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Social category influence finance 7.81% social networks 7.03% technology brands 4.69% countries 3.91% celebrities 2.34% vc firms #21 stocks 0.78% automotive brands 0.78%

Social topic influence shay #11, if you #4231, how to 10.16%, in the 9.38%, relationships #894, the most 5.47%, the world 4.69%, have the #1028, environment #516, level 3.91%

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"This one can be hard to explain but I will try. Gift giving is something that should be exciting when done in good faith. When the act of gifting is weaponized it can be used to harm others. @ShaytheThey #olebrandselect #abuseawareness #lovebombing #weaponizedincompentence #apology #emotionalintelligence #emotionalregulation #giftgiving #narcissistic #privilegedpoor #mentalhealthawareness #traumahealing #traumatok #knowledgeispower #shaythethey Weaponized gift giving weaponized gifting fake apology narcissism toxic relationship bad parenting sympathetic narcissism WEAPONIZED GIFT GIVING TT:"
TikTok Link 2025-08-07T12:44Z 56K followers, [----] engagements

"So the dead internet theory has been proven. That helps in explaining why it seems as though 50% of job listings appear fake and lead to spam harassment. I can only begin to imagine the fake applications in real job inboxes. Beware of dead internet bots on all platforms as well #shaythethey #jobsearch #jobtips #unemployment #spam #scam #jobmarket #2025 #ai #deadinternettheroy HOW THE DEAD INTERNET THEORY CONFIRMATION IMPACTS JOB SEEKERS & BLACK COMMUNITIES TT: Shaythethey IG: reklawceo Dead internet theory scams fake jobs ai unemployment job search HOW THE DEAD INTERNET THEORY CONFIRMATION"
TikTok Link 2025-08-17T17:26Z 57.4K followers, 11.1K engagements

"Typically your friends should want to hear you talk about exciting things in your life especially if those things include achievements. When you start being known as a content creator due to a growing following some friends will begin behaving and treating you differently. It will be hard for them to be excited about what you find exciting as your digital presence grows. This will result in them lacking interest and wonder in your life because they dont want to risk acknowledging work they may envy or ignore the value of. As you get more attention online dont be surprised when people feel the"
TikTok Link 2025-10-25T15:01Z 56K followers, 93.6K engagements

"Growing from trauma can be difficult. On one hand you have the memory of deep pain. On the other hand youre in an environment that reflects your ability to do better for yourself. The problem is in the new environment Its hard to find a safe place for your tough past. But amongst people that have also had a tough past it is hard to find adequate growth from prior traumas. This can lead to a level of isolation in many different spaces and around many different people. After all you did have to face the impossible to even be where youre at. #adversity #traumahealing #isolation #ptsd"
TikTok Link 2025-10-27T23:47Z 58K followers, 17K engagements

"One trait that always draws out the secret intentions of others is being slow to reveal my business to others. Many people want full access to you with no intentions of ever being a friend to you. They want details from you in hopes that they will provide some sort of leverage or ability for them to feel like your equal in power. These people dont even realize the behaviors they carry out are exactly why youve developed the attributes they find frustrating. Being reserved and protecting your privacy will offend many that feel theyd benefit from your lack of regard. #manipulator #jealousy"
TikTok Link 2025-11-23T14:15Z 56K followers, 22.5K engagements

"As my discernment has grown I can pretty much determine on introductions who I do not need to continue relationship with or who I will have to distance from because they have no regard or consideration for me and my existence if it does not serve them. Many people feel you need to justify your departure from them so that they can further deny and try to evade the boundaries set before them. Others want a big blow up because their lack of accountability in conflict give them means by which they can twist the final narrative. Someone cutting you off is actually quite a clear message. Just"
TikTok Link 2025-12-11T18:32Z 56.8K followers, 19.8K engagements

"When youre bound to be successful and the results begin to show so many people will position themselves close to you with the hopes of having stake or claim to the product of your genius. When your life improves so should your discernment and selectivity about who should be allowed in your life. Many people want to skip out on doing woek in their own lives by riding the coattails of the talented and gifted. #manipulator #opportunist #user #leech #shaythethey Shay the They PEOPLE WILL GAIN PROXIMITY TO YOU TO CLAIM YOUR SUCCESS FOR THEMSELVES PEOPLE WILL GAIN PROXIMITY TO YOU TO CLAIM YOUR"
TikTok Link 2025-12-20T17:52Z 56K followers, 16.3K engagements

"The year is still young choose to be committed to something. One year of locking in can change your entire life. Stop making excuses and start making changes. #lockedin #academicweapon #discipline #comeback #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey YOU NEED TO LOCK IN Shay the They Lock in making excuses fear of starting locked in discipline distraction distracted inability to focus avoidance The year is still young choose to be committed to something. One year of locking in can change your entire life. Stop making excuses and start making changes. #lockedin #academicweapon #discipline #comeback"
TikTok Link 2026-01-16T13:38Z 56.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Men are constantly correcting or disregarding what women say because that is all the can add to the conversation. By offloading tasks that require emotional intelligence onto their gender counterparts theyve robbed themselves of the soft skills needed just to carry out conversation. Women are now calling it out and what may seem like an attack is just an unveiling of yet another truth about men. Most men are lazy conversationalists. #conversation #softskills #emotionalintelligence #vulnerability #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They MOST MEN ARE LAZY CONVESATIONALISTS MOST MEN ARE LAZY"
TikTok Link 2026-01-19T16:11Z 56K followers, 16.3K engagements

"Once you understand that most educational test are just seeing how well you can apply the rules of the subject you will learn that learning the rules is more important than actually knowing the details of the material. And higher education and in certain subjects its better to know how the subject operates rather than trying to learn every small detail that the subject has taught you. Learning the rules will carry you through time test more than memorizing the material. #testing #education #study #latin #shaythethey MEMORIZE THE RULES NOT THE MATERIAL Shay the They Memorization latin studying"
TikTok Link 2026-01-31T02:45Z 56K followers, [----] engagements

"When you operate in happiness consistently many people will target you for said happiness. People that are miserable with their lives want you to share in that misery and when you show signs that you arent they want to become the reason youre miserable. These people fail to realize that choosing to be happy in the world today takes a certain level of delusion and personal strength. Targeting these individuals is much less than smart the battles theyve endured make them great fighters for the ones youre trying to bring to them. #happy #haters #people #miserylovescompany #shaythethey @YT: Shay"
TikTok Link 2026-01-31T15:21Z 55.9K followers, [----] engagements

"When youre perceived as attractive people will act very strange around and towards you. Whether youre attracting people through your physical appearance your personality or your charisma all of these things will be viewed as a threat in environments where insecure people are. When insecure people get into relationships their insecurity will show up in the relationship. This will often turn into them targeting the attractive single friends of their partner because they are insecure with themselves. #attractive #friendship #relationships #insecurity #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They INSECURE"
TikTok Link 2026-02-01T15:37Z 56.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Nekima Levy Armstrong was recently arrested for her role and protests against ice. The White House posted a doctored image of this event taking away from the true credibility of the moment. We are at risk of our history being by our government using AI. #ai #history #america #politicalnews #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They AI IS BEING USED TO REWRITE HISTORY RIGHT IN FRONT OF US AI IS BEING USED TO REWRITE HISTORY RIGHT IN FRONT OF US Shay the They Activism activists civil rights movement history imagery protesting first amendment fake history AI government the White House photoshopped media"
TikTok Link 2026-02-03T18:32Z 56.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Don Lemons arrest this week along with other journalists such as Georgia Fort shows how much this nation is willing to protect the degradation of our rights using Christian nationalism as a vehicle. This has been an ongoing practice of the Maga movement. On paper Trump has used more religious language than any other president or presidential candidate before him. How is it that the most sinful of our president knows that appealing to those that follow this religion would help him spread his hate. What does that say about Christianity and Christians in the modern America #christianity"
TikTok Link 2026-02-04T20:56Z 56.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Many of us have not been encouraged to pursue our gifts and talents. In order to pursue your gift you often have to take a risk. For those that are scared of taking risks or being judged. It is like throwing the gift. The universe gave you away to the wind. Take a risk for your gift you were given it for a reason. #risky #gifted #talent #arts #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They TAKE A RISK FOR YOUR GIFT Shay the they Encouragement art gift storytelling storytime arts speaking speech and debate put yourself out there smart mouth taking a risk talent talented alluring intelligent people"
TikTok Link 2026-02-05T16:04Z 56.7K followers, [----] engagements

