#  @gonnabegolden_ gonnabegolden_ gonnabegolden_ posts on Reddit about exmo, has been, cult, away from the most. They currently have undefined followers and [--] posts still getting attention that total [---] engagements in the last [--] hours. ### Engagements: [---] [#](/creator/reddit::t2_1sj2iltdkc/interactions)  - [--] Week [-----] +72% - [--] Month [-----] -32% - [--] Months [------] +82% ### Mentions: [--] [#](/creator/reddit::t2_1sj2iltdkc/posts_active)  - [--] Month [--] -45% - [--] Months [--] +67% ### Followers: undefined [#](/creator/reddit::t2_1sj2iltdkc/followers)  - [--] Months [-----] +40% ### CreatorRank: [---------] [#](/creator/reddit::t2_1sj2iltdkc/influencer_rank)  ### Social Influence **Social category influence** [exchanges](/list/exchanges) **Social topic influence** [exmo](/topic/exmo) #55, [has been](/topic/has-been), [cult](/topic/cult), [away from](/topic/away-from), [could be](/topic/could-be), [back to](/topic/back-to), [prophet](/topic/prophet), [did you](/topic/did-you), [give me](/topic/give-me), [the church](/topic/the-church) ### Top Social Posts Top posts by engagements in the last [--] hours "Resignation confirmed but can still sign into LDS Tools Obviously Ill submit a help request but wondering if anyone knew why Im still able to access my LDS profile on Tools and the official website when my resignation has been confirmed. **For those wondering re: timeline for QuitMormon:** I started the process in Jan of this year freaked out about not being sealed to my children anymore (even though Ive been out for a year and a half and believe sealings are a farce) had to sit on it for three months to work through those emotions then officially submitted end of April and resignation was" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ly6nqa) 2025-07-12T17:54Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Removing kids records. Opinions re: age. Ive officially removed my records. Although my husband has also left the MFMC he has no plans to remove his. I wanted the finality he feels he doesnt have a reason to go through the process of having them removed. (Disappointing his parents especially his mom is also a factor.) We have young kids middle-elementary school age. Id be happy asking if theyd like their records removed now (two are old enough to understand and make that decision) my husband thinks we should wait until they are of age before asking (minimum 16). Opinions/insight Any personal" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1lyejk5) 2025-07-12T23:44Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Any guesses as to why this large portion of trunk gave out deleted Tree Tree" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1m4cjd8) 2025-07-20T01:24Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "The cult was culting so hard the indoctrination I found myself in so deep I truly believed I'd never be able to wear outfits like this. Six outfits for six thoughts paired with each stage of leaving the church. When I was a member of the LDS church I truly believed: * It was immoral wear a bikini to the pool or the beach or god forbid my honeymoon. * Swearing could send you to a lesser kingdom. * Swimming or shopping or even attending parties on the Sabbath could put you in mortal danger. * R-rated movies took you away from Christ no matter the content. * It was wrong to touch your own" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1m5hwvv) 2025-07-21T12:44Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "For those who have largely cured their plantar fasciitis (in quotations to account for flare-ups or spaced-out reoccurrences) what finally helped you Can you point to one or several things that made the most difference I understand everyones responses will be varied and wide (if only it was a simple do x for y amount of time and anyone can be healed) but after almost a year of suffering a steroid shot by one podiatrist the advice to rest + stretch + never barefoot + take daily Meloxicam by another its not betterits arguably worse. I used to be active. Athletic events every month running on" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1m94l9x) 2025-07-25T16:58Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Calling all female exmos: with deconstruction of the MFMC often going hand-in-hand with deconstructing the harms of patriarchy when is a time you truly felt unsafe in the presence of a Mormon man Times where you look back and think "WTF was that" I grew up with the teaching: "Mormons are better." Of course this bled into: "Mormon *men* are better." They're safer. More respectful. Don't offer the same harms that men in the outside world do. Ha. Of the several stories I have here's the one I'll share: I'm [--] years old. [----] miles away from home and a newly-minted freshman at BYU. I'm picked up" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mfycxk) 2025-08-02T18:59Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "What specific strengthening exercises did you/are you doing that helped How often are you doing them Just had an MRI. Still waiting on the official word from the podiatrist but after stretching/resting/icing/daily ibuprofen with no improvement for months Im ready to branch out and work on addressing the calves or the glutes or the whatever else it could be that might be causing my PF. Im a little overwhelmed with where to start and what to focus on. Would appreciate hearing others routines/exercises and the daily/weekly schedules theyve set. PlantarFasciitis PlantarFasciitis" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ml6cyp) 2025-08-08T20:37Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Hair air-dries like this after a wash (no added products). Is there something I could add that would help with definition/reduce frizz Do I need a different haircut deleted Haircare Haircare" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mlxp8x) 2025-08-09T19:16Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "If you could go back to when you were first considering leaving TSCC what would you do differently with regard to your spouse I left first and my spouse quickly