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@theintimacydoc "Replying to @Jay586 Assumptions make an ass out of you and me. And thats exactly what this is. I cant teach an old dog new tricks. It is what it is. That right there is the kind of thinking that keeps people stuck. Its not truth its training. Weve been taught to settle. To accept stagnation as wisdom. To confuse apathy with peace. But thats not peace. Thats disconnection. Thats resignation dressed up as realism. Our systems were built to make us believe change is impossible. The more we think we cant change the easier it is for oppressive systems to keep us compliant. The more we repeat it is"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-06T12:54Z 186.3K followers, 271.5K engagements

"Replying to @dominiyorken Convincing doesnt foster pleasure. If youre trying to convince your girlfriend to try something youre already missing the point. Pleasure isnt about persuasion. Its about presence. Its about curiosity trust and communication. You cant pressure someone into pleasure and you cant build safety through convincing. Pleasure only happens when the body feels safe enough to surrender. This is where most people get it wrong. They think pleasure is about technique or permission when its actually about relational skill. Transparency. Assertiveness. Emotional regulation. The"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-13T15:13Z 186.6K followers, 1609 engagements

"Replying to @user8452451404504 Calling your wife a prude is the fastest way to make sure she never wants to touch you again. Pathologizing your partner blaming them or labeling them is not intimacy it is control. It does the exact opposite of what you want. If you want connection if you want play if you want real intimacy shaming your partner will never get you there. It is not rocket science. Respect builds desire. Disrespect kills it. And here is the truth. If you believe the problem in your relationship is only your partner that is exactly where you need to start paying attention."
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-09-14T15:56Z 186K followers, 1698 engagements

"Replying to @drprozac50 You dont need something new to feel something new. Everybodys chasing novelty looking for the next trip the next body the next high. But the truth is every single moment is already new. Your body is changing right now. Your breath your heartbeat your skin the air around you all of its shifting. Presence is what makes it novel. I was walking the High Line when this hit me. Same city. Same route. But I looked up and saw a view Id never noticed before. Thats the thing. When you actually slow down when you pay attention the world opens up in ways you cant plan for. You"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-05T15:22Z 185.4K followers, 2099 engagements

"Replying to @Yhlqmlg AWESOME. YOU get to choose what YOU like. Thats the whole point. Pleasure is personal. Its your body your experience your choice. Nobody else gets to tell you what should feel good or what you should be into. Pleasure isnt about performing or pleasing others. Its about learning yourself your sensations your curiosity your edges. Weve all been trained to believe what were supposed to like. To fit into boxes of whats acceptable attractive or normal. To follow rules about whats okay and whats too much. That conditioning doesnt just shape what we do in bed it shapes how we"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-09T18:04Z 186.3K followers, 1506 engagements

"Being intention is making a conscious choice of how you want to experience a situation.💥💜💪 #theintimacydoc #intentionalliving #coupletherapy #midnfulness #intimacy #consciousconnection"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2023-02-04T19:12Z 186.4K followers, 16.9K engagements

"Replying to @Jay586 Too old to change. Too stuck in your ways. Thats exactly what the playbook wants you to believe. Youre not broken. Youve just been trained. This idea that age makes you less curious less capable or less sexy isnt truth its conditioning. Ageism is a system that thrives when people stop questioning it. Its learned. Its reinforced every time you tell yourself Thats just how it is. And it makes sense that you feel this way. You grew up in a world that rewarded hard work and sacrifice while shaming pleasure rest and curiosity. A world that told you your worth depended on"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-10T13:55Z 186.6K followers, 1418 engagements

"Replying to @BananaMilk AND before you react breathe. Nurture whatever emotions are coming up for you right now. Curiosity confusion irritation maybe even excitement. It all makes sense. Your partner sent you this for a reason. Maybe they didnt know how to bring it up. Maybe theyre scared. Maybe they just want to feel closer. But this is where so many couples get stuck. Every day I get messages from people asking me to be the messenger. To tell their partner they want to explore butt play or try something new or talk about whats missing. And that right there shows how few people actually talk"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-08T20:30Z 186.4K followers, 3854 engagements

