@loversbyshan Lovers by Shan
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Social Influence
Social category influence finance 11.38% stocks 4.07% social networks 2.44% technology brands 2.44% travel destinations 0.81% countries 0.81%
Social topic influence shan #85, relationships #719, how to 4.07%, ft 3.25%, advice #3192, youtube 2.44%, kama 2.44%, health #4475, interview #2620, mental health 2.44%
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Top Social Posts
Top posts by engagements in the last [--] hours
"Not Every Autistic Person Looks the Same Ft. Chrisette Michele After Chrisette told the man she was dating that shes autistic he said I have a nephew whos autistic and he doesnt act like you. It was heartbreaking but also revealing. What he saw as simple preferencesearplugs quiet rooms dim lightswere actually the ways she keeps herself regulated. Autism doesnt have one look one sound or one story. #LoversByShan #ChrisetteMichele #AutismAwareness #Neurodivergence #AutismAcceptance #LoversPodcast ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-10-31T18:30Z 187K followers, 1.2M engagements
"Should Relationships be THIS Hard ft. Beleaf & Yvette Henry Are relationships supposed to be THIS Hard This week on LOVERS Shan sits down with Glen and Yvette Henry the couple behind the viral family brand Beleaf in Fatherhood. Glen known as Beleaf has a new book coming out titled Father Yourself First which challenges men to approach fatherhood as a path of healing self-awareness and personal accountability. In this conversation Glen and Yvette open up about how hard marriage can be especially after kids success and faith transitions. From getting married young to raising four children and"
YouTube Link 2025-10-15T00:56Z 187K followers, 63K engagements
"When Ego Gets in the Way of Co-Parenting Ft. Abby De La Rosa If everyone consented to the dynamic why is cordial co-parenting still so hard Abbys answer is: ego. She says she really tried the kumbaya and sisterhood approach and it just didnt work. So now she focuses on her family and her peace. 🎙The full episode is out now on YouTube and wherever you listen to your podcasts. ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2026-02-12T22:46Z 187K followers, [----] engagements
"An Uncommon Guide to the Kama Sutra (You'll Be Shocked By What We Found) feat. Seema Anand Get Seema and Shans jewelry line Kama HTTP://surmeyi.com/kama The Kama Sutra a renowned ancient Indian Sanskrit text often perceived as a guide to sexual positions and techniques is in fact a comprehensive guide to virtuous and gracious living. Written between [---] BCE and [---] CE by a sage named Vatsyayana this text covers various aspects of life including family relationships and personal conduct amongst others. The Kama Sutra is a profound ancient text that offers wisdom not only on intimacy but on"
YouTube Link 2023-09-15T18:57Z 187K followers, 518.6K engagements
"The Kama Sutra Secret @SeemaAnandStoryTelling Wants the World to Know About In this intimate London-based episode of LOVERS Shan sits down with the legendary storyteller and pleasure educator Seema Anand the woman who transformed shame into sacred power. From being judged and silenced for her fascination with the Kama Sutra to becoming its most celebrated modern interpreter Seema shares how self-love became her act of rebellion. Together we talk about: ✨ Growing up rebelling against libertine attitudes and then discovering Tantra ✨ The link between shame sensuality and self-expression ✨ Why"
YouTube Link 2025-11-12T10:31Z 187K followers, 30.1K engagements
"The Real Reason We Started An Open Relationship ft. My Husband Jared In this episode of Lovers Im joined by my husband Jared Brady to tell the story of the exact day we decided to call our relationship an open relationship. Want to take the Relationship Style quiz I mentioned in the episode Click HERE https://www.loversbyshan.com/quizzes In this episode Shan Boodram and Jared Brady share intimate details from the early days of their relationship that led to them choosing to label their love as an open relationship. If your first reaction to open relationship is so cheating youre not alone and"
YouTube Link 2026-01-21T19:53Z 187K followers, 113K engagements
"What Time Has Proven Abby De La Rosa Returns to Clarify Her Current Relationship with Nick Cannon Thank you to our sponsor Evvy https://evvy.yt.link/SVTTsvO and use code LOVERSBYSHAN10 for 10% off your first purchase (up to $25) In this episode of Lovers Abby De La Rosa returns three years after our first conversation to reflect on what time motherhood and public scrutiny have actually taught her. When Abby first joined the show she was pregnant and navigating intense speculation about her relationship with Nick Cannon who now has [--] children with multiple partners. That episode sparked"
YouTube Link 2026-02-10T23:27Z 187K followers, 53.7K engagements
"If They Dont Give You THIS Its a No. Kennedy Ryan says ALL Women Must Raise Their Standards Now From fatphobia to racism to ageism and ableism Kennedy challenges the norms around love desirability and who gets to be the main character. This ones for anyone who's ever felt left out of the story and is ready to take the pen back. Bestselling romance author Kennedy Ryan (Before I Let Go Reel) sits down with Shan to talk about what happens when women stop shrinking themselves to be chosen. From rewriting the stories weve inherited about sex love and partnership to questioning why women with"
YouTube Link 2025-06-04T17:00Z 187K followers, 84.4K engagements
"@TheRealAlysonStoner On Their Introduction to Polyamory What does it really mean to build a relationship outside the rules you were taught Is it still polyamory if only one person has other lovers And most importantly what happens when that dynamic actually works for you In this honest and eye-opening conversation multi-disciplinary entertainer author and founder of Movement Genius Alyson Stoner shares their experience in their polyamorous journey. We dive into the importance of knowing your own capacity for connection and Alysons go-to communication tool: Frequency Duration and Intensity."
YouTube Link 2025-08-13T17:00Z 187K followers, 65.1K engagements
"Relationship Standards That Matter Most Ft. Abby De La Rosa Communication. Honesty. S*xual health transparency. These are Abbys non-negotiables. She explains why having the full truth mattersso she can make informed intentional choices in her life. What are your top non-negotiables 🎙The full episode is out now on YouTube and wherever you listen to your podcasts. ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2026-02-13T15:00Z 187K followers, [----] engagements
"Kama Sutra Secrets Every Woman Deserves to Know ft. @SeemaAnandStoryTelling What if the key to better sex isnt new but rooted in ancestral knowledge In this episode Shan sits down with storyteller mythologist and ancient erotica expert Seema Anand to explore the rich and yes deeply sexy history of sexual liberation and why it's never really been a modern idea. Together they unpack what it means to reconnect with your desire through ancestry ritual and unapologetic self-expression. We talk sex positions (yes the Kama Sutra makes an appearance) the role of storytelling in the bedroom and how"
YouTube Link 2025-06-25T15:53Z 187K followers, 267.5K engagements
"What Men Risk When They Stay Quiet ft. Kier Gaines Thank you to Arya for sponsoring this episode Interested in getting expert help spicing up your Valentines Day Learn more about Arya the couple's membership service that helps you make breaking the routine your new and exciting routine. Just go to https://www.arya.fyi/vdayshan. In this episode of Lovers therapist Kier Gaines shares a personal and professional reflection on how resentment builds when men are taught to silence their emotional truth. Kier opens up about a pivotal moment in his own relationship when he realized that his partners"
YouTube Link 2026-02-04T05:52Z 187K followers, 68K engagements
"Why Nick Cannon Rejects Relationship Labels Ft. Abby De La Rosa Is it polyamory or just a lot of love Abby De La Rosa opens up about why Nick Cannon doesnt identify as polyamorous even though he loves multiple partners. If you label me you disable me. Thats how he sees it. Abby shares that she understands where hes coming from even if shes had her own perspective on it. And when it comes to their children She keeps it simple: Daddy loves many people. He just has a lot of love to give. Do you think labels create clarity in relationships or limit how people love ________________________"
