagements


"lots of people fancy themselves an "intellectual" or a "creative" and can't come to terms w the reality that spending a life serving children + the family is in many cases the highest and best use of talents (though the work of the mother like ALL work involves some drudgery) What happens when a woman is intelligent enough to see the long-term value of being a SAHM but too intellectually restless to reduce that role to housework and washing the dishes alone What happens when a woman is intelligent enough to see the long-term value of being a SAHM but too intellectually restless to reduce that"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2021619519681335380)  2026-02-11T16:17Z 42.7K followers, 13.9K engagements


"I very controversially think the flourishing of children matters more than the flourishing of crackheads and fent zombies"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1983473947867070467)  2025-10-29T10:00Z 41.8K followers, 50.1K engagements


"Plenty of libertarians want police forces that enforce laws on the books and some semblance of public order; for our tax dollars to be used efficiently and appropriately; and for families to not feel compelled to leave the city in droves. @LizWolfeReason Wait I thought you worked for Reason @LizWolfeReason Wait I thought you worked for Reason"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1983633721124356476)  2025-10-29T20:35Z 41.8K followers, [----] engagements


"@OGTaylorB @KDimitratos "Giving up your own seat and having your kids see you choose that is better than appropriating theirs." okay sure except i'm [--] weeks pregnant and exhausted from carrying a toddler around new york city"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1983858458102239548)  2025-10-30T11:28Z 41.8K followers, [--] engagements


"@Spineofsnake1 yes i am saying specifically on the subway system a.k.a. new york city"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1983858708510577007)  2025-10-30T11:29Z 41.8K followers, [--] engagements


"It's not just that NYC rents are so high but also that you have to make such absurd compromises even at relatively high price points. Want a dishwasher w/d full-size appliances All at *once* With no side of lead or asbestos Who do you think you are a king This chart is one that I'm amazed doesn't get more play almost the only answer you need to the question of "how did Zohran get here." NYC hourly wages have gone from 35% more than the US average to 20% more in [--] years but NYC rents are 2x the average of the top [--] US cities. https://t.co/Aes26ju8Jq This chart is one that I'm amazed doesn't"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1984220226901381178)  2025-10-31T11:25Z 41.8K followers, [----] engagements


"Wait born in Houston but family lives in Dubai So she's fancy oil money yeah Zohran Mamdanis hidden wife - Rama Duwaji was born in Houston but has gone lengths to dissociate her American citizenship & instead highlight her foreign heritage. Being American stands for everything the Mamdanis and their support base are against. So instead she emphasizes https://t.co/XYp02dYZs7 Zohran Mamdanis hidden wife - Rama Duwaji was born in Houston but has gone lengths to dissociate her American citizenship & instead highlight her foreign heritage. Being American stands for everything the Mamdanis and"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1984310293640475002)  2025-10-31T17:23Z 42.7K followers, 79K engagements


"I too am from Damascus (if by Damascus we mean Houston)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1984310643248210280)  2025-10-31T17:24Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"VOTE ZOHRAN if he does sharia law and we're forced to pivot to burqa it gets me out of my third-trimester fashion quandaries i desperately need a W 🙏"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1985787758808277309)  2025-11-04T19:14Z 41.8K followers, [---] engagements


"Cuomo could've done the bare minimum of campaigning. He has no one to blame but himself. Supposedly an unprecedented [---] million turnout with 60% above [--] years old. I am going to be an optimist and say @andrewcuomo is going to get the win. If he fails to win its because @CurtisSliwa cares more about himself than NYC. Lets never forget that. If Andrew wins he Supposedly an unprecedented [---] million turnout with 60% above [--] years old. I am going to be an optimist and say @andrewcuomo is going to get the win. If he fails to win its because @CurtisSliwa cares more about himself than NYC. Lets"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1985866731923919340)  2025-11-05T00:28Z 41.9K followers, 42.1K engagements


"My problem is not w transplantsI am one of themit is w people who treat this city like a consumption good not a home the land of a thousand slop bowls & matcha lattes to spend a few good years in their twenties & vote for braindead policies that make my kids less safe. As a native New Yorker the hatred of transplants always confuses me. New York is nothing without those who want to be here. There's a Cuomo-supporting contingent who's hostile to them but NY literally dies without people who move to be here. As a native New Yorker the hatred of transplants always confuses me. New York is"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1985874031245930544)  2025-11-05T00:57Z 41.9K followers, 218.4K engagements


"The bushwick carharrtt depop rendition is no better than the equinox west village girl one but it's all the same tedious thing. It's fine to live in this city as a stopover on the way to your real life starting but fuck right off if you want to bring me down with you"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1985874885181145137)  2025-11-05T01:00Z 41.9K followers, 34.8K engagements


"I am here to try to raise good boys make bank eat some good food help my church community thrive liberate playgrounds give disabled + elderly seats on the subway go to every skate park in all five boroughs and surf our pathetic little waves. for some of us this is HOME"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1985876915979219286)  2025-11-05T01:08Z 41.9K followers, 168.7K engagements


"@rex_the_reptile @FeralPHunter Suburban commuters cannot vote in nyc mayoral elections"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1985907310846149053)  2025-11-05T03:09Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"@GayArmadaReal @5thAveSnoozer I am not freaking out about it; I'm saying it's not as viable a solution as people claim that many parents will find it unsuitable that you will run into real cost issues when attempting to fund it because childcare is inherently expensive"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1986087770457018384)  2025-11-05T15:06Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"I mean clearly to win the votes of [--] million NYers he broadened his appeal (and/or benefited from the shockingly unprecedentedly bad opponents). Doesn't change the cringe demographics of his canvassers + early supporters. Just checking in on this Just checking in on this"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1986091019943776405)  2025-11-05T15:19Z 41.9K followers, 12K engagements


"I care abt raising kids + advocating for more child-friendly/safer city; volunteering at my church; being good to my neighbors. None of that is like above and beyond--everyone should do that--but it's shocking how many people just totally opt out of community-building in nyc. what do you do that's so great for the city is your taste really so unimpeachable is one's lunch order the measure of character what do you do that's so great for the city is your taste really so unimpeachable is one's lunch order the measure of character"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1986976702111576223)  2025-11-08T01:58Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"Yes because in states w permissive abortion policies women abort the child with the birth defect vs. the child dying naturally after birth. This isn't some huge moral win. When WaPo scores states for child friendly policies Personal liberties/parental support is a weighted average of: Abortion access: [--] percent Sexual orientation/gender identity policies: [--] percent Family leave support: [--] percent https://t.co/3tOZdPVJQl When WaPo scores states for child friendly policies Personal liberties/parental support is a weighted average of: Abortion access: [--] percent Sexual orientation/gender"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1988231844517884260)  2025-11-11T13:06Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"What a beautiful way of expressing thatthe pairing of gratitude and regret. Sort of related: Many many people are like "I'm so grateful I had kids at 35/40/45" which yes good That is better than not having them at all What a wonderful thing. But there will come a time maybe when the kids are [--] and growing up slowly and the parent is [--] or [--] when they realize.they might not meet grandkids. It's possible that pressure implicit or explicit will make it so those kids have their kids younger but I doubt it. We will have a whole generation of people who don't have the experience of grandparents"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989135002525639083)  2025-11-14T00:55Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"I also imagine that leaves parents unmoored unable or unlikely to access the wisdom of older generations. It's hard to know what to fret over what to get over what to ignore in parenting if your own parents are no longer here on this Earth (or mentally with it) as you go through that transformative experience of having your first child. The more the generations space themselves out the more this phenomenon will alter our culture"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989136079123833217)  2025-11-14T00:59Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements


"This is a bad way of doing things. one of my coworkers lives in a rent controlled apartment in downtown Manhattan that costs $436 monthly and the combined income of her and her siblings who live there is $650k AND IT HAS IN UNIT WASHER DRYER one of my coworkers lives in a rent controlled apartment in downtown Manhattan that costs $436 monthly and the combined income of her and her siblings who live there is $650k AND IT HAS IN UNIT WASHER DRYER"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989313252057104861)  2025-11-14T12:43Z 42K followers, 39.9K engagements


"@bendreyfuss They do so much of this genre of dunking and it's like.wait so you value jobs now and what people can fetch on the market People's worth is correlated to what they do for a living A lot of them are honestly too stupid to even realize the tension"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989314375388102793)  2025-11-14T12:48Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"Crazy that you can't just bring kids into saunas in New York City it's very good for your health and totally unreasonable that you can't simply steam the children the way they do in Finland"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989335089353040337)  2025-11-14T14:10Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"@gonna2849 I mean I would ask. But I don't understand what the problem would be w a newborn; it's higher cost to leave them (i.e. breastfeeding issues) and lower disruption to have them"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989420040966599124)  2025-11-14T19:47Z 42K followers, [---] engagements


"My assumption would be that weeksold newborns can pretty much *always* stay with the motherand thus not really count as kidsbut.maybe that's different than other people's assumptions"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989420575824253230)  2025-11-14T19:50Z 42K followers, 960.8K engagements