"When I interact with people in new rooms I can read everything of importance almost immediately and naturally. This ability scares many people and itll make them deflect by saying you dont have to be scared. However acknowledging things its not something that someone that is fearful of something does. In fact acknowledging and being cognizant of your environment is exactly what negates the need to have fear while in it. To the untrained eye vigilance will seem like fear. #vigilance #fear #readtheroom #patternrecognition #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They VIGILANCE WILL SEEM LIKE FEAR TO THE"
TikTok Link 2026-02-08T15:44Z 57.5K followers, [----] engagements

"This is the full run down of how to get paid on tik tok for views once your account has been monetized. Please check out my other videos on how to grow your following on tik tok. #creatorsearchinsights #creatorrewardsprogram #contentcreator #influencer #shaythethey @Shay the They @Shay the They Creator rewards monetized videos creator search insights tik tok shay influencer shay the they how to get brand deals how to get paid on tik tok paid views on TikTok how to get monetized content creators what is rpm creator search insights content creator tips ugc creator TT: Shaythethey IG: reklawceo"
TikTok Link 2025-09-03T16:32Z 58.8K followers, 128.8K engagements

"If youve been living queerly youve probably run into the friend group that is actually just a polycule. I find young queers will explore their queerness through their friends which works for some but is not desirable to me. When these groups recruit you and their advances are unsuccessful the smear campaign begins. #queer #friendgroup #friendswithbenefits #lesbiansoftiktok #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey SOME QUEER FRIEND GROUPS WILL TRY TO RECRUIT YOU TO HAVE SEXUAL ACCESS TO YOU SOME QUEER FRIEND GROUPS WILL TRY TO RECRUIT YOU TO HAVE SEXUAL ACCESS TO YOU Shay the They ATTRACTIVE queer over"
TikTok Link 2025-12-12T15:04Z 58.8K followers, 372K engagements

"The more secure I am in self the more I look forward to the solitude that will eventually follow. When people see youre self assured they will not understand it if they are not the same. They will befriend you to study you but once they see youre just confident they discard you. From there they will try to weaponize your ability to be woth yourself bu forcing you deeper into solitude using exclusion as a means of doing so. This is how adult bullies choose and operate towards targets. #solitude #isolation #validation #adultbullying #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey NOT NEEDING EXTERNAL VALIDATION"
TikTok Link 2025-12-17T15:18Z 58.8K followers, 206K engagements

"Its sad when being poor in a blue state is more enjoyable than being paid in a southern one. When you make money in the south you work much harder for it and youre forced to spend more of it. In the blue you can tailor your lifestyle in a way that is more sustainable. There are social programs to aid you should you fall short. In the red it was an every man for himself mentality that aided in keeping their prisons packed with the poorest populations. Id rather be low income in a blue state than high earning in a red one. #north #south #blue #red #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey BEING LOW INCOME"
TikTok Link 2025-12-30T15:19Z 58.8K followers, 163.9K engagements

"Time will always tell you what cutoffs you were correct about. Everytime I have cut someone off better has found me. My life had improved while theirs reflects the loss of guidance my departure has created for them. When you are a powerful individual be selective and adaptive about who is around you at all times. #cutoff #closure #friendship #relationship #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey LIFE WILL REWARD YOU FOR CUTTING THE CORRECT PEOPLE OFF Shay the They Cutoffs silent quitting friendships ambitions friends time tells all truth restricting access outgrowing relationships outgrowing friendships"
TikTok Link 2026-01-11T13:35Z 58.8K followers, 104.9K engagements

"Black people often define success by how well it can be performed materially. While successful people often seek not to be identified on the basis of materiality. Once youve been exposed to success in practice it changes your mind on success in performance. The acquisition of european brands is not Black success. #blacktiktok #finance #successmindset #consumerism #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They MANY BLACK PEOPLE ARE IMPRESSED BY ALL THE WRONG THINGS Shay the They MANY BLACK PEOPLE ARE IMPRESSED BY ALL THE WRONG THINGS Shay the They Black Tik tok consumerism capitalism shoes shoe culture black"
TikTok Link 2026-01-18T15:23Z 58.8K followers, 472K engagements

"When youre intelligent many people in your life will be intimidated by it or resent you for it. They will never affirm this trait in you and will praise and listen to those sharing your same message with less conviction than you. You cannot be friends with the intellectually insecure if youre wanting to be secure in your own capabilities. #shaythethey #intelligent #friendship #insecurity #knowledge @YT: Shay the They INSECURE FRIENDS WILL NOT WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR INTELLIGENCE Shay the They Intelligence intellectual intelligent knowledgeable knowledge is power friends fake friends insecure"
TikTok Link 2026-01-21T13:35Z 58.8K followers, 26K engagements

"The star of the show is focused on themselves not the lives of others. Focusing on yourself will give you star power. #chosen #anointed #focus #selfimprovement #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They FOCUSING ON YOURSELF GIVES YOU STAR POWER Shay the They Star power fans being a star being original energy warmth sun gossip signs of success sun energy inner light chosen ones anointing knowing someone will be successful astronomy astrology The star of the show is focused on themselves not the lives of others. Focusing on yourself will give you star power. #chosen #anointed #focus #selfimprovement"
TikTok Link 2026-01-22T12:53Z 58.8K followers, 48.6K engagements

"People will try to put Gen Z in their place when it comes to the workplace and hiring because they recognize that Gen Z is a generation that has put work in its place in their own life. Something many generations before us have failed to do. The freedoms we have from prioritizing work realistically is something that brings on quite a bit of envy from some we share the work space with. ##genz##corporate##workingclass##workplace##shaythethey @@YT: Shay the They GEN Z IN THE WORKPLACE GEN Z IN THE WORKPLACE Shay the They Genz jobs job search freedom quiet quitting silent quitting genx gen z job"
TikTok Link 2026-01-29T00:04Z 58.8K followers, 369K engagements

"One thing about education is it teaches you how to commit to doing uncomfortable things to completion to move your life forward at times when that may seem uncomfortable. While this trait can be learned and the skill can be sharpened in other ways; I find college is a good avenue for this lesson in a somewhat safe environment. Learning this lesson as soon as possible in adulthood will make for much better outcomes along the way. ##college##education##adulthood##lifelesson##shaythethey @@YT: Shay the They Shay the They EDUCATION WILL TEACH YOU HOW TO FINISH THINGS TO COMPLETION EDUCATION WILL"
TikTok Link 2026-02-01T00:30Z 58.8K followers, 278.3K engagements

"Be you not me. #copycat #original #jealousy #envy #weird WHEN PEOPLE ONLY BEFRIEND YOU TO TRY TO BECOME YOU OR COMPETE WITH YOU WHEN PEOPLE ONLY BEFRIEND YOU TO TRY TO BECOME YOU OR COMPETE WITH YOU"
TikTok Link 2026-02-04T00:40Z 58.8K followers, 18.4K engagements

"Being broke frees you from a lot of things including shame and the privilege of embarrassment. If you leverage the audacity that you have to have to change your situation long enough you could potentially change your whole life. Leverage your brokenness and the shamelessness that comes with it. #broke #moneytok #finances #shamelesss #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They LEVERAGE YOUR BROKENESS Shay the They Going broke fall off financial literacy debt shamelessness survival instincts capitalism moneytok purpose follow your passion follow your dreams desperation potential momentum stop"
TikTok Link 2026-02-04T13:38Z 58.8K followers, 46.3K engagements

"Online lesbians are often attacked for only wanting to be with other lesbians but I totally understand where this preference comes from. Few people in this world have experienced what love feels like when the opinions and influences of men have nothing to do with how love is carried out. Lesbians exist in their own world of love because their love is so rebellious to the power structures that currently rule over women especially in their romantic endeavors. #lesbiansoftiktok #love #wlw #dating #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They BEING WITH A LESBIAN CHANGES YOUR OUTLOOK ON LOVE AND LIFE Shay the"
TikTok Link 2026-02-08T00:03Z 58.8K followers, 31.8K engagements

"People will be made uncomfortable when you can comfortably consider the negatives. In every action there is duality As humans when were excited about an action we often overlook the negatives that may also stem from the same action. Being able to consider the negatives will make others uncomfortable because they know you see into their blind spots. Instead of heeding your warnings many will make a bad decision just to spite you. Let them. #foresight #clairvoyant #patternrecognition #knowledgeispower #shaythethey Shay the They BEING ABLE TO CONSIDER THE NEGATIVES WILL MAKE OTHERS UNCOMFORTABLE"
TikTok Link 2026-02-09T16:19Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Many people root dating in the possession of others so if you are somebody that knows yourself this will not work for you because you thrive on being your own individual. Knowing yourself can be one of the biggest setbacks in dating because many people will require you to be who they want you to be after securing a relationship with you. Many times of things that draw people to us are the things that they later hope to change about us. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #relationships #shaythethey KNOWING YOURSELF CAN BE A SETBACK IN DATING KNOWING YOURSELF CAN BE A SETBACK IN DATING Shay the"
TikTok Link 2026-02-11T13:43Z 58.8K followers, 10.4K engagements