followed. It was a whirlwind of a trajectory and I dont have many regrets. But on the opposite end I wish my spouse had been more forthright with me concerning his decades-long questions concerning the authenticity of Joseph as a Prophet. Who knows what the past may have held for us but I sometimes fantasize: What would it have been like had we left sooner If hed been more open rather than me finding everything out on my own Any" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mmva69) 2025-08-10T21:53Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Routine Help I dont know where to start deleted SkincareAddiction SkincareAddiction" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mogyxq) 2025-08-12T18:36Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Might be stirring the hornets nest with this one but my (also exmo) husband and I would like more voices added to our ongoing discussion: Do you think men are naturally more sexual than women Did your viewpoint on this shift after leaving the MFMC exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mu0y2j) 2025-08-18T22:38Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "If you removed your kids records which resignation method did you use Am I only able to remove records of kids whove been baptized FinallyFINALLYgot full confirmation that my resignation has gone through. I went through Quit Mormon which took a solid 5ish months. Even after I received confirmation it was another 30+ days before I could no longer access my LDS accounts. All three of my kids (all minors) also want their records removed. Two are baptized one is not but they were all blessed as babies. Husband is exmo but has no plans to remove his own records at the moment. Should I go through" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1n57bdc) 2025-08-31T21:57Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Exmo women of Reddit Tell me your jobs your degrees your careers exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1pbl3ny) 2025-12-01T18:51Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Im so far removed from this mindset that I honestly dont know if this will be offensive or not. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mou7ge) 2025-08-13T03:58Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Maybe you werent as TBM as you thought exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1nomfdw) 2025-09-24T03:53Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Looking for solidarity re: marriages both before/after leaving the MFMC exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1obnx6l) 2025-10-20T17:38Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Traveling. Heading to see family. Give me your most unhinged ways youve made it through visiting TBM family. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ojwqgn) 2025-10-30T11:12Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "First Nevermo wedding (+ lifelong dream) exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1oncald) 2025-11-03T14:06Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "Whats something (or multiple things) youve done since leaving the church that youre really fucking proud of yourself for exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1otltvn) 2025-11-10T18:50Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "A collection of screenshots taken from links sent by my dad since learning weve left the church exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ozs3y8) 2025-11-17T20:57Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Piggybacking off the recent post about sexual dysfunction in Mormon marriages: How many of your views regarding mens vs womens sexuality were shaped by the church Have any of them changed since becoming exmo exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1p0u71x) 2025-11-19T01:37Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Curious as to what marriage looked like for everyone else exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1p3wqbs) 2025-11-22T16:02Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Well. This was a surprise. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1p4s3yy) 2025-11-23T17:18Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Met one side of an MFM (mixed-faith marriage) last night exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1pdzkqm) 2025-12-04T13:13Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Heart unlocked exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1pjgfcc) 2025-12-10T22:23Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Shouldve made this our [----] Christmas card Cleveland Cleveland" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1prpmnr) 2025-12-20T21:50Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "Left the church filed for divorce and getting some WILD Christmas gifts exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1px4mkx) 2025-12-27T18:27Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "My Deconstruction Journey exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1nbs0eh) 2025-09-08T16:16Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "How did you and your spouse (or friend or parent or sibling etc) view certain aspects of the church differently *while you were both still TBM* exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1qvww8e) 2026-02-04T18:56Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "In honor of books and the vital role they played in my deconstruction exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1oy8sgj) 2025-11-16T01:28Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Exmo men What harmful mentalities about being a man did you realize you held onto as a member of the Mormon church Are you still deconstructing them exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1r05mww) 2026-02-09T14:30Z [--] followers, [---] engagements Limited data mode. 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gonnabegolden_ posts on Reddit about exmo, has been, cult, away from the most. They currently have undefined followers and [--] posts still getting attention that total [---] engagements in the last [--] hours.