"Having thought about this further I think child-free weddings are only permissible if they're not *also* destination weddings. Fine to arrange childcare in your own city; miserable to do it on another coast"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989422990149525777)  2025-11-14T19:59Z 42K followers, 614.7K engagements


"@cynthiamcgillis Well husband is in the wedding and I truly love San Diego (hi) and really want to escape New York winter (but was planning on making my ticket + kids' tickets refundable in case say I need a surprise C section or recovery is harder than first time around)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989430079181787466)  2025-11-14T20:27Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"Now I have a complex: If they make an exception for my tiny baby does this mean I should try to basically hide him to the greatest degree possible Like only nurse him in the bathroom or whatever"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989435040389087398)  2025-11-14T20:47Z 42K followers, 459.6K engagements


"@grizzlybizzly I am not disputing that my toddler is not invited. That is fine I am interrogating the idea that mother and weeksold child can be seamlessly separated and wondering if newborns were considered when policy was made"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989439454818570672)  2025-11-14T21:05Z 41.9K followers, 62.1K engagements


"@Punished3ntropy I love the couple love the city (San Diego) and my husband is in the wedding. We are happy to attend but I am just trying to understand what the thinking is surrounding newborns"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989443967788937434)  2025-11-14T21:22Z 41.9K followers, 20.2K engagements


"@jenjenjennnnn so respectfully this is not really what i'm looking for advice on"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989459985789862099)  2025-11-14T22:26Z 41.9K followers, 143.6K engagements


"@alt1na1 @InezFeltscher @webdevMason @nwilliams030 @IvanaDGreco i am worried you are going to physically chain me [--] my bed instead of letting me surf"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989460118371770847)  2025-11-14T22:27Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"@frogaustin @JValentineDE It is possible but is kind of contrary to all their other behavior and vibes (the groom has literally babysat our son impromptu so that my husband & I could surf together.really sweet people and I just think they would have communicated it directly if so but who knows)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989470173347426688)  2025-11-14T23:07Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements


"@nwilliams030 @alt1na1 @InezFeltscher @webdevMason @IvanaDGreco I mean subject to change depending on L&D specifics and timing right I'm dumb but I ain't stupid Hopefully will deliver [--] weeks early then can be cleared to surf pray for this optimal outcome thank you girls"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989476217364373832)  2025-11-14T23:31Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements


"@jt_kerwin I don't feel comfortable leaving a 3-week-old (plus a 3-year-old) with a babysitter I don't know; also babies that young need to nurse frequently (for my own comfort as well as for their nutrition)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989493380607574174)  2025-11-15T00:39Z 42K followers, 14.9K engagements


"@maude_zilla @EllaMennopy The onus is on you to be reasonable and polite. It's my Twitter it's my question it's my child it's my risk tolerance and it's my body (that has done this before so I have a bit of a sense for how I might specifically handle this experience)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989522129566544013)  2025-11-15T02:33Z 41.9K followers, 31.5K engagements


"Respectfully though I understand people have lots of thoughts about germ exposure and newborns I live in New York City and this is not my first child. We do not live in a bubble for the first few weeks or months and there is no way realistically for us to do so (nor do we want to). I'd ask you to please not sound off about that thing (which I did not ask about) and instead sound off about the other thing (which I did ask about)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989525579750646050)  2025-11-15T02:47Z 41.9K followers, 498.8K engagements


"@zemthings As clarified elsewhere children are somewhat oddly invited to the ceremony but not the reception"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989591187766862117)  2025-11-15T07:07Z 42K followers, 135.5K engagements


"@XOMeetMichelle @HMartok Or: I value these people highly for reasons you might not realize and have a different risk tolerance re germs than you do. My newborns already get exposed to germs from the subway which we take daily and siblings so there's not a "live in a bubble" option"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989671920648773654)  2025-11-15T12:28Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements


"@pschofie79 Well I'm sure this very opinionated rando would have a problem w many things I do while pregnant (surfing skating) and after the babies are here. The great news is that they're not the parent and I'm immune to mom-shaming attempts"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989672666484093043)  2025-11-15T12:31Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"@JoshBobrowsky I am of course going to do that but I was curious about people's intuitions re etiquette. Like half the people assume one thing and like half the people assume the opposite which is itself interesting to me"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989689019920204231)  2025-11-15T13:36Z 42K followers, 201.8K engagements


"@megha_lilly Unfortunately I am not going to spend [--] weeks family-isolating; that does not work when you have a) other children b) live in New York City or c) attend church regularly/have volunteering commitments. Every family gets to decide their own risk tolerance"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1989698443963458040)  2025-11-15T14:14Z 42K followers, 153K engagements


"This is a ridiculous take that explains why many first-time moms become shut-ins who later bemoan that there's no community. Most people who have more than [--] kid recognize that the family cannot become hermetically sealed off from the world even for a few weeks or months. Girl [--] weeks is too young to be outside Girl [--] weeks is too young to be outside"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990118646736179650)  2025-11-16T18:03Z 42K followers, 116.8K engagements


"I took my first to church when he was [--] days old and we were on a plane when he was [--] months old. I understand it's a time-honored tradition to yell at mothers for making the calls they deem acceptable so we can feel high and mighty but the mom-shaming doesn't work on me. @LizWolfeReason @megha_lilly Its so weird that all your responses are like well thats not what I want to do and are very self centered. Think about your baby maam. Im sure they dont want to be on a plane at [--] weeks old nor at a wedding party . Just stay home or get a sitter. Silly question @LizWolfeReason @megha_lilly Its so"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990383187281740022)  2025-11-17T11:35Z 42K followers, 45.2K engagements


"Some of you also might not know that in [----] the FDA approved an RSV vax for pregnant mothers that confers some protection on infants in utero and during their early days. We've made significant advances on the disease front even in the last few years"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990383921562017920)  2025-11-17T11:38Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"Again I understand that doing this is very fun but might I suggest that if we want more people to have kids and more people to *enjoy it* we allow a little more cultural space for people to make different parenting calls without being dragged for it https://x.com/lancethepants23/status/1990256884566425999 @LizWolfeReason @peterdutton Oh so you're just like a bad parent huh https://x.com/lancethepants23/status/1990256884566425999 @LizWolfeReason @peterdutton Oh so you're just like a bad parent huh"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990384882632085736)  2025-11-17T11:41Z 41.9K followers, 16.8K engagements


"My experience of parenting is I think happier than most primarily because we make really deliberate decisions to incorporate kids into adult life to the greatest degree possible. That means eating at restaurants even nice ones. That means traveling. That means living in a big city (even though plenty of costs and risks are imposed by that one choice alone). That means children being taken to my work eventsas newborns when they can just be smuggled into bars and parties and as toddlers when childcare can be arranged for some stuff but they can be taken along to evening events (some of you met"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990386453898002901)  2025-11-17T11:48Z 41.9K followers, 485.8K engagements


"@prettydamnhuge @KristinChirico My husband is in the wedding party"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990392379501592912)  2025-11-17T12:11Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"My husband is in the wedding party so yeah maybe they hate my guts but I think there's a level of closeness (and a logistical challenge presented because he is the father) that you might not be grasping. And children are invited to the ceremony oddly but not the reception. I do feel for this person because I know how isolated mothers feel but in this situation: they are inviting you to be polite they expect you to decline 💖 I do feel for this person because I know how isolated mothers feel but in this situation: they are inviting you to be polite they expect you to decline 💖"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990392633932288199)  2025-11-17T12:12Z 41.9K followers, 82.5K engagements


"Staying home isn't some restful time where I'll be waited on hand and foot. There will be a toddler to contend with The many people calling me a bad mother on this website should recognize that life is just a series of tradeoffs (parenting especially)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990394032221036988)  2025-11-17T12:18Z 41.9K followers, 14K engagements


"Modern parenting @LizWolfeReason Love that when a meth head threatens you & your kids on the subway thats just the reasonable cost of living in a Society but trying to be involved in an important life event for close friends is Unacceptable Risk. @LizWolfeReason Love that when a meth head threatens you & your kids on the subway thats just the reasonable cost of living in a Society but trying to be involved in an important life event for close friends is Unacceptable Risk"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990449456790331430)  2025-11-17T15:58Z 42K followers, 19.9K engagements


"@melodyxvii @peterdutton I actually didn't ask for people's advice about my baby's immune system or my body's postpartum recovery or what I might be up for; I asked for advice about etiquette and what a couple intends when they say "child-free.""  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990462154701729853)  2025-11-17T16:48Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"@peterdutton Every wedding we've been invited to up until now has thankfully welcomed kids. Our son has been all over for weddings (including recently a great one in Guatemala)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990462496201977929)  2025-11-17T16:50Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"I'm done with this; that's enough RTing and piling on (esp from the she/they and childless contingent) thank you. My experience of parenting has thus far been great because I have a different risk tolerance than modern parenting culture allows for: https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990386453898002901 My experience of parenting is I think happier than most primarily because we make really deliberate decisions to incorporate kids into adult life to the greatest degree possible. That means eating at restaurants even nice ones. That means traveling. That means living in a big"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990502268568023275)  2025-11-17T19:28Z 41.9K followers, 442.7K engagements