"Many people will be offended by the fact that you have standards when they assumed lowly of you. The standards you hold in your life then become a personal attack to them because they cant reckon with the fact that they were wrong about you. Many people have their own calculator on what others are deserving of and when they miscalculated they will get mad at you before admitting their wrong. #stereotypes #assumptions #standards #people #shaythethey Shay the They PEOPLE WILL BE OFFENDED BY YOUR STANDARDS PEOPLE WILL BE OFFENDED BY YOUR STANDARDS Shay the They Many people will be offended by"
TikTok Link 2026-02-11T18:05Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Many women that align themselves with the lesbian community on the basis of their queer identity often see themselves as being immune to the impact of patriarchy while overlooking the fact that the reason they may be aligning themselves with the Queer community is because theyre trying to appeal to the interests of the patriarchy. When lesbians give voice to this they are often shamed into silence and gaslit in their experience despite the fact that none of us are immune to the patriarchy and the more we are shamed for calling it out the worse off all of us will be. #lgbt🌈 #wlw"
TikTok Link 2026-02-11T18:14Z 58.8K followers, 67.4K engagements

"These files just proved how protected predators are while victims suffer. Whether its our own government actors trying to hide their hand in children trafficking or the way children are denied being believed when telling their stories. This society wasnt built overnight and these things were first normalized by the institution that built this nation chattel slavery. #politics #files #america #history #shaythethey Shay the They THESE FILES EXPOSE THE DEEPER ROOTED ISSUES OF AMERICAN SOCIETY Shay the They THESE FILES EXPOSE THE DEEPER ROOTED ISSUES OF AMERICAN SOCIETY"
TikTok Link 2026-02-12T14:36Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"You dont know somebody until you see how they act when money is involved. Money brings out the survival instincts of people. It may reveal traumas that wouldnt have been exposed otherwise. And it can turn friends into enemies overnight. Who you know before finances are involved is completely different than the person you will be in contact with once they are. #money #financialliteracy #finances #moneytalk #shaythethey Shay the They YOU DONT KNOW SOMEONE UNTIL MONEY IS INVOLVED YOU DONT KNOW SOMEONE UNTIL MONEY IS INVOLVED Shay the They You dont know somebody until you see how they act when"
TikTok Link 2026-02-12T18:12Z 58.8K followers, 37.5K engagements

"If you have not learned how to regulate yourself in life yet you just wont be around me. I cannot do highly anxious reactive or immature energy. Emotional regulation is a big part of adulthood yet so many adults are still without it. Learn how to chill anxiety is contagious and it will not be around me. #anxiousattachment #anxiety #grounding #emotionalregulation #shaythethey Shay the They I DO NOT ALLOW ANXIOUS ENERGY AROUND ME I DO NOT ALLOW ANXIOUS ENERGY AROUND ME Shay the They If you have not learned how to regulate yourself in life yet you just wont be around me. I cannot do highly"
TikTok Link 2026-02-14T17:02Z 58.8K followers, 14.6K engagements

"Not knowing the details of your childs greatness but being present when they reap the benefits of it whether that is a Super Bowl or being honored at an award show is in fact disrespectful. People do not become great from a lack of effort. People become great from a series of very specified efforts. To not know the details of why your child is important and what makes them great signifies some level of jealousy in cognitive dissonance from the reality of your childs success. #disrespect #neglectfulparents #parentingtips #parentsontiktok @YT: Shay the They Shay the They AT A CERTAIN POINT"
TikTok Link 2026-02-15T16:52Z 58.8K followers, 19.9K engagements

"Being raised alongside male siblings exposes you to the patriarchy and its negative implications very young. From a young age seeing my own life valued along the lines of gender radicalized me in many ways. I knew as a child that inequality was wrong i didnt want men in my house and i did not want to be a part of a binary that calls for my participation in a system that degrades the human rights of many. Many if these realizations came from the ideologies of patriarchy that shaped my childhood. @ShaytheThey #patriarchy #decentermen #family #parentsoftiktok #parenting #Siblings #Siblings"
TikTok Link 2025-07-26T15:48Z 58.4K followers, 40.8K engagements

"Been getting a lot of requests for more conversations on this @ShaytheThey #privilegedpoor #privelege #priveleged #whiteprivilege #blackprivilege #storytime #atlanta #boston #financialfreedom #financialliteracy #finance #money #moneytok #rich #wealth #wealthymindset #college #possescholar #bostontiktok #bostonuniversity HOW MOVING FROM ATLANTA TO BOSTON RECONSTRUCTED MY UNDERSTANDING OF MONEY AND WEALTH. TT: Shaythethey IG: reklawceo Money wealth rich aesthetic money making lives of the wealthy lives of the rich boston university Atlanta designer brand money management financial literacy"
TikTok Link 2025-07-26T22:59Z 58.6K followers, 172K engagements

"People will often ask me how I grew to be so intelligent or smart. The truth is it was bound to happen because of these identities I hold and my willingness to lean into them. The oppressions we face on the basis of our identities inform us as well as being in community with others that share this identity. It is different when you have lived and been brought up by primary sources of things many can only learn from reading about. Experiential knowledge and learning is one of the most impactful ways of growing more intellectual. When your experience does not drive you to seek understanding"
TikTok Link 2025-10-02T15:51Z 58.5K followers, 26.8K engagements

"Bragging about your cut off game is bound to bring you betrayal. It is only a matter of time before someone close to you will want to test this trait in you. After all youve boasted on the trait so much its hard for some not to at least want to test it. Dont give others a reason to test just let them find out if ever the blade finds them needing of amputation. #cutoff #friendship #noconact #betrayal #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey Shay The They DO NOT BRAG ABOUT YOUR CUT OFF GAME DO NOT BRAG ABOUT YOUR CUT OFF GAME Shay the they Cut off game silent cut offs cut off no contact friendship break"
TikTok Link 2025-10-18T15:14Z 58.5K followers, 27.2K engagements

"When you have social capital people will try to leverage it for themselves by making yo their handbag when around others. If this happens to you demand distance if necessary. If youre someone that does this listen in for tips on helping this urge. #shaythethey #codependencyrecovery #codependency #codependent #socialexperiment #sociology #socialanxiety #socialdistancing #psa #advice #socialbutterfly #friendly #secureattachment #socialcapital #popular #friendship #healthyrelationship #traumahealing Friendly person social social anxiety unhealthy attachment social capital psa adult adulthood"
TikTok Link 2025-08-24T13:41Z 58.7K followers, 52.9K engagements

"Many parents become childishly obsessed with playing the disciplinarian in their household. These parents often resort to emotional and physical negging to assert parental dominance over their own offspring. In the end however the effectiveness of such efforts are short lived. Eventually such efforts are recognized as deviously developed plots intended to induce a charged response. As the child grows more mature than theyre power hungry parent the chasm of between the two parties continues to grow: this ultimately results in no contact between child and parent. @YT: ShaytheThey"
TikTok Link 2025-09-10T00:14Z 58.7K followers, 144.4K engagements

"When people see you have a high probability of success they may go out their way to support you at some point. A lot of walking a different path is learning how to keep doing it with no guide or applause. Youre supporters and well wishers have yet to locate you. Once they do your rise will be swift and noticeable. Only then will the deniers consider supporting. #successmotivation #successmindset #growthtiktok #growthmindset #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey PEOPLE MAY SUPPORT YOU LESS WHEN THEY KNOW YOURE GOING TO MAKE IT Shay the They Elevation trust the process artists way consistency"
TikTok Link 2025-10-22T13:28Z 58.8K followers, 320.1K engagements

"Being attractive can make you into a trophy or ego boost for others in dating. Few people have the courage to approach appropriately or seriously. If ever you approach others they quickly use the gesture as an ego stroke and often publicize it to others more than they even communicate with you. Many people only want to date you to make themselves look and feel good rather than being good to you. When youre attractive it becomes difficult for many to still see you as a human an not an object upon which they can prop their ego. #attractive #prettyprivilege #ego #dating #shaythethey Shay the"
TikTok Link 2025-10-26T13:50Z 58.7K followers, 605.9K engagements

