# ![@drbeckyatgoodinside Avatar](https://lunarcrush.com/gi/w:26/cr:tiktok::6846758044706735110.png) @drbeckyatgoodinside Dr. Becky | Psychologist

Dr. Becky | Psychologist posts on TikTok about the good, parenting, youtube, the most the most. They currently have [-------] followers and [---] posts still getting attention that total [-----] engagements in the last [--] hours.

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### Social Influence

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[stocks](/list/stocks)  9% [fashion brands](/list/fashion-brands)  9% [social networks](/list/social-networks)  6% [technology brands](/list/technology-brands)  6% [pga golfers](/list/pga-golfers)  #918 [travel destinations](/list/travel-destinations)  4% [countries](/list/countries)  1% [finance](/list/finance)  1%

**Social topic influence**
[the good](/topic/the-good) #421, [parenting](/topic/parenting) #983, [youtube](/topic/youtube) 6%, [the most](/topic/the-most) 5%, [if you](/topic/if-you) 5%, [tony finau](/topic/tony-finau) #11, [moments](/topic/moments) 4%, [how to](/topic/how-to) 4%, [this is](/topic/this-is) 3%, [talk](/topic/talk) 3%

**Top accounts mentioned or mentioned by**
[@nike](/creator/undefined) [@sanyarichiross](/creator/undefined) [@jayshetty](/creator/undefined) [@the](/creator/undefined) [@jordanchiles](/creator/undefined) [@corinnelowphd](/creator/undefined) [@yamconcepcion](/creator/undefined) [@catherine](/creator/undefined) [@beckalorene](/creator/undefined) [@patriots](/creator/undefined) [@aarondinins](/creator/undefined) [@aarondinin](/creator/undefined) [@thriveparentingnetwork](/creator/undefined)

**Top assets mentioned**
[Nike Inc (NKE)](/topic/$nke)
### Top Social Posts
Top posts by engagements in the last [--] hours

"Some kids dont ask for what they need. They scream their fears. And if we take the scream at face value we get pulled into the very spiral were trying to help them out of. This DM is a reminder: we cant judge the success of our intervention by our kids immediate response. We have to understand whats happening underneath the behavior - so we can respond to the fear without joining it. Thats exactly what Im going to walk through at my next Deeply Feeling Kids workshop this Wednesday 2/11 at 12pm and 8pm ET. Ill walk you through the specific in-the-moment moves that help you stay steady"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7605262840244489486)  2026-02-10T15:45Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do after a hard moment is nothing. Yes that's right. Just sitting next to our kids without fixing lecturing or rushing them forward is one of the most underused parenting tools we have. When Tony Finau shared how his dad showed up after a devastating golf loss this is what it reminds me: kids dont need fixing when theyre hurting. They need connection. You can hear our full conversation on the Good Inside podcast as part of our mini series created with @Nike wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7605736128469077262)  2026-02-11T22:21Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Does this sound familiar The ref missed that call or If only my teammate passed me the ball I definitely wouldve scored If your kid blames others for their feelings let me start off by saying there is nothing wrong with your kid and there is nothing wrong with you. This is a key characteristic of what I call a Deeply Feeling Kid. So why do they do this For a DFK shame sits close to their vulnerability. Big feelings are extra overwhelming for them. They dont know how to handle process or overcome the emotions they are experiencing. The only way they are able to deal with the existence of these"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7604884092852686094)  2026-02-09T15:15Z 335.3K followers, 12.5K engagements


"As a Patriots fan Im disappointed too. And what Mike Vrabel does here is the exact resilience move most of us skip: he doesnt pull people out of the feeling. He joins them in it. I call it the Feelings Bench: When someone is on the bench of disappointment sadness or this isnt fair our instinct is to tug them toward a sunnier bench in the garden. But what people actually need - kids partners friends teams - is for us to sit on the bench with them first. We can't change the hard but we can change the alone. And turns out - presence is what builds resilience"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7606054054338383117)  2026-02-12T18:54Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"We dont need to optimize every moment of our kids lives for their pleasure. Sometimes its actually good for kids to be bored to do something they dont enjoy or to show up for a sibling even when theyd rather be somewhere else. These are the moments that build empathy patience and resilience - the skills that make us good humans. And yes theyll whine. And thats okay. This was such an amazing conversation with @jayshetty on his podcast I hope you'll listen to the full episode out now"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7542135863862414647)  2025-08-24T13:00Z 335.2K followers, 1.3M engagements


""My kid hates watching movies" "My kid refuses to watch a new movie My kid will only watch movies that are baby-ish or that theyve seen a billion times Guess what Hating to watch movies is a classic sign of being a Deeply Feeling Kid. Does that feel so random Its not let me explain: DFKs struggle when they dont know what to expect or when they anticipate being surprised and overwhelmed. See these kids have a sensory experience that is deeper brighter louder and more potent. And so DFKs often scream Im not watching that not to be difficult. but to protect themselves from the feelings that"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7602392900961422623)  2026-02-02T22:07Z 335.2K followers, 12.5K engagements


"From Super Bowl energy to Olympic level mindset Ive always been fascinated by what fuels great athletes. That's why I'm so excited that my new mini podcast series with @Nike is almost here. You won't want to miss this"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7603368972720835854)  2026-02-05T13:15Z 335.2K followers, 11.7K engagements


"What happens when you step onto the worlds biggest stage give everything you have and it still doesnt go the way you hoped I sat down with five-time Olympic medalist @sanyarichiross for a special Good Inside podcast episode with @Nike and we talked honestly about pressure expectations and how athletes carry moments like this long after the race ends. If youve ever wondered how to help your child move through big wins and big disappointments this is for you. You can now listen wherever you get your podcasts. I cant wait for you to check it out"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7603500400825863437)  2026-02-05T21:45Z 335.2K followers, [----] engagements


