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# ![@embracingjoynyc Avatar](https://lunarcrush.com/gi/w:26/cr:tiktok::7387484684463375403.png) @embracingjoynyc EmbracingJoyTherapy❌

EmbracingJoyTherapy❌ posts on TikTok about relationships, bio, if you, red the most. They currently have XXXXXXX followers and XX posts still getting attention that total XXXXXXX engagements in the last XX hours.

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### Followers: XXXXXXX [#](/creator/tiktok::7387484684463375403/followers)
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[relationships](/topic/relationships) #74, [bio](/topic/bio) #155, [if you](/topic/if-you) #3037, [red](/topic/red) #868, [link](/topic/link) #628, [build a](/topic/build-a) #636, [strong](/topic/strong) #666, [tools](/topic/tools) #105, [eft](/topic/eft) #5, [longterm](/topic/longterm) #15

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### Top Social Posts
Top posts by engagements in the last XX hours

"You dont have to beg to be chosen. If youre constantly explaining over-functioning or hoping theyll change thats not love thats survival mode. Healthy love feels safe. Its reciprocal. It grows. And if youve ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners its not because youre too much. Its because your nervous system is craving familiarity not safety and that can change. Start healing that pattern and reclaiming your self-worth 💛 Take the free Attachment Style Quiz link in bio. #selfworth #dealbreakers #relationships #couplestherapy #attachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7571965765025336590)  2025-11-12T22:15Z 217.4K followers, 3.3M engagements


"When a pursuer burns out its rarely sudden its years of trying reaching explaining hoping. If youre in this dynamic or want to prevent it youre not alone. Healthy connection is repairable when both partners learn the tools. 💛 My mini-course Tension to Tenderness is linked in bio if you want support. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapist #relationshiptips #burnedoutpursuer #attachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7573477107041324301)  2025-11-16T23:59Z 217.1K followers, 411.7K engagements


"When a pursuer burns out its rarely sudden its years of trying reaching explaining hoping. If youre in this dynamic or want to prevent it youre not alone. Healthy connection is repairable when both partners learn the tools. 💛 My mini-course Tension to Tenderness is linked in bio if you want support. #relationshipadvice #burnedout #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #couplestherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7572513838319275319)  2025-11-14T09:41Z 217.1K followers, 1.5M engagements


"Trust doesnt just live in your mind it lives in your body. When youve been hurt your nervous system remembers even when your heart wants to try again. If youre struggling to feel safe with a partner you love youre not broken youre human. This is exactly the work I teach every day in couples therapy: slowing down understanding the wound beneath the reaction and rebuilding trust with consistency not pressure. If you want more support tools and frameworks for repair my mini-course Tension to Tenderness is linked in my bio. #HealingIsHard #cheating #RelationshipTrauma #BigSisTalk #EmotionalHealing"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7572744389848599822)  2025-11-15T00:36Z 217.1K followers, 251.9K engagements


"Dating gets easier when you stop chasing and start reconnecting with you. When youre grounded and clear on your worth the right people feel it instantly. If you want deeper tools for regulating connecting and shifting out of anxious energy my mini-course From Tension to Tenderness is in my bio. 💛 #datingadvice #relationshiptips #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #secureattachment"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7573273784694607118)  2025-11-16T10:51Z 217.1K followers, 66.4K engagements


"Arguments dont start with words they start with interpretations. Try this one question and watch the whole energy change. #relationshiptips #couplestherapy #communicationtips #relationshipadvice #healthyrelationships"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7577189152446369038)  2025-11-27T00:04Z 217.1K followers, 38.4K engagements


"Loving your partner isnt just about the good momentsits about listening when they tell you what hurts. If you want things to change youve got to hear them not defend yourself. Listening is love. 💙 #relationshiptips #couplestherapy #loveadvice #healingjourney #fyp"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7563453405709012279)  2025-10-20T23:42Z 217.4K followers, 213.7K engagements