"Ever wondered why youre bothered the most with your headphones on People like to bother those that appear unbothered. The more signs show youre invested in your own energy the more people will try to test that. The less attention you give things the more attention they give you. The world is extremely bothersome to the unbothered. #unbothered #protectyourenergy #mindingmyownbusiness #inmyzone #shaythethey THE MORE UNBOTHERED YOU ARE THE MORE YOU WILL BE BOTHERED Shay the They Unbothered chosen one chosen attention self confidence secure energy serenity security in self mysterious authentic"
TikTok Link 2025-11-03T18:29Z 58.8K followers, 167.3K engagements

"When you are an original being people will attach themselves to you because they are in awe of your uniqueness. Once they get used to your uniqueness however they forget that not everyone is like you and often times this causes them to sabotage the relationship. When you have to restrict access to yourself from this individual they will cause quite a scene and make it your issue as well. Get used to the drama people create when you demand access to yourself back from them and get used to silent cut offs from people that have no conflict resolution skills or just want to waste your time via"
TikTok Link 2025-11-13T13:17Z 58.7K followers, 127.2K engagements

"When you put your account on private and hold it there you will be surprised what you find out. When people can no longer freely send you around in chats they start making themselves known to you for access. Everytime i did this in the past I learned so much that Id never even considered. Put that account on private and see what you find out. #instagram #monitoringspirits #surveillance #private #shaythethey HOW TO FIND OUT WHO IS WATCHING YOU ON INSTAGRAM HOW TO FIND OUT WHO IS WATCHING YOU ON INSTAGRAM Shay the They Instagram instagram stalkers sending around my post private instagram"
TikTok Link 2025-11-30T15:11Z 58.8K followers, 922.4K engagements

"The truth is people feel entitled to a report card assessment when wronging you leads to detatchment. Often tyey are not looking to be better they are just interested in how you caught on to them. These are the same people that will try to manipulate you into staying after your mind is made up. The expectation of people pleasing in departure keeps many within the cycle of abuse. #silentcutoffs #manipulation #peoplepleaser #gaslighting #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey SILENT CUT OFFS DEFY PEOPLE PLEASING Shay the they Silent cut offs cut off explanation people pleasing gaslighting second guessing"
TikTok Link 2025-12-01T13:23Z 58.8K followers, 446.3K engagements

"If you express interest while being perceived as attractive please make sure the other person is confident enough to be normal about it. If not they will use your bid at connection to humble you while stroking their own ego with your attention. Many will assume you are playing them because they are unworthy of you and they will try to beat you to the punch they think is coming from you. Many people will sabotage their own opportunity with you then begin smear campaigns about you so others will not be interested in their fumble. Being attractive is seemingly more fun for others than it is the"
TikTok Link 2025-12-09T13:00Z 58.8K followers, 549.8K engagements

"When youre ambitious a lot of people that are intimidated by you will befriend you to study you closer. They wont be a great friend to you but they will remain in proximity because they know you will likely be successful at something. The same traits they secretly resent are the same reason they stick around. When youre ambitious many of the people around you see you as the just in case friend. They are only around in case you pop off. By the time you make it to the top it will be lonely because so many people will expose themselves in this way to you. #knowledgeispower #ambition"
TikTok Link 2025-12-14T14:47Z 58.7K followers, 140.2K engagements

"When youre attractive many people will want to befriend you but your looks will leave you feeling unsatisfied in all relationships that are based on them. Friends will strategically invite or uninvite you places to capitalize on the currency of your beauty. They will parade you around play up their proximity to you all while only performing friendship towards you. If you find a true friend while being attractive hold onto them #manipulators #attractive #pretty #friendship #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey YOU WILL HAVE MANY STRATEGIC FRIENDS WHEN YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE Shay the They Friends pretty"
TikTok Link 2025-12-19T14:56Z 58.8K followers, 391.8K engagements

"When youre intelligent kind and charismatic prepare for people to become addicted to you. They will become dependent on you and resent you at the same time. They will seek you out by any means. They will stalk harrass and fight you over access to you if ever you pull the drug that is your presence away. It is important to at least be aware of the signs of addiction so you can be aware of when someone is becoming addicted to you. Aura addiction is real addiction #addictionrecovery #addictionawareness #auraaddicton #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey Shay the They HAVING AURA WILL MAKE OTHERS"
TikTok Link 2025-12-26T17:15Z 58.8K followers, 176.5K engagements

"Delete that close friends story this year. End the parasocial relationships that are being fueled by your own actions. Take a step back from sharing and see who even seeks you out to see about you. The results will surprise you. Few are fit to genuinely be considered a close friend. #closefriends #instagram #story #2026 #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey DELETE THAT CLOSE FRIENDS STORY IN [----] Shay the They Close friends close friends story cfs green circle instagram instagram followers instagram friends mutuals content creators tea goblin external validation influencer [----] content creation close"
TikTok Link 2026-01-04T14:24Z 58.7K followers, 126.9K engagements

"When i think about the fact that i worked for $7.25 an hour for years before moving out of my red state I cant help but feel anger. In [----] no employer should even have the option to pay at such rates yet they do When I realized many of these companies encouraged us to union bust on their behalf I felt used and betrayed. When I moved to a blue state I learned the value that should be assigned to labor. I also learned the importance of coming together to protect the rights of workers. Working in the red and working in the blue in early adulthood is an eye opening experience. #redstate"
TikTok Link 2026-01-09T15:01Z 58.7K followers, 19K engagements

"Small things give off big signs of someones character. The way people choose to handle and go about simple things can reflect their overall nature. People show who they are everyday it doesnt take a grand act to see straight through another. Once you can extrapolate small actions you see the importance of paying attention to principles. #principle #discernment #extrapolation #people #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey THE PRINCIPLE OF SMALL THINGS TELL YOU EVERYTHING THE PRINCIPLE OF SMALL THINGS TELL YOU EVERYTHING Shay the They Serial killer documentary storytelling storytime dishonesty the"
TikTok Link 2026-01-13T13:04Z 58.8K followers, 383.2K engagements

"If you have a southern upbringing you can flourish in the north simply by applying yourself. The south will build your work ethic the north will pay you for it. #north #south #usa #work #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey HAVING A SOUTHERN WORK ETHIC IN THE NORTH = SUCCESS Shay the They HAVING A SOUTHERN WORK ETHIC IN THE NORTH = SUCCESS Shay the They North vs South great migration work ethic work force minimum wage labor rights labor unions burnout hustle & bustle public transit job search hard worker work ethic federal minimum wage success successful exposure getting a raise responsibility"
TikTok Link 2026-01-17T14:34Z 58.7K followers, 514.7K engagements

"When youre a private person people will break their neck to get information on you to get clout amongst others. Being private makes many seek proximity to you for reasons they may not truly understand themselves. You become a social piece for many gaining them attention for appearing to be close to you. They will lie on you and tell stories about you to make it seem as though they are more than an obsessed fan of you. #privacy #privatelife #popular #loner #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They PRIVACY MAKES PEOPLE OBSESSED WITH PROXIMITY Shay the They Popular loner obsessed obsessive behavior secret"
TikTok Link 2026-01-19T16:27Z 58.7K followers, 167.3K engagements

"When you can think for yourself anyone that cant control you will become angry. When people see youre smart they will go out their way to try you often amongst others. When you dont budge they identify as an enemy. #friendgroup #independent #thinker #hate GROUP LEADERS HATE INDEPENDENT THINKERS Shay the they Truth speaker smart friend group leaders psychological control independent thinking mind games conflict dominance intellectual elitism minions smear campaign intellectual emotional intelligence emotional abuse well spoken eloquent questioning authority pattern recognition dark academia"
TikTok Link 2026-01-23T14:32Z 58.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Many people requested that I cover this topic after my video on rat infested environments. Roaches are another trauma that changes you for life. These bugs are resilient scary and hard to get rid of. If you grew up around roaches you know the ptsd that comes with this infestation. #roaches #cockroach #infestation #ptsd #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They BEING RAISED AMONGST ROACHES CAUSES PTSD Shay the They BEING RAISED AMONGST ROACHES CAUSES PTSD Shay the They Trauma traumatok german roaches kitchen dysfunctional household ptsd cptsd cockroaches psychological disorders anxiety roach infestation"
TikTok Link 2026-01-27T17:29Z 58.8K followers, 3.6M engagements