"I won't let you take away an opportunity to see you are capable of dealing with this. Talking with @sanyarichiross on the Good Inside podcast with @Nike reminded me how powerful it is when adults hold belief instead of rescue. This is one I hope youll listen to and pass along"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7603897972346162446)  2026-02-06T23:28Z 335.2K followers, [----] engagements


"When @sanyarichiross talks about failing forward I think about how learning always feels uncomfortable before it feels possible. That frustration isnt a sign to stop. Its actually a sign growth is happening. For more from my conversation with Sanya tune into the most recent special edition of the Good Inside podcast with @nike wherever you like to stream"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7604219290845236493)  2026-02-07T20:15Z 335.2K followers, [----] engagements


"You dont need to be perfect - you just need a story that reminds you youre already a good parent inside. Id really love to hear what this brings up for you - what youre noticing thinking or feeling"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7604605852686896398)  2026-02-08T21:15Z 335.2K followers, [----] engagements


"A great coach deeply respects their players. Listens to them. Cares about how it feels to sit on the bench. And still the players dont decide the roster or who plays each night. Thats not because the players arent important. Its because someone has to hold the bigger picture and the long term vision. Parenting is the same. I deeply respect my kids. Theyre real people with real feelings and real perspectives. When my child says I wish I could watch more TV my first move is connection: I get it. You wish you could watch more TV. I totally understand. And then I hold the line. And turn off the"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7602714265069407501)  2026-02-03T18:55Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"@sanyarichiross said it best: If I am my best nobody can beat me. You can hear more in our Good Inside podcast episode with @Nike out now wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7603851471733460237)  2026-02-06T20:27Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Two things are true: I dont have a favorite topic to talk about AND if I had to choose I would definitely choose Deeply Feeling Kids. I was rewatching this video from last year - a moment with my daughter at a friends house - and I wanted to re-share it here as a reminder because it still feels so true. Why Because these kids are THE most misunderstood kids in the world. These kids can appear angry and prickly - and yet underneath they are deep feelers who just need a different approach. And theres nothing I get more positive This has changed my life feedback on than my DFK program. Ok so"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7604180639796956429)  2026-02-07T17:45Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Parenting truth: Our kids feelings need support not solutions. Try this: Next time your child is having a hard time say "I hear you" "That stinks" or "I'm so glad youre sharing that with me" instead of allowing your fixing / advice / solution voice to take over. I think youll be amazed by what happens next"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7347746126910508318)  2024-03-18T16:48Z 335.3K followers, 2.3M engagements


"Theres no right time for the sex talk. That's exactly how I ended up explaining condoms to my 5-year-old on a crowded New York City subway. And yes its normal for these conversions to feel awkward - especially if you didnt have them growing up. In the most recent episode on the Good Inside podcast learn how to turn tricky talks into meaningful moments of connection with scripts and strategies for sharing accurate inclusive and age-appropriate information about bodies porn sex and more. Comment "PODCAST" and I'll DM you the link to listen or find the episode wherever you stream your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7566743592522222861)  2025-10-29T20:30Z 335.3K followers, 27.1K engagements


"Tony Finau might be a PGA Tour star but the way he talked about parenting felt so familiar. We talked about holding two big roles at once letting two things be true and why showing up again and again matters more than getting it perfect. This episode of the Good Inside podcast is part of our new mini series with @Nike and its one I think a lot of parents will feel deeply. Listen wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7605793854607936782)  2026-02-12T02:05Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Some of the hardest moments arent the mistakes themselves. Theyre the moments after when your brain keeps replaying what went wrong. Listening to Tony Finau talk about how he moves on after a bad shot reminded me how much of life and parenting lives in the in between. This conversation from the Good Inside podcast mini series with @Nike is out now and Id love to hear what resonated for you"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7605959280667266317)  2026-02-12T12:45Z 335.3K followers, [---] engagements


"This is such a good reminder from Tony Finau. Connection doesnt have to be big. Sometimes its a drive a snack and being fully there for our kids. My conversation with Tony on the Good Inside podcast mini series with @Nike is out now. Listen wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7606002634939436302)  2026-02-12T15:35Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"What happens when the biggest moment of your life doesnt go the way you imagined After beam at the Tokyo Olympics @JordanChiles called her mom and said I failed everybody. In that moment Gina did what steady parents do - she held onto who her daughter is even when Jordan couldnt see it herself. Our conversation from the Good Inside podcast mini series with @Nike is out now and Id love to hear what resonated for you. Head to the link in my bio to listen to the full episode"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7606359692343774477)  2026-02-13T14:40Z 335.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Bullying and mean behavior arent the same and how we respond matters. Clarity is the first step toward helping our kids feel safe and confident again. Tune into the latest episode of the Good Inside podcast where I sit down with Dr. Sheryl Ziegler to talk all things bullying. Available wherever you stream your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7564928090476956941)  2025-10-24T23:05Z 313.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Of course all parents want to help their kids but jumping in to fix it right away takes kids out of their own feelings. Try empathy first: That mustve been really tough. Then stop there. Sometimes less really is more. Listen to my full conversation with Dr. Sheryl Ziegler on the most recent episode of the Good Inside podcast"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7565205162533408055)  2025-10-25T17:00Z 315K followers, 14.3K engagements


"Middle school is when bullying peaks and also when kids start pulling away from us. Theyre asking: Can I trust you with this Will you take over or just listen Finding that middle ground is everything. Tune in to the latest episode of the Good Inside podcast wherever you like to listen"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7565314658660257038)  2025-10-26T00:05Z 313K followers, [----] engagements


