#  @dbear848 dbear848 dbear848 posts on Reddit about exmo, temple, in a, money the most. They currently have [-------] followers and [---] posts still getting attention that total [---] engagements in the last [--] hours. ### Engagements: [---] [#](/creator/reddit::t2_j15qz/interactions)  - [--] Week [---] +179% - [--] Month [-----] -32% - [--] Months [------] -23% - [--] Year [------] -26% ### Mentions: [--] [#](/creator/reddit::t2_j15qz/posts_active)  - [--] Month [--] -60% - [--] Months [--] +20% - [--] Year [--] +72% ### Followers: [-------] [#](/creator/reddit::t2_j15qz/followers)  - [--] Months [-------] +2.70% - [--] Year [-------] +9% ### CreatorRank: [---------] [#](/creator/reddit::t2_j15qz/influencer_rank)  ### Social Influence **Social category influence** [exchanges](/list/exchanges) [finance](/list/finance) [social networks](/list/social-networks) [technology brands](/list/technology-brands) [countries](/list/countries) **Social topic influence** [exmo](/topic/exmo) #72, [temple](/topic/temple), [in a](/topic/in-a), [money](/topic/money), [in the](/topic/in-the), [lgbtq](/topic/lgbtq), [i dont](/topic/i-dont), [ward](/topic/ward), [don t](/topic/don-t), [the church](/topic/the-church) ### Top Social Posts Top posts by engagements in the last [--] hours "What Mormon reactivation attempts do you miss most exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1oayxcu) 2025-10-19T19:46Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Apparently my twisted exmo brain is remembering things incorrectly. Do you become a Mormon when you get dunked or does that only happen when you get confirmed exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1po38e2) 2025-12-16T14:33Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Has anyone else ever got Mormon reactivation type Christmas presents The year after my mission I gave my exmo dad a new triple combination. I'm still embarrassed. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ptixdg) 2025-12-23T03:05Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "I can't decide which is the more annoying response to my comments here in r/exmormon. The TBM who tries to 'Mormonsplain' something to me or the so-called Christian who screams cult. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1qv41tv) 2026-02-03T21:00Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "I'm listening to an episode of Mormonish and the topic was about the Mormon Church wanting Exmo podcasts to stop using the word "Mormon." In the unlikely event that the Mormon Church succeeds what could the podcasters use instead exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1pid493) 2025-12-09T17:26Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Shower thought - Among many positive things about leaving the Mormon church is that I stopped hating myself anymore. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1qp0wao) 2026-01-28T04:38Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Are Mormons now saying that temple worship is part of their 'Christian faith' I this part of the big rebrand exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1qvsgwp) 2026-02-04T18:55Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "So as an exmo have you ever tried to explain to a nevermo why the Mormon Church does not recognize the baptisms for other churches exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1r0njbq) 2026-02-10T01:58Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "I should probably already know this but who exactly funds the Mormon apologists Do they do it for free hoping to get a book deal or something Or do they get a modest stipend from one of the church's shell companies exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1r1l651) 2026-02-11T02:37Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "So much for the narrative that the Mormon church is more accepting of the LGBTQ+ community. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1r3qzn6) 2026-02-13T14:55Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "My wife is at a Mormon service. She claimed it would be about Jesus and only Jesus being Easter and all. I don't believe it" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/12gry3z) 2023-04-09T18:50Z 157.3K followers, [---] engagements "Did anyone else think that their temple wedding was more about the Mormon church than you and your spouse" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/14rdr6f) 2023-07-05T15:22Z 149.7K followers, 24.1K engagements "Dubious exmo achievement - I was recently asked by in an in-law to watch someone who would be disruptive while the rest of the family when to a temple open house" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/16gzicq) 2023-09-12T18:48Z 157.3K followers, [----] engagements "As an exmo I wonder what the expectations are of TBM friends and family concerning recent events in the news. Are we supposed to pretend that we haven't seen any of it Is that part of not being able to leave it alone" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/16ljgju) 2023-09-18T02:32Z 157.3K followers, 14.6K engagements "Was anyone else ever told that there was no such thing as priesthood burnout I heard that from my bishop at BYU when I was trying to get out of a time intensive calling" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/16lz14o) 2023-09-18T15:44Z [--] followers, 14.7K engagements "Contrary to TBM popular opinion leaving the Mormon church because you are offended is nothing to be ashamed of" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/16qdjy7) 2023-09-23T19:52Z 150.6K followers, 22K engagements "My wife and I were talking about the passing of Senator Feinstein. She said she couldn't believe that someone that old and in bad health was allowed to stay in office. I bit my tongue about how her church is led by an older person in poor health" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/16ve1x7) 2023-09-29T15:03Z 157.3K followers, 21.7K engagements "Rant - My wife is on the phone talking about how wonderful general conference was. I want to ask what the most wonderful part was Oaks demeaning LGBTQ+ people or the speakers who were ridiculing exmos like me" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/16xiuky) 2023-10-02T01:07Z 157.3K followers, 16.8K engagements "Be honest unless it reflects badly on the Mormon church" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/172bf3l) 2023-10-07T17:12Z 157.3K followers, 19.3K engagements "Tongue in cheek post from a progressive pastor. Thought it would fit here" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/189727k) 2023-12-02T16:17Z 157.3K followers, 16.5K engagements "It is just me but the phrase 'Think Celestial' seem like a big fuck you to exmos and 'the inactives' from TBMs Especially since it seems to have replaced 'Merry Christmas'. To me it sounds like I'm not good enough since I'm not part of the Mormon church anymore. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/18ojxmk) 2023-12-22T17:17Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements "I thought this would fit here. One possible response to the Mormon question about not being able to leave it alone. Because Mormons treasure being comfortable. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1aq32ng) 2024-02-13T20:06Z 163.4K followers, 20.1K engagements "Nothing like explaining to a nevermo why your wife can't join you at a Saturday morning activity because she is cleaning the toilets at her church. I remember being told to talk about what you do at church with nevermos so that they might become interested in the Mormon church. Probably not what they had in mind. As a side note is there any worse of a calling than building cleaning coordinator or whatever it's called I can imagine a lot of people blocking them. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1asqcp8) 2024-02-17T01:59Z 163.6K followers, 17.2K engagements "Only the Mormon church would brag about reducing the time for Easter services. Most Christian churches that I know of have longer services on Easter not shorter. My wife reluctantly asked if I wanted to go to her ward on Sunday. One of the incentives was that it was only going to be an hour and mostly music. I told her no that instead I was going to my own church where they make a big deal out of Easter. I have to admit that I really enjoy the pageantry and the energy of the service. Plus they don't sing hymns like you would at a funeral. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1bnsae6) 2024-03-25T23:13Z 193.1K followers, [---] engagements "Just because I used to be a testimony bearing TBM doesn't mean I can't change my mind. I used to believe in Santa Claus too. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1cimanx) 2024-05-02T18:02Z 184.2K followers, [---] engagements "When TBMs persist on sending links to conference talks to exmos what exactly do they think will happen That hearing the voice of someone we don't trust quoting someone we hate will somehow soften our hearts Or is just another example of Mormon bullying exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1cyruac) 2024-05-23T12:42Z 171.4K followers, [----] engagements "I celebrated Independence day by shredding the pages from my journal. I started keeping a personal journal after I got home from my mission. Church leaders at the time taught that the journals should contain positive experiences that would someday be testimony builders for their children and grandchildren. Being the obedient Mormon that I was I heavily censored the things that were going on in my life leaving only a Disney version of my time at BYU and my first decade or so of marriage. I only included what I thought would be uplifting and testimony building. It wasn't an accurate account of" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1dwd72z) 2024-07-06T00:42Z 175.8K followers, [--] engagements "Funny little story about my wife accompanying the sister missionaries to meet a new male contact. I was listening to the latest edition of *The Mormon Newscast* where they were talking about the somewhat naive posts on social media by missionaries. My wife was asked to meet up with the young women missionaries assigned to her ward at what turned out to be an upscale coffee shop. Apparently they had made an appointment to meet up with a young guy there but he was not expecting to have a chaperone old enough to be his grandmother. Apparently he was less interested in the Mormon church than he" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1e09c8g) 2024-07-10T22:44Z 176K followers, [---] engagements "Me: I don't believe that the Mormon leaders speak for God. TBMs respond by sending me a dozen links to conference talks. Apparently some of the general authorities have given talks assuring everyone that they do speak for God. That should be enough but somehow I find the logic lacking. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1eehz1m) 2024-07-28T21:15Z 177.8K followers, [---] engagements "Even my friends and family lie about their tech problems I've been a software developer since the 80s so everyone assumes that I can help them with their tech issues. I was having lunch with a friend and he was complaining about his android phone and how he needs to get a new one. It turns out for the last couple of weeks he has been getting a bunch of pop-ups every time he unlocks his screen. I asked him if he had installed any new apps and of course he denied it. I asked if I could take a look and he reluctantly gave it to me. I looked at the last used apps and noticed a dodgy looking poker" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1eg80mv) 2024-07-30T23:22Z 178.6K followers, [----] engagements "Is it really a mystery why 40% of returned missionaries leave the Mormon church after being treated like shit on their missions I thought I had it bad when I was a missionary in Japan but I could always count on safe housing and having enough food. I am horrified by some of the stories I read here. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ehy3my) 2024-08-02T01:49Z 178.8K followers, [----] engagements "When I was a Mormon I thought forgiving someone meant that I had to allow them to hurt me all over again. I like this definition of forgiveness a lot better. Sorry not sorry Spencer W. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ek31qj) 2024-08-04T19:05Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "So exactly what are all of the so-called tithing blessings that I am missing out on The only one I can think of is more of an extortion than a blessing and that is not being allowed to attend weddings in a Mormon temple. I grew up hearing people testify that they did better financially because they paid tithing but that was never my experience. My finances improved dramatically after I stopped. Cynically I think that the Mormon corporation is the recipient of tithing blessings not the rank and file member. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1en5j4d) 2024-08-08T13:08Z 179.2K followers, [---] engagements "The minister at my church mentioned that she was invited to an upcoming temple groundbreaking. Should I tell her how the temple ceremony used to have a minister For well over one hundred years the temple endowment included a Protestant minister character (wearing a collar) that was in the employ of Satan. On one hand it's been [--] years since they removed that character from the temple ceremony on the other hand a lot of the Mormons who will be at the groundbreaking are old enough to remember. I feel like I have a moral dilemma. My pastor is a lesbian and she said she did not feel comfortable" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1erekrg) 2024-08-13T17:58Z 179.5K followers, [---] engagements "I had a nightmare last night that I was improbably back in a bishopric. I was so relieved when the alarm went off. In my dream I was trying to get people out of the church so I could lock up and leave. I was feeling incredibly resentful that I got stuck doing something that I absolutely didn't want to do. I was surprised after waking up how strong that feeling was. My former therapist would probably have had a field day with this because of my resentment. Looking back I resented 90% of my mission and leadership callings after my mission. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1eunq91) 2024-08-17T17:54Z 179.7K followers, [---] engagements "Ignoring all of the falsehoods reasons I would never go back to the Mormon church. What did I forget * Boring church services. * I don't think I could ever go back to priesthood meeting without screaming. * I would have to answer half of the temple recommend questions with *none of your fucking business*. * Tithing extortion settlement meetings. * Being assigned to be a ministering brother. It can't possibly be any better than being a home teacher. * Being *called* to something that I have no interest in skill or talent. * Meetinghouse cleaning assignments * Afternoon church * General" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1exez6b) 2024-08-21T03:03Z 179.9K followers, [---] engagements "Something that I saw on another subreddit - victims are under no obligation to protect their abusers. I thought of that when I saw another post about how we can leave the Mormon church but can't leave it alone. Why the fuck should we We don't have any obligation to slink off quietly into the night. Like most bullies a lot of Mormons can dish it out but they can't take it when someone says something negative about the Mormon church. We really need a rant tag. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ezrboy) 2024-08-23T23:38Z 180.1K followers, [---] engagements "Me and my former bishop. He couldn't understand why I didn't want to come back for more abuse. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1f5qrzs) 2024-08-31T16:06Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements "I've been ponderizing Nelson's teaching to not take counsel from those who do not believe. I think that it opens up a wonderful opportunity for those of us who do not believe. Never take counsel from those who do not believe. https://www.exmormon.org/phorum/read.php22492361 Mormons hate it when we use the same language that they do when we explain why we left. For example I can say that the reason I left is too sacred to share. It is doubly irritating to the TBM if I add a small catch in my throat and a few tears down my cheek. My point is that they can use to stop a discussion but so can we." [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1fc497k) 2024-09-08T18:13Z 183.8K followers, [---] engagements "Mormonish Ep191: Most Cringeworthy Moments in Mormon History. These are [--] reasons I'm glad that I am an exmo. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ficsxr) 2024-09-16T18:59Z 183.6K followers, [--] engagements "Thought stopper of the day - I was never taught that. When I post here or reply to someone else's post I regularly get a comment like that. I suppose if you grow up Mormon and have graduated from seminary you may sincerely think that you know all there is to know about Mormonism. I suppose to be fair I was probably the same way for a long time but I got so bored hearing the same things over and over again that I was kind of hungry for something that I hadn't been taught already. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1fq9i4p) 2024-09-26T22:59Z 183.8K followers, [---] engagements "Shower thought - If I got excommunicated for being an apostate it would affect my TBM wife and family much more than it would be a punishment for me. I got thinking about this recently and I remembered that if I got excommunicated my TBM family would see it as that my disobedience means that I consciously decided that I didn't want to be sealed to them anymore. I know that everything that happens in a Mormon temple is just pretend but they take it seriously. I think that the stakes are higher in a mixed faith marriage. I wonder how many of those marriages would survive if the exmo gets" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1fw1lwq) 2024-10-04T15:15Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements "Along with temporary commandments can we add temporary covenants and temporary testimonies My eight year old self got baptized without realizing the ramifications so it doesn't make sense that it was in anyway a permanent covenant. My testimony of Santa Claus was probably waning about the same time I got one of the Mormon church but I don't think I need to feel bad about losing either of those so-called testimonies when I got more information. Anything else we can move from the category of eternal to temporary exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1fy7l7l) 2024-10-07T13:27Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements "The Mormon Christmas trifecta. First my wife went through the yearly Mormon shakedown formerly known as tithing settlement. Second we have pass along cards for our friends and neighbors announcing the Mormon giving machines. I will not be participating or passing out the cards. Lastly we have Mormon McTemple Christmas tree ornaments. Still not a cult. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1hbjot0) 2024-12-11T02:52Z 186.4K followers, [--] engagements "If you see a headline like "Mormon leader accused of CSA" and your first thought is that the use of the church name is a victory for Satan you may be a cultist. If your first thought instead is that the headline is ruining the good name of the church you still might be a cultist. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1hmtrfe) 2024-12-26T17:53Z 187.4K followers, [---] engagements "Thinking of all of the Mormon related things that make me feel bad. I'm sure there are at least a hundred things I could put on my list of Mormon things that made me feel bad. * Home teaching aka ministering to my assigned friends * Attending priesthood meeting * Paying dues to a multi billion church * Revering Mormon church leaders * Wearing Mormon underwear * Janitorial duty on Saturday mornings * Cosplay for the dead * Wearing a white shirt and a tie * [--] AM high council meetings * Peddling copies of the book of Mormon door to door when it is below freezing * Attending my assigned ward at 2" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1hw9ar5) 2025-01-08T02:36Z 188.3K followers, [----] engagements "How Jack Mormon were you I recently listened to an (click link) episode(https://youtube.com/watchv=-JKKHcjAgVQ&si=nkeRY-mf6BwK8uDu) of Mormon.ish titled *How Mormon Were You Special New Year's Edition.* I grew up in a Jack Mormon family so I didn't relate to a lot of them. For instance never called a coffee table a hot chocolate table mainly because my parents drank coffee and were not ashamed. On the other hand we did some things that looking back did not make much sense. Anyone else grow up in a Jack Mormon family * I grew up before the three hour block so Sunday School was in the morning" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1hwvvib) 2025-01-08T21:45Z 190.8K followers, [--] engagements "Shower thought - VidAngel is a lot like the Mormon church they screen out anything that might be objectional. VidAngel is an American streaming video company that allows the user to skip objectionable content based on user preferences regarding profanity nudity sexual situations and graphic violence. The company uses customizable filters to automatically cut out scenes or sounds which the viewer does not want to see or hear. I've watched movies on airlines and then watched them again later and realized that a lot was left out on the airline version. It sounds like VidAngel is a lot like that." [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1i20jra) 2025-01-15T15:57Z 188.5K followers, [---] engagements "I thought this would fit here. Never underestimate the power of planting a seed. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ia5541) 2025-01-26T03:46Z 188.7K followers, [---] engagements "This reminds me of going to the temple and being told "That will do". Or maybe my experience in the bishopric trying to find people to fill callings. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1inhmyb) 2025-02-12T03:25Z 189.9K followers, [---] engagements "Mormon Stories - Mormon Church Facing New Sex Abuse & Trafficking Lawsuits - Phil & Paydan Bussey Ep. [----] (I just finished listening to) (that episode)(https://www.youtube.com/live/vEQK-S70KU0si=pl8kGJpgZkHH5y6W) (and I had what probably seems like a couple of unrelated thoughts.) The first is that TBMs were instructed in a general conference talk to pay tithing before feeding their hungry children. The second is that the Mormon church is more interested in protecting the good name of the Mormon church and the reputation of predators than they are protecting children. In both cases it" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1iwpswj) 2025-02-24T01:06Z 190.6K followers, [---] engagements "I really don't want a Mormon funeral nor do I want to be buried in temple clothing. Will removing my name from the Mormon church prevent that I just finished listening to Mormonish *Ep240: Debunking LDS Funerals: There's a Reason They're Often Hijacked By Proselytizing* My wife and children are as TBM as can be and to be honest I don't trust them to honor my wishes. I get that I will be dead and won't care anymore but after all of these years I don't want to turn my death to foist a missionary opportunity on my friends who know how much I hate the Mormon church. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1izvvnv) 2025-02-28T01:14Z 190.6K followers, [---] engagements "Corrected to be just your TBM self exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1j5n1l2) 2025-03-07T13:02Z 191K followers, [---] engagements "Heads Mormons win tails I lose. As an exmo anything negative that happens in my life is because I stopped attending the Mormon church and more importantly stopped giving them money. You can probably blame the entire stock market slump on me. If something positive happens such as getting a big bonus at work or getting over some illness it only happened because some worthy member of the Mormon church put my name on a temple prayer list. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1jbcm9l) 2025-03-14T19:51Z 198K followers, [---] engagements "Dear TBM I don't care if your church has 25% more Jesus this year I'm still not going to go to church with you on Easter. In my apostate opinion people who like attending Easter services want to do it at their own church not at a recently rebranded church with burlap wall coverings. Anyone else wants to go to brunch. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1jzqpnr) 2025-04-15T12:32Z 193.1K followers, [----] engagements "Did anyone else feel like that they weren't Celestial Kingdom material even when they were TBM I used to do a lot of genealogy and temple work hoping that might make me eligible but in the back of my mind I believed that even if I wasn't going to the Celestial Kingdom at least I would give my dead ancestors a chance. Finding out that the Mormon church was a hoax was a big relief for a lot of reasons but knowing that if there is an afterlife it won't look like what I was taught in church. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1k1hga9) 2025-04-17T16:44Z 193.1K followers, [---] engagements "What if the Mormon church had a conclave to elect the new prophet Do you think Rusty would have been voted in I'm pretty sure Harold Lee wouldn't have been. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1kiylze) 2025-05-10T01:21Z 194K followers, [---] engagements "So have you ever noticed when TBM friends and family send you links from Elder Head N Ass they are supposed to tell you how God want's you to clean up your act. When you quote Apostle Race S Dummy they tell you that he was either or a product of his time or speaking as a man not was a prophet. I know that this is just another example of *the Mormon church is always right and you are always wrong* but it makes me smile. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1koaio0) 2025-05-16T20:08Z 194.2K followers, [---] engagements "How I feel as an exmo sometimes removed exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1kr3emn) 2025-05-20T12:16Z 194.3K followers, [---] engagements "Would someone please remind me of all the tithing blessings that I am missing because I refuse to give money to the Mormon church Not paying tithing helped me build a nice retirement nest egg. Plus being a non tithe payer guarantees that I will never have to go on a senior mission yet another great cost saver. I'm guessing that the real tithing blessings are supposed to happen after I die in some improbable afterlife. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1l887ll) 2025-06-10T19:40Z 195.5K followers, [---] engagements "So what exactly do Mormons think that will happen when Jesus comes back Is it Third Nephi all over again where Jesus will destroy a bunch of people outside of the Morridor before appearing at temple square in Salt Lake City Or is more like when the destroying angel killed off the first born if there wasn't a smear of lamb's blood above the door of a house except this time it will have to be proof of paying a full tithing Or are they going to go all Christian and go along with the mythology of the Rapture when all of the righteous will fly into the sky to meet Jesus exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1lhrs6i) 2025-06-22T16:18Z 195.8K followers, [--] engagements "Ep263: The Arizona Tucson Mission Disaster Just when I thought I couldn't hate the Mormon church any more than I already do I listened to this episode of Mormonish. I've always compared Mormon missionaries to cannon fodder and Tanner's experiences just go to prove how little regard the leaders of the Mormon church have for the missionaries. This isn't in the podcast but reading the links to Tanner's *Medium* essay I saw that Dallin Oaks was one of the visitors to Tanner's mission. So it seems to me that the top brass can't say that they weren't aware of the horrific conditions in that" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1lrt5aj) 2025-07-04T20:55Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Shower thought - when I grew up in the Mormon church I was warned time and again about social pressure. Funny thing is that the only social pressure I ever encountered was from other Mormons. Do they still talk about social pressure I used to think that I was going to be trapped in some back alley by shady friends and would be forced to drink coffee. I apparently didn't have much of an imagination as a child. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ltj2ds) 2025-07-07T02:41Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "My TBM family keeps wanting me to go back to the Mormon church but the church I left [--] years ago no longer exists. I was ponderizing the post about how the church of our youth no longer exists and it occurred to me that the church I left is gone too. And from what I gather not for the better. I'm not likely going to join the church of Russel Nelson let alone the one of Susan's husband. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ltthbp) 2025-07-07T12:57Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "I saw this on Facebook and I'm so angry. deleted exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1lv85jd) 2025-07-09T03:03Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "Exmo achievement - I learned to make coffee using a French press I'm visiting my exmo brother and he insisted that I needed to learn to make my own g*d damn coffee. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1lysa4y) 2025-07-13T13:02Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "When a TBM family member sends an exmo a picture of a temple what exactly are they trying to accomplish It's been too long since I was a TBM so if I had to guess it might be an attempt to heart sell me with some fond memories of when I was a regular temple attender along with any manufacturered spiritual experiences. Instead I find it triggering. Those memories have long been replaced with newer experiences of having to stand outside when my children and other loved ones are getting married and then having to paste a smile on my face for the obligatory extended family wedding photos with the" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1m3ktfm) 2025-07-19T02:19Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Has the old Mormon saying 'every member a missionary' been replaced with 'every member an apologist' I just got back from visiting some TBM family members in Utah and I had some interesting conversations initiated by them. I'm still thinking about some of them and maybe I will post about them later after I think about them some more. Even after me being out a quarter of a century I think that some of my family members are holding out some hope that I will eventually return to the Mormon church. I've been there myself hoping that if I could just Mormonsplain things just right with the perfect" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1m4tuac) 2025-07-20T16:53Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Tell me that you are in a mixed faith marriage (MFM) without saying that you are in a mixed faith marriage. I will go first. * I hide my instant coffee in my home office. * I would rather admit to looking at pornography online than posting to r/exmormon. * I generally know what's happening in the Mormon church before my spouse does. * I have to pretend that I don't know what is happening in the Mormon church lest I get accused of leaving but not leaving it alone. * I dread general conference weekends because there is at least one talk telling people in my spouse's postilion that they actually" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1m8dmtf) 2025-07-24T19:20Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "Mormon Church Growth in Africa the rest of the story. removed exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mabfmq) 2025-07-27T02:47Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Has anyone else tried explaining assigned congregations and rotating meeting schedules to a nevermo I was telling a friend about how my wife's ward is being reorganized for the third time in three years. The reorganizations involve boundary changes which for the uninitiated means that some of your church friends are going to be attending different congregations. So I was telling my friend that the average member has to attend a Mormon congregation depending on where they live at a meetinghouse and at a specified time. Not only that but in most cases the meeting time will change every calendar" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mswxgi) 2025-08-17T17:26Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "I'm so grateful that I left the Mormon church before LDS tools or whatever they call it now was a thing. I'm also grateful that my TBM wife and family have not provided my email address or my cellphone number. I'm not at all sad that I miss out on all the opportunities to clean a church that I don't go to anymore. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1my5syb) 2025-08-23T16:22Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "With the Mormon church marketing itself as The Church of Jesus Christ what are the missionaries teaching their so-called friends Back in my day it was First Vision and resurrected beings giving Joseph Smith the priesthood. I can't imagine that would fit in the current iteration of the Mormon church. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mzpb0u) 2025-08-25T12:37Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Making fun of the Lord's anointed. It is wrong to call church leaders assholes even if they are assholes" I'm probably breaking at least one temple covenant. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1njv8n0) 2025-09-18T01:26Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Do you think that the Mormon church leadership cares about the well-being of the rank-and-file membership of the church In my deconstruction I decided that the only thing that they care about is if people show up to work for free and keep paying their tithing. Or am I just being overly cynical exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1no32dn) 2025-09-23T00:20Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Since the Mormon church has adopted Good Friday and Holy week I'm wondering if they are going to start observing Pentecost exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1l1wgqa) 2025-06-02T23:05Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "The very early days of me being an exmo. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1m2e3rz) 2025-07-17T19:08Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "I'm hearing TBMs saying the word Mormon more and more. Is this something new exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1mtz4yf) 2025-08-18T21:29Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "I hope that Mormon Jesus calls Brad Wilcox to be the new apostle. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1o0orsj) 2025-10-08T09:45Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Morning coffee realization: anti-Mormon isn't the same thing as not true. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ocbkjq) 2025-10-21T13:10Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Does anyone else hear both of these "You never had a real testimony" and "You still know that the Church is true" exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1of7eli) 2025-10-24T19:51Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "My TBM wife doesn't understand why I don't want to watch my grandchildren participate in their ward's primary program. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ogmgze) 2025-10-26T14:59Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "The time that my [--] year old sister ran away from home and a few weeks later the ward membership clerk asked me for her new address. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ojo1t6) 2025-10-30T02:29Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Responding to the shutdown and cancelling SNAP exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1osscr0) 2025-11-09T19:43Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "The surprising health benefits of coffee So who are you going to trust Mormon leaders or the Mayo clinic exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1p00xxn) 2025-11-18T03:34Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Please explain it to me like I am a few months shy of [--] years old. What is the point of missionaries on the other side of the veil If it turns out that there is a Mormon heaven after all wouldn't it be obvious This never made sense to me. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1p2exk4) 2025-11-20T21:02Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Why do people take it as an absolute truth that the Mormon church teaches children good values exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1p92azj) 2025-11-28T18:33Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Shower thought - Bearing a powerful testimony about the Mormon church and Joseph Smith wasn't as effective as I was led to believe. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1pces0o) 2025-12-02T17:36Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Because we can't just leave it alone I'm guessing that we apostates here on r/exmormon know a lot more about the so-called bishop's SA hotline than 90% of the believing Mormons. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1peild2) 2025-12-05T02:05Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Shower thought - the phrase 'LDS standards' isn't the high bar that I used to think it was. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1pqqeko) 2025-12-19T17:08Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Explain this to me like I am a few months shy of being five. Why does Joseph Smith talk about a first vision instead of a first visitation exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1ptv9w4) 2025-12-23T15:17Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Mission Christmas memories exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1pvnu3v) 2025-12-25T21:55Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "Removed by moderator exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1q4o7j8) 2026-01-05T15:48Z [--] followers, [----] engagements "I can't wait to see how the Mormon Church handles Easter being on General Conference weekend this year and their attempts to be just another Jesus church. exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1qc1uql) 2026-01-13T20:46Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "For those who went on foreign speaking missions did you believe that you had the gift of tongues Were you told that your language skills were predicated on your faith and obedience to the mission rules exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/1qm5uep) 2026-01-25T01:54Z [--] followers, [---] engagements "Two beers question: Are TBM's the only ones who can pull the 'spirit of contention' (TSOC) card Or exmos allowed to use it too exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/7ztvqm) 2025-04-02T05:38Z [--] followers, [--] engagements "A newmo asked me about the temple. I was tempted to tell him that the important parts were that I promised to give the Mormon church all of my money and I was threatened by death if I talked about what happened in the temple. Did I miss anything exmormon exmormon" [Reddit Link](https://redd.it/9qkd1m) 2025-11-02T00:13Z [--] followers, [---] engagements Limited data mode. Full metrics available with subscription: lunarcrush.com/pricing
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"What Mormon reactivation attempts do you miss most exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-19T19:46Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Apparently my twisted exmo brain is remembering things incorrectly. Do you become a Mormon when you get dunked or does that only happen when you get confirmed exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-16T14:33Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Has anyone else ever got Mormon reactivation type Christmas presents The year after my mission I gave my exmo dad a new triple combination. I'm still embarrassed. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-23T03:05Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"I can't decide which is the more annoying response to my comments here in r/exmormon. The TBM who tries to 'Mormonsplain' something to me or the so-called Christian who screams cult. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-02-03T21:00Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"I'm listening to an episode of Mormonish and the topic was about the Mormon Church wanting Exmo podcasts to stop using the word "Mormon." In the unlikely event that the Mormon Church succeeds what could the podcasters use instead exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-09T17:26Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Shower thought - Among many positive things about leaving the Mormon church is that I stopped hating myself anymore. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-01-28T04:38Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Are Mormons now saying that temple worship is part of their 'Christian faith' I this part of the big rebrand exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-02-04T18:55Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"So as an exmo have you ever tried to explain to a nevermo why the Mormon Church does not recognize the baptisms for other churches exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-02-10T01:58Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"I should probably already know this but who exactly funds the Mormon apologists Do they do it for free hoping to get a book deal or something Or do they get a modest stipend from one of the church's shell companies exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-02-11T02:37Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"So much for the narrative that the Mormon church is more accepting of the LGBTQ+ community. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-02-13T14:55Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"My wife is at a Mormon service. She claimed it would be about Jesus and only Jesus being Easter and all. I don't believe it"
Reddit Link 2023-04-09T18:50Z 157.3K followers, [---] engagements
"Did anyone else think that their temple wedding was more about the Mormon church than you and your spouse"
Reddit Link 2023-07-05T15:22Z 149.7K followers, 24.1K engagements
"Dubious exmo achievement - I was recently asked by in an in-law to watch someone who would be disruptive while the rest of the family when to a temple open house"
Reddit Link 2023-09-12T18:48Z 157.3K followers, [----] engagements
"As an exmo I wonder what the expectations are of TBM friends and family concerning recent events in the news. Are we supposed to pretend that we haven't seen any of it Is that part of not being able to leave it alone"
Reddit Link 2023-09-18T02:32Z 157.3K followers, 14.6K engagements
"Was anyone else ever told that there was no such thing as priesthood burnout I heard that from my bishop at BYU when I was trying to get out of a time intensive calling"
Reddit Link 2023-09-18T15:44Z [--] followers, 14.7K engagements
"Contrary to TBM popular opinion leaving the Mormon church because you are offended is nothing to be ashamed of"
Reddit Link 2023-09-23T19:52Z 150.6K followers, 22K engagements
"My wife and I were talking about the passing of Senator Feinstein. She said she couldn't believe that someone that old and in bad health was allowed to stay in office. I bit my tongue about how her church is led by an older person in poor health"
Reddit Link 2023-09-29T15:03Z 157.3K followers, 21.7K engagements
"Rant - My wife is on the phone talking about how wonderful general conference was. I want to ask what the most wonderful part was Oaks demeaning LGBTQ+ people or the speakers who were ridiculing exmos like me"
Reddit Link 2023-10-02T01:07Z 157.3K followers, 16.8K engagements
"Be honest unless it reflects badly on the Mormon church"
Reddit Link 2023-10-07T17:12Z 157.3K followers, 19.3K engagements
"Tongue in cheek post from a progressive pastor. Thought it would fit here"
Reddit Link 2023-12-02T16:17Z 157.3K followers, 16.5K engagements
"It is just me but the phrase 'Think Celestial' seem like a big fuck you to exmos and 'the inactives' from TBMs Especially since it seems to have replaced 'Merry Christmas'. To me it sounds like I'm not good enough since I'm not part of the Mormon church anymore. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2023-12-22T17:17Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements
"I thought this would fit here. One possible response to the Mormon question about not being able to leave it alone. Because Mormons treasure being comfortable. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-02-13T20:06Z 163.4K followers, 20.1K engagements
"Nothing like explaining to a nevermo why your wife can't join you at a Saturday morning activity because she is cleaning the toilets at her church. I remember being told to talk about what you do at church with nevermos so that they might become interested in the Mormon church. Probably not what they had in mind. As a side note is there any worse of a calling than building cleaning coordinator or whatever it's called I can imagine a lot of people blocking them. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-02-17T01:59Z 163.6K followers, 17.2K engagements
"Only the Mormon church would brag about reducing the time for Easter services. Most Christian churches that I know of have longer services on Easter not shorter. My wife reluctantly asked if I wanted to go to her ward on Sunday. One of the incentives was that it was only going to be an hour and mostly music. I told her no that instead I was going to my own church where they make a big deal out of Easter. I have to admit that I really enjoy the pageantry and the energy of the service. Plus they don't sing hymns like you would at a funeral. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-03-25T23:13Z 193.1K followers, [---] engagements
"Just because I used to be a testimony bearing TBM doesn't mean I can't change my mind. I used to believe in Santa Claus too. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-05-02T18:02Z 184.2K followers, [---] engagements
"When TBMs persist on sending links to conference talks to exmos what exactly do they think will happen That hearing the voice of someone we don't trust quoting someone we hate will somehow soften our hearts Or is just another example of Mormon bullying exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-05-23T12:42Z 171.4K followers, [----] engagements
"I celebrated Independence day by shredding the pages from my journal. I started keeping a personal journal after I got home from my mission. Church leaders at the time taught that the journals should contain positive experiences that would someday be testimony builders for their children and grandchildren. Being the obedient Mormon that I was I heavily censored the things that were going on in my life leaving only a Disney version of my time at BYU and my first decade or so of marriage. I only included what I thought would be uplifting and testimony building. It wasn't an accurate account of"
Reddit Link 2024-07-06T00:42Z 175.8K followers, [--] engagements
"Funny little story about my wife accompanying the sister missionaries to meet a new male contact. I was listening to the latest edition of The Mormon Newscast where they were talking about the somewhat naive posts on social media by missionaries. My wife was asked to meet up with the young women missionaries assigned to her ward at what turned out to be an upscale coffee shop. Apparently they had made an appointment to meet up with a young guy there but he was not expecting to have a chaperone old enough to be his grandmother. Apparently he was less interested in the Mormon church than he"
Reddit Link 2024-07-10T22:44Z 176K followers, [---] engagements
"Me: I don't believe that the Mormon leaders speak for God. TBMs respond by sending me a dozen links to conference talks. Apparently some of the general authorities have given talks assuring everyone that they do speak for God. That should be enough but somehow I find the logic lacking. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-07-28T21:15Z 177.8K followers, [---] engagements
"Even my friends and family lie about their tech problems I've been a software developer since the 80s so everyone assumes that I can help them with their tech issues. I was having lunch with a friend and he was complaining about his android phone and how he needs to get a new one. It turns out for the last couple of weeks he has been getting a bunch of pop-ups every time he unlocks his screen. I asked him if he had installed any new apps and of course he denied it. I asked if I could take a look and he reluctantly gave it to me. I looked at the last used apps and noticed a dodgy looking poker"
Reddit Link 2024-07-30T23:22Z 178.6K followers, [----] engagements
"Is it really a mystery why 40% of returned missionaries leave the Mormon church after being treated like shit on their missions I thought I had it bad when I was a missionary in Japan but I could always count on safe housing and having enough food. I am horrified by some of the stories I read here. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-08-02T01:49Z 178.8K followers, [----] engagements
"When I was a Mormon I thought forgiving someone meant that I had to allow them to hurt me all over again. I like this definition of forgiveness a lot better. Sorry not sorry Spencer W. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-08-04T19:05Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"So exactly what are all of the so-called tithing blessings that I am missing out on The only one I can think of is more of an extortion than a blessing and that is not being allowed to attend weddings in a Mormon temple. I grew up hearing people testify that they did better financially because they paid tithing but that was never my experience. My finances improved dramatically after I stopped. Cynically I think that the Mormon corporation is the recipient of tithing blessings not the rank and file member. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-08-08T13:08Z 179.2K followers, [---] engagements
"The minister at my church mentioned that she was invited to an upcoming temple groundbreaking. Should I tell her how the temple ceremony used to have a minister For well over one hundred years the temple endowment included a Protestant minister character (wearing a collar) that was in the employ of Satan. On one hand it's been [--] years since they removed that character from the temple ceremony on the other hand a lot of the Mormons who will be at the groundbreaking are old enough to remember. I feel like I have a moral dilemma. My pastor is a lesbian and she said she did not feel comfortable"
Reddit Link 2024-08-13T17:58Z 179.5K followers, [---] engagements
"I had a nightmare last night that I was improbably back in a bishopric. I was so relieved when the alarm went off. In my dream I was trying to get people out of the church so I could lock up and leave. I was feeling incredibly resentful that I got stuck doing something that I absolutely didn't want to do. I was surprised after waking up how strong that feeling was. My former therapist would probably have had a field day with this because of my resentment. Looking back I resented 90% of my mission and leadership callings after my mission. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-08-17T17:54Z 179.7K followers, [---] engagements
"Ignoring all of the falsehoods reasons I would never go back to the Mormon church. What did I forget * Boring church services. * I don't think I could ever go back to priesthood meeting without screaming. * I would have to answer half of the temple recommend questions with none of your fucking business. * Tithing extortion settlement meetings. * Being assigned to be a ministering brother. It can't possibly be any better than being a home teacher. * Being called to something that I have no interest in skill or talent. * Meetinghouse cleaning assignments * Afternoon church * General"
Reddit Link 2024-08-21T03:03Z 179.9K followers, [---] engagements
"Something that I saw on another subreddit - victims are under no obligation to protect their abusers. I thought of that when I saw another post about how we can leave the Mormon church but can't leave it alone. Why the fuck should we We don't have any obligation to slink off quietly into the night. Like most bullies a lot of Mormons can dish it out but they can't take it when someone says something negative about the Mormon church. We really need a rant tag. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-08-23T23:38Z 180.1K followers, [---] engagements
"Me and my former bishop. He couldn't understand why I didn't want to come back for more abuse. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-08-31T16:06Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements
"I've been ponderizing Nelson's teaching to not take counsel from those who do not believe. I think that it opens up a wonderful opportunity for those of us who do not believe. Never take counsel from those who do not believe. https://www.exmormon.org/phorum/read.php22492361 Mormons hate it when we use the same language that they do when we explain why we left. For example I can say that the reason I left is too sacred to share. It is doubly irritating to the TBM if I add a small catch in my throat and a few tears down my cheek. My point is that they can use to stop a discussion but so can we."