"I dont like the idea that being touched as a child makes you Queer because a lot of people choose the children that they touch on based on perceived queerness of that child. LGBTQIA youth are at heightened risk of sexual assault due to this identity. In the fact that predatory adults intended on them being an environment that neglect them and does not acknowledge the side of the targeted child. They use the shame that the guardian places on this childs identity to further abuse while going unnoticed. Abusers will often hide behind institutions with a good reputation like sports teams"
TikTok Link 2026-01-29T00:15Z 58.8K followers, 43.6K engagements

"Regardless of the environment abuse takes place in the way the abuse shows up on the body is the same. The signs of neglect are just as apparent on those from nicer environments as it is on those from environments we expect to be targets of neglect. You can change the surroundings but the signs of being forgotten remain the same. #neglect #neglected #abandoned #addiction #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They NEGLECT WILL PRODUCE THE SAME RESULTS REGARDLESS OF THE ENVIRONMENT NEGLECT WILL PRODUCE THE SAME RESULTS REGARDLESS OF THE ENVIRONMENT Shay the They Neglect neglected affluent luxury signs of"
TikTok Link 2026-01-30T15:34Z 58.7K followers, 26.4K engagements

"Yes I am in straight peoples business and yes I will give my opinion of it. The straight women have outpaced their date mates. And the men that have motion are swimming in options because so few men have reputable motion with women. Once men stop valuing work ethic education and basic human decency they stop being able to compete with who theyre meant to carry on the species with. I feel like straight people now more than ever understand how hard it is to date when options are limited. #dating #women #relationships #men #shaythethey Shay the They STRAIGHT WOMEN HAVE OUTPACED THEIR POTENTIAL"
TikTok Link 2026-01-31T02:27Z 58.7K followers, 71.9K engagements

"People that dont love themselves dont feel that theyre deserving of good treatment therefore if youre somebody that gives one of these individuals good treatment they will think you need to be humbled or that you are below them for believing that they are worthy of these things. They will harbor resentment over your good acts. #switchup #people #secretanimosity #fakers #shaythethey @@YT: Shay the They PEOPLE WILL RESENT YOU BECAUSE YOU IMPROVED THEIR LIFE PEOPLE WILL RESENT YOU BECAUSE YOU IMPROVED THEIR LIFE Shay the They Switching up destiny swapping energy harvesting spirituality fake"
TikTok Link 2026-02-01T00:12Z 58.8K followers, 117.8K engagements

"When parents cant benefit from your attractiveness they will parent you differently. Parents love to stand beside and glean the praises from a child that is perceived as physically palatable. I know this because I was once that child but when I expressed my queerness through presentation I stepped away from palatable attractiveness. When I stepped away from this attractiveness my guardian stepped away from the level of care they had for me. Whether its conscious or subconscious how palatable youre attractiveness is publicly play a role into how your parents treat you privately. #parenting"
TikTok Link 2026-02-02T16:23Z 58.7K followers, 38.3K engagements

"Many of my friends have struggled to support me in life and it tells me more about them than anything else. Most importantly it tells me who doesnt need access to me as my life improves. Some people think theyre bigger than the program and think you need their permission to live your life. Once you show you dont need anything from them to succeed in life so I didnt leave their waving the white flag trying to act as if theyve been supportive all along. #support #friendship #people #envy #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They PEOPLE ACTUALLY THINK WITHHOLDING SUPPORT WILL STOP OR LIMIT"
TikTok Link 2026-02-03T13:37Z 58.7K followers, 37.5K engagements

"Well well well thats not very pro life now is it #trump #epstein #files #politics #america HE TOLD THIS LIE ONLY TO BE EXPOSED FOR EATING BABIES HE TOLD THIS LIE ONLY TO BE EXPOSED FOR EATING BABIES"
TikTok Link 2026-02-04T00:30Z 58.8K followers, 55.5K engagements

"Some people love identifying as a problem. They hope that theyre getting on your nerves and look forward to being corrected. This correction gives them confirmation that theyre having an impact on bothering you. Like a child you have to ignore these adults and distance yourself from them to get weird behaviors to stop towards you. #adulting #annoyed #conflictresolution #weird #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They SOME BEHAVIORS ARE NOT WORTH ADDRESSING SOME BEHAVIORS ARE NOT WORTH ADDRESSING Shay the They Weirdo peeping game impact annoying people conflict resolution boundaries social"
TikTok Link 2026-02-04T16:45Z 58.8K followers, 20.3K engagements

"Emotional hoarders struggle to let bonds go even when its clear theyve run their course. In many relationships people didnt show up for me but suddenly wanted to become possessive over me when I went on to see better. Its easy to walk away when you expect for better to find you in life. Expect good things to happen to you so that you are not stuck in a perpetual state of crying over spilled milk. #emotional #hoarder #people #relationships #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They EXPECT GOOD THINGS TO HAPPEN TO YOU EXPECT GOOD THINGS TO HAPPEN TO YOU Shay the They Proximity success"
TikTok Link 2026-02-05T15:49Z 58.7K followers, [----] engagements

"When you know you have a big purpose people will resent you for accepting this about yourself. When you speak success in life over your future youll notice these people begin to hold resentment towards you. Many are too fearful to even speak well over their future and for you to do it with ease is a slap in the face to them. #success #growthmindset #confidence #manifest #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They PEOPLE WILL NOT LIKE WHEN YOU SPEAK SUCCESS OVER YOUR FUTURE Shay the They PEOPLE WILL NOT LIKE WHEN YOU SPEAK SUCCESS OVER YOUR FUTURE Shay the They Purpose being gifted belief in self changing"
TikTok Link 2026-02-05T19:51Z 58.7K followers, 10.3K engagements

"I love seeing well loved women. Women that glow and laugh and smile because theres no reason not to because their life is full of so much love. It is a glowing and attractive energy that unfortunately can attract bad actors. If you are a well loved woman be aware of how rare that is and protect yourself from those that hope to change that. #love #woman #womenshealth #womensempowerment #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They WELL LOVED WOMEN GLOW DIFFERENTLY Shay the They Well loved glowing woman womens empowerment love attractive women unloved people bright light womens beauty womens rights opposites"
TikTok Link 2026-02-05T23:59Z 58.7K followers, [----] engagements

"Many people will be confused when the arrows they shoot at you slide off of your skin. When you only care about your own validation it removes power everyone else could have over you. When youre not looking to be accepted or deemed correct or deemed digestible to others because you love yourself you will be in complete control of yourself and that will bother many. #selfcontrol #internalvalidation #selflove #shameless #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They YOU CANT SHAME SOMEONE WHO IS NOT SEEKING YOUR VALIDATION YOU CANT SHAME SOMEONE WHO IS NOT SEEKING YOUR VALIDATION Shay the They"
TikTok Link 2026-02-06T18:19Z 58.8K followers, 54.2K engagements

"When people find you attractive they act in ways that are unnatural. These actions are particularly apparent if ever you admit romantic attraction to somebody that thinks you are quite the looker. These interactions never go as you may think they should. Instead your looks are turned into an ego stroke or gossip nothing more than a humiliation ritual. #romance #datingadvice #attractive #humiliation #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They YOUR ROMANTIC INTERESTS WILL OFTEN TRY TO HUMBLE YOU IF YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE Shay the They Attractive admitting attraction being attractive pretty privilege pretty"
TikTok Link 2026-02-07T13:16Z 58.8K followers, 50.8K engagements

"Stop giving yourself the option of inaction and start forcing your back against the wall before life does it for you. Many times we psych ourselves out of taking action in our lives by giving ourselves the option to do so. When you learn to put your back up against the wall to do the things that you want to do you can push yourself to achieve things you never even imagined. When applying to law school I was forced to put my back up against an imaginary wall in my mind just so I could move forward and submitting my applications and taking my test. Adulthood is not about what others tell us to"
TikTok Link 2026-02-09T16:35Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"As a man if you are doing basically anything with your life and you actually have a plan and you are not an insufferable human being you can get bagged with ease. The bar is in hell and most men still are struggling to reach it. If you are even able to be above ground at any level you will have the ability to be bagged easily because your peers in gender are failing so horribly in the areas of life that matter in adulthood. #datingadvice #dating #men #relationships #shaythethey THIS IS THE EASIEST TIME TO GET BAGGED AS A MAN THIS IS THE EASIEST TIME TO GET BAGGED AS A MAN Shay the They As a"
TikTok Link 2026-02-11T13:41Z 58.8K followers, 15.8K engagements