"Real talk: long-term love isnt about luck its about emotional safety communication and shared growth. These are the rules I see healthy couples live by every single day. Which one do you and your partner already do 💬👇 Take my free Attachment Style Quiz in bio to start understanding your relationship patterns and how to grow together. 💛 #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyRelationships #AttachmentStyles #premaritalcounseling"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7572170426000985399)  2025-11-13T11:28Z 217.1K followers, 2M engagements


"If you've ever been labeled as "too much" or "too critical" when you're just asking for closeness you're not alone. This is the cycle I help couples break every day. EmbracingJoyTherapy 10-30 attack. It's how relationships grow and stay strong. Want to stop the same old arguments and learn how to move from conflict into closeness My From Tension to Tenderness Course (link in bio) gives you the exact steps to turn criticism and shutdowns into understanding and real tenderness. Also grab my free atchament style quiz eeaback in the link #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #relationshipadvice"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7572240483037105422)  2025-11-13T16:00Z 217.1K followers, 2.5M engagements


"This is the #1 question every couple needs to ask before getting married. Not are we compatiblebut can we repair Healthy love is the ability to find your way back. 💙✨ check the link in my bio for more resources #relationshipadvice #premaritalcounseling #beforeyougetmarried #couplestherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7574113342126673207)  2025-11-18T17:09Z 217.1K followers, 133.2K engagements


"Its not about the label its about the effort. If someone cant commit their patterns will tell you long before their words do ❤ If you need tools for clarity communication or healthier love check the link in my bio #relationshipadvice #couplestherapist #datingadvice #healthyrelationships #relationshiptips"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7574501157435968781)  2025-11-19T18:13Z 217.1K followers, 42.8K engagements


"Long-distance doesnt fail because of miles it fails because of emotional disconnection. Heres what actually keeps it together ❤🩹 More tools in my link in bio. #longdistance #longdistancerelationship #ldr #relationshiptips #therapistsoftiktok I"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7574936312399138062)  2025-11-20T22:21Z 217.1K followers, 810.8K engagements


"Strong couples practice these habits on repeat. Not because theyre perfect but because they protect the connection. If you want healthier communication more ease and more closeness start here. ✨ Want something tailored to your attachment style My quiz is in my bio. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #relationshiptips #marriagetips #attachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7574957244576517389)  2025-11-20T23:43Z 217.1K followers, 517.3K engagements


"Learning to trust someone isnt about believing their promises its about watching their patterns. The nervous system remembers consistency not speeches. If youre craving healthier communication deeper repair and secure connection Ive got tools for you. 💙 👇 More scripts + my couples communication course are in the link in my bio. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapist #trustissues #healthyrelationships #relationshiptalk"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7575302393068358943)  2025-11-21T22:02Z 217.1K followers, 31.3K engagements


"Stress doesnt just live in your body it lives in your relationship. If things have felt off it might not be you two it might be the stress running the show. You can fight the stress together instead of fighting each other. 💛 More tools to reconnect are in my bio. #rel#relationshipsl#relationshiptipsu#couplestherapyl#relationshipanxietylationshipstress"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7576046904031694093)  2025-11-23T22:11Z 217.1K followers, 12.1K engagements


"You dont get to choose your family but you do get to choose your partner. Choose the one who expands your life not the one who drains your energy. If youre questioning it thats your answer. More support + resources in my bio. 💛 #r#relationshipadviced#datingtipsc#choosewiselyh#healthyrelationshipsrelationshiptherapist"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7577050564073098509)  2025-11-26T15:06Z 217.1K followers, 10.6K engagements


"Most people have never actually experienced secure love so it feels boring until they finally feel what safety consistency and emotional responsiveness are like. This is what secure attachment really looks like in a relationship and why it feels so grounding calming and magnetic. If you want to understand your attachment style or move toward secure love the free quiz is in my bio. 💙 #s#secureattachmenta#attachmentstylesr#relationshiptipsr#relationshipadvicecouplestherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7578630354316135694)  2025-11-30T21:16Z 217.1K followers, 29.9K engagements


"I really thought Id never get married until I stopped chasing timelines and started choosing myself. Write your X must-haves X cant-stands and imagine how it feels to be with your person. Build a life so good that love has to rise to meet you. 💛✨ Resources in bio for attachment dating + real love. #d#datingadvice #r#relationshiptips #c#couplestherapista#attachmentstyless#selfworthjourney"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7578933844670172471)  2025-12-01T16:54Z 217.1K followers, 146.7K engagements