Reddit Link 2024-09-08T18:13Z 183.8K followers, [---] engagements
"Mormonish Ep191: Most Cringeworthy Moments in Mormon History. These are [--] reasons I'm glad that I am an exmo. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-09-16T18:59Z 183.6K followers, [--] engagements
"Thought stopper of the day - I was never taught that. When I post here or reply to someone else's post I regularly get a comment like that. I suppose if you grow up Mormon and have graduated from seminary you may sincerely think that you know all there is to know about Mormonism. I suppose to be fair I was probably the same way for a long time but I got so bored hearing the same things over and over again that I was kind of hungry for something that I hadn't been taught already. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-09-26T22:59Z 183.8K followers, [---] engagements
"Shower thought - If I got excommunicated for being an apostate it would affect my TBM wife and family much more than it would be a punishment for me. I got thinking about this recently and I remembered that if I got excommunicated my TBM family would see it as that my disobedience means that I consciously decided that I didn't want to be sealed to them anymore. I know that everything that happens in a Mormon temple is just pretend but they take it seriously. I think that the stakes are higher in a mixed faith marriage. I wonder how many of those marriages would survive if the exmo gets"
Reddit Link 2024-10-04T15:15Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements
"Along with temporary commandments can we add temporary covenants and temporary testimonies My eight year old self got baptized without realizing the ramifications so it doesn't make sense that it was in anyway a permanent covenant. My testimony of Santa Claus was probably waning about the same time I got one of the Mormon church but I don't think I need to feel bad about losing either of those so-called testimonies when I got more information. Anything else we can move from the category of eternal to temporary exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-10-07T13:27Z 183.9K followers, [---] engagements
"The Mormon Christmas trifecta. First my wife went through the yearly Mormon shakedown formerly known as tithing settlement. Second we have pass along cards for our friends and neighbors announcing the Mormon giving machines. I will not be participating or passing out the cards. Lastly we have Mormon McTemple Christmas tree ornaments. Still not a cult. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-12-11T02:52Z 186.4K followers, [--] engagements
"If you see a headline like "Mormon leader accused of CSA" and your first thought is that the use of the church name is a victory for Satan you may be a cultist. If your first thought instead is that the headline is ruining the good name of the church you still might be a cultist. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2024-12-26T17:53Z 187.4K followers, [---] engagements
"Thinking of all of the Mormon related things that make me feel bad. I'm sure there are at least a hundred things I could put on my list of Mormon things that made me feel bad. * Home teaching aka ministering to my assigned friends * Attending priesthood meeting * Paying dues to a multi billion church * Revering Mormon church leaders * Wearing Mormon underwear * Janitorial duty on Saturday mornings * Cosplay for the dead * Wearing a white shirt and a tie * [--] AM high council meetings * Peddling copies of the book of Mormon door to door when it is below freezing * Attending my assigned ward at 2"
Reddit Link 2025-01-08T02:36Z 188.3K followers, [----] engagements
"How Jack Mormon were you I recently listened to an (click link) episode(https://youtube.com/watchv=-JKKHcjAgVQ&si=nkeRY-mf6BwK8uDu) of Mormon.ish titled How Mormon Were You Special New Year's Edition. I grew up in a Jack Mormon family so I didn't relate to a lot of them. For instance never called a coffee table a hot chocolate table mainly because my parents drank coffee and were not ashamed. On the other hand we did some things that looking back did not make much sense. Anyone else grow up in a Jack Mormon family * I grew up before the three hour block so Sunday School was in the morning"
Reddit Link 2025-01-08T21:45Z 190.8K followers, [--] engagements
"Shower thought - VidAngel is a lot like the Mormon church they screen out anything that might be objectional. VidAngel is an American streaming video company that allows the user to skip objectionable content based on user preferences regarding profanity nudity sexual situations and graphic violence. The company uses customizable filters to automatically cut out scenes or sounds which the viewer does not want to see or hear. I've watched movies on airlines and then watched them again later and realized that a lot was left out on the airline version. It sounds like VidAngel is a lot like that."
Reddit Link 2025-01-15T15:57Z 188.5K followers, [---] engagements
"I thought this would fit here. Never underestimate the power of planting a seed. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-01-26T03:46Z 188.7K followers, [---] engagements
"This reminds me of going to the temple and being told "That will do". Or maybe my experience in the bishopric trying to find people to fill callings. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-02-12T03:25Z 189.9K followers, [---] engagements
"Mormon Stories - Mormon Church Facing New Sex Abuse & Trafficking Lawsuits - Phil & Paydan Bussey Ep. [----] (I just finished listening to) (that episode)(https://www.youtube.com/live/vEQK-S70KU0si=pl8kGJpgZkHH5y6W) (and I had what probably seems like a couple of unrelated thoughts.) The first is that TBMs were instructed in a general conference talk to pay tithing before feeding their hungry children. The second is that the Mormon church is more interested in protecting the good name of the Mormon church and the reputation of predators than they are protecting children. In both cases it"
Reddit Link 2025-02-24T01:06Z 190.6K followers, [---] engagements
"I really don't want a Mormon funeral nor do I want to be buried in temple clothing. Will removing my name from the Mormon church prevent that I just finished listening to Mormonish Ep240: Debunking LDS Funerals: There's a Reason They're Often Hijacked By Proselytizing My wife and children are as TBM as can be and to be honest I don't trust them to honor my wishes. I get that I will be dead and won't care anymore but after all of these years I don't want to turn my death to foist a missionary opportunity on my friends who know how much I hate the Mormon church. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-02-28T01:14Z 190.6K followers, [---] engagements
"Corrected to be just your TBM self exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-03-07T13:02Z 191K followers, [---] engagements
"Heads Mormons win tails I lose. As an exmo anything negative that happens in my life is because I stopped attending the Mormon church and more importantly stopped giving them money. You can probably blame the entire stock market slump on me. If something positive happens such as getting a big bonus at work or getting over some illness it only happened because some worthy member of the Mormon church put my name on a temple prayer list. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-03-14T19:51Z 198K followers, [---] engagements
"Dear TBM I don't care if your church has 25% more Jesus this year I'm still not going to go to church with you on Easter. In my apostate opinion people who like attending Easter services want to do it at their own church not at a recently rebranded church with burlap wall coverings. Anyone else wants to go to brunch. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-04-15T12:32Z 193.1K followers, [----] engagements
"Did anyone else feel like that they weren't Celestial Kingdom material even when they were TBM I used to do a lot of genealogy and temple work hoping that might make me eligible but in the back of my mind I believed that even if I wasn't going to the Celestial Kingdom at least I would give my dead ancestors a chance. Finding out that the Mormon church was a hoax was a big relief for a lot of reasons but knowing that if there is an afterlife it won't look like what I was taught in church. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-04-17T16:44Z 193.1K followers, [---] engagements
"What if the Mormon church had a conclave to elect the new prophet Do you think Rusty would have been voted in I'm pretty sure Harold Lee wouldn't have been. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-05-10T01:21Z 194K followers, [---] engagements
"So have you ever noticed when TBM friends and family send you links from Elder Head N Ass they are supposed to tell you how God want's you to clean up your act. When you quote Apostle Race S Dummy they tell you that he was either or a product of his time or speaking as a man not was a prophet. I know that this is just another example of the Mormon church is always right and you are always wrong but it makes me smile. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-05-16T20:08Z 194.2K followers, [---] engagements
"How I feel as an exmo sometimes removed exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-05-20T12:16Z 194.3K followers, [---] engagements
"Would someone please remind me of all the tithing blessings that I am missing because I refuse to give money to the Mormon church Not paying tithing helped me build a nice retirement nest egg. Plus being a non tithe payer guarantees that I will never have to go on a senior mission yet another great cost saver. I'm guessing that the real tithing blessings are supposed to happen after I die in some improbable afterlife. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-06-10T19:40Z 195.5K followers, [---] engagements
"So what exactly do Mormons think that will happen when Jesus comes back Is it Third Nephi all over again where Jesus will destroy a bunch of people outside of the Morridor before appearing at temple square in Salt Lake City Or is more like when the destroying angel killed off the first born if there wasn't a smear of lamb's blood above the door of a house except this time it will have to be proof of paying a full tithing Or are they going to go all Christian and go along with the mythology of the Rapture when all of the righteous will fly into the sky to meet Jesus exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-06-22T16:18Z 195.8K followers, [--] engagements
"Ep263: The Arizona Tucson Mission Disaster Just when I thought I couldn't hate the Mormon church any more than I already do I listened to this episode of Mormonish. I've always compared Mormon missionaries to cannon fodder and Tanner's experiences just go to prove how little regard the leaders of the Mormon church have for the missionaries. This isn't in the podcast but reading the links to Tanner's Medium essay I saw that Dallin Oaks was one of the visitors to Tanner's mission. So it seems to me that the top brass can't say that they weren't aware of the horrific conditions in that"