"Some people only get close to you to find out your flaws to use them as leverage against you. If they cant place their finger on your weaknesses they will create stories about you to try to tarnish your name and image. Be weary of those that befriend you because they admire you you may be welcoming in an enemy. #friends #friendship #frenemies #lifelessons #shaythethey SOME PEOPLE ONLY WANT TO GET CLOSE TO YOU TO FIND YOUR FLAWS FOR LEVERAGE SOME PEOPLE ONLY WANT TO GET CLOSE TO YOU TO FIND YOUR FLAWS FOR LEVERAGE Shay the They Some people only get close to you to find out your flaws to use"
TikTok Link 2026-02-11T18:01Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Many people are asking about the parents but you are ready to recognize the fact that they are often the one setting acts like these up. Many parents are completely fine leaving their children with questionable people especially if maybe theyre getting a payment out of it. They will silence their children and not listen to their accounts and experiences aiding them in remaining at a level of cognitive dissonance that makes abuse easier. #abuseawareness #protectkids #listentowomen #parentsoftiktok #shaythethey Shay the They MANY PARENTS OF THE EPSTEIN SURIVORS ARE NOT INNOCENT MANY PARENTS OF"
TikTok Link 2026-02-12T14:28Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Once you see people for people and you see beyond what they think they are showing you you stop being attracted to people as a whole regardless of your sexuality. Asexuality becomes a sign of your height and discernment and intelligence. You also see the risks of associating with others considering the fact that people do not hold themselves to high regard. #asexual #discernment #intelligence #knowledge #shaythethey Shay the They ASEXUALITY IS A SIGN OF HEIGHTENED DISCERNMENT ASEXUALITY IS A SIGN OF HEIGHTENED DISCERNMENT Shay the They Once you see people for people and you see beyond what"
TikTok Link 2026-02-12T14:38Z 58.8K followers, 162.8K engagements

"When youre androgynous people will be mad at the fact that you make it look good and will be mad at the fact that they are attracted to it. You challenge a lot of peoples thoughts about themselves including the identities they may base their entire confidence in. Androgyny is a superpower and expect to face a lot of hate when you and body this. ##androgynous##nonbinarytiktok##enby##androgyny##shaythethey ANDROGYNY IS A SUPER POWER Shay the They When youre androgynous people will be mad at the fact that you make it look good and will be mad at the fact that they are attracted to it. You"
TikTok Link 2026-02-12T18:07Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Some people are only happy when they hear others are not. Pay attention to the things that people ask you about and the reasons somebody is getting closer to. If someone is always there in your season of despair but quick to get away when your life improves they source joy from your struggle and pain from your happiness. #struggleisreal #monitoringspirits #storytelling #lifeadvice #shaythethey Shay the They PAY ATTENTION TO WHO GETS CLOSER TO YOU WHEN THINGS ARE GOING BAD FOR YOU PAY ATTENTION TO WHO GETS CLOSER TO YOU WHEN THINGS ARE GOING BAD FOR YOU Shay the They Some people are only happy"
TikTok Link 2026-02-12T18:20Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"Following your purpose is not always path of lease resistance. It is often the path where you will meet the most resistance. When you start walking in your purpose and reaping the benefits from it those that hate you will be exposed. Those that love you will turn into haters and you will be more hated than you are loved. This is a test to see whether you are true to you. #purpose #purposedriven #growthmindset #successmotivation #shaythethey Shay the They FOLLOWING YOUR PURPOSE IS NOT PEACEFUL FOLLOWING YOUR PURPOSE IS NOT PEACEFUL Shay the They Following your purpose is not always path of"
TikTok Link 2026-02-13T13:38Z 58.8K followers, [----] engagements

"When people perceive you as attractive they begin objectifying you and using you as a pawn in their social game. They will fake closeness and flirtation with you in the hopes of using the social capital from your appearance to further themselves and ride the coattails of how you perceived amongst others. Be quick to distance yourself from these types and dont be afraid to recognize your own self as attractive so you can recognize these traits when they arise. #prettyprivilege #prettypunishment #attractive #sociology #shaythethey Shay the They PEOPLE WILL FAKE CLOSENESS AND FLIRTATION IN"
TikTok Link 2026-02-13T13:43Z 58.8K followers, 135.1K engagements

"People really think theyll stand out by hating on or bullying me not realizing thats most of what Ive experienced in life. The way to stand out to me is being supportive and kind to me. Thats more rare in my life. You are not my first weirdo and you will not be my last. The insecure are often bothered by those secure in themselves. You are not unique in being a hater. In fact it just shows how basic you are. #haters #bullyingawareness #weirdo #basic #shaythethey Shay the They YOU ARE NOT MY FIRST WEIRDO Shay the They People really think theyll stand out by hating on or bullying me not"
TikTok Link 2026-02-13T13:49Z 58.8K followers, 88.6K engagements

"Many people struggle to be happy for others and this will make their lives highly unhappy. When you are prone to hating on other others you are bound to hate on somebody you should be taking notes from. Your own feelings will stand in the way of you and the life you could live. #haters #successmindset #successmotivation #growthmindset #shaythethey MANY PEOPLE ARE TOO MUCH OF A HATER TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE Shay the They Many people struggle to be happy for others and this will make their lives highly unhappy. When you are prone to hating on other others you are bound to hate on somebody you"
TikTok Link 2026-02-14T16:53Z 58.8K followers, 16.4K engagements

"You are grown as heck still lying to your parents about who you are and centering their decision-making before your own. I am so glad I decentered my parents young. I am also glad that I have awarded myself the independence to do so because that decision forced me to take responsibility for my life. Many people will sacrifice becoming their full self so that they can continue feeding on conditional love. People that have not decentered their parents often exhibit signs of Arrested Development throughout adulthood. In life you will disappoint people your family will be included in that get"
TikTok Link 2026-02-15T17:15Z 58.8K followers, 40.7K engagements

"recorded a few weeks ago but it can still speak to what can be expected over the next years as computers become more and more in need of bodies to operate through. Microchipping provides a happy medium between the needs of computers and the needs of corporations. @YT: ShaytheThey #elonmusk #neurolink #microchip #shaythethey #technology TT: Shaythethey IG: reklawceo THERES A RUSH TO MICROCHIP HUMANS BECAUSE COMPUTERS NOW NEED BODIES AI Neuralink chip ai robots computers humans microchip brain waves computer animatronic technology technocrats Elon musk parasite relationships TT: Shaythethey IG:"
TikTok Link 2025-09-08T12:48Z 58.7K followers, 81.6K engagements

"The male loneliness epidemic can be quite noticeable in the behaviors of men while participating in nightlife. Ive noticed that many lonely men are drawn to clubs yet they enter them only to stand and stare at those actually partying. Since women have now become party makers the observation of them in party spaces has become quite enticing to such men. Not only can they observe the human interactions they are so deeply devoid of they can also watch it being carried out by a group they may also share attraction to. This leads to a weird dynamic where women come to party and have fun yet are"
TikTok Link 2025-10-25T14:34Z 58.7K followers, 240.1K engagements

"If youve ever been housed with an abusive man then you probably have experienced their usage of food as a means of subjugation and control. They will overeat themselves on food they did not buy or prepare if it means asserting their dominance as the man of the house. And some women of the house may even feed into his antics. They will fill their plate first leaving scraps for their own offspring. Abusive men behave like children. They rarely consider others they can do few things for themselves and they are embarrassingly selfish. All of these attributes are at play when these men begin"
TikTok Link 2025-11-10T16:19Z 58.6K followers, 1M engagements

"When you learn how to do more with less people with more will resent you. They hate that the struggle that made you stronger didnt just take you out. What seems like skill to the onlooker is actually a byproduct of going without resources. Your presence forces many to acknowledge their own privileges and they dont like that. #adversity #successmotivation #growthmindset #struggleisreal #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey Shay the They PEOPLE WILL RESENT YOU FOR OVERCOMING ADVERSITY Shay the They Struggle is real resourcefulness the ability to be disliked jealousy envy covet storytelling storytime"
TikTok Link 2025-11-29T13:45Z 58.8K followers, 187.1K engagements

"People will think youre distancing from them to teach a lesson but actually its because Ive finally learned my own lesson. Some people arent here to be adequate in their relationship with you they just want access to you. When you continue to ignore and allow their inability to respond to your expressed needs they will assume that regardless of their unchanged behavior you will stick around. At a certain point you cant get mad at what youve allowed and you have to accept that it is up to you to walk away. #cutoff #silent #distance #detachment #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey Shay the They SILENT"
TikTok Link 2025-12-08T14:25Z 58.7K followers, 147.5K engagements