"Assholes need to get f*(d but how willing are you to change Weve all been trained to stay the same. To run on autopilot. To live in loops. Our brains are wired that way. Familiar equals safe even when familiar is miserable. So you keep repeating the same arguments the same patterns the same routines that block you from connection and pleasure. And you wonder why nothing shifts. But heres the truth. Change is possible. Your brain is not fixed. Neuroplasticity means you can actually rewire how you think how you feel how you react. Every time you practice a new behavior your brain lays down a"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-01T20:07Z 186.3K followers, 389.6K engagements

"Replying to @Will I Am EXACTLY. THIS. Living life led by pleasure isnt indulgent. Its intelligent. Its intentional. Its how we reclaim our bodies our time and our power. Every system we live in was built to train us away from pleasure. Capitalism patriarchy consumerism all of it is designed to make us chase comfort but never actually feel it. Were taught to pedestalize celebrities to glamorize the rich to scroll through other peoples joy while doubting if we even deserve our own. And it works. Because when were busy striving were too disconnected to notice we already have what we need to feel"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-12T19:21Z 186.6K followers, 4301 engagements

"Replying to @Kiki Cox Its a bid. Who knows what for. But its a bid. If youre not sure what it means get curious if you want to. When someone sends you a post like this especially an ex theyre reaching out for connection clarity or closure. Sometimes all three. The truth is most people dont know how to have real conversations about what they actually want so they send memes videos or quotes instead. Its easier than being vulnerable. Its easier than saying This made me think of us or I miss this part of what we had or even I wish we could have talked about this before. I see it every day. Men"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-09T15:53Z 186.2K followers, 1568 engagements

"Replying to @Rodrick McClure580 "it is what it is is learned. That phrase didnt come from nowhere. Its conditioning. Its a reflex we were taught to repeat when things feel too big too overwhelming too painful to change. It is what it is sounds harmless but its one of the most powerful tools of control ever created. It keeps people quiet. It keeps people compliant. It keeps people in survival mode. Every oppressive system we live under capitalism patriarchy r*cism ageism consumerism depends on apathy. It depends on the majority believing they cant change anything. The more helpless people feel"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-10T16:24Z 186.4K followers, 11.5K engagements

"Replying to @Brandon Whered you learn that hows that belief working out for you The idea that living life led by pleasure makes you weak isnt yours. It was taught to you. It was fed to you by a system that profits from your exhaustion. Capitalism thrives when the majority believes that rest is lazy pleasure is indulgent and suffering means youre doing something right. Meanwhile the people at the top are living life led by pleasure every single day. Thats the playbook. Keep the majority grinding disconnected and numb while the wealthy keep expanding their freedom joy and power. The truth is"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-14T15:34Z 186.6K followers, 1249 engagements

"Replying to @code F*ck yeah Every single person deserves pleasure. Every body. Every race. Every gender. Every size. Every ability. Every age. Every background. No exceptions. Pleasure isnt privilege. Its a birthright. Its a resource that already lives inside you. But most of us were never taught that. We were taught the opposite. That pleasure has to be earned. That you have to look a certain way act a certain way or have a certain status before you deserve it. That belief didnt come from nowhere. It came from the systems that run the world. Racism. Patriarchy. Capitalism. Ableism. Ageism."
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-14T00:18Z 186.6K followers, 1383 engagements

"Replying to @. If youre scared that makes sense. Fear is a normal response to anything new. Its what your body does to protect you. Whether its trying butt play starting a new job meeting someone new or saying something honest that feels risky your body reacts. You feel a charge. Your muscles tighten. Your heart rate shifts. Thats not weakness. Thats survival. Your nervous system is wired to keep you safe. The thing is safety and sameness look the same to your body. So even if you crave novelty or pleasure if you havent practiced it your system will see new as threat. Thats why change feels"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-08T23:01Z 186.6K followers, 21.6K engagements