"Want your kid to talk to you Start by talking with them. Share a story from your own middle school years - its one of the easiest ways to build connection and trust. My conversation with Dr. Sheryl Ziegler on the Good Inside podcast was such an important one. Listen wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7565576278527446285)  2025-10-26T17:00Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"Ever notice your child suddenly doesnt feel well right before school It might not be avoidance it might be emotion. Our bodies speak the feelings we cant yet say. On the most recent episode of the Good Inside podcast I sat down with Dr. Sheryl Ziegler to talk about bullying. Tune in wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7566025884180778254)  2025-10-27T22:05Z 313.3K followers, 10K engagements


"#fyp I dont understand why people hate him. He's such a cutie patootie I dont understand why people hate him. He's such a cutie patootie"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@_derrick_/video/7566266600962149653)  2025-10-28T13:38Z 23.7K followers, 16.3M engagements


"Is this a hot take Halloween is just not the same as when we were kids 🎃 Now I need to know what tricky Halloween scenarios have you navigated with your kids and what did you do"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7566372437944749367)  2025-10-28T20:30Z 313.3K followers, 10.2K engagements


"There's no "appropriate age" to start talking about sensitive topics like sex or private parts with kids. When a child asks a question it means they're ready for a (developmentally appropriate) answer. AND if talking with your kids about the topic of sex feels awkward or uncomfortable you are not alone. Many of us want to talk openly with our kids but few of us had honest conversations about these topics when we were younger. This is why Im so excited about my latest podcast episode on the Good Inside podcast where we'll talk all about sex. Listen to the episode wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7566674227776982286)  2025-10-29T16:01Z 313K followers, [----] engagements


"When your child notices their body changing it can be confusing or even scary for them. Your calm simple reassurance That happens sometimes and youre healthy" goes a long way. Not sure how to talk about sex with your kids Tune into the latest episode of the Good Inside podcast wherever you like to listen"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7567161002622586126)  2025-10-30T23:30Z 313.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Let's talk about something really scary for parents. that moment you see something inappropriate on your kid's search history. Your heart drops and you're thinking "Oh no. what am I supposed to do now" Deep breath. It's normal for kids to be curious about sex. We want our kids to know they can come to us when they're curious about something. And it's normal if this feels tricky or uncomfortable to navigate. That's exactly why my recent podcast episode is all about what to do in these moments and how to talk to your kid about sex. Comment "PODCAST" and I'll send you the link to the episode or"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7567369792668093709)  2025-10-31T13:00Z 314.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Talking about sex doesnt make kids act out. When we bring openness and honesty to these conversations we give kids confidence and safety instead of shame and confusion. In the most recent episode of the Good Inside podcast learn how to turn tricky talks into meaningful moments of connection with scripts and strategies for sharing accurate inclusive and age-appropriate information about bodies porn sex and more.Listen wherever you get your podcasts Was keeping up with my reputation of flexing my quads in the airport and then 😂😂😂 Was keeping up with my reputation of flexing my quads in the"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7567775719892208910)  2025-11-01T15:15Z 316K followers, 402.8K engagements


"If talking about sex with your child feels uncomfortable that doesnt mean youre doing it wrong - it means youre doing something new. Youre breaking a generational pattern of silence and thats powerful. If you want to learn more on how to navigate these tricky conversations listen to the most recent episode of the Good Inside podcast wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7567880088348413197)  2025-11-01T22:00Z 313.6K followers, [----] engagements


"If we only teach kids that sex is for making babies we leave them unprepared for real relationships. Talking about bodies consent and yes - pleasure - helps kids grow into adults who feel confident safe and informed. In the most recent episode of the Good Inside podcast I'll break down how to make the hard talks easier. Learn how to turn awkward moments into real connection with scripts and strategies for talking to kids about bodies sex porn and more. Find the episode wherever you stream your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7568528025210457357)  2025-11-03T15:55Z 314.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Wondering if talking about sex will make your child too curious The opposite is true. Kids act out what they dont understand. Giving them language helps them feel calm and confident. Watch the full episode wherever you stream your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7568684069811227917)  2025-11-04T02:00Z 314.6K followers, [----] engagements


"It's no secret that modern parents are stretched to the limit. Careers childcare and expectations keep growing but the day is still only [--] hours long. On this week's episode of the Good Inside podcast I was able to sit down with @corinnelowphd to unpack the data behind parental exhaustion and share realistic ways to reclaim your time reduce resentment and feel more present in daily life. Comment "PODCAST" for a link to listen or find it wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7569000993350831415)  2025-11-04T22:30Z 315.3K followers, [----] engagements


"If your kid has huge reactions to seemingly small things - this is for you. The good news I'm hosting a LIVE Q&A on Tuesday Nov [--] from 8:30 9:15 PM EST where I'll answer your most pressing questions on what to do in these situations exclusively available in Good Inside membership The even better news Members if you join the upcoming Office Hours Q+A youll be automatically entered to win a private coaching sessions with a Good Inside Coach and a coaching session with me See our website for the official rules. I can't wait to see so many of you there"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7570732328436108557)  2025-11-09T14:30Z 315.2K followers, [----] engagements


"Parent hack: let the screams out before you leave the house. Its not about stopping the feeling - its about working with it. Want more free parenting advice 👋 I recently hit the streets of New York City to talk with real parents about the challenges we all face - big feelings anxious teens and the struggle to hold it all together. From helping your anxious high schooler face tough mornings to finding calm when your toddler starts screaming in a restaurant to learning how to do less and be more present - I'll break about what it really means to raise resilient confident kids. Episode [--] is now"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7571173319207128333)  2025-11-10T19:00Z 316.4K followers, 13K engagements