"When youre experiencing success everyone will want you to be a ride or die for them so they can make reservations for themselves in your life. When these peoples ulterior motives lead to a lack of access to you they will claim youre Hollywood and fake for peeping them. The truth is you dont switch up on your day ones but your success will make them switch up on you. Many people dont know how to be normal about improvements in the lives of others. If the improvements you make in your own life arent somehow extended to them watch how many ride or dies will start wishing for your death."
TikTok Link 2025-12-25T14:21Z 58.6K followers, 28.8K engagements

"Self advocacy is arguably one of the most important skills in life. If you dont learn how to speak up for yourself your quality of life will suffer greatly. Not using your voice is the quickest way to lose it. Do not train yourself and the world around you to recognize you as muted. #selflove #selfimprovement #advocateforyourself #advocate #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey NOT SPEAKING UP FOR YOURSELF MAKES YOU A DANGER TO YOURSELF Shay the They Self advocacy scared to speak up speaking up standing up for yourself losing your voice needs and demands quality of life closed mouths dont get fed"
TikTok Link 2025-12-28T14:24Z 58.7K followers, 27.8K engagements

"life gets easier when you accept the fact that people will screw you over with ease. Never make the mistake of putting somebody before you and expecting them to sacrifice for you later on. As animals in survival we naturally put our own needs first. Not putting yourself first is unnatural. ##lifelesson##survivaltips##wants##needs##shaythethey LIFE IS A CONSTANT TEST OF PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST Shay the They life gets easier when you accept the fact that people will screw you over with ease. Never make the mistake of putting somebody before you and expecting them to sacrifice for you later on."
TikTok Link 2026-02-16T15:20Z 58.7K followers, 17.3K engagements

"When you are down bad in life for no reason of your own people feel you are deserving of that position. They pride themselves on being above you and feel their positioning is deserved as well. So when you overcome setbacks that put you in the same environments as people that believed you were undeserving of inclusion the insecurity will be palpable. Suddenly they realize theyre not so special after all. When you are the source of such realizations prepare to be attacked for your resilience. #resilience #adversity #growthmindset #successmotivation #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey Shay the They"
TikTok Link 2025-12-09T12:45Z 54.9K followers, 116.1K engagements

"Many social climbers will seek you out when you are popular or well loved. They want the proximity to you because they admire this aspect of you and want to experience it themselves. They will position themselves by you and in turn they will collect upon some of the backwash of the attention drawn from your being. But because they are not humble the hype they get from being associated with you goes directly to their head. Eventually the confidence theyve developed from parading themselves behind you will cause them to resent you and beef with you. For some this was the plan all along."
TikTok Link 2025-12-11T18:18Z 52K followers, 37.9K engagements

"I know I will be successful because I have accepted my queerness openly despite the persecution Ive faced for it since age [--]. Decades of being unsupported targeted and bullied for being me has turned me into a self sufficient machine. When you are openly gay you learn to be your own parent friend and boss for many seasons of your life. You overcome your fears and are comfortable with being disliked and standing alone to follow your vision. You learn how to center yourself instead of pleasing others. Ultimately you gain the life lessons of a BOSS simply by choosing to be you. The results speak"
TikTok Link 2025-12-13T14:05Z 52K followers, 350.9K engagements

"Many people think the act of humility will keep them safe from jealousy but this is dangerously untrue. Diminishing your own importance wont make those that are jealous of you do the same. What you are showinghowever is a lack of self awareness that they can weaponize. People can be jealous of a smile on your face or the energy in your stride. Never think it cannot target you. #covet #jealousy #envy #competetion #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey MINIMIZING YOUR IMPORANCE WILL NOT KEEP YOU SAFE Shay the They Jealousy envy evil eye good energy self importance fake humility recognizing importance"
TikTok Link 2025-12-22T14:23Z 54.9K followers, 86.5K engagements

"If youre not using your intelligence to advocate you are wasting your gifts. There are so many smart people that would jump at the opportunity to aid in destroying the world while shying away from advocacy for the Earths inhabitants. Do not let that be you. #intelligence #speech #debate #advocate #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey Shay the They INTELLIGENCE IS ADVOCACY INTELLIGENCE IS ADVOCACY Shay the They Intelligence advocacy intellect teaching communication education minority in thought lawyer law student debate smart content content creator standing alone getting your point across not seeking"
TikTok Link 2025-12-24T14:46Z 55.2K followers, [----] engagements

"Some will peak in highschool others will peak in college. These graduates will dread graduating and will try to elongate their experience by performing as a student well past their release. In their most volatile form they prey on young college students in an effort to relive their glory days. Be weary of anyone that has no happy memories to source beyond the days of their first degree. #college #university #highschool #peak #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey Shay the They MANY PEOPLE PEAK IN COLLEGE Shay the they College undergrad degree peaking in college peaking in highschool aging growing up"
TikTok Link 2025-12-29T14:00Z 54.9K followers, 166.9K engagements

"When people find you attractive you will be able to tell by how they act. Many people do not know how to remain unphased around people they perceive as attractive. While you may expect a positive response only confident people give these responses. Most people lack confidence. Instead people will go out their way to humble you by having something negative to say about you. If you are queer of color and not male expect the smear campaign will be brutal. Many will be mad at themselves for being attracted to you with these identities. #attractive #people #smearcampaign #stereotype #shaythethey"
TikTok Link 2026-01-03T14:05Z 54.9K followers, 77.4K engagements

"ICE has taken the life of its first victim in [----] Renee Nicole Good. A [--] year old mother wife killed in front of her family by ICE. This administration has worked tirelessly to persecute the lgbtq community and this is another one of our lives lost to the antics of this current leadership. #ice #lgbt #shooting #minnesota #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey THE FIRST MURDER VICTIM OF ICE WAS A LESBIAN Shay the They Ice shot shot by ice Minnesota blue state ice agent Maga republican ice raids LGBTQ lgbt democrats customs enforcement masked officers ICE has taken the life of its first victim Renee"
TikTok Link 2026-01-08T13:22Z 57.9K followers, 22.1K engagements

"Fatherless women know the truth about how men can and will do you early in life. This builds a diminished idea of importance of men that avails them a level of freedom that is then weaponized against them. Many women with healthy fathers in the home are easily misled by men in the real world expecting them to live up to their father. These women dont see red flags as early especially in their teens and see sacrifices as something to look forward to in their teens name of their relationships. They carry out what has been modeled for them while also having delusions about the reality of most"
TikTok Link 2026-01-10T16:39Z 54.9K followers, 106.1K engagements

"To this day i suffer from inconsistent sleep patterns because i was withheld from having one for the first decades of my life while living with an abusive individual. One sneaky way an abuser may maintain control is by depriving others of rest or sleep. Anyone that loves you would want to see you resting and refreshed pay attention when someone is bothered by your sleep. #abuseawareness #traumahealing #sleepdeprived #resting #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey ABUSERS HATE SEEING THEIR VICTIMS AT REST Shay the They Abusive parent king baby toxic father darkside of the [--] parent household"
TikTok Link 2026-01-14T13:55Z 54.9K followers, 56.2K engagements

"Diminishing your self importance is not humble its unsafe. Think highly of yourself it may save your life. You should see yourself as someone important because if you do not others never will. #selflove #selfimprovement #growthmindset #successmotivation #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They DIMINISHING YOUR SELF IMPORTANCE IS UNSAFE Shay the They Self concept self love self importance being confident safety tips womens empowerment secure in self self assured self importance life lessons how to be confident Diminishing your self importance is not humble its unsafe. Think highly of yourself it may"
TikTok Link 2026-01-18T15:12Z 52K followers, 10.2K engagements

"People will lessen their support of you when given proximity to you. Once they feel they are equal to you through association they will stop showing up for you. When success finds you they will not cheer for you. Those with the least proximity to you will often be the most supportive of you. #proximity #support #popularity #growthmindset #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They PEOPLE STRUGGLE TO CELEBRATE THE PEOPLE THEY KNOW IN REAL LIFE Shay the They Hollywood behavior support system inadequate feelings insecurity proximity analogy public speaking haters losing access fan behavior"
TikTok Link 2026-01-20T14:53Z 54.9K followers, 21.2K engagements

"When you have noticeably strong discernment it will put a target on your back. This is why you must learn to be silent about things this attribute reveals to you. Do not expect others to be honest with you about your ability to expose their inner desires and thoughts. #discernment #spirituality #anointed #chosen #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They DISCERNMENT OFTEN REQUIRES SILENCE Shay the They DISCERNMENT OFTEN REQUIRES SILENCE Shay the They Shutting up silent cut off cut off game silence discernment self doubt knowledge knowledge is power people hater privacy shape shifting manipulation"
TikTok Link 2026-01-20T15:16Z 54.9K followers, 113.6K engagements