YouTube Link 2026-02-13T00:04Z 187K followers, 13.2K engagements
"My Breakup Broke Me Open. Heres Whats Inside ft Chy Fontenette Thank you to Function Health for sponsoring this video Visit https://functionhealth.yt.link/Eug9eKx or use code LOVERS100 at sign-up to own your health. The first [----] get a $100 credit toward their membership. In her mid-30s Chy Fontenette from Behind the Likes podcast finds herself facing what feels like a full-life reset: a breakup she didnt choose friendships shifting as she starts setting boundaries and a growing awareness of the pain shes carried for years. Through tears honesty and reflection Chy admits she doesnt know"
YouTube Link 2025-10-22T17:00Z 187K followers, 74.5K engagements
"Am I Still Who You Want Are You Becoming Who I Need A Relationship Check In ft @MusicMondayEnjoy Watch what happens when you ask for a performance review in your relationship. Do the hard and awkward questions lead to more intimacy or new resentments In this weeks episode of Lovers Shan sits down with her husband Jared Brady for their quarterly relationship check-in on camera. Together they ask the tough but necessary questions: Am I still who you want Are you becoming who I need This raw and real conversation reveals how couples can stay aligned navigate change and keep intimacy thriving"
YouTube Link 2025-09-10T17:00Z 187K followers, 86.2K engagements
"Cree Summer on the Relationship Between Safety and Sex Drive In this weeks episode I sit down with the legendary Cree Summer to talk about her journey through love loss and rediscovery in her 50s. Cree opens up about losing her sex drive during her marriage due to a lack of emotional shelter and the importance of finding a partner who provides safety and calm during lifes storms. We also dive into how her sex drive has improved post-menopause and what shes looking forward to as she explores love again in her senior years. Whether youre navigating relationships rethinking intimacy or seeking"
YouTube Link 2025-04-30T18:50Z 187K followers, 364.7K engagements
"Can you be vulnerable around your partner #vulnerability #relationship"
YouTube Link 2023-06-01T18:33Z 186K followers, 32.6K engagements
"The Truth About Getting the Man I THOUGHT I Always Wanted ft. @rosaacosta Thank you to Function Health for sponsoring this episode Visit https://functionhealth.yt.link/prMboMD or use code LOVERS100 at sign-up to own your health. The first [----] get a $100 credit toward their membership. ----- What does it mean to choose love on your own terms How do our values self-worth and cultural expectations shape the way we show up in relationships In this conversation entrepreneur fitness model and actress Rosa Acosta shares her perspective on redefining what relationships can look like when you step"
YouTube Link 2025-09-17T17:00Z 186K followers, 33.5K engagements
"@JessieReyez on Why Boundaries Are a Form of Love Jessie Reyez joins the podcast to celebrate her new album Paid in Memories and to dive into the complexities of boundaries and self-respect. Together we unpack what it means to be labeled a "villain" (by both yourself and others) for setting boundaries and standing firm in your self-worth. Jessie shares her personal journey of choosing to stay single rather than settling for less in love reflecting on the regret of taking too much accountability in her past relationship and embracing her love languagehaving her alone time respected. We also"
YouTube Link 2025-03-26T17:00Z 185K followers, 130K engagements
"When Your Life Becomes a Headline Ft. Abby De La Rosa If youve ever wondered what comes after the internet forms an opinion this conversation answers that. In this episode I sat down again with Abby De La Rosa three years after our first conversation to reflect on what time motherhood and public scrutiny have actually taught her. This episode isnt about defending a headline or convincing anyone of a particular relationship model. Its about autonomy growth and what happens when a woman is given time to actually live inside the decisions she once had to justify. 🎙The full episode is out now on"
YouTube Link 2026-02-11T17:55Z 186K followers, [----] engagements
"What My Autism Diagnosis Taught Me About Love and Feeling Safe ft. Chrisette Michele Calm your mind. Change your life. Try Calm by heading to https://calm.yt.link/2lLJh1b. This week Shan sits down with Grammy-winning artist Chrisette Michele opens up about being diagnosed with autism as an adult and the way that revelation helped her understand her rhythm her relationships and what safety really means for her. She shares how music became one of the few places that always made sense how her mom stood by her through the unknown and how she finally began to remove the mask and meet herself."
YouTube Link 2025-10-29T17:00Z 186K followers, 137.5K engagements
"Why Lilly Singh was Drawn to Chaos and Drama To get 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp visit http://betterhelp.com/loversbyshan. Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode This week I interview Lilly Singh actor and history-making content creator with a new movie RIGHT up our alley: Doin It (yes its a movie about sex specifically what happens when a South Asian virgin is assigned to teach sex ed). In this episode Lilly opens up about growing up in a world where emotional chaos felt familiar why she kept gravitating toward toxic partners who gave her the bare minimum and"
YouTube Link 2025-10-01T02:06Z 187K followers, 71.6K engagements
"Im Afraid Im Not Wife Material ft. Miranda Rae Mayo What if the love story you were chasing was never really yours In this episode actress Miranda Rae Mayo joins Shan to explore the journey of finding love by letting go of the fantasy. Known for her role on Chicago Fire Miranda opens up about her current relationship and how she had to release the pressure to be perfect to experience a real connection. Together they explore how love doesnt always look the way we expected and why exploring non-monogamy through an open relationship challenged (and expanded) her thoughts around love security and"
YouTube Link 2025-07-22T23:55Z 187K followers, 47.5K engagements
"You Dont Have to Feel Sad to Be Depressed Ft. Dr. Judith Joseph Did you know you dont have to feel sad to be depressed Thats what makes depression so sneaky. You might not be crying or hopeless you might just feel nothing. That numbness Thats called anhedonia a loss of pleasure a quiet flatness where joy used to live. And its just as real as any other symptom of depression. We all carry the DNA for joy. If its gone let this be your sign to take that first step towards feeling again 🤍 #LoversByShan #Anhedonia #HighFunctioningDepression #DrJudithJoseph #MentalHealthEducation"
YouTube Link 2025-07-03T16:48Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"Think of Pom as a co-creator in your pleasure practice Ft. Dame Think of Pom as a co-creator in your pleasure practice. What helps you feel the most in tune with your body during solo play"
YouTube Link 2025-05-16T19:00Z 138K followers, [---] engagements
"Where Do You Put That Thing Ft. Dame Where Do You Put That Thing Lets kick off this self-love celebration month aka Masturbation May with a series created in collaboration with @dameproducts 💙. And let me tell you this one is the Aer head you do want 😮💨. This month (and every month) you deserve to feel alllll the pleasure"
YouTube Link 2025-05-13T19:00Z 138K followers, [----] engagements
"What If Happily Ever After Means Staying Single Ft. Dr. Bella DePaulo What if happily ever after starts and ends with just you This weeks guest is Dr. Bella DePaulo a renowned a social psychologist and author of Single at Heart who joins us to unpack why some of the must fulfilled people are not in romantic relationships and never want to be. Whether you're single by choice rethinking long-term relationships or simply seeking permission to define love your waythis episode is your affirmation. The episode is out now on YouTube and wherever you listen 🎧 #LoversByShan #SingleAtHeart #SingleLife"
YouTube Link 2025-08-06T17:00Z 157K followers, [----] engagements
"Safe Sex Is Always Political Ft. Blair Imani Safe sex isnt just personal. Its political. In college Blair Imani had to tell partners if she got pregnant they were driving to Florida because abortion care wasnt available in Louisiana. Even now life-saving care like ectopic pregnancy treatment is blocked in some states. And as Blairs mom puts it your safest partner is always yourself but please wash your hands 😊 #LoversByShan #BlairImani #LoversPodcast #SafeSex #SexualHealth #ReproductiveRights #ModernLove #RelationshipTruths #RealConversations #PleasureAndPolitics ________________________"