"Most people just don't understand this. Rent-control/rent-stabilization aren't some universal good: They're handouts to some New Yorkersnot even those who particularly need itat the expense of all the rest"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990522165691888000)  2025-11-17T20:47Z 42K followers, 17.4K engagements


"I think we lean into Delay Mindsetdelay marriage delay childrenat our own peril; there will be a whole set of second-order impacts real costs that we failed to anticipate when women in "greedy careers" start having kids at [--] instead of 30"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990742095213084981)  2025-11-18T11:21Z 41.9K followers, 31.8K engagements


"You people are seriously cruel. This is not my first child. An RSV vaccine now exists for pregnant women which makes the early newborn period substantially safer. Antibodies are passed via breastfeeding to newborns. There's no such thing as perfectly safe safety/risk are spectrums that every mom must navigate on her own using her own judgment. I personally wouldn't take my newborn child in a lot of cars but the rest of you sure are doing a lot of thata profoundly dangerous activity that we get to avoid here in NYC. The biggest risk to a newborn's immune system is probably having older"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990786725216448578)  2025-11-18T14:18Z 42K followers, 89.3K engagements


"You realize there are actual bad parents out there right Parents who neglect and ignore and abuse their kids; parents who shove screens in front of them all day long; parents who fail to vet childcare providers and schools and babysitters; parents who do drugs and smoke cigarettes at home with their kids there; parents whose paranoias or emotional dysregulation prevent their kids from developing properly. I understand that it is more fun to pretend that I am the worst mom of all timefor asking an etiquette question that's designed to parse whether I can be permitted to spend *more* time with"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990789496447631722)  2025-11-18T14:29Z 42K followers, 11.8K engagements


"@bigbluetractor This reply doesn't make sense to the tweet it is affixed to which is about actual bad parents"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990791763687322109)  2025-11-18T14:38Z 42K followers, [---] engagements


"inject the Freddie de Boer safetyism piece straight into my veins"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990814332158877783)  2025-11-18T16:08Z 42K followers, 18K engagements


"@RuxandraTeslo I strongly believe that intelligent high-performing agentic people like youthe demo most likely to freeze eggsmanage to grow up when asked to do so by an immovable responsibility like bringing a child into this world. I believe in you 100%"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990827158621552696)  2025-11-18T16:59Z 42K followers, 27.7K engagements


"Yeah because i'm notoriously afraid of kids falling https://x.com/kimtfiu/status/1990860767088779582 He's hardcore https://t.co/PTQFR37rZs https://x.com/kimtfiu/status/1990860767088779582 He's hardcore https://t.co/PTQFR37rZs"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990861603613429943)  2025-11-18T19:16Z 42K followers, 22.9K engagements


"Oh nooo what if kids fall How will they handle it"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990862649819648195)  2025-11-18T19:20Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"@Nyct0phil3_x @berrysweetmum Newborns in slings who can be breastfed on command are pretty easy as long as you pay attention to their hunger cues. Materially different than a 3-year-old. Which was my original point that people felt inclined to flip out about"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990865807476240848)  2025-11-18T19:32Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"True but this discourse is annoying because yeah sure but also there comes a time when you both legitimately desire to get back into the world & also legitimately physically can in a healthy way. Think of for example the many women who don't wait [--] wks to have sex again The key to postpartum recovery is to feel like you could do more then ***force yourself not to*** The key to postpartum recovery is to feel like you could do more then ***force yourself not to***"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1991513336245285172)  2025-11-20T14:25Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"What an ugly sentiment. The Mom Wars will continue because people can't just be okay with women making their own decisions based on their values. Meanwhile there are legitimately neglectful actively bad parents out there but it's the happy Osterpilled thoughtful moms trying to actively reject a culture of excessive anxiety & safetyism who get raked thru the coals for no reason at all. Ridiculous i want a lot of you to admit that you did not have adequate maternity leave childcare support or a co-parent available so you had to take the baby everywhere. i want a lot of you to admit that you did"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1991549013758210270)  2025-11-20T16:47Z 41.9K followers, 21.3K engagements


"@InezFeltscher Also what did they think marriage was exactly"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1995838702053196171)  2025-12-02T12:53Z 41.9K followers, 54.9K engagements


"My parents had me super duper young and my in-laws had my husband super duper old. I feel like I get to glimpse both sides of it and having kids young is my strong preference (in part because my FIL isn't around anymore and won't know his grandkids and dealing w his decline when we had a newborn baby was hard; elder care w young kids is not something I'd wish on anyone). There are real biological reasons why having kids younger makes more senseto a point though because financial stability also matters in this equation. (But people overindex a bit on that one nowadays.) Pro-natalists would be"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1995886708894650709)  2025-12-02T16:04Z 41.9K followers, 95.1K engagements


"Behind the scenes with Reason's libertarian journalists https://x.com/i/broadcasts/1OwGWeEObZnxQ https://x.com/i/broadcasts/1OwGWeEObZnxQ"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1995931243456983074)  2025-12-02T19:01Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"Counterpoint: yesterday was a normal Monday. I picked my son up from his best friend's apartment by foot (15ish min walk from ours) we stopped to grab a few groceries on the way home rode subway two stops home (got the conductor to wave back at us). [--] weeks pregnant & probably got 2-3 miles of walking in. Living in a big city w young kids involves a lot of inconvenience & it's not for everyone but I love that the subway system has taught him his letters; that the bodega man gives him pieces of free fruit; that we walk to our friends' houses; that he knows how to cross streets safely already"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1998366321755541592)  2025-12-09T12:17Z 42.7K followers, 36.6K engagements


"@bobreynolds64 I think we mean different things"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1998394916167164151)  2025-12-09T14:10Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements


"Look I'm not saying childcare is *affordable* hereit's very expensivebut it is weird how few people challenge the premise: that the federal standard for affordability is off and spending just [--] percent of your income is totally untethered from what market asks"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2001269165663887577)  2025-12-17T12:32Z 42.7K followers, 17.2K engagements


"Nannies here make like $25-35 an hour; daycare workers a bit less (more like what $17-$24ish). That money comes from somewhere. If the federal standard for affordability (7 percent of to use their example a $334K income) were met that would mean paying a FT childcare worker just $23K annually so rather low wages. $11-$12 an hour Do parents actually want this to be what childcare workers make Does this actually seem like fair compensation or like it will attract high-quality workers https://twitter.com/i/web/status/2001270680239702183 https://twitter.com/i/web/status/2001270680239702183"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2001270680239702183)  2025-12-17T12:38Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Buttake it from a NYC mom who has started work at [--] a.m. every weekday for the past three years to work a staggered shift where husband does a.m. childcare while I write a newsletter that publishes at [--] a.m. who has brought a kid along to numerous work events and tripsthere really are more options out there for many people in many industries that allow mothers to spend time actively taking care of their children without fully exiting the workforce. Remote work though not available to everyone has been a gift to working mothers"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2001272584860553522)  2025-12-17T12:45Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"You are also simply not *locked in* to needing a high family income to survive in New York City. Again I walked the walk: Outer boroughs commute absolutely sucks but that is one way to survive on a single income. Tradeoffs don't always feel great but some people would be well-served by being more honest about which tradeoffs they're making (or choosing not to make)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2001273070317686888)  2025-12-17T12:47Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements


"Crazy that in [----] you could just let a St. Bernard watch your three children w literally no consequences"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2001668533059531146)  2025-12-18T14:59Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"Actually men need to have kids just so they'll be too busy to publish cringe LinkedIn-style posts Every man has two wolves within him: the urge to provide/teach/protect and the urge to LINKEDIN-STYLE POAST. If you're focused on the former you can't hurt us w the latter Not having kids is a life hack. I spend my summers in Europe take cross-country road trips and disappear off-grid on weekends. The money Id spend on kids goes to investing experiences and freedom. Different priorities. Different definition of rich. Not having kids is a life hack. I spend my summers in Europe take cross-country"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2002018378186199420)  2025-12-19T14:09Z 42K followers, 10.2K engagements


"@LeahLibresco @WordOnFire @HaleyCarrots I gave Zev this in his stocking Christmas gift twins :)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2005432432368226640)  2025-12-29T00:15Z 42K followers, [---] engagements


"Solomon Peter (to be called Sol) joined us on Friday. He has the disability he was diagnosed with in utero as expected but he's also having respiratory issues despite being full term and has decided to avail himself of the NICU for a while. He's feisty with strong opinions and a head full of hair so we get along well already. I wish I had photos of his handsome face all on its own but we'll make do with this one for now snapped between breathing tube changes. I wouldn't wish having a baby in the NICU on my worst enemy (especially when dealing with awful c-section pain). What a strange"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2005621545163542679)  2025-12-29T12:46Z 42.7K followers, 286.4K engagements


"@IvanaDGreco Thank you Honestly Zev has been the most upset about Sol being in the NICU -- no toddlers allowed so he hasn't gotten to hold his brother yet. Can't wait for their official meeting; going to feel so good to have brothers all in one place"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2005624792674902308)  2025-12-29T12:59Z 42K followers, [----] engagements