"The truth The happiest couples I work with arent perfect they just practice a few core habits that keep them emotionally close connected and secure. These five habits are the foundation of healthy communication deeper intimacy and long-lasting love. Want more scripts and tools for your relationship Resources are in my bio. 💛 #relationshiptips #couplestherapist #relationshipadvice #healthyrelationships #couplesgoals"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7579718955967794445)  2025-12-03T19:41Z 217.1K followers, 2M engagements


"When feedback feels like criticism its not about the conversation its about your nervous system. Avoidant defensiveness can slowly pull even a secure partner into questioning themselves. This is your reminder that feedback isnt an attack its an invitation to grow repair and connect. If you want deeper tools to move from tension into tenderness the link in bio has everything you need. #relationships #relationshiptips #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7580180609235045687)  2025-12-05T01:32Z 217.4K followers, 633.5K engagements


"Stop chasing start attracting. 💙 Real love flows when you trust youre already enough #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentStyles #LoveTips #HealingTogether"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7564170130616290615)  2025-10-22T22:03Z 217.1K followers, 5.6M engagements


"Sometimes the most powerful move in love is the simplest: ✨ let your partner be. When you stop trying to control them and turn the focus back to YOU everything shifts. Your energy sets the tone your peace creates connection and thats where relationships actually thrive. 💙 Do you agree or disagree Drop your thoughts below . #feminineenergy #happiness #codependence #solvingcodependence #sirenisland"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7565535163837385997)  2025-10-26T14:21Z 217.4K followers, 4M engagements


"Energy is never one-sided. 💫 If you felt something real it was real. Even if it didnt last your gut wasnt wrong. Trust that your heart knew the truthand trust yourself enough to know youre worthy of love that stays. ❤ #RelationshipAdvice #TherapistTips #RelationshipAdvice #TherapistTok #CouplesTherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7566588958335913230)  2025-10-29T10:29Z 217.1K followers, 1.1M engagements


"Some of you arent gonna like this 👀 but when avoidant partners shut down by saying youre always criticizing me or nothing I do is good enough thats not connection thats defensiveness. Feedback isnt an attack. Its how relationships grow and stay strong. If youve ever been labeled as too much or too critical when youre just asking for closeness youre not alone. This is the cycle I help couples break every day. 💙 Want to stop the same old arguments and learn how to move from conflict into closeness My From Tension to Tenderness Course (link in bio) gives you the exact steps to turn criticism"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7567107810442431799)  2025-10-30T20:03Z 217.1K followers, 1.6M engagements


"A slow burn relationship has the best chance of lasting lovebecause it unfolds gradually giving space for true connection to grow. In this video learn the green flags that show youre moving in the right direction💕 #slowburnromance #healthyrelationship #healthyrelationships #relationshipadvice #greenflags"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7567341999511145783)  2025-10-31T11:12Z 217.1K followers, 271.5K engagements


"5 non-negotiables for a healthy lasting relationship ❤ These are the traits I see in the couples who make it and the ones missing in those who dont. If you want more tools to build real connection check out the link in my bio for free relationship resources and my From Tension to Tenderness course 💕"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7567422633751432462)  2025-10-31T16:25Z 217.1K followers, 261.4K engagements


"Moving in together isnt just about sharing a space its about sharing a life. Heres what every couple should talk about before signing that lease 💛 Take my free attachment quiz in the link in bio for more connection tools. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #relationshiptips #movingintogether #emotionalconnection"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7568205955448540429)  2025-11-02T19:05Z 217.1K followers, 489.8K engagements


"Sometimes its not love its a trauma bond. Learn your patterns heal them and stop confusing chaos for connection. 💛 Take the free attachment quiz in bio. #relationshipadvice #heartbroken #healthymindset #relationshipcoach #MentalHealth"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7568652627576229175)  2025-11-03T23:58Z 217.1K followers, 195.1K engagements