YouTube Link 2025-09-04T20:11Z 160K followers, [----] engagements
"Does Casual Sex No Longer Serve You B. Simone got real about why casual sex no longer serves her. Its not about shame its about alignment. Shes choosing clarity over chemistry intention over impulse. We dont talk enough about the emotional spiritual and physical weight that can come with casual sex. This conversation is a powerful reminder to check in with yourself: Is this aligned with what you truly want" #KnowYourWorth #RespectMyBody #BoundariesAreBeautiful #PowerInChoice #ProtectYourPeace #IntentionalLiving #SelfAwareness #MindfulDating #HonorYourself #EmotionalWellness #loverspodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-04-22T01:30Z 122K followers, [---] engagements
"Is Vacation Sex at Home Even Possible @jemelehill weighs in Thank you to Ro for sponsoring this video. Connect with a provider at https://ro.co/lovers to find out if prescription Ro Sparks are right for you. ----- What happens when you realize the best sex of your marriage only shows up on vacation Award-winning journalist author and podcaster Jemele Hill joins Shan for a conversation about how she uncovered the connection between stress rest and desire in her own marriage. She shares why her husband seems to get luckier when theyre away how that awareness has deepened their relationship and"
YouTube Link 2025-09-24T15:17Z 164K followers, 13.3K engagements
"Struggling to Make New Friends Youre Not Alone Ft. Krista & Tabia How the hell do I make friends Its a question so many of us are asking. Nearly half of Americans say theyre not fully satisfied with the number of friendships they have and according to research it can take [---] hours before someone becomes a close friend. This weeks rerun dives into the reality of adult friendships the time the effort and the moments that make it all worth it. Whats been the hardest part of making new friends as an adult for you #LoversByShan #FriendshipGoals #AdultFriendships #MakingFriends #FriendshipAdvice"
YouTube Link 2025-07-30T17:22Z 156K followers, [----] engagements
"I'm Not Designed to Meet Your Every Need Ft. Kennedy Ryan Why does it feel like a failure when your partner isnt meeting every one of your needs Kennedy Ryan shares how we can create overdependence on one person and have unrealistic expectations in our relationships. Because we often place too much emphasis on romance other areas of our life can go underdeveloped. Dont forget that romance isnt the only thing. Its a yes ✨and ✨"
YouTube Link 2025-06-06T15:24Z 144K followers, [----] engagements
"Being Valued for Who You Are Not What You Do Ft. Lilly Singh Most of us learned to earn love through achievement. We were praised for what we did not for who we were. As Lilly Singh's therapist told her youre not what you do. And the hardest part isnt hearing that its believing it. Do you know who you are outside of what you accomplish #LoversByShan #LillySingh #SelfWorth #InnerHealing #TherapyJourney #EmotionalGrowth #SelfLove #HealingJourney #LoversPodcast ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-10-05T19:35Z 165K followers, 10.3K engagements
"How Jewelry Can Change the Way You Have Sex Ft. Seema Anand 🔥Try these [--] positions with your Five String Necklaces from our Kma line: [--]. Woman Above - sway side to side so it hits the nips [--]. Lotus - feel the warmth of the metal between you as you wrap five layers of you around your partner (arms legs head) [--]. Congress of Cow - tell them to put the chain right back if things get wild ☺ Want to see the full Seema x Shan line with Surmeyi Go to Surmeyi.com/Kama"
YouTube Link 2025-06-27T22:12Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"Whats Your Relationship With Your Spirituality And Your Body Ft. @TheBSimone B. Simone shared an emotional story about questioning her faith when a stranger at the airport pointed out her Bible and reminded her to keep the word of God close. She wept realizing she wanted to get closer to God. Later B. Simone got real about her own journey never having an orgasm or masturbating thinking having sex with people she liked was enough. She had a list of experiences and realized it was time for all those spirits to go. Its a reminder that our spiritual journey and self-discovery can often go hand in"
YouTube Link 2025-04-21T18:36Z 122K followers, [---] engagements
"Too Many of Us Are Living with High Functioning Depression ft. @drjudithjoseph What if numbness is the hidden wound of high-functioning depression In this episode Shan sits down with Dr. Judith Joseph a board-certified psychiatrist clinical researcher and internationally recognized mental health advocate. They dive deep into anhedonia the loss of pleasure or interest in things that once brought you joy and how it shows up especially for those living with high-functioning depression. Dr. Joseph expands on how joy is our birthright and how it connects to our biopsychosocial blueprint. Expect"
YouTube Link 2025-07-02T17:00Z 150K followers, 17.9K engagements
"I Wanted My Man Not the Sex: Tamsen Fadal on Losing Her Libido At the Worst Possible Time Have you ever wondered where your libido went In this episode we do a deep dive on sexual slumps low libido and lack of sexual desire that is frustrating (lack of desire that is not frustrating is not a problem). We get to have this conversation first from the lens of Emmy-winning journalist Tamsen Fadal whose journey with low libido started in perimenopause and peaked on her honeymoon From hot flashes and brain fog in the newsroom to bedroom low sex drive Tamsen has become treasured for pulling back the"
YouTube Link 2025-06-11T17:30Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"Would you consider a sleep divorce from your lover Ft. Raven x Miranda Would you consider a sleep divorce from your lover @ravensymone and @mirandamaday are the guests on @loversbyshan this week. Could you see yourself having a different bed than your lover"
YouTube Link 2025-05-07T23:27Z 136K followers, 15.3K engagements
"Respect First: The Key to Finding Your Person Respect First: The Key to Finding Your Person Whats on your list for the right partner As a career-driven woman have you ever downplayed your success to make a man feel more comfortable Do you feel the pressure to soften your ambition or lean more into your femininity just to be less intimidating Lets talk about it. 👀 #DatingWithIntention #RespectOverEverything"
YouTube Link 2025-03-28T22:00Z 115K followers, [----] engagements
"Rape Is Not Sex Ft. Jimanekia Eborn RAPE IS A COMMUNITY ISSUE 🗣 Rape is not sex. Sexual assault is not sex. Its harm. Its abuse.In this necessary conversation we break down the truth: its not about intimacy its about power. We need to shift the narrative. We need to believe survivors first. Because while everyone has an opinion people are being harmed and theres evidence.Lets stop overlooking the real issue. Lets talk about consent accountability and healing"
YouTube Link 2025-05-27T17:00Z 141K followers, [---] engagements
"Will an Open Marriage Save Us feat. Bayleigh and Swaggy C Lovers and Friends Ep. [--] Lonely during the pandemic Bayleigh came to her partner with a question: can I get a girlfriend Years later they are still trying to answer that question. Open relationships. Now you can clutch them pearls and raise those eyebrows all you want to but this conversation is not going away - especially not in America. Using two separate samples based on the U.S. Census researchers found that one-fifth of the population in the United States has engaged in consensual non-monogamy at some point in their lives and if"
YouTube Link 2023-03-24T20:11Z 111K followers, 64.6K engagements
"The Miscarriage Broke Me feat. Mike Johnson Lovers and Friends Ep. [--] Up to [--] in [--] known pregnancies may end in miscarriage. For many of us this stat is old news - but as we continue to have this conversation aloud after generations of keeping this pain private - what I do think is new is considering how the father feels about the loss. It seems like a no-brainer but speaking from personal experience it hadnt really crossed my mind until recently. So lets talk about it with our special guest Mike Johnson on this episode of Lovers and Friends Thanks to the sponsors of this episode. Hungryroot"
YouTube Link 2023-04-06T16:00Z 107K followers, 13.5K engagements
"Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality Are you ready to dive deep into the complexities of love faith and identity In this thought-provoking episode Shan Boodram sits down with B. Simone to discuss the transformative journey of embracing chastity understanding soul ties and exploring the nuances of identity and connection. While B. Simone does not identify as demisexual Shan suggests the possibility during their candid conversation sparking an insightful dialogue about emotional intimacy and sexual attraction. This episode unpacks key topics like: ✨ What"
YouTube Link 2025-04-16T17:00Z 123K followers, 95.8K engagements
"@TheeJessieWoo Opens Up: Life Love & Sex After Assault This is a community issue that needs your attention. Sexual assault is a community issue. Thank you @thejessiewoo for sharing and leading this hard conversation on @loversbyshan It Doesnt End with Him: Love and Pursuing Great Sex After Sexual Assault out now 🌺💐"
YouTube Link 2025-05-21T18:17Z 140K followers, [---] engagements
"Safe vs. Sexy: The Dating Dilemma Ft. Lilly Singh Weve all been therewaiting on that reply that never comes. The silence makes us obsess while the person whos clear and direct gets left on read. So is it really the behavior that turns us off or is it that were just not attracted to the person who makes us feel safe #LoversByShan #LillySingh #ModernDating #DatingApps #MixedSignals #Situationships #RelationshipAdvice #LoversPodcast ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-10-03T20:28Z 165K followers, 36.9K engagements
"What Has Grief Shown You Ft. @alessiacara Alessia didnt expect grief to shift her relationship with herself. But in a way it became her greatest teacher. Shes hesitant to call it beautiful because it was also the worst pain shes ever felt. And yet both can be true. For years she felt disconnected from her body from who she was. Like she wanted to unzip her skin and escape. But in that grief something changed. It brought her back to herself. More connected. More alive. Isnt it strange how pain can sometimes bring you home Has grief ever shown you something you didnt expect to see"
YouTube Link 2025-05-19T17:30Z 139K followers, [----] engagements
"Kids Are Reflections Of Ourselves Ft. Xosha Ever notice how kids have a way of reflecting our true selves Its like having a little mirror in the house that shows both our strengths and our areas for growth. Xosha finds herself constantly striving to be the best role model not just for them to follow but for her own journey of self-improvement. Remember in every giggle and every moment of curiosity there's an opportunity to learn and grow together. Let's celebrate the beautiful chaos and the lessons it brings. Tag someone who's embracing this incredible journey #Loverspodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-05-30T19:00Z 143K followers, [---] engagements
"Balancing Love Family and Success Ft. Shan & Jared Were taught that success means constant growth. Every year more money more projects more upgrades. And if youre not climbing youre falling behind. But what if the truest success isnt financial growth but fulfillment What if slowing down actually brings you closer to the life you want Where do you feel more pressure: to grow on paper or to feel full in reality #LoversByShan #ModernLove #Success #Fulfillment #MarriageTips #RelationshipAdvice #Parenthood #LoversPodcast #MoneyAndLove #LifeBalance ________________________ Advertising & Other"
YouTube Link 2025-09-16T13:47Z 162K followers, [----] engagements
"Rewriting the Rules of Love: Raven-Symon & Miranda on Creating a Safe Relationship Raven talks about how both her and her wife Miranda didnt grow up with the best views on relationships. Creating a love that feels safe to your nervous system isnt just sweet its radical. It means unlearning reimagining and sometimes standing toe-to-toe with everything you were taught about how love should look. Raven & Miranda got real about what it takes to build a partnership that heals instead of harms. So let me ask you: What did you not see growing up that you now know is essential in your relationships"
YouTube Link 2025-05-11T22:00Z 138K followers, [----] engagements
"A love like this for all of us please A love like this for all of us please The amount of things that have changed in @khadeeniam and @iamdevale life since they fell in love is remarkable - but one thing has not. For anyone who wants the blueprint on how to keep the burning [--] kids multiple cities and tax brackets later - this episode of @loversbyshan is a must"
YouTube Link 2025-04-03T21:33Z 118K followers, [----] engagements
"The Heartbreak No Couple Can Escape Ft. Dr. Laura Berman Why think about the future you never want to imagine Because its the one most guaranteed to happen. Heartbreak is part of love not always from each other but from life itself. Illness grief change they come for us all. Have you and your partner ever talked about how youd get through tragedy together #LoversByShan #DrLauraBerman #LoversPodcast #LoveAndLoss #RelationshipTruths #MarriageJourney #HardConversations #HealingTogether ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-08-29T18:36Z 160K followers, [----] engagements
"You Say You Just Want Sex But Is That All You Want Ft. @DecisionsPod You say you just want sex but is that really all you want Sometimes we call it sexual freedom but what were really craving is connection. Other times we want the pleasure with no expectation. Thats the thing about liberation its not one-size-fits-all. Its knowing what feels good to you and not judging anyone else's path. So the real question is: do you know what you want #LoversByShan #ModernDating #HookupCulture #FemaleDesire #EmotionalClarity #LoversPodcast #Situationships #SelfAwareness"
YouTube Link 2025-07-13T18:13Z 151K followers, [----] engagements
"Have Mind-Blowing Casual Sex Now AND a Husband Later Ft. Decisions Decisions What is the emotional tax on casual sex This weeks guests are New York Times bestselling authors Mandii and Weezy the brilliant unfiltered voices behind the hit podcast Decisions Decisions. We talk about what it means to shed the pressure to find the one and start prioritizing what actually feels good emotionally sexually and spiritually. From sexual freedom to the emotional complexity of casual sex to surviving sexual assault and learning how to feel safe again this conversation goes deep. Its raw. Its personal. And"
YouTube Link 2025-07-09T18:49Z 151K followers, [----] engagements
"Being Loved Outrageously Ft. Kennedy Ryan Kennedy Ryan writes from the margins to the center meaning she centers her novels around women who arent typically celebratedBlack Brown fat old disabled neurodiverse and chronically ill. She writes stories of women who are loved outrageously which means what To Kennedy it means having a partner who respects your dreams goals and ambitions as equal to theirs. What does being loved outrageously look like in your life #LoversPodcast #Relationships #SelfLove #SelfWorth #Romance #LoversByShan #relationshipadvice #OutrageousLove #PartnershipGoals"
YouTube Link 2025-06-10T15:58Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"When Grief Rearranges Everything Ft. Dr. Laura Berman After losing her 16-year-old son Dr. Laura says nothing looked the same. Grief stripped her life down to survival. Her ego burned away what once mattered didnt and even her relationships shifted. Some people she expected faded to the background while others she never anticipated became her greatest support. How do you think grief reshapes the way we love #LoversByShan #DrLauraBerman #LoversPodcast #LoveAndLoss #RelationshipTruths #GriefAndLove #MarriageJourney #HealingTogether #LifeAfterLoss ________________________ Advertising & Other"
YouTube Link 2025-08-31T19:00Z 160K followers, [----] engagements
"Stop Waiting Ask Them Out A Message for Cree (and You) Here's to Cree and ANYONE this resonates with to ask that person out on a date. Don't wait for them to ask you. I'll be here waiting for an update. 👀"
YouTube Link 2025-05-06T23:00Z 135K followers, [----] engagements
"Jewelry That Transforms Sex Into Sensory Theater Ft. Seema Anand Its not just saying I want to make love to you. Youre saying Ive come prepared to make love to you. - Seema Anand This is sensory theater. The jewelry becomes part of the performance a clear signal that pleasure is being approached with intention. Check out the full collection at surmeyi.com/kama #LoversByShan #SeemaAnand #LoversPodcast #KamaJewelry #KamaSutra #FemininePower #Intimacy #AncestralHealing #EroticWisdom #Sensuality"
YouTube Link 2025-06-29T16:22Z 148K followers, [---] engagements