"He's had a good day and a half But like with many NICU journeys it's frequently two steps forward one step back. Please keep your prayers coming. My husband and I are so touched by the outpouring of love. Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him off of breathing tubes--to nurse and play and snuggle--but now he's so sick we're not even able to hold him. We would love your prayers for wise King Solomon our sweet baby. https://t.co/9fmHdRsLf6 Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2008257622290608573)  2026-01-05T19:21Z 42.7K followers, 144K engagements


"@shagbark_hick "I don't generally play with my kid but rather incorporate them into whatever else I'm doing having them work/mess around/play alongside me" -- the historical attitude -- is rather different than "my blood boils if I have to spend more than [--] min with my child" imo"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2008603421352620251)  2026-01-06T18:15Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"@shagbark_hick I'm sorry but my second son is in the NICU right now. I would give anything to be able to hold him. I have a high tolerance for parenting heterodoxy but very low tolerance for parents who have little gratitude and don't delight in their kids"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2008603756389429334)  2026-01-06T18:17Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"CTown Gristedes and Key Foodsour independent grocery storesare some of the worst I've ever been to and kind of expensive. New York City has an amazing concentration of independent grocery stores but the way that Amazon (Whole Foods) and Walmart use their power to block them out by getting unfair deals from big suppliers is making it almost impossible to survive. Tell your reps to support New York City has an amazing concentration of independent grocery stores but the way that Amazon (Whole Foods) and Walmart use their power to block them out by getting unfair deals from big suppliers is"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2008631117931286944)  2026-01-06T20:05Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Grateful for all the kindness we've experienced at the hospital. God truly works through peoplethe doctors nurses physical therapists random folks we meet in the waiting room other NICU parents. Even the sweet janitors who give little nuggets of daily encouragement. Blessed"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2008918795918663705)  2026-01-07T15:08Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Betty Friedan's message just won't die: Women today still believe that childcare and homemaking is stultifying worklow drudgery that ought to be outsourcedand that taking an active role in raising your children is necessarily accompanied by never-to-be-recovered-from intellectual debasement. This couldn't be more wrong and it's a bad message to feed young women. The tradeoffs are realtime is scarce; the work of taking care of babies + young children is often somewhat rote and can feel at times formulaicbut integration of work + family life is the path forward not compartmentalization. (I"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2009310658626564434)  2026-01-08T17:06Z 42.7K followers, 34.4K engagements


"@elonmusk From a @reason interview Fucking insane Cea Weaver logic"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2009733401998200856)  2026-01-09T21:05Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"I think a ton of this is just very case-by-case and therefore the hivemind isn't very useful. I just had a c-section and let me tell you I was able to walk a mile in Central Park [--] days after. I wouldn't extrapolate from that; I think my body just handled it shockingly well. My favorite are the [--] year old girls who have had one singular baby & claim you can bounce back a month after pregnancy just by breastfeeding eating healthy and exercising Yes that stuff will help you bounce back and everyone should do those things regardless but My favorite are the [--] year old girls who have had one"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2010708214803730743)  2026-01-12T13:39Z 42.7K followers, 21.3K engagements


"@NotebookRosary My pregnancies are horrible and my deliveries fraught w bad luck so it feels like a small blessing that my recoveries are okay. (I'm sure I'm jinxing it by saying so.)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2010766520683471338)  2026-01-12T17:31Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements


"NYT implying that Scott Adams was overly paranoid about reputational damage but also putting a line about his "racist comments" in the first sentence of his literal obituary. Wild stuff. Do they see the tension"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2011154591782682781)  2026-01-13T19:13Z 42.7K followers, 19.3K engagements


"@Aella_Girl Yes absolutely. It also warps the parent's heart to be locked into conflict for hours or days on end with a child. Why subject yourself to this and to having this type of relationship with someone you hold dear"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2011164876589384097)  2026-01-13T19:54Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Today marks [--] weeks in the NICU. He's stable but the doctors don't seem to be much closer to figuring out how to treat him and get him home. Having a new baby is supposed to feel like a little piece of heaven on Earth; this is hell. Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him off of breathing tubes--to nurse and play and snuggle--but now he's so sick we're not even able to hold him. We would love your prayers for wise King Solomon our sweet baby. https://t.co/9fmHdRsLf6 Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2012212696943415474)  2026-01-16T17:17Z 42.7K followers, 146.1K engagements


"I am so grateful to spend every day in the NICU with him and for his doctors and nurses. But this really sucks on so many levels. Your prayers are still so appreciated"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2012216780064747523)  2026-01-16T17:34Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"@LeahLibresco Able to hold him. Holding him right now But his breathing isn't improving in any significant way"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2012227932022788344)  2026-01-16T18:18Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Everything I see about parenting or pregnancy on Xso half of my feedmakes me so sad and jealous like I would do anything to just have normal problems. But then again: It could always be worse. Our baby is alive and stable. We have extraordinary medical care. This will pass"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2012270687168139452)  2026-01-16T21:08Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"It's cowardice right Not in every case--there are some cases where they never found the right person to raise children with or some cases where real medical complexity makes it impossible--but in the majority of "we want to travel/go to fancy restaurants/binge that new show" cases. But it's not socially acceptable to say you're a coward afraid of the vulnerability and hard work required to be a parent"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/2014432845507526841)  2026-01-22T20:19Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Watchdog report contradicts DHS claims about Alex Prettis death A CBP watchdog report challenges DHS statements about Alex Prettis behavior before officers fatally shot him"  
[X Link](https://reason.com/2026/01/28/watchdog-contradicts-dhs-story/)  2026-01-28T18:34Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Trump removes ICE official Greg Bovino in Minnesota after public backlash After the killing of Alex Pretti Trump sidelined Greg Bovino the public face of ICE raids in Minnesota and sent Tom Homan to take over"  
[X Link](https://reason.com/2026/01/27/bovino-put-out-to-pasture/)  2026-01-27T14:30Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Killing of Alex Pretti by immigration agents in Minneapolis sparks outcry Plus: Kristi Noem's transformation of DHS Stanley Kubrick's Gigolo Joe and more"  
[X Link](https://reason.com/2026/01/26/the-second-shooting/)  2026-01-27T14:00Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements


"Is Gerwig's "Little Women" actually good Please advise. The trailer looked fairly meh and I think Christian Bale is sorta crucial and impossible to improve upon (I don't know who this Timotheeee Chalamet person is)"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1216757503800811528)  2020-01-13T16:22Z 42.7K followers, [--] engagements


"So excited that @laurenkrisai's study on FL drug trafficking/sentencing came out (I even helped w a bit of research when I was her intern) https://x.com/JmsMadisonInst/status/843824799713558529 JMI study just released "Smart Sentencing: Safety Valve for Florida's Drug Trafficking Offenses" by @laurenkrisai https://t.co/A2bXgS4zD3 https://t.co/v0ZWRCXrpb https://x.com/JmsMadisonInst/status/843824799713558529 JMI study just released "Smart Sentencing: Safety Valve for Florida's Drug Trafficking Offenses" by @laurenkrisai https://t.co/A2bXgS4zD3 https://t.co/v0ZWRCXrpb"  
[X Link](https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/844224641405206528)  2017-03-21T16:30Z 42.7K followers, [--] engagements

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Liz Wolfe is a libertarian journalist who has been involved in online discussions and has written about various topics, including personal finance and politics. Recently, there have been concerns expressed about her safety and well-being, with some people suggesting that she is being targeted by others. Wolfe has also been sharing personal updates, including the upcoming birth of her second son who has a disability.

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Social topic influence parenting 7.14%, new york city 6.25%, york city 5.36%, in the 5.36%, sol 4.46%, new york 4.46%, baby 3.57%, fine 2.68%, strong 2.68%, wise 2.68%

Top accounts mentioned or mentioned by @inezfeltscher @ivanadgreco @peterdutton @chesedgirl @avasofiamattox @hormonehangover @alt1na1 @webdevmason @nwilliams030 @meghalilly @nyct0phil3x @leahlibresco @shagbarkhick @code_mom_ @codemom @ogtaylorb @kdimitratos @spineofsnake1 @andrewcuomo @curtissliwa

Top Social Posts

Top posts by engagements in the last [--] hours

"Not to start A Discourse but I was invited to a child-free wedding on the West Coast in January. It will be [--] wks after I have my baby. Does "child-free wedding" also include very young newborns Curious about thoughts. Newborns (to my mind) are basically nonexistent"
X Link 2025-11-14T19:37Z 42.7K followers, 13.4M engagements

"There's no problem with this (Though I would choose babywearing not bringing a clunky stroller in.) We can't just banish adults from society once they have kids and provided they use decent judgment--i.e. kids aren't causing absolute mayhem ruining the space for everyone else; kids aren't out at like midnight or routinely operating at massive sleep deficits--we should give much more social leeway & even encourage this. I'm not sure when extreme separation of kid and adult spaces started but it ends up being somewhat bad for both groups: Kids don't learn how to behave in adult spaces or how to"
X Link 2026-02-07T14:06Z 42.7K followers, 94.1K engagements