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Social topic influence exmo #55, has been, cult, away from, could be, back to, prophet, did you, give me, the church
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Top posts by engagements in the last [--] hours
"Resignation confirmed but can still sign into LDS Tools Obviously Ill submit a help request but wondering if anyone knew why Im still able to access my LDS profile on Tools and the official website when my resignation has been confirmed. For those wondering re: timeline for QuitMormon: I started the process in Jan of this year freaked out about not being sealed to my children anymore (even though Ive been out for a year and a half and believe sealings are a farce) had to sit on it for three months to work through those emotions then officially submitted end of April and resignation was"
Reddit Link 2025-07-12T17:54Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Removing kids records. Opinions re: age. Ive officially removed my records. Although my husband has also left the MFMC he has no plans to remove his. I wanted the finality he feels he doesnt have a reason to go through the process of having them removed. (Disappointing his parents especially his mom is also a factor.) We have young kids middle-elementary school age. Id be happy asking if theyd like their records removed now (two are old enough to understand and make that decision) my husband thinks we should wait until they are of age before asking (minimum 16). Opinions/insight Any personal"
Reddit Link 2025-07-12T23:44Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Any guesses as to why this large portion of trunk gave out deleted Tree Tree"
Reddit Link 2025-07-20T01:24Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"The cult was culting so hard the indoctrination I found myself in so deep I truly believed I'd never be able to wear outfits like this. Six outfits for six thoughts paired with each stage of leaving the church. When I was a member of the LDS church I truly believed: * It was immoral wear a bikini to the pool or the beach or god forbid my honeymoon. * Swearing could send you to a lesser kingdom. * Swimming or shopping or even attending parties on the Sabbath could put you in mortal danger. * R-rated movies took you away from Christ no matter the content. * It was wrong to touch your own"
Reddit Link 2025-07-21T12:44Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"For those who have largely cured their plantar fasciitis (in quotations to account for flare-ups or spaced-out reoccurrences) what finally helped you Can you point to one or several things that made the most difference I understand everyones responses will be varied and wide (if only it was a simple do x for y amount of time and anyone can be healed) but after almost a year of suffering a steroid shot by one podiatrist the advice to rest + stretch + never barefoot + take daily Meloxicam by another its not betterits arguably worse. I used to be active. Athletic events every month running on"
Reddit Link 2025-07-25T16:58Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Calling all female exmos: with deconstruction of the MFMC often going hand-in-hand with deconstructing the harms of patriarchy when is a time you truly felt unsafe in the presence of a Mormon man Times where you look back and think "WTF was that" I grew up with the teaching: "Mormons are better." Of course this bled into: "Mormon men are better." They're safer. More respectful. Don't offer the same harms that men in the outside world do. Ha. Of the several stories I have here's the one I'll share: I'm [--] years old. [----] miles away from home and a newly-minted freshman at BYU. I'm picked up"
Reddit Link 2025-08-02T18:59Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"What specific strengthening exercises did you/are you doing that helped How often are you doing them Just had an MRI. Still waiting on the official word from the podiatrist but after stretching/resting/icing/daily ibuprofen with no improvement for months Im ready to branch out and work on addressing the calves or the glutes or the whatever else it could be that might be causing my PF. Im a little overwhelmed with where to start and what to focus on. Would appreciate hearing others routines/exercises and the daily/weekly schedules theyve set. PlantarFasciitis PlantarFasciitis"
Reddit Link 2025-08-08T20:37Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Hair air-dries like this after a wash (no added products). Is there something I could add that would help with definition/reduce frizz Do I need a different haircut deleted Haircare Haircare"
Reddit Link 2025-08-09T19:16Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"If you could go back to when you were first considering leaving TSCC what would you do differently with regard to your spouse I left first and my spouse quickly followed. It was a whirlwind of a trajectory and I dont have many regrets. But on the opposite end I wish my spouse had been more forthright with me concerning his decades-long questions concerning the authenticity of Joseph as a Prophet. Who knows what the past may have held for us but I sometimes fantasize: What would it have been like had we left sooner If hed been more open rather than me finding everything out on my own Any"