"Replying to @. One more time. Because this time youre not just going to say it hurts. Youre going to talk about pleasure. Most couples never actually talk about pleasure. They talk about whats wrong whats missing what they dont like. But they rarely talk about what feels good what feels safe what feels curious. And when it comes to anything new like butt play or exploring different sensations most people react fast. They feel accused. They feel judged. They feel rejected. That reaction shuts the conversation down before it ever really starts. This isnt anyones fault. We were never taught how"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-12T16:37Z 186.6K followers, 4495 engagements

"Replying to @TD This aint for you its for her. That right there says everything. Anytime you think the problem lives in one person youre already missing the point. Relationships are dynamic. Theyre living systems constantly shaped by both peoples patterns fears and habits. Its never just one persons fault. Its never just one person who needs to change. When you say this is for her what youre really saying is you dont want to look at yourself. And that makes sense. Its uncomfortable. Weve been taught that blame feels safer than accountability. That if you point the finger first you cant be the"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-10T19:12Z 186.6K followers, 168.5K engagements

"Replying to @Mike O F*ck yeah Celebrating the fuck out of you owning your pleasure💥💕💪 When someone says out loud what actually turns them on what brings them joy what sparks desire in their body that is not just about segg. That is about courage. That is about honesty. That is about choosing connection over shame. And in a world that is constantly trying to divide us constantly trying to keep us in fear constantly trying to push us into silence that is revolutionary. The more we share and celebrate what brings us pleasure the more permission we all have to explore what is real for us. That"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-09-14T18:45Z 186.6K followers, 2362 engagements

"Replying to @cody Good for you. Hows that working out for you Interesting how this popped up on your FYP🤔 I get it. Its easier to say youre opting out than to admit youre tired disappointed or unsure how to connect anymore. Most men were never taught how to connect. You were taught to provide to perform to stay strong and to never need help. That conditioning runs deep. But heres the truth loneliness is killing men faster than almost anything else. The data is clear. Men are experiencing higher rates of isolation depression and mortality than women. Thats not weakness. Thats what happens"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-14T21:53Z 186.6K followers, 1239 engagements

"Replying to @robertcarlin You take one look and youre scared. Makes total sense. When you try something new your bodys first job is to protect you. Its not judging you its keeping you alive. In survival mode your system is built for efficiency. That means repeating whats familiar even when familiar doesnt feel good. So when something new shows up your body reads it as threat. Not because its bad but because its different. Different can feel unsafe. Different can feel too much. Thats why so many people retreat after one uncomfortable experience and never try again. But the discomfort isnt"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-06T18:49Z 186.5K followers, 2647 engagements

"Replying to @zipperback That makes sense. Most people dont actually know how to invite in pleasure or what it means to gain enthusiastic consent. Enthusiastic consent isnt just about saying yes. Its about wanting to. Its about curiosity safety and connection. Its about the energy between two people being alive and mutual. Both people choosing it feeling it wanting it. Thats what creates real pleasure. But most couples dont talk openly about what they want. Not just in bed but in life. They dont talk about their needs desires or curiosities. They assume the other person should already know or"
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-11T16:37Z 186K followers, 1308 engagements

"Replying to @Rys Why is this on your algorithm 🤔Maybe ask why you stopped to comment. The algorithm only feeds what youve shown interest in. It tracks what you watch what you linger on what you react to. So if my video landed in your feed that means something in it already resonated. Maybe consciously maybe not. But something in your system said pay attention. And then you did. You engaged. You left a comment. That says even more. So instead of brushing it off or minimizing it pause and get curious. What emotion came up. What thought. What sensation in your body. Maybe it was resistance."
TikTok Link @theintimacydoc 2025-10-06T20:26Z 186K followers, 101.3K engagements