"Designing a Fulfilled Life Beyond Romantic Expectations Ft. Kennedy Ryan Integritys root word is integer (a thing complete in itself). Kennedy Ryan writes romance novels where the characters are integers. She also shared thats why shed love to do a collaboration with Tracee Ellis Ross since her story embodies that. Can you see it 👀 If you liked this clip checkout the full episode of Lovers By Shan Go Where Youre Celebrated Not Just Tolerated out now"
YouTube Link 2025-06-08T16:52Z 144K followers, 10.1K engagements
"Sex Was Sport Ft. Duckwrth Sex was sport. Thats how Duckwrth used to see it. But now Hes opening up to help start a conversation. Because toxic masculinity has taught men to treat sex like a scoreboard. And unlearning that isnt easy. But its where growth starts. #LoversByShan #Masculinity #ToxicMasculinity #Intimacy #Vulnerability #LoversPodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-06-22T22:19Z 147K followers, [----] engagements
"Tika Sumpter on Doing Sex Ed Different Inner Child Meets Modern Parent @tikasumpter shares her compelling personal story that shaped her approach to intimacy and education. Growing up in a Christian household discussions about six were often avoided or framed solely around negative consequences. #loverspodcast Now as a mother #tika is determined to break this cycle for her daughter. You can listen to our [--] min chat anywhere you get pods or watch on @loversbyshan YT channel #loverspodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-03-06T00:46Z 111K followers, [---] engagements
"What Do You Wish People Complimented You On More What do you wish people complimented you on more I asked Alessia Cara this and she said: my sensitivity. Not something she was always praised for. She grew up being told to stop crying stop feeling so much. But now She sees it as her superpower. So now Im asking you Whats something about yourself you wish people celebrated more Drop it below. Lets rewrite the rules together. ❤ #LoversByShan #AlessiaCara #SensitivityIsStrength #InnerChildHealing #SelfLove #CelebrateYourself #VulnerabilityIsPower"
YouTube Link 2025-05-18T23:00Z 139K followers, [----] engagements
"The Love That Felt Right After One That Didnt Ft. Tamsen Fadal I asked my dad Do you think Im doing the right thing That was Tamsen Fadal's first wedding. With Ira it was completely differentunexpected respectful and fun. The kind of love that sneaks up on you and just feels right. Sometimes it takes the wrong one to teach you what the right one should feel like. 💫 #LoversByShan #RelationshipLessons #LoversPodcast #UnexpectedLove #SecondChances"
YouTube Link 2025-06-15T15:53Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Scheduling Sex Can Be Sexy Ft. Jemele Hill Sometimes foreplay starts in the morning. Thinking its going down tonight can carry a sexy charge all day long. And when women take the initiative it flips the script. Its not always on men to show desiresometimes its our turn. Do you think your partner loves when you make the first move #LoversByShan #SexualDesire #Foreplay #RelationshipAdvice #Intimacy #ModernLove #MarriageTips #FemaleDesire #TakeTheLead #LoversPodcast ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-09-30T20:47Z 165K followers, [---] engagements
"Turns Out Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smiths Marriage is Exactly Like My Parents Get an in-depth and candid look into the fascinating 40-year marriage of my parents and see how their dynamic can shed light on the relationship of Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. I'm interviewing my parents to ask the questions we all want answered when it comes to a long-term relationship going through myriad ups and downs inclduing breakups dating others and going through social shame for staying through it all. Why is it still worth fighting for Jada Pinkett Smith talks about this question in her new"
YouTube Link 2023-10-19T20:45Z 107K followers, 111.4K engagements
"No One Talks About How Hard Making Friends As An Adult Is Does making friends get harder as you get older How the hell do I make friends This episode is a rerun and it's STILL very accurate. According to the American Perspective Survey May [----] many people are not satisfied with the size of their friendship group. About half of Americans (51 percent) report they are very satisfied or completely satisfied with the number of friends they have. [--] percent say they are only somewhat satisfied and [--] percent say they are not too or not at all satisfied with the number of friends they have. If you"
YouTube Link 2025-07-30T12:09Z 156K followers, 13.9K engagements
"Stop Feeling Shame About Hemorrhoid Tags Ft. The Pink Parley Nothing about your body makes you unworthy of pleasure. Even hemorrhoid tags the thing so many women are embarrassed to admit can be a source of connection and joy when the shame is gone. Whats something you once hid that now makes you feel free #LoversByShan #BodyAcceptance #LoversPodcast #WomensHealth #PleasurePositive #ShameFree #SelfLoveJourney #WomensWellness ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-08-22T16:11Z 159K followers, [----] engagements
"This Is How They Tricked You Into Thinking It Was Real Love They didnt love you they studied you. This is how they made it feel real. when it was anything but. In [----] manipulation doesn't always look toxic on the surface. It looks like therapy-speak. Like someone who knows your needs before you say them. Someone who gives and then disappears. In this video I break down how the Dennis Theory has evolved with our culture. From love bombing to ghosting to calculated neglect that creates obsessionthis is manipulation with better branding. Well cover: Why "demonstrating value" is just the first"
YouTube Link 2025-07-24T18:17Z 156K followers, 13.2K engagements
"Single Career Women Over [--] Have Been Called Leftovers And Losers Single career women over [--] have been called leftovers and losers by the kind of men theyd never date and by the kind of women who arent in their group chat. BUT because these individuals have lots of time to be online their voices grew so loud that somehow their opinions got mistaken for common beliefs. But lets be clear about something if you know how to make life happen for you in one area (e.g. your career) you will likely have the work ethic necessary to do it in another (love and family). Very proud to share this new @"
YouTube Link 2025-03-19T18:39Z 114K followers, [---] engagements
"How Anwar White Helped His Single Mom Find Love Ft. @DatingCoachAnwar Who is Anwar White's star client On this episode of Lovers by Shan Anwar takes us on a journey through his familys darkest days and brightest moments together. Curious if anyone else with a single mum got to witness her find the love she deserves #LoversByShan #RelationshipTruths #LoversPodcast #DatingWhileHealing #datingadvice #SelfWorth #OnlineDating"
YouTube Link 2025-07-17T18:39Z 153K followers, [----] engagements
"Longterm - Sex Is Hard (NO pun intended.or maybe it is) feat. Kev On Stage and Mrs Kev On Stage Does sex HAVE to get less passionate as time goes on in a relationship Is it possible to keep that cant keep your hands off each other feeling in a marriage In this episode we explore these questions and share the depressing/ hopeful truth about the secret to good sex in a long relationship. DID YOU KNOW YOU CAN ALSO WATCH FULL EPISODES OF LOVERS AND FRIENDS CLICK HERE TO SEE OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng Fun fact falling in love is stressful on the"
YouTube Link 2022-10-28T21:19Z 114K followers, 178.5K engagements
"Love Requires More Than Money Ft. Rosa Acosta Fifty years ago money was everything. Men were the sole providers so the paycheck held power and respect. But now financial contribution is far more balanced with both partners bringing something to the table. So if money isnt enough what else do men bring Because as Rosa Acosta says thank you for paying the billsbut can I c*m #LoversByShan #RosaAcosta #ModernLove #MoneyAndLove #RelationshipAdvice #GenderRoles #EmotionalIntelligence #Intimacy #LoversPodcast #Partnership ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-09-22T17:48Z 163K followers, [----] engagements
"How I Finally Found Out I Was in Menopause Ft. Tamsen Fadal Her doctor didnt call. Didnt explain. Just left a note in her online patient portal: Menopause any questions 😳 That was the moment everything shifted for Tamsen Fadal. She had been strugglingweight gain brain fog not feeling like herselfand had no real answers. That note didnt offer comfort but it did spark something powerful: the beginning of a journey to better understand her body her health and what she truly needed from her care. Because when the people tasked with helping you dont take you seriously Youre allowed to walk away."