"Rebuilding the part of you that actually hears yourself and believes yourself is some of the most meaningful work youll ever do. It takes time patience and courage and you deserve every bit of the peace that comes with it. #fyp #healingtok #selftrust #relationships"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7570474127648181518)  2025-11-08T21:46Z 217.1K followers, 554.6K engagements


"If you keep analyzing them instead of noticing you this is your reminder: how you feel around someone is your clarity. ✨ Feel smaller or safer ✨ Tense or seen Your nervous system is the most honest relationship coach youll ever have. (link in bio for tools to help you feel secure + connected) #selfworth #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #emotionalintelligence #couplestherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7571886912353439031)  2025-11-12T17:09Z 217.1K followers, 131.7K engagements


"If youve ever felt like your partner shuts down when you reach out this will make so much sense. Tiny repairs change everything. More tools in my bio. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #relationshiptips #fyp #couples"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7574020584682638647)  2025-11-18T11:10Z 217.4K followers, 6.1M engagements


"Healthy transparency is what actually brings couples closer not mind reading not guessing not stuffing your feelings down until you explode. Its clarity with kindness. Its heres whats happening inside me instead of shutting down or overreacting. If youre trying to build a safer more connected relationship this is the skill. ❤🔥 Save this for later + send it to your partner if you want to grow together. #r#relationshipsc#couplestherapyr#relationshipadvicem#millennialcouplesattachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7574810580540755255)  2025-11-20T14:13Z 217.4K followers, 78.2K engagements


"Repairing after conflict is the real secret sauce in relationships. Its not about who was right who apologized first or who said the perfect thing. Its about learning how to find your way back to each other. New relationship or long term partnership this is the skill that changes everything. More tools to repair faster and reconnect deeper are in the link in my bio ❤ #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #relationshiptips #healthyrelationships #attachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7575906941105425719)  2025-11-23T13:09Z 217.1K followers, 923.8K engagements


"Long-distance doesnt fail because of the miles it fails because no one taught you the habits that actually make love feel safe across distance. These X tools will change everything. 💛 Save this for when the distance feels heavy. #longdistancerelationship #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #relationshiptips #datingadvice More support in my bio"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7576633238299364663)  2025-11-25T12:07Z 217.4K followers, 220.9K engagements


"Dating isnt supposed to feel like chaos. The right person doesnt make your life harder they add to it. Yes relationships take work but not that kind of work. If youre dating right now choose the person who brings clarity steadiness and peace. More resources to support you are in my bio 💛 #d#datingadvicer#relationshiptherapistr#relationshiptipsh#healthyrelationshipsselfworth"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7576707524548775223)  2025-11-25T16:55Z 217.1K followers, 13.2K engagements


"If we loved our partners with even half the softness we give our pets wed save so many relationships 🐾💛 Tiny moments of gentleness change everything. More relationship tools in my bio. Thanks @Lynda Manager Guru for the inspo #r#relationshipadvicec#couplestherapyh#healthyrelationshipsr#relationshiptipsattachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7577876290582121783)  2025-11-28T20:30Z 217.1K followers, 10.4K engagements


"Its not the fightits the repair. Gottmans research on the Four Horsemen predicts couples futures with over XX% accuracy and its WILD. #r#relationshiptipsg#gottmanc#couplestherapyr#relationshipadvicehealthycommunication"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7578248743040847159)  2025-11-29T20:36Z 217.1K followers, 568.7K engagements


"Dating someone with ADHD isnt too much its a different nervous system a different rhythm and a different kind of love. When you understand it everything gets easier. 💛 More resources in my bio to help you deepen your connection. #adhd #adhdrelationship #datingwithadhd #adhdlove #relationshiptips"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7579385735803899150)  2025-12-02T22:08Z 217.1K followers, 113.7K engagements


"Choosing someone isnt about chemistry or potential its about consistency safety and shared intention. Dont let fear choose for you. 💛 #healthyrelationships #datingadvice #relationshiptok #datingtips #attachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7579776393626635575)  2025-12-03T23:24Z 217.4K followers, 20K engagements