"Example of society not built for mothers who take (daytime) care of their kids: Children's hospital tells me I cannot bring my (medically fragile) baby to my 3-year-old's cardiologist appointment nor can I bring my 3-year-old to my baby's ortho appointment there. So I need.a babysitter (3ish hour chunks) for both so [--] hours x $25/hr. $150 of care all for what reason exactly I can manage my kids at drs appointments And it is safer for my baby to stay with me vs. someone who doesn't know his medical specifics. My toddler went with me to every OB appointment when I was pregnant with his brother."
X Link 2026-02-07T14:17Z 42.7K followers, 54.9K engagements

"@code_mom_ I have been to multiple climbing gyms --in TX Costa Rica Guatemala -- that don't have these strict rules yet rely on discretion and somehow manage. This is my strong preference. (Been climbing for [--] years fwiw)"
X Link 2026-02-08T00:43Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements

"@Chesedgirl @avasofiamattox Yeah this is extremely normal -- even the "cramped bar" part -- in many countries. Have done this in Portugal Romania Norway. All indoor spaces are kinda cramped in NYC My older son used to sleep in a closet-nursery so he's not really bothered by small spaces"
X Link 2026-02-08T13:27Z 42.7K followers, [--] engagements

"You're not really operating in good faith afaict. Sure some places are bad for children -- strip clubs and cigar bars ok. But my point is that we should have broader integration and a wider Overton window (the way many other countries do the way our country used to) for what types of spaces kids can be in. Places like NYC are uniquely bent on both avoiding liability and culturally segregating the two groups which creates a worse culture for parents kids and childless people"
X Link 2026-02-08T13:36Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements

"@HormoneHangover yeah i think kids should be forced to walk as soon as their capable. strollers are really inconvenient and annoying. babywearing -- independent walking most places is the move if u can hack it"
X Link 2026-02-08T20:24Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements

"Think of all the people we could evangelize if babies could be safely taken into "cramped" bars on a Friday night Caption says first time holding a baby and now she wants [--] https://t.co/QFA7LDBU1A Caption says first time holding a baby and now she wants [--] https://t.co/QFA7LDBU1A"
X Link 2026-02-08T20:28Z 42.7K followers, 20K engagements

"Homeless on the streets of VEGAS"
X Link 2025-11-17T19:31Z 42.7K followers, 57.6K engagements

"What are the left-coded dude hobbies and obsessions I can think of a million right-coded onesweed and DMT and UFC and weightlifting and comedy and nutrition and weird supplements and paranormal shitbut what are the equivalents on the left "Liberals need to build their own Joe Rogan" is something someone could only think if you've never listened to Rogan or ever met anyone who listens to Rogan. It betrays a fundamental misunderstanding of what Rogan is and why so many men listen to him. "Liberals need to build their own Joe Rogan" is something someone could only think if you've never listened"
X Link 2024-11-12T01:56Z 42.7K followers, 4.3M engagements

"Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him off of breathing tubes--to nurse and play and snuggle--but now he's so sick we're not even able to hold him. We would love your prayers for wise King Solomon our sweet baby"
X Link 2026-01-03T17:22Z 42.7K followers, 1.3M engagements

"lots of people fancy themselves an "intellectual" or a "creative" and can't come to terms w the reality that spending a life serving children + the family is in many cases the highest and best use of talents (though the work of the mother like ALL work involves some drudgery) What happens when a woman is intelligent enough to see the long-term value of being a SAHM but too intellectually restless to reduce that role to housework and washing the dishes alone What happens when a woman is intelligent enough to see the long-term value of being a SAHM but too intellectually restless to reduce that"
X Link 2026-02-11T16:17Z 42.7K followers, 13.9K engagements

"I very controversially think the flourishing of children matters more than the flourishing of crackheads and fent zombies"
X Link 2025-10-29T10:00Z 41.8K followers, 50.1K engagements

"Plenty of libertarians want police forces that enforce laws on the books and some semblance of public order; for our tax dollars to be used efficiently and appropriately; and for families to not feel compelled to leave the city in droves. @LizWolfeReason Wait I thought you worked for Reason @LizWolfeReason Wait I thought you worked for Reason"
X Link 2025-10-29T20:35Z 41.8K followers, [----] engagements

"@OGTaylorB @KDimitratos "Giving up your own seat and having your kids see you choose that is better than appropriating theirs." okay sure except i'm [--] weeks pregnant and exhausted from carrying a toddler around new york city"
X Link 2025-10-30T11:28Z 41.8K followers, [--] engagements

"@Spineofsnake1 yes i am saying specifically on the subway system a.k.a. new york city"
X Link 2025-10-30T11:29Z 41.8K followers, [--] engagements

"It's not just that NYC rents are so high but also that you have to make such absurd compromises even at relatively high price points. Want a dishwasher w/d full-size appliances All at once With no side of lead or asbestos Who do you think you are a king This chart is one that I'm amazed doesn't get more play almost the only answer you need to the question of "how did Zohran get here." NYC hourly wages have gone from 35% more than the US average to 20% more in [--] years but NYC rents are 2x the average of the top [--] US cities. https://t.co/Aes26ju8Jq This chart is one that I'm amazed doesn't"
X Link 2025-10-31T11:25Z 41.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Wait born in Houston but family lives in Dubai So she's fancy oil money yeah Zohran Mamdanis hidden wife - Rama Duwaji was born in Houston but has gone lengths to dissociate her American citizenship & instead highlight her foreign heritage. Being American stands for everything the Mamdanis and their support base are against. So instead she emphasizes https://t.co/XYp02dYZs7 Zohran Mamdanis hidden wife - Rama Duwaji was born in Houston but has gone lengths to dissociate her American citizenship & instead highlight her foreign heritage. Being American stands for everything the Mamdanis and"
X Link 2025-10-31T17:23Z 42.7K followers, 79K engagements

"I too am from Damascus (if by Damascus we mean Houston)"
X Link 2025-10-31T17:24Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"VOTE ZOHRAN if he does sharia law and we're forced to pivot to burqa it gets me out of my third-trimester fashion quandaries i desperately need a W 🙏"
X Link 2025-11-04T19:14Z 41.8K followers, [---] engagements

"Cuomo could've done the bare minimum of campaigning. He has no one to blame but himself. Supposedly an unprecedented [---] million turnout with 60% above [--] years old. I am going to be an optimist and say @andrewcuomo is going to get the win. If he fails to win its because @CurtisSliwa cares more about himself than NYC. Lets never forget that. If Andrew wins he Supposedly an unprecedented [---] million turnout with 60% above [--] years old. I am going to be an optimist and say @andrewcuomo is going to get the win. If he fails to win its because @CurtisSliwa cares more about himself than NYC. Lets"
X Link 2025-11-05T00:28Z 41.9K followers, 42.1K engagements

"My problem is not w transplantsI am one of themit is w people who treat this city like a consumption good not a home the land of a thousand slop bowls & matcha lattes to spend a few good years in their twenties & vote for braindead policies that make my kids less safe. As a native New Yorker the hatred of transplants always confuses me. New York is nothing without those who want to be here. There's a Cuomo-supporting contingent who's hostile to them but NY literally dies without people who move to be here. As a native New Yorker the hatred of transplants always confuses me. New York is"
X Link 2025-11-05T00:57Z 41.9K followers, 218.4K engagements

"The bushwick carharrtt depop rendition is no better than the equinox west village girl one but it's all the same tedious thing. It's fine to live in this city as a stopover on the way to your real life starting but fuck right off if you want to bring me down with you"
X Link 2025-11-05T01:00Z 41.9K followers, 34.8K engagements

"I am here to try to raise good boys make bank eat some good food help my church community thrive liberate playgrounds give disabled + elderly seats on the subway go to every skate park in all five boroughs and surf our pathetic little waves. for some of us this is HOME"
X Link 2025-11-05T01:08Z 41.9K followers, 168.7K engagements

"@rex_the_reptile @FeralPHunter Suburban commuters cannot vote in nyc mayoral elections"
X Link 2025-11-05T03:09Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"@GayArmadaReal @5thAveSnoozer I am not freaking out about it; I'm saying it's not as viable a solution as people claim that many parents will find it unsuitable that you will run into real cost issues when attempting to fund it because childcare is inherently expensive"
X Link 2025-11-05T15:06Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"I mean clearly to win the votes of [--] million NYers he broadened his appeal (and/or benefited from the shockingly unprecedentedly bad opponents). Doesn't change the cringe demographics of his canvassers + early supporters. Just checking in on this Just checking in on this"
X Link 2025-11-05T15:19Z 41.9K followers, 12K engagements