Reddit Link 2025-07-04T20:55Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Shower thought - when I grew up in the Mormon church I was warned time and again about social pressure. Funny thing is that the only social pressure I ever encountered was from other Mormons. Do they still talk about social pressure I used to think that I was going to be trapped in some back alley by shady friends and would be forced to drink coffee. I apparently didn't have much of an imagination as a child. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-07-07T02:41Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"My TBM family keeps wanting me to go back to the Mormon church but the church I left [--] years ago no longer exists. I was ponderizing the post about how the church of our youth no longer exists and it occurred to me that the church I left is gone too. And from what I gather not for the better. I'm not likely going to join the church of Russel Nelson let alone the one of Susan's husband. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-07-07T12:57Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"I saw this on Facebook and I'm so angry. deleted exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-07-09T03:03Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"Exmo achievement - I learned to make coffee using a French press I'm visiting my exmo brother and he insisted that I needed to learn to make my own g*d damn coffee. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-07-13T13:02Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"When a TBM family member sends an exmo a picture of a temple what exactly are they trying to accomplish It's been too long since I was a TBM so if I had to guess it might be an attempt to heart sell me with some fond memories of when I was a regular temple attender along with any manufacturered spiritual experiences. Instead I find it triggering. Those memories have long been replaced with newer experiences of having to stand outside when my children and other loved ones are getting married and then having to paste a smile on my face for the obligatory extended family wedding photos with the"
Reddit Link 2025-07-19T02:19Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Has the old Mormon saying 'every member a missionary' been replaced with 'every member an apologist' I just got back from visiting some TBM family members in Utah and I had some interesting conversations initiated by them. I'm still thinking about some of them and maybe I will post about them later after I think about them some more. Even after me being out a quarter of a century I think that some of my family members are holding out some hope that I will eventually return to the Mormon church. I've been there myself hoping that if I could just Mormonsplain things just right with the perfect"
Reddit Link 2025-07-20T16:53Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Tell me that you are in a mixed faith marriage (MFM) without saying that you are in a mixed faith marriage. I will go first. * I hide my instant coffee in my home office. * I would rather admit to looking at pornography online than posting to r/exmormon. * I generally know what's happening in the Mormon church before my spouse does. * I have to pretend that I don't know what is happening in the Mormon church lest I get accused of leaving but not leaving it alone. * I dread general conference weekends because there is at least one talk telling people in my spouse's postilion that they actually"
Reddit Link 2025-07-24T19:20Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"Mormon Church Growth in Africa the rest of the story. removed exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-07-27T02:47Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Has anyone else tried explaining assigned congregations and rotating meeting schedules to a nevermo I was telling a friend about how my wife's ward is being reorganized for the third time in three years. The reorganizations involve boundary changes which for the uninitiated means that some of your church friends are going to be attending different congregations. So I was telling my friend that the average member has to attend a Mormon congregation depending on where they live at a meetinghouse and at a specified time. Not only that but in most cases the meeting time will change every calendar"
Reddit Link 2025-08-17T17:26Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"I'm so grateful that I left the Mormon church before LDS tools or whatever they call it now was a thing. I'm also grateful that my TBM wife and family have not provided my email address or my cellphone number. I'm not at all sad that I miss out on all the opportunities to clean a church that I don't go to anymore. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-08-23T16:22Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"With the Mormon church marketing itself as The Church of Jesus Christ what are the missionaries teaching their so-called friends Back in my day it was First Vision and resurrected beings giving Joseph Smith the priesthood. I can't imagine that would fit in the current iteration of the Mormon church. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-08-25T12:37Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Making fun of the Lord's anointed. It is wrong to call church leaders assholes even if they are assholes" I'm probably breaking at least one temple covenant. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-09-18T01:26Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Do you think that the Mormon church leadership cares about the well-being of the rank-and-file membership of the church In my deconstruction I decided that the only thing that they care about is if people show up to work for free and keep paying their tithing. Or am I just being overly cynical exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-09-23T00:20Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Since the Mormon church has adopted Good Friday and Holy week I'm wondering if they are going to start observing Pentecost exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-06-02T23:05Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"The very early days of me being an exmo. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-07-17T19:08Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"I'm hearing TBMs saying the word Mormon more and more. Is this something new exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-08-18T21:29Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"I hope that Mormon Jesus calls Brad Wilcox to be the new apostle. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-08T09:45Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Morning coffee realization: anti-Mormon isn't the same thing as not true. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-21T13:10Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Does anyone else hear both of these "You never had a real testimony" and "You still know that the Church is true" exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-24T19:51Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"My TBM wife doesn't understand why I don't want to watch my grandchildren participate in their ward's primary program. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-26T14:59Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"The time that my [--] year old sister ran away from home and a few weeks later the ward membership clerk asked me for her new address. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-10-30T02:29Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Responding to the shutdown and cancelling SNAP exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-09T19:43Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"The surprising health benefits of coffee So who are you going to trust Mormon leaders or the Mayo clinic exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-18T03:34Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Please explain it to me like I am a few months shy of [--] years old. What is the point of missionaries on the other side of the veil If it turns out that there is a Mormon heaven after all wouldn't it be obvious This never made sense to me. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-20T21:02Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Why do people take it as an absolute truth that the Mormon church teaches children good values exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-28T18:33Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Shower thought - Bearing a powerful testimony about the Mormon church and Joseph Smith wasn't as effective as I was led to believe. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-02T17:36Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Because we can't just leave it alone I'm guessing that we apostates here on r/exmormon know a lot more about the so-called bishop's SA hotline than 90% of the believing Mormons. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-05T02:05Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Shower thought - the phrase 'LDS standards' isn't the high bar that I used to think it was. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-19T17:08Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Explain this to me like I am a few months shy of being five. Why does Joseph Smith talk about a first vision instead of a first visitation exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-23T15:17Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Mission Christmas memories exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-12-25T21:55Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"Removed by moderator exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-01-05T15:48Z [--] followers, [----] engagements
"I can't wait to see how the Mormon Church handles Easter being on General Conference weekend this year and their attempts to be just another Jesus church. exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-01-13T20:46Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"For those who went on foreign speaking missions did you believe that you had the gift of tongues Were you told that your language skills were predicated on your faith and obedience to the mission rules exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2026-01-25T01:54Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"Two beers question: Are TBM's the only ones who can pull the 'spirit of contention' (TSOC) card Or exmos allowed to use it too exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-04-02T05:38Z [--] followers, [--] engagements
"A newmo asked me about the temple. I was tempted to tell him that the important parts were that I promised to give the Mormon church all of my money and I was threatened by death if I talked about what happened in the temple. Did I miss anything exmormon exmormon"
Reddit Link 2025-11-02T00:13Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
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