"Parenting is hard but youre not alone. I recently hit the streets of New York City to talk with real parents about the challenges we all face - big feelings morning meltdowns teen anxiety and so much more. Episode [--] is now available on YouTube"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7571930094206274829)  2025-11-12T19:57Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"Parent hack: when your kid says Im not going to school take a deep breath and pause before you push. We all have the initial reaction to say "Of course you are Go get ready right now" Here's the thing it's not always about forcing compliance - its about finding the feeling underneath our kid's defiance. Want more on what to actually say in these tricky parenting moments Watch the full video on the Good Inside YouTube channel"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7572322800103394573)  2025-11-13T21:20Z 317.5K followers, 17.4K engagements


"I call doubles Does anyone else remember that feeling Why don't we bring it back Let your kids choose one moment this week that feels special and make it a photo worth keeping"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7572681018717588750)  2025-11-14T20:30Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"When a teen tells you theyre too anxious for school you dont have to choose between validation and boundaries. You can do both: I get how hard this feels and school is still happening. I recently took to the street to talk to parents like YOU. I loved how many of you opened up and the advice I was able to share. The full version of the episode is now up on the Good Inside YouTube channel"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7572951467191962935)  2025-11-15T14:00Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"I love this question from @yamconcepcion and I know it's a question so many of you have. That's exactly why I wanted to share a quick strategy on breaking people-pleasing cycles. First working on these cycles in ourselves will help us pass along these habits to our kids. And you might be thinking "Okay then what How do I apply this to my life so I dont pass along people-pleasing habits to my kid" Start by noticing the moments when they clearly know what they want (yes even when its ice cream at 4pm.) A child saying I want ___ isnt being difficult. Theyre practicing using their voice. Theyre"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7574536290482343223)  2025-11-19T20:30Z 315.7K followers, [---] engagements


"I want my kids to know what it feels like to struggle. Not because I want life to be harder for them - because struggle is the birthplace of every skill that matters. The first time you talk to a crush Awkward. The first time you check out at a grocery store Awkward. The first time you try anything challenging Awkward. Thats exactly the point If kids learn they can always choose the path of zero effort and instant dopamine we unintentionally teach them to avoid discomfort. And avoidance is a really tough pattern to break in adulthood. Instead when kids learn that struggle is normal that"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7574791591144000781)  2025-11-20T13:00Z 316K followers, [----] engagements


"#stitch with @Catherine I know so many parents got a kick out of this video but also this mom is doing something pretty profound and its something that can apply to so many other situations. As a clinical psychologist specializing in impaired I felt the need to share some thoughts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7574807377493462286)  2025-11-20T14:01Z 318.2K followers, [----] engagements


"Its okay to think I dont want to do this. What matters most is what comes next. How I get myself to stay calm during a tantrum How I get myself to stay calm during a tantrum"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7575191208222362911)  2025-11-21T14:51Z 316K followers, [----] engagements


"For so many of us puberty education meant one thing: a book you read alone (and some borderline traumatizing images). Information about puberty is great AND information without connection can feel terrifying. When kids dont have a safe adult to talk to during puberty they feel uncertain and alone. That doesn't make talking about puberty any easier or less awkward. If this topic feels uncomfortable for you remember: the awkwardness isnt a mistake. Its a sign youre giving your child something you never received. Thats what cycle-breaking looks like. Tell them This might feel new for both of us"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7575304390676909325)  2025-11-21T22:10Z 316.5K followers, [----] engagements


"A strawberry aa lemonade taught me something today. Yes really. I ordered the drink exactly how my daughter likes it - light ice extra strawberries the whole thing. But when I walked out the extra was missing. And instantly that familiar voice started talking: Do I go back Am I being difficult Am I asking for too much This is what so many of us have been conditioned to do: prioritize the comfort of others over the needs of ourselves or our kids. Heres the truth I keep relearning - when we shrink ourselves we teach our children to shrink too. So I took a breath walked back in and asked."  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7575541293170838798)  2025-11-22T13:30Z 316.6K followers, [----] engagements


"If your kid is spiraling over a crush rumor you might think Why is this such a big deal Heres why: its not about the crush. Its about being seen before youre ready to be seen. Kids feel exposed spotlighted revealed in a moment that felt private. Remember that feeling from childhood When a teacher praised your work in front of the class and everyone thought it was flattering but inside you felt mortified That same dynamic is happening here. So when your child tells you how embarrassed they feel skip the Its not a big deal speech. Say: Im so glad youre talking to me. I get it this feels"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7576404661998013709)  2025-11-24T21:20Z 316.6K followers, [----] engagements


"On this week of the Good Inside podcast I sat down with Leslie Odom Jr. (also known as Hamiltons Aaron Burr) and Nicolette Robinson to talk childhood wounds breaking cycles raising spirited kids and navigating success while staying close in marriage. Their honesty while sharing stories about repair self-preservation and growth is truly admirable. This is a conversation I will never forget Available wherever you stream your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7576739886732971278)  2025-11-25T19:01Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"I absolutely love this trend. Such a Two Things Are True moment You can be sad your kid is growing up and so proud of who they have become. 💛 First video from @beckalorene"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7577139157357628727)  2025-11-26T20:50Z 316.6K followers, [----] engagements


"In this week's episode of the Good Inside podcast Leslie Odom Jr. reflects on discovering boundaries for the first time - after realizing the word wasnt even part of his vocabulary growing up. He shares how easily caretaking can slip into martyrdom and why he doesnt want his kids to see love as running yourself into the ground. Instead hes choosing a model where everyones needs matter and where boundaries protect connection rather than threaten it. This is an episode I think every parent needs to listen to. Find it wherever you like to listen"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7577195878130126093)  2025-11-27T00:30Z 317.6K followers, 19.6K engagements