"I care abt raising kids + advocating for more child-friendly/safer city; volunteering at my church; being good to my neighbors. None of that is like above and beyond--everyone should do that--but it's shocking how many people just totally opt out of community-building in nyc. what do you do that's so great for the city is your taste really so unimpeachable is one's lunch order the measure of character what do you do that's so great for the city is your taste really so unimpeachable is one's lunch order the measure of character"
X Link 2025-11-08T01:58Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"Yes because in states w permissive abortion policies women abort the child with the birth defect vs. the child dying naturally after birth. This isn't some huge moral win. When WaPo scores states for child friendly policies Personal liberties/parental support is a weighted average of: Abortion access: [--] percent Sexual orientation/gender identity policies: [--] percent Family leave support: [--] percent https://t.co/3tOZdPVJQl When WaPo scores states for child friendly policies Personal liberties/parental support is a weighted average of: Abortion access: [--] percent Sexual orientation/gender"
X Link 2025-11-11T13:06Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"What a beautiful way of expressing thatthe pairing of gratitude and regret. Sort of related: Many many people are like "I'm so grateful I had kids at 35/40/45" which yes good That is better than not having them at all What a wonderful thing. But there will come a time maybe when the kids are [--] and growing up slowly and the parent is [--] or [--] when they realize.they might not meet grandkids. It's possible that pressure implicit or explicit will make it so those kids have their kids younger but I doubt it. We will have a whole generation of people who don't have the experience of grandparents"
X Link 2025-11-14T00:55Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"I also imagine that leaves parents unmoored unable or unlikely to access the wisdom of older generations. It's hard to know what to fret over what to get over what to ignore in parenting if your own parents are no longer here on this Earth (or mentally with it) as you go through that transformative experience of having your first child. The more the generations space themselves out the more this phenomenon will alter our culture"
X Link 2025-11-14T00:59Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements

"This is a bad way of doing things. one of my coworkers lives in a rent controlled apartment in downtown Manhattan that costs $436 monthly and the combined income of her and her siblings who live there is $650k AND IT HAS IN UNIT WASHER DRYER one of my coworkers lives in a rent controlled apartment in downtown Manhattan that costs $436 monthly and the combined income of her and her siblings who live there is $650k AND IT HAS IN UNIT WASHER DRYER"
X Link 2025-11-14T12:43Z 42K followers, 39.9K engagements

"@bendreyfuss They do so much of this genre of dunking and it's like.wait so you value jobs now and what people can fetch on the market People's worth is correlated to what they do for a living A lot of them are honestly too stupid to even realize the tension"
X Link 2025-11-14T12:48Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"Crazy that you can't just bring kids into saunas in New York City it's very good for your health and totally unreasonable that you can't simply steam the children the way they do in Finland"
X Link 2025-11-14T14:10Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"@gonna2849 I mean I would ask. But I don't understand what the problem would be w a newborn; it's higher cost to leave them (i.e. breastfeeding issues) and lower disruption to have them"
X Link 2025-11-14T19:47Z 42K followers, [---] engagements

"My assumption would be that weeksold newborns can pretty much always stay with the motherand thus not really count as kidsbut.maybe that's different than other people's assumptions"
X Link 2025-11-14T19:50Z 42K followers, 960.8K engagements

"Having thought about this further I think child-free weddings are only permissible if they're not also destination weddings. Fine to arrange childcare in your own city; miserable to do it on another coast"
X Link 2025-11-14T19:59Z 42K followers, 614.7K engagements

"@cynthiamcgillis Well husband is in the wedding and I truly love San Diego (hi) and really want to escape New York winter (but was planning on making my ticket + kids' tickets refundable in case say I need a surprise C section or recovery is harder than first time around)"
X Link 2025-11-14T20:27Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"Now I have a complex: If they make an exception for my tiny baby does this mean I should try to basically hide him to the greatest degree possible Like only nurse him in the bathroom or whatever"
X Link 2025-11-14T20:47Z 42K followers, 459.6K engagements

"@grizzlybizzly I am not disputing that my toddler is not invited. That is fine I am interrogating the idea that mother and weeksold child can be seamlessly separated and wondering if newborns were considered when policy was made"
X Link 2025-11-14T21:05Z 41.9K followers, 62.1K engagements

"@Punished3ntropy I love the couple love the city (San Diego) and my husband is in the wedding. We are happy to attend but I am just trying to understand what the thinking is surrounding newborns"
X Link 2025-11-14T21:22Z 41.9K followers, 20.2K engagements

"@jenjenjennnnn so respectfully this is not really what i'm looking for advice on"
X Link 2025-11-14T22:26Z 41.9K followers, 143.6K engagements

"@alt1na1 @InezFeltscher @webdevMason @nwilliams030 @IvanaDGreco i am worried you are going to physically chain me [--] my bed instead of letting me surf"
X Link 2025-11-14T22:27Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"@frogaustin @JValentineDE It is possible but is kind of contrary to all their other behavior and vibes (the groom has literally babysat our son impromptu so that my husband & I could surf together.really sweet people and I just think they would have communicated it directly if so but who knows)"
X Link 2025-11-14T23:07Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements

"@nwilliams030 @alt1na1 @InezFeltscher @webdevMason @IvanaDGreco I mean subject to change depending on L&D specifics and timing right I'm dumb but I ain't stupid Hopefully will deliver [--] weeks early then can be cleared to surf pray for this optimal outcome thank you girls"
X Link 2025-11-14T23:31Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements

"@jt_kerwin I don't feel comfortable leaving a 3-week-old (plus a 3-year-old) with a babysitter I don't know; also babies that young need to nurse frequently (for my own comfort as well as for their nutrition)"
X Link 2025-11-15T00:39Z 42K followers, 14.9K engagements

"@maude_zilla @EllaMennopy The onus is on you to be reasonable and polite. It's my Twitter it's my question it's my child it's my risk tolerance and it's my body (that has done this before so I have a bit of a sense for how I might specifically handle this experience)"
X Link 2025-11-15T02:33Z 41.9K followers, 31.5K engagements

"Respectfully though I understand people have lots of thoughts about germ exposure and newborns I live in New York City and this is not my first child. We do not live in a bubble for the first few weeks or months and there is no way realistically for us to do so (nor do we want to). I'd ask you to please not sound off about that thing (which I did not ask about) and instead sound off about the other thing (which I did ask about)"
X Link 2025-11-15T02:47Z 41.9K followers, 498.8K engagements

"@zemthings As clarified elsewhere children are somewhat oddly invited to the ceremony but not the reception"
X Link 2025-11-15T07:07Z 42K followers, 135.5K engagements

"@XOMeetMichelle @HMartok Or: I value these people highly for reasons you might not realize and have a different risk tolerance re germs than you do. My newborns already get exposed to germs from the subway which we take daily and siblings so there's not a "live in a bubble" option"
X Link 2025-11-15T12:28Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements

"@pschofie79 Well I'm sure this very opinionated rando would have a problem w many things I do while pregnant (surfing skating) and after the babies are here. The great news is that they're not the parent and I'm immune to mom-shaming attempts"
X Link 2025-11-15T12:31Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"@JoshBobrowsky I am of course going to do that but I was curious about people's intuitions re etiquette. Like half the people assume one thing and like half the people assume the opposite which is itself interesting to me"
X Link 2025-11-15T13:36Z 42K followers, 201.8K engagements

"@megha_lilly Unfortunately I am not going to spend [--] weeks family-isolating; that does not work when you have a) other children b) live in New York City or c) attend church regularly/have volunteering commitments. Every family gets to decide their own risk tolerance"
X Link 2025-11-15T14:14Z 42K followers, 153K engagements

"This is a ridiculous take that explains why many first-time moms become shut-ins who later bemoan that there's no community. Most people who have more than [--] kid recognize that the family cannot become hermetically sealed off from the world even for a few weeks or months. Girl [--] weeks is too young to be outside Girl [--] weeks is too young to be outside"
X Link 2025-11-16T18:03Z 42K followers, 116.8K engagements

"I took my first to church when he was [--] days old and we were on a plane when he was [--] months old. I understand it's a time-honored tradition to yell at mothers for making the calls they deem acceptable so we can feel high and mighty but the mom-shaming doesn't work on me. @LizWolfeReason @megha_lilly Its so weird that all your responses are like well thats not what I want to do and are very self centered. Think about your baby maam. Im sure they dont want to be on a plane at [--] weeks old nor at a wedding party . Just stay home or get a sitter. Silly question @LizWolfeReason @megha_lilly Its so"
X Link 2025-11-17T11:35Z 42K followers, 45.2K engagements

"Some of you also might not know that in [----] the FDA approved an RSV vax for pregnant mothers that confers some protection on infants in utero and during their early days. We've made significant advances on the disease front even in the last few years"
X Link 2025-11-17T11:38Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"Again I understand that doing this is very fun but might I suggest that if we want more people to have kids and more people to enjoy it we allow a little more cultural space for people to make different parenting calls without being dragged for it https://x.com/lancethepants23/status/1990256884566425999 @LizWolfeReason @peterdutton Oh so you're just like a bad parent huh https://x.com/lancethepants23/status/1990256884566425999 @LizWolfeReason @peterdutton Oh so you're just like a bad parent huh"
X Link 2025-11-17T11:41Z 41.9K followers, 16.8K engagements

"My experience of parenting is I think happier than most primarily because we make really deliberate decisions to incorporate kids into adult life to the greatest degree possible. That means eating at restaurants even nice ones. That means traveling. That means living in a big city (even though plenty of costs and risks are imposed by that one choice alone). That means children being taken to my work eventsas newborns when they can just be smuggled into bars and parties and as toddlers when childcare can be arranged for some stuff but they can be taken along to evening events (some of you met"
X Link 2025-11-17T11:48Z 41.9K followers, 485.8K engagements