YouTube Link 2025-06-16T18:56Z 146K followers, [----] engagements
"Are You Having Sex That Honors You or Just Sex That Checks A Box B Simone asked me what I think about the person having casual sex. Truth is Im more inspired by someone who knows their body knows how to ask for what they want knows how to create safetynot just physically but emotionally than someone having sex inside a marriage out of duty feeling shame disconnection and guilt. Sex isnt just about commitment its about connection. To your body. To your voice. To your truth. Are you having sex that honors you or just sex that checks a box #SexWithIntention #HonorYourBody #KnowYourWorth"
YouTube Link 2025-04-21T21:00Z 122K followers, [----] engagements
"Future Proofing in Love and Dating Ft. Dr. Laura Berman Future proofing is one of Bumbles [----] dating trends. From the very first swipe its no longer just about building a future together. Its about asking if we can actually survive the hardest parts of it. Can we face the struggles that are guaranteed to come As Dr. Laura reminds us that shift matters because real love isnt only tested by dreams and growth but by how you endure lifes storms side by side. #LoversByShan #DrLauraBerman #LoversPodcast #FutureProofing #DatingTrends #RelationshipTruths #ModernLove #LoveAndResilience #OnlineDating"
YouTube Link 2025-09-02T16:30Z 160K followers, [----] engagements
"Masturbation: Is It Part of Life or Never Even Crossed Your Mind I genuinely believe God designed our bodies with intention. If we werent meant to explore them why would access be so effortless Thats all Im saying. B. Simone surprised me she never masturbated until [--] years old. Never even had the urge. It made me pause because her experience is just as valid as mine and it reminded me how differently we all connect to ourselves. Do you think self-exploration is natural or does it feel off-limits to you"
YouTube Link 2025-04-19T18:00Z 122K followers, [----] engagements
"The Whole Fuck Boy Bible Ft. Duckwrth We break down the D.E.N.N.I.S theory from Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia a step-by-step guide on how to manipulate someone emotionally. Sound familiar D Demonstrate value E Engage physically N Nurture dependence N Neglect emotionally I Inspire hope S Separate entirely Duckwrth called it damn near spot on. Because sometimes the manipulation is the entire strategy. #LoversByShan #EmotionalManipulation #Situationships #LoveBombing #Dating #LoversPodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-06-21T16:26Z 146K followers, [----] engagements
"How Age Flips Attraction Ft. Rosa Acosta Funny thing about aging: the older @rosaacosta gets the younger the men who shoot their shot. She laughs at how age has shifted who comes knocking and wonders why young men cant stay away from seasoned women. Is it maturity experience or just the thrill of the forbidden #LoversByShan #RosaAcosta #ModernLove #RelationshipAdvice #SeasonedWomen #AgeGapDating #Confidence #LoversPodcast #ForbiddenFruit ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-09-20T22:50Z 163K followers, [----] engagements
"What Married Men Admit About Their Desires Ft. The Pink Parley Most of The Pink Parley's clients are married men. They say they cant fulfill their real sexual desires with their wives. It raises a bigger question: if honesty and freedom arent present in the bedroom what kind of intimacy do we really have Is it possible to have both marriage and sexual freedom #LoversByShan #ThePinkParley #LoversPodcast #MarriageAndIntimacy #RelationshipFreedom #SexualFreedom #ModernLove ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-08-25T15:38Z 159K followers, [----] engagements
"Being Your Own Inner Flight Attendant Ft. @alessiacara Someone once told me when youre in a relationship youve got to develop your inner flight attendant. You know when you're on a plane and there's turbulence but the crew stays calm Thats the energy. It made me check myself am I reacting based on fear or facts Can I trust something deeper than my emotions to tell me Im okay When things feel shaky in love or life what do you use as your calm signal"
YouTube Link 2025-05-16T18:00Z 138K followers, [----] engagements
"Freak=enthusiastic. Listen to the rest of EP 84Do YOU do These [--] Things"
YouTube Link 2023-08-15T16:10Z [--] followers, [---] engagements
"How Patriarchy Limits the Men We Love Ft. Rosa Acosta Often when men hear patriarchy they think its a conversation about hating men. But in reality its often about loving men better. About dismantling the idea of the dad the overseer the man and breaking free from the box patriarchy tries to put every man into. How have you seen patriarchy limit the men you love #LoversByShan #Patriarchy #GenderRoles #ModernLove #RelationshipAdvice #Feminism #Masculinity #LoversPodcast #BreakingTheBox #LoveAndRelationships ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-09-18T19:26Z 163K followers, [----] engagements
"How Long Does It Really Take to Make a Close Friend Ft. Krista How long does it actually take to make a friend Studies say it takes about [--] hours to become casual friends [--] to feel real and [---] before youre truly close. That time builds safety not just to talk about life but to explore values vulnerabilities and the parts of you that need care. Because learning someones heart takes time. What helps you decide if someone is worth the effort #LoversByShan #AdultFriendships #MakingFriends #FriendshipAdvice #LoversPodcast #FriendshipGoals #ConnectionMatters #FriendshipJourney"
YouTube Link 2025-08-05T13:50Z 157K followers, [----] engagements
"How Emotional Imprints Shape Our Relationships Ft. Andr Holland What happens when a core memory rewrites the story of how we see ourselves in love Our guest this week is actor Andr Holland who shares the pivotal moment that shaped his belief that he wasnt good enough as himselfand that he had to become someone better to be loved. We unpack how these emotional imprints steer our relationshipssometimes helping us but often holding us back. Trigger warning: this episode includes a deeply personal story shared by Andr including a moment when someone he had affections for used a racial slur toward"
YouTube Link 2025-10-09T19:26Z 165K followers, [----] engagements
"I Wanted My Man Not the Sex Ft. Tamsen Fadal Have you ever wondered where your libido went This weeks guest is Emmy-award winning journalist Tamsen Fadal and we dive deep into a conversation about menopause sex drive and embracing lifes shifts. From hot flashes and brain fog in the newsroom to low sex drive in the bedroom Tamsen pulls back the curtain on midlife like never before. Check out the new episode now #LoversPodcast #Menopause #Relationships #Libido #LoversByShan #RelationshipAdvice"
YouTube Link 2025-06-11T18:14Z 145K followers, [---] engagements
"How Do You Talk About Your Body & Sex Life Ft. Tamsen Fadal What type of language do you use when talking about your body and sex life 🤔 In our youth we can so easily sabotage our future selves by placing judgement on the needs and wants of those older than us. Changing our mindset and the way we speak about how our bodies adapt as we age is important not only for those currently experiencing the change but for those who will experience it in the future. As Tamsen Fadal says If youre lucky enough you are going to get to that point in life. #LoversPodcast #Menopause #Libido #LoversByShan"
YouTube Link 2025-06-12T20:16Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"The Silent Struggle: Men and High-Functioning Depression Ft. Dr. Judith Joseph What does high-functioning depression look like in men Dr. Judith Joseph explains how many men are raised to suppress their emotions focus on being the provider and self-soothe in silence. It can show up as anger. As drinking. As withdrawal. Not because theyre fine but because theyve been taught not to feel. #LoversByShan #DrJudithJoseph #MensMentalHealth #HighFunctioningDepression #DepressionInMen #LoversPodcast #EmotionalSuppression #MentalHealthAwareness #TraumaResponse"
YouTube Link 2025-07-06T22:00Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"I Wanted My Man Not the Sex: Tamsen Fadal on Losing Her Libido At the Worst Possible Time Have you ever wondered where your libido went In this episode we do a deep dive on sexual slumps low libido and lack of sexual desire that is frustrating (lack of desire that is not frustrating is not a problem). We get to have this conversation first from the lens of Emmy-winning journalist Tamsen Fadal whose journey with low libido started in perimenopause and peaked on her honeymoon From hot flashes and brain fog in the newsroom to bedroom low sex drive Tamsen has become treasured for pulling back the"
YouTube Link 2025-06-11T00:47Z 144K followers, [--] engagements
"I asked @alessiacara if the pandemic attributed to her fear of death I asked Alessia if the pandemic attributed to her fear of death. What she said was fascinating to me. It wasnt just about dying. It was the whole idea of being here without ever signing up. Like she didnt choose the ride but here she is strapped in no map no control over where its going or how it ends. And some days the weight of just existing felt like too much. Sometimes being alive is its own kind of rollercoaster beautiful and terrifying at once. She said some days that thought it was so big she wanted off. Not because"
YouTube Link 2025-05-18T19:00Z 139K followers, [----] engagements
"Love as a Crucible Ft. Kennedy Ryan When your life is being tested and youre with a partner your relationship is tested - Kennedy Ryan"
YouTube Link 2025-06-11T04:36Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"The Dry Spell That Made Their Sex Life Better Than Ever Ft. Tamsen Fadal Tamsen Fadal didnt want to be touched. Not kissing. Not penetration. Not anything. Her body had changed walls were dry estrogen was low and sex was painful. But what came out of that dry spell It brought something entirely different to her relationship. And when sex came back in the picture it was better than ever. #LoversByShan #TamsenFadal #MenopauseAwareness #WomensHealth #Intimacy #LoversPodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-06-17T00:11Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"How Parents Accidentally Fuel Curiosity About Sex Ft. Blair Imani When kids are told the only reason to interact with another gender is for sex guess what they get more curious about Silence and shame dont protect kids. Honest conversation does. Whats one thing you wish had been said to you earlier #LoversByShan #SexEducation #ParentingTips #HealthyConversations #OpenCommunication #LoversPodcast #ParentingAdvice ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-09-07T16:52Z 160K followers, [----] engagements
"B. Simone Questioned Everything Finding Faith for Yourself B. Simone said her faith had to be found. She was tired of living off her parents and her friends belief. She needed her own. I asked wouldnt it be easier if God just lit up the sky Clear signs. Simple paths. But she said no. Growth doesnt come from shortcuts. It comes from seeking stumbling learning. Like raising a kid you want to step in but sometimes youve got to let them find their way. What part of your journey have you had to let unfold instead of control Whats something youve had to let someone figure out on their own even when"
YouTube Link 2025-04-17T19:43Z 121K followers, [----] engagements
"Whats Blocking You From Real Love Ft. @DatingCoachAnwar Theres a reason we split ourselves into pieces. To be palatable. To survive. To protect ourselves. But love cant find you through the mask. It needs the whole you. Not a performance. Not a version. You. #LoversByShan #EmotionalIntimacy #ModernLove #SelfWorth #DatingWhileHealing #LoversPodcast #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #OnlineDating"
YouTube Link 2025-07-20T18:35Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"How Trauma Shows Up Even in Healthy Love Ft. @DatingCoachAnwar Just because the relationship is safe doesnt mean your body feels that way. When youve been conditioned to expect harm safety can feel unfamiliar. Anwar White shares that after years of abandonment wounds he spent the first year of his relationship constantly asking Are you okay Are you leaving What can I do Because his nervous system was still waiting for the exit. But love isnt just about being chosen on your best days. Its about being met in the mess and still feeling safe there. #LoversByShan #DatingWhileHealing"
YouTube Link 2025-07-21T17:20Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"Do you notice yourself shifting into your masculine in relationships ✨ I know how to be in my feminine. ✨ I want to be in my feminine. ✨ But in every relationship I end up carrying the weight. Planning. Leading. Protecting. Performing. And baby thats not softness. Thats survival. Replaying. Rewinding. Breathing deeper. Whewwww In this raw and powerful convo Cree Summer opens up about how she lives in her feminine energy UNTIL she is with a particular partner that causes her to be in her masculine. Being the boss the protector the planner the initiator it doesnt stop when you close the laptop."