"Separating from family can be an act of love - love for ourselves and love for them. As kids we keep trying because our survival depends on it. As adults we finally get to accept what is. This episode with Leslie Odom Jr. and Nicolette Robinson was so powerful. We unpacked childhood wounds breaking cycles and raising spirited kids. Tune in wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7577390160262827277)  2025-11-27T13:05Z [--] followers, 150.1K engagements


"Somewhere along the way we moved from ignoring kids emotions to being intimidated by them. And when were intimidated we overcorrect. We give those emotions the steering wheel and call it gentle parenting. But the Good Inside approach lives in the middle. Step one: Validate. I hear you. What youre feeling is real to you. Step two: Lead. Kids need parents who can hold a limit with warmth. Authority without aggression. Yes your child may really prefer to stay home instead of going to Aunt Sallys. Thats real. And also the plan is the plan. There are things in life we do because theyre part of"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7577798772583877902)  2025-11-28T15:30Z 317.5K followers, [----] engagements


"Entitlement is the accumulated experience of feeling frustrated and then immediately having someone else solve the frustration. The key to avoiding entitlement Well step one is realizing it might be a problem. Some good news: I have an upcoming live event on Monday Dec [--] at 11:30am ET all about navigating entitlement during the holidays. You'll begin to understand whats really underneath selfish or spoiled behavior - and how to build empathy and appreciation that last longer than a holiday season. This event is exclusive for Good Inside members Not a member Link in bio to join. Mu3r3 Ciclista"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7578136123856162062)  2025-11-29T13:20Z [--] followers, 19.2K engagements


"Even in the hard phases our kids show us theyre listening. Repair is always happening - sometimes in the sweetest ways. On the most recent episode of the Good Inside podcast I sat down with Leslie Odom Jr. (also known as Hamiltons Aaron Burr) and Nicolette Robinson to talk childhood wounds breaking cycles raising spirited kids and navigating success while staying close in marriage. Listen to the episode wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7578293625755323661)  2025-11-29T23:30Z 318.2K followers, [----] engagements


"Toddlers insist on the craziest things. the blue cup the other sock the scissors. You dont have to give in but you can validate: I cant give you that because its not safe and its okay to be upset about it. Its the same thing well do when theyre [--] and 13: hold the boundary stay connected and name the feeling. Thanks for the question Joe Gonzales.co Check out our full conversation on the Good Inside Youtube channel"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7579443316442336525)  2025-12-03T01:51Z 317.7K followers, [----] engagements


"If this was you over Thanksgiving I want to give you a permission: Youre allowed to protect your child and set boundaries with adults. You can take a breath. You can walk away. If the holidays felt heavy I want to remind you parenting is hard and I see you. 💙"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7579659455831297293)  2025-12-03T15:50Z 318.3K followers, [----] engagements


"Some moments as a parent hit harder than we expect. Especially the ones when we know we need to repair. This is perhaps one of the most important messages I want to send:Its not too late. Its never too late to reach for your kid or for the parts of yourself still learning how to feel seen. I absolutely loved my conversation with Joe Gonzales founder of Brooklyn Stroll Club to talk about fatherhood and why vulnerability can feel riskier than affection. Its an honest hopeful look at what repair really builds. Find the full episode on Youtube and wherever you stream your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7579794532468804877)  2025-12-04T00:34Z 318.6K followers, [----] engagements


"One of the most underestimated things in any partnership Just listening to understand - not to fix argue or prove a point. Check out more of my parenting advice on the Good Inside Youtube channel"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7580033881823366414)  2025-12-04T16:03Z 318.1K followers, [----] engagements


"#ad I just love a good belt to elevate an outfit #winterfashion #ootdinspo #belt #ootdfashion #fyp OOTD OOTD"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@kolbieinstyle/video/7580125684484328718)  2025-12-05T15:29Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"You dont have to see everything the same way as your partner but one thing that really helps with parenting is shared language. If your spouse reads a book or sees a workshop that resonates try this: watch it too. You dont have to agree with it. Its actually not about being right. But when you experience the same thing you can talk about it and stay on the same page even if your opinions differ. Want more advice on how to stay on the same page as your partner Check out the full video on the Good Inside Youtube channel"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7580167071875599630)  2025-12-05T00:40Z 318.2K followers, [----] engagements


"When @Patriots Coach Vrabel heard a player describe his coaching style as like a perfect parent he didnt lean into perfection. He leaned into relationship. Thats the part I hope every parent hears. Great coaches - just like great parents - arent trying to keep their players happy or avoid hard moments. Sometimes players get frustrated. Sometimes kids do too. That doesnt mean anything is wrong - it means growth is happening. The sports world gets this so clearly: You can love your coach and be mad at your coach. You can feel connected and be pushed to do better. Parenting is no different. You"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7580480151696182583)  2025-12-05T20:55Z 331.8K followers, [----] engagements


"It makes sense to want a tantrum to end but heres the truth. The panic we feel in those moments often comes from inside us as parents. In many ways tantrums reveal more about the parent experience than the childs. This episode with Joe Gonzales was so special. Tune in wherever you get your podcasts. How it feels being a ginger girl in a world full of beautiful tan brunett and blonde girls How it feels being a ginger girl in a world full of beautiful tan brunett and blonde girls"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7580707230563978510)  2025-12-06T11:38Z 331.8K followers, 12.6K engagements


"So much of parenting isnt just about raising our kids - its about re-raising the parts of us that never got what they needed. When our children trigger something old we can see it as a sign were broken or as an invitation. An invitation to heal to grow and to give our kids - and ourselves - something better than what we had before. I can't wait for you to hear this week's episode of the Good Inside podcast with Joe Gonzales was so special. Tune in wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7580905556936854839)  2025-12-07T00:25Z 331.8K followers, [----] engagements