"@prettydamnhuge @KristinChirico My husband is in the wedding party"
X Link 2025-11-17T12:11Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"My husband is in the wedding party so yeah maybe they hate my guts but I think there's a level of closeness (and a logistical challenge presented because he is the father) that you might not be grasping. And children are invited to the ceremony oddly but not the reception. I do feel for this person because I know how isolated mothers feel but in this situation: they are inviting you to be polite they expect you to decline 💖 I do feel for this person because I know how isolated mothers feel but in this situation: they are inviting you to be polite they expect you to decline 💖"
X Link 2025-11-17T12:12Z 41.9K followers, 82.5K engagements

"Staying home isn't some restful time where I'll be waited on hand and foot. There will be a toddler to contend with The many people calling me a bad mother on this website should recognize that life is just a series of tradeoffs (parenting especially)"
X Link 2025-11-17T12:18Z 41.9K followers, 14K engagements

"Modern parenting @LizWolfeReason Love that when a meth head threatens you & your kids on the subway thats just the reasonable cost of living in a Society but trying to be involved in an important life event for close friends is Unacceptable Risk. @LizWolfeReason Love that when a meth head threatens you & your kids on the subway thats just the reasonable cost of living in a Society but trying to be involved in an important life event for close friends is Unacceptable Risk"
X Link 2025-11-17T15:58Z 42K followers, 19.9K engagements

"@melodyxvii @peterdutton I actually didn't ask for people's advice about my baby's immune system or my body's postpartum recovery or what I might be up for; I asked for advice about etiquette and what a couple intends when they say "child-free.""
X Link 2025-11-17T16:48Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"@peterdutton Every wedding we've been invited to up until now has thankfully welcomed kids. Our son has been all over for weddings (including recently a great one in Guatemala)"
X Link 2025-11-17T16:50Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"I'm done with this; that's enough RTing and piling on (esp from the she/they and childless contingent) thank you. My experience of parenting has thus far been great because I have a different risk tolerance than modern parenting culture allows for: https://x.com/LizWolfeReason/status/1990386453898002901 My experience of parenting is I think happier than most primarily because we make really deliberate decisions to incorporate kids into adult life to the greatest degree possible. That means eating at restaurants even nice ones. That means traveling. That means living in a big"
X Link 2025-11-17T19:28Z 41.9K followers, 442.7K engagements

"Most people just don't understand this. Rent-control/rent-stabilization aren't some universal good: They're handouts to some New Yorkersnot even those who particularly need itat the expense of all the rest"
X Link 2025-11-17T20:47Z 42K followers, 17.4K engagements

"I think we lean into Delay Mindsetdelay marriage delay childrenat our own peril; there will be a whole set of second-order impacts real costs that we failed to anticipate when women in "greedy careers" start having kids at [--] instead of 30"
X Link 2025-11-18T11:21Z 41.9K followers, 31.8K engagements

"You people are seriously cruel. This is not my first child. An RSV vaccine now exists for pregnant women which makes the early newborn period substantially safer. Antibodies are passed via breastfeeding to newborns. There's no such thing as perfectly safe safety/risk are spectrums that every mom must navigate on her own using her own judgment. I personally wouldn't take my newborn child in a lot of cars but the rest of you sure are doing a lot of thata profoundly dangerous activity that we get to avoid here in NYC. The biggest risk to a newborn's immune system is probably having older"
X Link 2025-11-18T14:18Z 42K followers, 89.3K engagements

"You realize there are actual bad parents out there right Parents who neglect and ignore and abuse their kids; parents who shove screens in front of them all day long; parents who fail to vet childcare providers and schools and babysitters; parents who do drugs and smoke cigarettes at home with their kids there; parents whose paranoias or emotional dysregulation prevent their kids from developing properly. I understand that it is more fun to pretend that I am the worst mom of all timefor asking an etiquette question that's designed to parse whether I can be permitted to spend more time with"
X Link 2025-11-18T14:29Z 42K followers, 11.8K engagements

"@bigbluetractor This reply doesn't make sense to the tweet it is affixed to which is about actual bad parents"
X Link 2025-11-18T14:38Z 42K followers, [---] engagements

"inject the Freddie de Boer safetyism piece straight into my veins"
X Link 2025-11-18T16:08Z 42K followers, 18K engagements

"@RuxandraTeslo I strongly believe that intelligent high-performing agentic people like youthe demo most likely to freeze eggsmanage to grow up when asked to do so by an immovable responsibility like bringing a child into this world. I believe in you 100%"
X Link 2025-11-18T16:59Z 42K followers, 27.7K engagements

"Yeah because i'm notoriously afraid of kids falling https://x.com/kimtfiu/status/1990860767088779582 He's hardcore https://t.co/PTQFR37rZs https://x.com/kimtfiu/status/1990860767088779582 He's hardcore https://t.co/PTQFR37rZs"
X Link 2025-11-18T19:16Z 42K followers, 22.9K engagements

"Oh nooo what if kids fall How will they handle it"
X Link 2025-11-18T19:20Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"@Nyct0phil3_x @berrysweetmum Newborns in slings who can be breastfed on command are pretty easy as long as you pay attention to their hunger cues. Materially different than a 3-year-old. Which was my original point that people felt inclined to flip out about"
X Link 2025-11-18T19:32Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"True but this discourse is annoying because yeah sure but also there comes a time when you both legitimately desire to get back into the world & also legitimately physically can in a healthy way. Think of for example the many women who don't wait [--] wks to have sex again The key to postpartum recovery is to feel like you could do more then force yourself not to The key to postpartum recovery is to feel like you could do more then force yourself not to"
X Link 2025-11-20T14:25Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"What an ugly sentiment. The Mom Wars will continue because people can't just be okay with women making their own decisions based on their values. Meanwhile there are legitimately neglectful actively bad parents out there but it's the happy Osterpilled thoughtful moms trying to actively reject a culture of excessive anxiety & safetyism who get raked thru the coals for no reason at all. Ridiculous i want a lot of you to admit that you did not have adequate maternity leave childcare support or a co-parent available so you had to take the baby everywhere. i want a lot of you to admit that you did"
X Link 2025-11-20T16:47Z 41.9K followers, 21.3K engagements

"@InezFeltscher Also what did they think marriage was exactly"
X Link 2025-12-02T12:53Z 41.9K followers, 54.9K engagements

"My parents had me super duper young and my in-laws had my husband super duper old. I feel like I get to glimpse both sides of it and having kids young is my strong preference (in part because my FIL isn't around anymore and won't know his grandkids and dealing w his decline when we had a newborn baby was hard; elder care w young kids is not something I'd wish on anyone). There are real biological reasons why having kids younger makes more senseto a point though because financial stability also matters in this equation. (But people overindex a bit on that one nowadays.) Pro-natalists would be"
X Link 2025-12-02T16:04Z 41.9K followers, 95.1K engagements

"Behind the scenes with Reason's libertarian journalists https://x.com/i/broadcasts/1OwGWeEObZnxQ https://x.com/i/broadcasts/1OwGWeEObZnxQ"
X Link 2025-12-02T19:01Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"Counterpoint: yesterday was a normal Monday. I picked my son up from his best friend's apartment by foot (15ish min walk from ours) we stopped to grab a few groceries on the way home rode subway two stops home (got the conductor to wave back at us). [--] weeks pregnant & probably got 2-3 miles of walking in. Living in a big city w young kids involves a lot of inconvenience & it's not for everyone but I love that the subway system has taught him his letters; that the bodega man gives him pieces of free fruit; that we walk to our friends' houses; that he knows how to cross streets safely already"
X Link 2025-12-09T12:17Z 42.7K followers, 36.6K engagements

"@bobreynolds64 I think we mean different things"
X Link 2025-12-09T14:10Z 41.9K followers, [---] engagements

"Look I'm not saying childcare is affordable hereit's very expensivebut it is weird how few people challenge the premise: that the federal standard for affordability is off and spending just [--] percent of your income is totally untethered from what market asks"
X Link 2025-12-17T12:32Z 42.7K followers, 17.2K engagements

"Nannies here make like $25-35 an hour; daycare workers a bit less (more like what $17-$24ish). That money comes from somewhere. If the federal standard for affordability (7 percent of to use their example a $334K income) were met that would mean paying a FT childcare worker just $23K annually so rather low wages. $11-$12 an hour Do parents actually want this to be what childcare workers make Does this actually seem like fair compensation or like it will attract high-quality workers https://twitter.com/i/web/status/2001270680239702183 https://twitter.com/i/web/status/2001270680239702183"
X Link 2025-12-17T12:38Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Buttake it from a NYC mom who has started work at [--] a.m. every weekday for the past three years to work a staggered shift where husband does a.m. childcare while I write a newsletter that publishes at [--] a.m. who has brought a kid along to numerous work events and tripsthere really are more options out there for many people in many industries that allow mothers to spend time actively taking care of their children without fully exiting the workforce. Remote work though not available to everyone has been a gift to working mothers"
X Link 2025-12-17T12:45Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"You are also simply not locked in to needing a high family income to survive in New York City. Again I walked the walk: Outer boroughs commute absolutely sucks but that is one way to survive on a single income. Tradeoffs don't always feel great but some people would be well-served by being more honest about which tradeoffs they're making (or choosing not to make)"
X Link 2025-12-17T12:47Z 41.9K followers, [----] engagements