YouTube Link 2025-05-03T23:00Z 133K followers, [----] engagements
"How Self-Acceptance Changes Love Ft. Andr Holland Were taught to perform long before were taught to be ourselves. Andre shared how growing up between two worlds made him feel like he had to prove his worthto his family his partners and himself. But when you cant rest in your own authenticity intimacy cant find you either. Do you know what it feels like to finally be at peace with yourself #LoversByShan #AndreHolland #Authenticity #SelfWorth #HealingJourney #EmotionalIntimacy #SelfAcceptance #InnerPeace #LoversPodcast ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-10-12T14:47Z 166K followers, [----] engagements
"Overworking Can Be a Trauma Response Ft. Dr. Judith Joseph Some people avoid their trauma by shutting down. Others avoid it by staying busy. Dr. Judith Joseph opens up about her own experience with high-functioning depression and how unresolved trauma can hide behind a mask of overworking hyper-productivity and taking on too much. From side hustles to fixing everyone elses problems it can look like success but really its a way to stay ahead of the pain. #LoversByShan #HighFunctioningDepression #TraumaResponse #DrJudithJoseph #MentalHealth #Depression #EmotionalHealing #LoversPodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-07-04T15:29Z 149K followers, [----] engagements
"Can Polyamory Make Life Easier Ft. Alyson Stoner What if being in multiple relationships could actually make life easier A lot of people think polyamory means chasing novelty constantly adding new partners new dynamics new highs. But when Alyson let their connections be what they naturally are safe stable and grounded relationships became the easiest part of their life. Not chaotic. Not performative. Just aligned with how they actually function best. Does that challenge what youve been taught about love #LoversByShan #Polyamory #RelationshipDynamics #IntentionalLove #ModernLove #AlysonStoner"
YouTube Link 2025-08-18T16:53Z 162K followers, [----] engagements
"Have you ever felt your fear of death quietly steering your life Ft.@alessiacara We dont talk about this enough. Alessia told me shes lived with this underlying fear of death for most of her life. Its not just anxiety its a heaviness thats shaped her choices her art her quiet moments. But Subside marks a shift. Shes choosing to honor that fear without letting it lead. Shes choosing to live." Have you ever felt your fear of death quietly steering your life"
YouTube Link 2025-05-15T17:30Z 138K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Its Harder to Repair Friendships Than Relationships Ft. Krista Adult friendships can be fragile. Something as small as not replying to a Happy Birthday text might feel like nothing to you but to your friend it can become something bigger. And when things get socially awkward its not always easy to recover. In dating sex brings people back together even when things feel off. In friendship there isnt that same pull. What do you think makes repairing friendships harder than repairing relationships #LoversByShan #AdultFriendships #MakingFriends #FriendshipAdvice #LoversPodcast"
YouTube Link 2025-08-01T15:17Z 156K followers, [----] engagements
"How Do You Start New Friendships as an Adult Ft. Krista & Tabia How do I make friends in my adult years After so much living it can feel daunting to start fresh. But the truth is it often begins with reconnecting to yourself. Remembering what excites you what hobbies bring you joy and letting that guide you toward people who share your passions. Building friendship is a lot like building romance. It takes courage vulnerability and a willingness to put yourself out there. Whats been the hardest part of making new friends as an adult for you #LoversByShan #AdultFriendships #MakingFriends"
YouTube Link 2025-07-31T15:06Z 156K followers, [----] engagements
"Still Feel Insecure in a Good Relationship Youre Not Alone Ft. @DatingCoachAnwar"
YouTube Link 2025-07-19T18:45Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
"The Truth About Ride or Die Love Ft. Dr. Laura Berman Cam Newton called real love finding someone youd go to hell for. But does real love mean both people have to suffer together Sometimes one person is in the fire and the other is at home making dinner. Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is stay grounded and get help. Dr. Laura reminds us that true partnership isnt about sinking into the darkness. Its about companionship space and comfort while your partner finds their way through. What do you believe real love looks like in the middle of struggle #LoversByShan #DrLauraBerman"
YouTube Link 2025-09-01T19:26Z 160K followers, [----] engagements
"Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire in Relationships Ft. Shan & Jared Most couples live in responsive desire. You dont feel horny until youre already into the act. Spontaneous desire is what makes the honeymoon phase electric. But as Jared says life gets busy sex gets robotic and sometimes you just lose it. Have you noticed your desire shift in different seasons of love #LoversByShan #SexualDesire #Intimacy #RelationshipAdvice #ModernLove #MarriageTips #SexEducation #LoversPodcast #Desire ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-09-11T19:10Z 161K followers, [----] engagements
"Arc understood the Assignment Ft. Dame External cliteration should be a word and Im officially starting the petition 🖊 This @dameproduct one's the MVP of outer body experiences. So if youve ever said I just need something right there Arc understood the assignment"
YouTube Link 2025-05-14T19:00Z 138K followers, [---] engagements
"She Didnt Want Sex on Her Honeymoon And She Said It Out Loud Ft. Tamsen Fadal Tamsen Fadal was on her honeymoon when she realized something had shifted. She didnt want sex. She didnt know why. She just didnt. So she told her husband. Gently honestly without a solution. And the conversation they had that day at the beach not in the bedroom changed everything. It created space. For understanding. For curiosity. For patience. It was the start of her reconnecting with her body on entirely new terms. Not with shame but with self-trust. Not with fear but with clarity. And not just to be understood"
YouTube Link 2025-06-17T18:14Z 146K followers, [----] engagements
"Raven-Symon and Miranda on How Sleep Divorce Strengthened Their Marriage In this weeks episode I sit down with Raven-Symon and her wife Miranda Pearman-Maday for a refreshingly honest conversation about love and what it really takes to sustain a modern relationship. They share why they chose a sleep divorce and how sleeping separately has deepened their emotional bond sharpened their communication and brought them even closer. This episode is a masterclass in emotional maturity and intentional partnership an invitation to rethink what a healthy marriage can look like in a monogamix"
YouTube Link 2025-05-07T04:57Z 166K followers, 240.4K engagements
"Postpartum Sadness Is Biological Not Weakness Ft. Dr. Judith Joseph Youre told to feel joy after giving birth. But what if your body is wired for sadness Dr. Judith Jospeh breaks down what actually happens in the body postpartum a steep hormonal drop shifts in the brain and a chemical change that can leave you feeling deeply low. Youre not wrong for feeling sad. Youre reacting exactly as your body was built to. #LoversByShan #DrJudithJoseph #PostpartumDepression #HormonalChanges #MaternalMentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #LoversPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #HighFunctioningDepression #Depression"
YouTube Link 2025-07-06T16:33Z 150K followers, [----] engagements
"What Happens to Old Love When You Have New Intimate Needs Ft Karamo Brown Does a change in your intimate needs have to mean a change of heart In this episode of Lovers Shan Boodram sits down with Karamo Brown TV personality (Karama and Queer Eye) author and culture expert for a raw and revealing conversation about intimacy and growth. Karamo opens up about how his intimate needs evolved through his 20s 30s and 40sboth emotionally and in the bedroom. He shares how these changes led to the end of a past relationship where his partner couldnt accept his evolving needs without taking it"