"Its okay if youre worried your kids are entitled. In fact its a good thing. Why Because we can only work on problems we identify - and too often we identify a problem and then think On NO and then we turn away. instead of Oh YES Ive already done Step [--]. Amazing and then we can keep on going. Heres what I know: youre a good parent who wants to raise a good stable sturdy respectful resilient kid. And heres what else I know: youve never had a roadmap for how - *exactly* - to avoid entitlement. Without a roadmap we all fail. Thats not your fault. I hope you give yourself permission to forgive"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7581109986709785870)  2025-12-07T13:40Z 331.8K followers, [----] engagements


"Its easy to list all the reasons something will be too hard for our child. But heres the truth: challenges dont erase capability. They just mean our kids might need a different path. So try this. Write down "my kid is capable." Look at it often. Sometimes the smallest reminder shifts the whole way we lead our kids. If you missed the Q+A on entitlement you can catch the replay in the Good Inside library And because the holidays bring their own kind of big feelings for us parents Im hosting another live Q+A on Dec [--] at 11:30AM to help you stay steadier through the chaos. Youre not alone in any"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7582280131620719885)  2025-12-10T17:20Z 318.8K followers, [----] engagements


"It can feel infuriating when your kid denies something you know is true. Youre not alone if you tend to shout: Are you trying to pull one over me or If you just told me the truth I wouldnt be so angry And yet as most of us know these reactions rarely lead to our kid telling the truth. Instead our kids double down find new excuses or start a screaming match which feels bad for everyone involved. So how do we break out of this cycle We have to get curious about why our kids lie in the first place. Youre not alone if you get upset when your kid lies to you. If youre struggling with lying or"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7582588177836215607)  2025-12-11T13:15Z 320.2K followers, [----] engagements


"I love this reminder from David Kessler: "Grief is not being broken. Grief is feelings to be with not to fix." For more on this topic tune into the most recent Good Inside podcast wherever you like to stream"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7582730099682839822)  2025-12-11T22:25Z 320.2K followers, [----] engagements


"If winter mornings turn into a standoff over coats its easy to think the problem is compliance. But heres the reframe I want to offer: for many kids refusing a jacket is less about being difficult and more about asserting independence. Its a small moment where their body their voice and their sense of self all collide. And when we respond by forcing compliance the power struggle grows. When we come down hard and say things like Its cold Youll be freezing what they often hear isnt care but control. And thats when the power struggle escalates. Most of the time you dont actually need to force"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7583711554516815159)  2025-12-14T13:55Z 325.9K followers, 23.9K engagements


"This happened the other day with my son and I had to share. If youre like me youve had many power struggle moments with your kids (especially before school in the morning). This standoff feels awful to you and your child and as each of you get more entrenched in your own point-of-view tension escalates and resolution feels impossible. Heres a key idea: Sometimes our kids invite us to a power struggle and it is our job to reject that invitation. The next time you find yourself in this less-than-desirable situation take a deep breath and use this mantra: This is not an emergency. Ive got this."  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7584446016791776526)  2025-12-16T13:25Z 321.7K followers, [----] engagements


"When a child goes from Grandpa died to Can I play now it isnt disrespect. Its regulation. Kids are natural puddle jumpers through grief. I love this explanation from grief expert David Kessler. I sat down to talk David about helping kids through loss why children blame themselves and how honesty and connection make grief survivable - for them and for us. 🎧 Listen to the full episode of the Good Inside podcast wherever you like to get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7584558725269179703)  2025-12-16T20:42Z 321.5K followers, [----] engagements


"Grief doesnt get easier by avoiding it. Listening remembering saying a loved ones name these are gifts. If someone cries when you do it means they felt safe enough to be real with you. Im so grateful I got to speak with David Kessler on the Good Inside podcast and I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did. Stream it wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7584964219427228941)  2025-12-17T22:55Z 327.7K followers, [----] engagements


"When we were young guilt often felt safer than helplessness. Blaming ourselves gave us a sense of power: If its my fault maybe I can fix it. It made sense then but it can catch up with us in adulthood. Check out this conversation with David Kessler on the Good Inside podcast wherever you get your podcasts. I cant wait for you to listen"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7585043467424763149)  2025-12-18T04:03Z 321.3K followers, [----] engagements


"When something goes wrong theres usually a part of us that wants to defend ourselves. When you say Whats wrong with you You shouldnt have done that the only part the other person has left is the defensive one. Instead when you lead with Im sure thats not what you wanted either something different happens. You make space. You invite the other person to step into accountability without being cornered by shame. Listen to this conversation with Penn and Kim Holderness on the Good Inside podcast it's a good one.@The Holderness Family"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7585323193309596983)  2025-12-18T22:08Z 329.7K followers, 16.7K engagements


"For kids with ADHD or Deeply Feeling Kids especially what helps most isnt pressure or fixing - its containment. Someone saying Im here. I can help hold this with you. I loved talking about this with @The Holderness Family on the Good Inside podcast. Check it out wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7585658854826888461)  2025-12-19T19:51Z 321.9K followers, [----] engagements


"So often when we see "inconvenient" behavior in kids we quickly rush to stop it and label it without understanding whats really happening underneath. ADHD isnt about deficits; its about difference. I loved my conversation with Penn and Kim Holderness on the Good Inside podcast. Make sure to listen wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7585985946080890167)  2025-12-20T17:00Z 321.9K followers, [----] engagements