"Crazy that in [----] you could just let a St. Bernard watch your three children w literally no consequences"
X Link 2025-12-18T14:59Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"Actually men need to have kids just so they'll be too busy to publish cringe LinkedIn-style posts Every man has two wolves within him: the urge to provide/teach/protect and the urge to LINKEDIN-STYLE POAST. If you're focused on the former you can't hurt us w the latter Not having kids is a life hack. I spend my summers in Europe take cross-country road trips and disappear off-grid on weekends. The money Id spend on kids goes to investing experiences and freedom. Different priorities. Different definition of rich. Not having kids is a life hack. I spend my summers in Europe take cross-country"
X Link 2025-12-19T14:09Z 42K followers, 10.2K engagements

"@LeahLibresco @WordOnFire @HaleyCarrots I gave Zev this in his stocking Christmas gift twins :)"
X Link 2025-12-29T00:15Z 42K followers, [---] engagements

"Solomon Peter (to be called Sol) joined us on Friday. He has the disability he was diagnosed with in utero as expected but he's also having respiratory issues despite being full term and has decided to avail himself of the NICU for a while. He's feisty with strong opinions and a head full of hair so we get along well already. I wish I had photos of his handsome face all on its own but we'll make do with this one for now snapped between breathing tube changes. I wouldn't wish having a baby in the NICU on my worst enemy (especially when dealing with awful c-section pain). What a strange"
X Link 2025-12-29T12:46Z 42.7K followers, 286.4K engagements

"@IvanaDGreco Thank you Honestly Zev has been the most upset about Sol being in the NICU -- no toddlers allowed so he hasn't gotten to hold his brother yet. Can't wait for their official meeting; going to feel so good to have brothers all in one place"
X Link 2025-12-29T12:59Z 42K followers, [----] engagements

"He's had a good day and a half But like with many NICU journeys it's frequently two steps forward one step back. Please keep your prayers coming. My husband and I are so touched by the outpouring of love. Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him off of breathing tubes--to nurse and play and snuggle--but now he's so sick we're not even able to hold him. We would love your prayers for wise King Solomon our sweet baby. https://t.co/9fmHdRsLf6 Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him"
X Link 2026-01-05T19:21Z 42.7K followers, 144K engagements

"@shagbark_hick "I don't generally play with my kid but rather incorporate them into whatever else I'm doing having them work/mess around/play alongside me" -- the historical attitude -- is rather different than "my blood boils if I have to spend more than [--] min with my child" imo"
X Link 2026-01-06T18:15Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"@shagbark_hick I'm sorry but my second son is in the NICU right now. I would give anything to be able to hold him. I have a high tolerance for parenting heterodoxy but very low tolerance for parents who have little gratitude and don't delight in their kids"
X Link 2026-01-06T18:17Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"CTown Gristedes and Key Foodsour independent grocery storesare some of the worst I've ever been to and kind of expensive. New York City has an amazing concentration of independent grocery stores but the way that Amazon (Whole Foods) and Walmart use their power to block them out by getting unfair deals from big suppliers is making it almost impossible to survive. Tell your reps to support New York City has an amazing concentration of independent grocery stores but the way that Amazon (Whole Foods) and Walmart use their power to block them out by getting unfair deals from big suppliers is"
X Link 2026-01-06T20:05Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Grateful for all the kindness we've experienced at the hospital. God truly works through peoplethe doctors nurses physical therapists random folks we meet in the waiting room other NICU parents. Even the sweet janitors who give little nuggets of daily encouragement. Blessed"
X Link 2026-01-07T15:08Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Betty Friedan's message just won't die: Women today still believe that childcare and homemaking is stultifying worklow drudgery that ought to be outsourcedand that taking an active role in raising your children is necessarily accompanied by never-to-be-recovered-from intellectual debasement. This couldn't be more wrong and it's a bad message to feed young women. The tradeoffs are realtime is scarce; the work of taking care of babies + young children is often somewhat rote and can feel at times formulaicbut integration of work + family life is the path forward not compartmentalization. (I"
X Link 2026-01-08T17:06Z 42.7K followers, 34.4K engagements

"@elonmusk From a @reason interview Fucking insane Cea Weaver logic"
X Link 2026-01-09T21:05Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"I think a ton of this is just very case-by-case and therefore the hivemind isn't very useful. I just had a c-section and let me tell you I was able to walk a mile in Central Park [--] days after. I wouldn't extrapolate from that; I think my body just handled it shockingly well. My favorite are the [--] year old girls who have had one singular baby & claim you can bounce back a month after pregnancy just by breastfeeding eating healthy and exercising Yes that stuff will help you bounce back and everyone should do those things regardless but My favorite are the [--] year old girls who have had one"
X Link 2026-01-12T13:39Z 42.7K followers, 21.3K engagements

"@NotebookRosary My pregnancies are horrible and my deliveries fraught w bad luck so it feels like a small blessing that my recoveries are okay. (I'm sure I'm jinxing it by saying so.)"
X Link 2026-01-12T17:31Z 42.7K followers, [---] engagements

"NYT implying that Scott Adams was overly paranoid about reputational damage but also putting a line about his "racist comments" in the first sentence of his literal obituary. Wild stuff. Do they see the tension"
X Link 2026-01-13T19:13Z 42.7K followers, 19.3K engagements

"@Aella_Girl Yes absolutely. It also warps the parent's heart to be locked into conflict for hours or days on end with a child. Why subject yourself to this and to having this type of relationship with someone you hold dear"
X Link 2026-01-13T19:54Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Today marks [--] weeks in the NICU. He's stable but the doctors don't seem to be much closer to figuring out how to treat him and get him home. Having a new baby is supposed to feel like a little piece of heaven on Earth; this is hell. Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky we got a few days with him off of breathing tubes--to nurse and play and snuggle--but now he's so sick we're not even able to hold him. We would love your prayers for wise King Solomon our sweet baby. https://t.co/9fmHdRsLf6 Our sweet Sol has taken a turn for the worse in the NICU. We're lucky"
X Link 2026-01-16T17:17Z 42.7K followers, 146.1K engagements

"I am so grateful to spend every day in the NICU with him and for his doctors and nurses. But this really sucks on so many levels. Your prayers are still so appreciated"
X Link 2026-01-16T17:34Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"@LeahLibresco Able to hold him. Holding him right now But his breathing isn't improving in any significant way"
X Link 2026-01-16T18:18Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Everything I see about parenting or pregnancy on Xso half of my feedmakes me so sad and jealous like I would do anything to just have normal problems. But then again: It could always be worse. Our baby is alive and stable. We have extraordinary medical care. This will pass"
X Link 2026-01-16T21:08Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"It's cowardice right Not in every case--there are some cases where they never found the right person to raise children with or some cases where real medical complexity makes it impossible--but in the majority of "we want to travel/go to fancy restaurants/binge that new show" cases. But it's not socially acceptable to say you're a coward afraid of the vulnerability and hard work required to be a parent"
X Link 2026-01-22T20:19Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Watchdog report contradicts DHS claims about Alex Prettis death A CBP watchdog report challenges DHS statements about Alex Prettis behavior before officers fatally shot him"
X Link 2026-01-28T18:34Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Trump removes ICE official Greg Bovino in Minnesota after public backlash After the killing of Alex Pretti Trump sidelined Greg Bovino the public face of ICE raids in Minnesota and sent Tom Homan to take over"
X Link 2026-01-27T14:30Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Killing of Alex Pretti by immigration agents in Minneapolis sparks outcry Plus: Kristi Noem's transformation of DHS Stanley Kubrick's Gigolo Joe and more"
X Link 2026-01-27T14:00Z 42.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Is Gerwig's "Little Women" actually good Please advise. The trailer looked fairly meh and I think Christian Bale is sorta crucial and impossible to improve upon (I don't know who this Timotheeee Chalamet person is)"
X Link 2020-01-13T16:22Z 42.7K followers, [--] engagements

"So excited that @laurenkrisai's study on FL drug trafficking/sentencing came out (I even helped w a bit of research when I was her intern) https://x.com/JmsMadisonInst/status/843824799713558529 JMI study just released "Smart Sentencing: Safety Valve for Florida's Drug Trafficking Offenses" by @laurenkrisai https://t.co/A2bXgS4zD3 https://t.co/v0ZWRCXrpb https://x.com/JmsMadisonInst/status/843824799713558529 JMI study just released "Smart Sentencing: Safety Valve for Florida's Drug Trafficking Offenses" by @laurenkrisai https://t.co/A2bXgS4zD3 https://t.co/v0ZWRCXrpb"
X Link 2017-03-21T16:30Z 42.7K followers, [--] engagements

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