YouTube Link 2025-04-09T17:00Z 120K followers, 30.3K engagements
"You DO NOT Have To Be Healed To Be In A Healthy Relationship @TheeJessieWoo For years the narrative was that I have to be fixed to be healed in order to be in a healthy relationship. What if we change this narrative Because as @jessiewoo said a relationship is a journey. You dont have to be healed to be in a healthy one The truth Maybe people do not have the real blueprint for healthy love. Anger trauma survival mode. thats what theyre working with. And yet Jessie found herself in a partnership where she can breathe. Be seen. Be safe. And she gives her person visibility into her process"
YouTube Link 2025-05-25T21:00Z 141K followers, [----] engagements
"Lena Waithe: Dont Have Sex With Someone If You Both Cant Do THIS In this episode of Lovers and Friends Shan Boodram sits down with Emmy-winning writer producer and actress Lena Waithe (Queen & Slim Master of None The Chi) for an eye-opening conversation about intimacy love and meaningful connections. Lena shares why you should never have sex with someone unless you can imagine a positive aftermath for both of you. She dives into how cuddling can create a deeper emotional bond than sex especially when the future of a relationship feels uncertain. Lena also opens up about the power of plutonic"
YouTube Link 2025-03-12T17:30Z 115K followers, 173.1K engagements
"Learning to Enjoy Sex Without Guilt Ft. Lilly Singh So many of us were never taught to enjoy sex. To know what we like to say what we want to believe that pleasure belongs to us too. After making Doin It Lilly Singh has been more intentional about exploring what pleasure means to her. Learning to approach it with curiosity instead of guilt. Whats something youve unlearned about sex or self-love #LoversByShan #LillySingh #DoinItMovie #WomensPleasure #FemaleDesire #HealingJourney #Intimacy #LoversPodcast ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com"
YouTube Link 2025-10-06T19:21Z 165K followers, [----] engagements
"Mario on the harm he caused to women"
YouTube Link 2025-02-27T17:46Z 110K followers, [---] engagements
"Making Sex More Pleasurable (Not Exhausting) Ft. Seema Anand Ever wanted to be on top but ran out of stamina halfway through Youre not alone. A woman wrote to @seemaanandstorytelling saying she wanted to make her sex life more exciting but being on top wears her out from all the bouncing. Porn taught us the wrong moves. And thats where the waist chain from our @surmeyi Kma collection enters the chat. It helps teach you the right ones guiding your rhythm so you move with intention not exhaustion. You know youve nailed it when the bells dont make a sound. Its about the back and forth. The"
YouTube Link 2025-06-27T14:32Z 148K followers, [----] engagements
"Loneliness and High-Functioning Depression Ft. Dr. Judith Joseph "Loneliness is the equivalent of smoking a pack and a half of cigarettes a day." Dr. Judith Joseph shares how high-functioning depression can convince us we have to do everything alone. We push people away take on too much and forget were allowed to receive. Were not meant to do life solo. We need connection to thrive. Loneliness isnt strength its survival mode. #LoversByShan #DrJudithJoseph #Loneliness #HighFunctioningDepression #MentalHealthAwareness #LoversPodcast #EmotionalHealing #Depression #Anhedonia"
YouTube Link 2025-07-07T21:45Z 150K followers, [----] engagements
"What does being of service in love look like to you Ft. @KhadeenEllisIAm When you think about marriage are you imagining the partnership or just the perks What does being of service in love look like to you"
YouTube Link 2025-04-04T21:04Z 118K followers, [----] engagements
"Why Expectations Can Sabotage Love Ft. Miranda Rae Mayo Miranda Rae Mayo talks about how expectations can pull you out of the moment when youre busy comparing who someone is to who you think they should be. That fear of being on the wrong path in love is real. And if you dont catch it it can hijack everything. How do you bring yourself back to the present moment in love #LoversByShan #DatingWithIntention #ModernLove #EmotionalClarity #SelfAwareness #LoversPodcast #DatingWhileHealing #DatingAdvice #DatingTips"
YouTube Link 2025-07-28T16:03Z 156K followers, [----] engagements
"The Bristle Effect in Relationships Ft. Jemele Hill Theres a term called the Bristle Effect. When your partner touches you instead of warmth it feels like spikesbecause the touch has become tied to another demand. Thats why it matters to release the pressure we put on ourselves. Sometimes your partner isnt the one asking more of you its you. Do you ever catch yourself adding weight to their touch #LoversByShan #TheBristleEffect #Intimacy #MarriageAdvice #EmotionalLabor #RelationshipTips #LoveAndMarriage #ModernLove #Partnership #LoversPodcast ________________________ Advertising & Other"
YouTube Link 2025-09-29T00:00Z 164K followers, 20.5K engagements
"The Heartbreak of Losing a Friend Ft. Krista Some of the biggest heartbreaks arent with partners. Theyre with friends. We think about romance as the one that got away but friendships leave that mark too. Friends arent just companions theyre amplifiers. They hold our memories our growth our laughter. Losing them can stay with us for years. Whats something a past friendship taught you that you still carry with you #LoversByShan #AdultFriendships #FriendshipAdvice #LoversPodcast #FriendshipGoals #ConnectionMatters #EmotionalWellbeing #FriendshipJourney ________________________ Advertising &"
YouTube Link 2025-08-04T15:30Z 157K followers, [----] engagements
"The Belief That Haunted Me Every Morning I remember a time when I would wake up every day and recite the list of people Id slept with. It became this constant obsession weighing heavy on my heart and mind. Why Because I was told it mattered. I compared it to a kid believing theres a monster in the closet they wont walk on the floor if theres no light on even though theres no monster. Your belief system shapes your reality. What you believe you start to live by. We carry these stories and beliefs about ourselves and they dictate how we move through life. What beliefs are you holding onto that"
YouTube Link 2025-04-23T00:30Z 122K followers, [----] engagements
"How Do You Find Sexual Liberation Without Being Objectified Ft. @DecisionsPod I dont think anyone cares about your soul for a little bit. 😬 Lets be honest. Were all swiping on looks maybe a decent bio. But wheres the line between being desired and being objectified So many of us have learned to mistake attention for value. But if what youre calling "liberation" leaves you feeling unseen is it actually setting you free Drop your take in the comments 👇 #LoversByShan #HookupCulture #SelfWorthJourney #ModernDating #LoversPodcast #RelationshipTruths #SelfValue #OnlineDating"
YouTube Link 2025-07-12T22:14Z 151K followers, [----] engagements
"The Politics of Attraction Ft. Kennedy Ryan Youre not undesirable youre just likely not a part of THIS cultures marketing campaign. A lot of peoples types are developed by social hierarchies and are not organically spawned without influence. Social norms dictate which bodies and appearances are considered attractive and worthy of love. Those that are not a part of that preferential group are often marginalized fetishsized and expected to be grateful for any attention. In short they fall into the lucky to be loved category in the eyes of many people in society. So what does that mean It means"
YouTube Link 2025-06-11T01:32Z 145K followers, [----] engagements
"Real Love Rarely Looks Like the Fairy Tale Ft. @DatingCoachAnwar Theres a safety in the fairy tale and we have to let that go. Because most of the time real love doesnt look like what we pictured. But it feels the way you always believed love should. Its not about your to have list. Its about your to feel list. And making sure the person in front of you knows how to show up for it. #LoversByShan #EmotionalClarity #ModernLove #LoversPodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #SelfWorth #OnlineDating"
YouTube Link 2025-07-18T15:26Z 154K followers, [----] engagements
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