"Every holiday season the shoulds show up loudly. I should be happier. My kids should behave better. This should feel more magical. In a recent Good Inside Q+A we talked about an idea I love thinking of as the adult version of Elf on the Shelf: putting the "I shoulds" on a shelf. Not to get rid of them forever - just to step back and look at them with a little distance. Some might belong to someone else. Some might be old. And some might even hide a want underneath. When we put the shoulds on the shelf we trade guilt for clarity and thats where our power comes back. Good Inside members head to"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7586085639758597431)  2025-12-20T23:27Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"Why do the holidays feel so stressful for so many of us Often it comes down to this: expectation minus reality. We imagine how things "should" go - calm joyful meaningful - and then real life shows up with tired kids big feelings and plans that dont quite fit. We cant change reality all that much. But we can soften the stress by adjusting expectations. Like choosing fewer plans saying no more often and letting good enough be enough. If the holidays feel harder than you expected it doesnt mean youre doing something wrong. It means youre human. 💛"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7586315308290297143)  2025-12-21T14:19Z 323.6K followers, [----] engagements


"Gift meltdowns are normal. The good news We can reduce meltdowns by helping kids learn to manage disappointment. So here's my reminder to you. Kids can want something and not get it - and still be okay. You can want to give something and not be able to - and still be a good parent. Your relationship with your child isnt built on the perfect gift or the perfect holiday. Its built on who you are to them not what you give them"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7586443306880535821)  2025-12-21T22:35Z 328.2K followers, [----] engagements


"Im just going to name it so we can all prepare ourselves: were going to lose it over the holidays sometimes. And thats actually the doorway into what matters. Because if we stop expecting ourselves to be calm and joyful all day all the time we can finally let go of a myth that makes everything harder. One of the biggest misunderstandings about joy is that its something were supposed to feel for an entire day. Its not. Joy happens in moments. When we stop chasing the perfect day and start looking for - or even creating - one small moment ourselves something shifts. You dont need to get it"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7586685601059982605)  2025-12-22T14:15Z 327.7K followers, [----] engagements


"One reason this time of year feels so hard is that we keep hoping things will be different and then feel thrown when they arent. Try this instead: name one hard thing you expect to happen. The whining. The fighting. The comments that get under your skin. Then add this sentence: And I can cope with that. Coping isnt about things being easy. Its about knowing whats coming and trusting yourself to handle it when it does. I know the holidays can be a lot and you dont have to navigate them alone. Good Inside members can find the replay of my Q+A on staying steady during the holidays in the Good"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7587058489994775863)  2025-12-23T14:22Z 328.1K followers, [----] engagements


"We dont need to optimize every moment of our kids holiday time for their pleasure. Sometimes its actually good for kids to be bored over break to participate in traditions they dont love or to show up for a sibling or family gathering when theyd rather be somewhere else. These are the moments that build empathy patience and resilience - the skills that make us good humans. And yes theyll whine. And thats okay. This conversation with @jayshetty on his podcast was one of my favorite moments from this year and I hope its helpful to you during this holiday season"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7587476631808183607)  2025-12-24T17:25Z 332.3K followers, 394K engagements


"Holiday time and holiday travel has a way of bringing old dynamics right back to the surface. I dont want to go to your parents house. I do wait why am I even defending this Heres the shift that changes everything: As soon as one person owns their part of a conflict the other person is invited to own theirs. When we stop leading with you should have we make space for reflection responsibility and even repair. So instead try leading with I think Im reacting more than I want to - and Im not sure this is what you want either and watch what happens differently. I loved my conversation with Penn"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7587834863558855949)  2025-12-25T16:35Z [--] followers, 10.5K engagements


"When change feels hard our brain often tells us: this is the whole truth and it will last forever. That belief is actually part of what makes anxiety feel so overwhelming which is why I often come back to a simple equation to help make sense of whats happening. If youre going through a season of uncertainty this conversation from the Good Inside Podcast will be for you. Maya Shankar and I talk about change anxiety and why even the hardest moments dont define the rest of our story. Listen wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7589792160392760631)  2025-12-30T23:10Z 329.5K followers, [----] engagements


"How can we teach our kids that they dont have to take care of other peoples feelings That their wants and desires are valid and real It starts with helping kids learn that their needs matter too - and that being kind doesnt mean disappearing. Want more Check out our full conversation on the Good Inside Youtube channel"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7590378003415239991)  2026-01-01T13:05Z 331K followers, 17.1K engagements


"Limited time offer Start the year strong with 20% off your Good Inside membership. Get support the helps you feel calmer steadier and more connected. Link in my bio to join 🌟 Tantrums are not only normal tantrums are healthy. What Your child screaming and kicking about not being able to have a fudge pop for breakfast is healthy Yes. You betcha. Kids come into the world fully able to feel but not at all able to regulate their strong feelings. And so what happens with this big gap Meltdowns. Tantrums. Tantrums are not a sign of anything wrong with your child or anything wrong with your"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7591969632110562574)  2026-01-05T20:00Z 332.2K followers, [----] engagements


"Think about how much waiting was built into our childhoods. If we wanted to watch a movie we waited for our parents to take us to Blockbuster and then waited to see if the movie was even there. If we wanted new sneakers even if the answer was yes we waited - for the ride to the store for a salesperson. you get the idea. Waiting was just part of life. Now Movies appear in seconds. Shoes arrive at our door with one click. And then we find ourselves wondering why our kids feel more impatient more entitled less able to tolerate things not going their way. A lot of this isnt about kids being"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7594207733637713165)  2026-01-11T20:45Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


""I'm bored" Boredom can be a sign of self-doubt and frustration; on the surface your child is asking you to help them find a stimulating activity but they are really saying this: "I am having a hard time right now figuring out how to generate good feelings in my body." Figuring out what we want and like is a hard process - for kids and adults But it's a critical one and not something we want our child to miss out on. There's no simple solution here: we all figure out what we like through experimenting and often. from boredom piling up until we say "Ok I'll try something new" Your child's"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7594966646591130935)  2026-01-13T21:50Z [--] followers, 10.4K engagements