Reddit Link 2025-08-10T21:53Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Routine Help I dont know where to start deleted SkincareAddiction SkincareAddiction"
Reddit Link 2025-08-12T18:36Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Might be stirring the hornets nest with this one but my (also exmo) husband and I would like more voices added to our ongoing discussion: Do you think men are naturally more sexual than women Did your viewpoint on this shift after leaving the MFMC exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-08-18T22:38Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"If you removed your kids records which resignation method did you use Am I only able to remove records of kids whove been baptized FinallyFINALLYgot full confirmation that my resignation has gone through. I went through Quit Mormon which took a solid 5ish months. Even after I received confirmation it was another 30+ days before I could no longer access my LDS accounts. All three of my kids (all minors) also want their records removed. Two are baptized one is not but they were all blessed as babies. Husband is exmo but has no plans to remove his own records at the moment. Should I go through"
Reddit Link 2025-08-31T21:57Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Exmo women of Reddit Tell me your jobs your degrees your careers exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-01T18:51Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Im so far removed from this mindset that I honestly dont know if this will be offensive or not. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-08-13T03:58Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Maybe you werent as TBM as you thought exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-09-24T03:53Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Looking for solidarity re: marriages both before/after leaving the MFMC exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-20T17:38Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Traveling. Heading to see family. Give me your most unhinged ways youve made it through visiting TBM family. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-30T11:12Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"First Nevermo wedding (+ lifelong dream) exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-03T14:06Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"Whats something (or multiple things) youve done since leaving the church that youre really fucking proud of yourself for exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-10T18:50Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"A collection of screenshots taken from links sent by my dad since learning weve left the church exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-17T20:57Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Piggybacking off the recent post about sexual dysfunction in Mormon marriages: How many of your views regarding mens vs womens sexuality were shaped by the church Have any of them changed since becoming exmo exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-19T01:37Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Curious as to what marriage looked like for everyone else exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-22T16:02Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Well. This was a surprise. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-23T17:18Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Met one side of an MFM (mixed-faith marriage) last night exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-04T13:13Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Heart unlocked exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-10T22:23Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Shouldve made this our [----] Christmas card Cleveland Cleveland"
Reddit Link 2025-12-20T21:50Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"Left the church filed for divorce and getting some WILD Christmas gifts exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-27T18:27Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"My Deconstruction Journey exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-09-08T16:16Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"How did you and your spouse (or friend or parent or sibling etc) view certain aspects of the church differently while you were both still TBM exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-02-04T18:56Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"In honor of books and the vital role they played in my deconstruction exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-16T01:28Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Exmo men What harmful mentalities about being a man did you realize you held onto as a member of the Mormon church Are you still deconstructing them exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-02-09T14:30Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
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