"Opening your heart again isnt about pretending you were never hurt its about choosing growth over fear. 🌱 Anas Nin said it best: The risk to remain tight in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom. For so many of us staying guarded is starting to ache more than trying again. You deserve connection that meets you sees you and honors the work youve done. Your heart isnt fragile its ready. 💛 If youre learning how to soften without losing yourself there are free tools in my bio to help you start. #relationships #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #attachmentstyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7580478537656765709)  2025-12-05T20:48Z 217.1K followers, 7500 engagements


"Sometimes the argument has nothing to do with the topic and everything to do with the space thats grown between you. When couples havent had real connection their nervous systems go into protection mode. Thats when tiny things start big reactions. I have some more resources for you in the link in my bio #advice #r#relationshipsc#couplestherapistr#relationshipadviceattachmentstyle"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7580868062581116174)  2025-12-06T22:00Z 217.1K followers, 33.4K engagements


"Jebel Jais Ras Al Khaimha📍 Still not over how incredible these views are. Only X hours from Dubai🏞 #jebel_jais #jebeljaismountain #dubai #uae #fyp #rasalkhaimah"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@ceilinemaria/video/7480511387412729110)  2025-03-11T11:24Z 1397 followers, 605.1K engagements


"Ts sound is fire💯#clashroyale #fyp #viral #cr"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@cr_user0/video/7560685758579821855)  2025-10-13T12:42Z 1184 followers, 777.9K engagements


"bar #dieofdeath #roblox #bart #bart #bart #bart #bart #bart #bart HASHTAHGA RB AT AHASHT ABRT ft @drezldot"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@4zure_respawn/video/7570156315222232342)  2025-11-08T01:13Z XX followers, 44K engagements


"Codependency isnt desperation. Its a pattern you learned to stay safe stay loved and stay connected. And once you understand why you show up this way you can change it. Youre not broken youre responding to old wiring. There are more tools guides and couples resources in my bio if you want to go deeper. 🤍 #codependency #relationshiptips #attachmentstyles #peoplepleasing #relationshipanxiety"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7577122288772975886)  2025-11-26T19:45Z 208.1K followers, 106.1K engagements


"quick vlog for today using my new Dji Osmo Action X Camera 🙌🏻 #osmoaction6 #dji #actioncamera"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@binseuk/video/7579596726533737736)  2025-12-03T11:46Z X followers, 2358 engagements


"When your partner says I feel disconnected dont get defensive. Get curious. Thats your cue to repair before its too late. 💔💞 Take my free attachment quiz and start reconnecting today link in bio. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapytips #emotionalintimacy #attachmentstyles #nyctherapist"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7567544844189469966)  2025-11-01T00:19Z 216.6K followers, 203.6K engagements


"3 relationship tips every couple needs to hear. 💡 The last one is the game-changer. Want to know YOUR attachment style Free quiz in bio #therapisttok #RelationshipTips #CouplesTherapy #LoveAdvice #AttachmentStyles"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7565207023562804494)  2025-10-25T17:07Z 217.1K followers, 2.6M engagements


"When you make someone else the main character of your life you lose touch with your own needs intuition and worth. This is your reminder to come back home to yourself. Healthy love is two whole people choosing each other not one person shrinking to keep the peace. If youre ready to break this pattern and understand your relationship blueprint more clearly my free attachment quiz is in my bio. It will help you see exactly why you react the way you do in relationships and what to do next. #fyp #d#datingdatinginyour20s #datinginyour30s #highvaluewoman"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7571641776075771150)  2025-11-12T01:17Z 217.4K followers, 340.9K engagements


"Sometimes the biggest shift in a relationship is when you finally choose yourself. Not to punish your partner but because your self-worth gets louder than your fear of losing them. If youre ready to break old patterns and build healthier ones my Tension to Tenderness mini-course is in the link in my bio. 💛 #relationshiptok #couplesoftiktok #selfworthtok #selfrespectmatters #attachmentstyle"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7572350111099981111)  2025-11-13T23:06Z 217.1K followers, 222.8K engagements


"Small habits can make or break connection. Fix these and your relationships transform. ❤🔥 If you want deeper communication tools check the link in my bio for support. #relationshiptips #couplestherapy #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #healthycommunication"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7572399023097662733)  2025-11-14T02:16Z 217.1K followers, 444.6K engagements