"Boredom isnt a problem to solve - its a gateway to something better. Its what comes before creativity independence and flexibility. Lets stop rushing to fill the blank spaces. Boredom might just be where the magic starts. And if you want to hear more on this tune into the latest episode of the Good Inside podcast. Available now on all streaming platforms (and to watch on YouTube)"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7595349350507744526)  2026-01-14T22:35Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"Validating someones feelings doesnt mean those feelings get to decide the outcome - it means saying I see you without giving up your role as a steady leader. When we separate empathy from decision-making kids (and adults) feel understood and held at the same time. On the most recent episode of the Good Inside podcast I sat down with Simon Sinek to talk about parenting and leadership. Tune in wherever you get your podcasts"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7597908329909865783)  2026-01-21T20:05Z 333.5K followers, [----] engagements


"I used to feel like I was failing one of my kids. when I tried to comfort them in moments of struggle they pushed me away. When I validated their feelings they responded back with loud hurtful words. Then I had a simple yet profound realization: Different kids need different things. Parenting is not a one size fits all approach. Thats what led me to develop my approach for Deeply Feeling Kids. What were typically told to do doesnt work for these kids: they dont want to talk about their feelings they often dont respond well to touching or direct eye contact they dont listen to logic or reason"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7598592383332224270)  2026-01-23T16:20Z [--] followers, [----] engagements


"Talking to your kid about grief is tough. and it's inevitable. Use these four steps to talk to your child about this serious topic #grief #parenting #kiddtok #serious"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7294440703348739371)  2023-10-27T01:15Z 334.7K followers, 58.8K engagements


"Its your fault I tripped Its your fault I wasnt invited Its your fault I didnt make the soccer team Does your kid often place blame on you or others I promise theyre not a bad kid. Theyre probably what I call a Deeply Feeling Kid. Watch this reel to hear me explain why blaming others is a key characteristic for DFKs. If any of this resonates my upcoming Deeply Feeling Kids workshop is for you. Youll not only finally understand your child youll also get practical strategies and tools for meaningful change. Visit the link in bio to join"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7374140401176841514)  2024-05-28T19:51Z 334.3K followers, 429.5K engagements


"Heres something I know: Partnerships are hard. It's hard to share a life with another person someone with their own history wants and needs and its really hard to raise a kid together Something else I know: When we work on our partnerships the whole family system benefits. You feel better your partner feels better your kid feels better. Its a win-win-win. Ive been thinking about this a lot with Valentines Day coming up. My feed is full of gift ideas for your partner but Im going to go out on a limb here and guess if youre like most parents I know (myself included) what you really want is"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7470603620350790942)  2025-02-12T18:37Z [--] followers, 16.5K engagements


"Kids cannot change until they feel good inside. And so much of feeling good is feeling connected meaning that you dont feel alone in your struggle. Heres something parents dont do enough of: share stories from their childhood stories of struggle and acting out and tantrums and difficulties in relationships. Sharing these stories normalizes struggling and tells your kid I was there too. Youre not alone. I am a good person and I struggled in that way. this means that youre a good person inside too. I see that. Im here with you. When kids are having a hard time we have to show them their"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7569714890462596365)  2025-11-06T20:40Z 334.2K followers, 92.2K engagements


"Potty training - or really I should call it potty *learning* - is about kids learning that they are in charge of their own body that they can recognize their body signals that they are becoming increasingly independent and capable. Want more on this topic Watch the full video on the Good Inside YouTube channel"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7579084684370431287)  2025-12-02T02:39Z 334.2K followers, 116.6K engagements


"What we run from pursues us. What we face transforms us. When I heard David Kessler share this during our conversation on the Good Inside podcast I got chills. And I want to talk through what it means for you today. The thing youve been avoiding - the tough conversation with your kid the bad news you have to tell your parents the fight with your partner that you decided to table until after the holiday chaos - its not going away. But heres whats also true: the moment you turn toward it (even a little) you start changing the story. And if you need a friend beside you to do that I just want you"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7583883102791978253)  2025-12-15T01:00Z 334.2K followers, 139.7K engagements


"You mightve seen this video earlier this year when I guest lectured at my alma mater Duke University in @aarondinins class and talked about the thing people miss most when it comes to managing frustration and taking on hard tasks. It was one of my favorite moments and the response from you all was so meaningful that I wanted to bring it back here - whether youre seeing it for the first time or could use the reminder as you head into the new year. Building resilience isnt pretty. Its messy hard and it relies on learning how to tolerate frustration. Frustration tolerance is one of lifes most"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7589355257688313143)  2025-12-29T18:55Z 334.2K followers, 232.8K engagements


"Heres something you would never expect a clinical psychologist who specializes in parenting to sayits okay if you fck up. Why Well repair is the single most powerful parenting strategy we have. In fact repairing with your child sets a foundation for just about every important relationship pattern. If there is one thing I want you to take in from all that I share its this: We all mess up. What defines us not whether we mess up its what happens after. And. It is not too late"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7278425339427261742)  2023-09-13T21:27Z 335.2K followers, 984.1K engagements


"When kids say Im bored our instinct is to fix it. But what if boredom is actually the gateway to creativity connection and growth I had the most amazing chat with Khlo Kardashian on the latest episode of Khlo in Wonder Land Catch our full conversation wherever you get your podcasts. 💫"  
[TikTok Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@drbeckyatgoodinside/video/7512897573825416494)  2025-06-06T18:00Z 335.2K followers, 124.1K engagements

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