"Silence in conflict isnt the absence of feelings its overwhelm. Quiet partners arent checked out their nervous system is in survival mode. Once you understand this dynamic your whole relationship shifts. ✨ More tools to navigate conflict & reconnect are in my bio. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #relationshiptips #attachmentstyles #emotionalintelligence"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7577591259175374094)  2025-11-28T02:04Z 217.1K followers, 254.2K engagements


"Healthy love isnt about being glued together its about trusting each other enough to have full lives and show up fully for the relationship. This balance changes everything. 💛✨ More relationship tools in my bio. #secureattachment #relationshiptips #relationshipgreenflags #couplestherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7579014444382965005)  2025-12-01T22:07Z 217.1K followers, 726.1K engagements


"Most people dont fall out of love suddenly they burn out slowly. If your partner is still trying to talk repair and reconnect thats hope. Dont ignore it. More tools in my bio. #r#relationshipsr#relationshipadvicec#couplestherapista#attachmentstylesp#pursuerwithdrawer"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7579052639002955063)  2025-12-02T00:35Z 217.4K followers, 1.9M engagements


"Most people think their relationship struggles are about communication but its really about emotional regulation. When you can slow yourself down name whats happening inside you and come back to your partner with clarity instead of chaoseverything changes. Two regulated people dont equal zero conflict. They equal conflict that brings you closer. Want tools to build this Link in bio.✨ #f#fypf#foryouf#foryoupagev#viralrelationshipadvice"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7579307914762947895)  2025-12-02T17:06Z 217.1K followers, 96.4K engagements


"Long-distance doesnt fail because of miles it fails when communication disappears. These X therapist-backed tips helped me survive long-distance before video calls even existed. Save this for when you need a little hope. ❤🔥✨ #longdistancerelationship #ldr #ldrcommunity #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7579426831967718669)  2025-12-03T00:47Z 217.1K followers, 3.2M engagements


"Emotionally healthy partners arent too much. They just wont pretend dysfunction feels normal. Resources for you in my bio 💗 #relationshiptok #datingadvice #attachmentstyles #secureattachment #emotionallymature"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7580044948762807565)  2025-12-04T16:45Z 217.1K followers, 40.6K engagements


"Withdrawers arent distant theyre overwhelmed. And once you understand the nervous system behind the shutdown everything changes. Save this for later + send it to your partner if this is your dynamic. Secure connection is a skill not something you should already know. 💙 #relationships #withdrawer #pursuerwithdrawer #attachmentstyle #couplestherapy"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7580410032760573239)  2025-12-05T16:23Z 217.4K followers, 1.3M engagements


"Gaslighting doesnt always scream sometimes it whispers until you question your own reality. If youve been doubting yourself this is your sign: youre not too sensitive and your feelings are valid. Healthy love feels grounding not confusing. If you want the tools to repair patterns and reconnect my From Tension to Tenderness mini course is linked in bio 💛 #gaslightingawareness #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #couplestherapist #emotionalsafety"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7581115993561353527)  2025-12-07T14:03Z 217.4K followers, 8234 engagements


"Everyone thinks the big fights are what break a relationship But the truth is it is the tiny moments of consistency that make or break emotional safety If you want your connection to feel better fast bring back the daily micro habits that make your partner feel chosen Small moments change everything Tell me the tiny shift you want to try this week #relationshiptips #relationshipgoals #loveadvice #datingtips #love"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7581462885524671757)  2025-12-08T12:29Z 217.4K followers, 29.9K engagements


"Most couples fight about the wrong thing. Its not the dishes or the tone. Its the deeper need underneath. These three tips will change the way you communicate and reconnect with your partner starting today. Save this for later and send it to your person. Also check out the link in my bio. I have some more resources there for you. 💓 ##relationshipadvice##couplestherapy##relationshiptips##attachmentstyles##mentalhealthtok"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingjoynyc/video/7581885272342678798)  2025-12-09T15:47Z 217.4K followers, 11.7K engagements