"Whenever someone is set on being in the struggle olympics with others my eyebrow raises. Struggle and the proof of it is often unspoken. Those that have genuinely gone through things are changed by them. They are different in experience maturity and self after overcoming adversity. Posers can not show what they do not know. #traumahealing #faker #struggle #overcomingobstacles #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They PEOPLE THAT LIE ON THEIR STRUGGLE WILL LACK THE LEARNING THAT COMES FROM IT PEOPLE THAT LIE ON THEIR STRUGGLE WILL LACK THE TRAITS THAT COMES FROM IT Shay the They Lying on"
TikTok Link 2026-01-21T16:00Z 54.1K followers, 20.3K engagements

"When kids lack a deep bond with their parents there are two things that can happen. One child will go their whole life longing for and maybe even forcing the bond. Others move on from the expectation of having an adequate relationship rather quickly. Showing a lack of interest in your childs life could one turn into them no longer wishing to be known by you. @YT: Shay the They SHOWING A LACK OF INTEREST IN YOUR CHILDS LIFE MAKES THEM UNINTERESTED IN BEING KNOWN SHOWING A LACK OF INTEREST IN YOUR CHILDS LIFE MAKES THEM UNINTERESTED IN BEING KNOWN Parenting parents of TikTok toxic childhood"
TikTok Link 2026-01-22T13:20Z 54.9K followers, 116.7K engagements

"Are we great yet #america #ice #immigrationlaw #taxes #america @YT: Shay the They THEY CUT OUR HEALTHCARE AND RAISED OUR TAXES JUST TO DETAIN CHILDREN Shay the They Ice agents taxes universal healthcare [--] year old detained ice budget big beautiful bill Minnesota 4th amendment America first maga trump administration tax cuts trump public speaking trending politics republicans democrats Are we great yet #america #ice #immigrationlaw #taxes #america @YT: Shay the They THEY CUT OUR HEALTHCARE AND RAISED OUR TAXES JUST TO DETAIN CHILDREN Shay the They THEY CUT OUR HEALTHCARE AND RAISED OUR TAXES"
TikTok Link 2026-01-23T21:00Z 54.2K followers, [----] engagements

"I didnt know aid could actually be widely available and functional until i moved north to a blue state. In the south many are weary of even seeking aid in their state because it is barely given and set up to be lost. Although cost of living may be cheaper the onus of all expenses falls on you. Dont make the mistake of thinking the help is actually there to be used. #south #north #blue #red #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They AID IN THE SOUTH IS SET UP TO BE TAKEN AWAY AID IN THE SOUTH IS SET UP TO BE TAKEN AWAY Shay the They Social programs aid Georgia hope scholarship academia grading curve"
TikTok Link 2026-01-24T14:15Z 54.4K followers, 12.1K engagements

"Some people will seek you out in dating because they want to experience you not because theyre actually interested in you. Some people wanna see if theyll be liked back by you. Others just want to add your name to the list of people they were able to attract. Not everybody out here is dating for quality relationships many just want to know they are wanted. The more quantities of people they can acquire the more this hole will feel satiated or so they think. #datingadvice #datingadvice #mlm #wlw #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They SOME PEOPLE JUST WANT TO EXPERIENCE YOU NOT DATE YOU"
TikTok Link 2026-01-25T15:25Z 54.9K followers, 26.4K engagements

"When you have high discernment and others read that on you expect for a lot of people to spend most of their time gaslighting you out of believing your own truth. Theyre jealous of the fact that the truth is so easily revealed to you and exposes them. Once you catch onto this youll start to want to be alone more because at least there youre safe to think and to believe. #discernment #isolation #shaythethey #gaslighting #devilsadvocate @YT: Shay the They When you have high discernment and others read that on you expect for a lot of people to spend most of their time gaslighting you out of"
TikTok Link 2026-01-26T17:24Z 54.9K followers, 16.5K engagements

"Testing testing is this thing on Sources are saying the winter storm caused TikTok server and data center outages in Texas leading to the disruptions for US users how convenient. #tiktok #weather #shutdown #ice #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They THE TIKTOK OUTAGE WAS DONE TO SEND A POWERFUL MESSAGE Shay the they TikTok outtage ice Minnesota alex pretti content creator TikTok owner oracle conspiracy ice agents creator rewards program censorship social network social media texas data centers TikTok server app outage stuck at [--] views ice storm America Sources are saying the winter storm caused"
TikTok Link 2026-01-26T22:21Z 54.7K followers, 36.1K engagements

"When you embody success people will know. People know when youre the full package. They may tell you you are or they may resent you for what you embody. Either way know that who you are is bound for success regardless of what a hater tries to do. #successmotivation #successmindset #growthmindset #fullpackage #shaythethey PEOPLE KNOW WHEN YOURE THE FULL PACKAGE PEOPLE KNOW WHEN YOURE THE FULL PACKAGE Shay the They Confident Charismatic attractive full package triple threat the it factor magnetic energy chosen ones people know when youre going to make it star power the full package knowing you"
TikTok Link 2026-01-27T17:18Z 54.9K followers, 25.1K engagements

"People will envy your originality when they have none of their own. #original #shaythethey #jealousy #envy #peoplepleaser PEOPLE WILL BE ENVIOUS OF YOUR ORIGINALITY Shay the They People will envy your originality when they have none of their own. #original #shaythethey #jealousy #envy #peoplepleaser Break the mold self development self growth isolation self assured self isolation how to be alone trying to fit in resentment being interesting being undefined multifaceted multitalented duality limitless original anointed trying to be palatable how to be relatable Shay the They PEOPLE WILL BE"
TikTok Link 2026-01-28T14:56Z 54.9K followers, 11.3K engagements

"Being consistent at something us the best way to build trust in yourself. When we do the things we say we are going to do we give ourselves more confidence. The more things you give up on the less confidence youll have in keeping the promises youve made for yourself. #consistencyiskey #consistency #growthmindset #successmindset #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay the They CONSISTENCY BUILDS SELF TRUST CONSISTENCY BUILDS SELF TRUST Shay the They Consistency work ethic self trust commitment promise work ethic discipline results change your mindset self love overcoming fear self improvement"
TikTok Link 2026-01-28T16:29Z 54.9K followers, [----] engagements

"Atlanta is an interesting place where you can be living abject poverty next to some of the wealthiest players in the world. Because of the state youre in you wont get any impactful aid in your poverty. But because of where you are geographically youve been exposed to the glitz and glamour of luxury. Before you know it children in the projects have dreams and wants a aligning with those of the upper class. This exposure with lack of access creates a hustle that will stick with you for life no matter how far you are from ATL. #ATL #atlanta #georgia #hustle #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They Shay"
TikTok Link 2026-01-28T23:51Z 54.9K followers, 32.6K engagements

"A lot of people wanna make money but theyre excitement squabbles their wealth before it is able to mature. When you treat money like its regular you can leave it alone. When you treat having money like an irregularity it burns a hole in your pocket. #moneytok #financialfreedom #finance #growthmindset #shaythethey TREAT MONEY LIKE YOU EXPECTED TO MAKE IT Shay the They Money money tok finance financial responsibility financial literacy making money quiet wealth spending habits money management skills skilled worker A lot of people wanna make money but theyre excitement squabbles their wealth"
TikTok Link 2026-01-31T15:10Z 54.9K followers, [----] engagements

"In [----] its good practice to at least know how to use social media to your benefit instead of as a detriment to your time. Making the switch can make all the difference in your life and reality. Being able to turn your phone into a money machine and yourself into a platform from creating your own content can literally save your life. @@YT: Shay the They##contentcreator##influencer##post##following##shaythethey Shay the They BEING SOCIAL MEDIA SAVVY CAN CHANGE YOUR REALITY Shay the They Exposure economy social media content creator influencer entertainment posting daily passive income speaking"
TikTok Link 2026-01-31T15:33Z 54.9K followers, [----] engagements

"Being black is one of the biggest flexes you can have in life. We have shaped the world change the world in are still inspiring the world despite the world trying to rid itself of our blackness. Black is a color now defined by a people simply because we are that influential. #blacktiktok #blackhistorymonth #blacklivesmatter #blackisbeautiful #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They PROUD TO BE BLACK Shay the They Black black color black people antiblackness racism dehumanization black American human rights enslavement black is beautiful African people oppressors black history month growing up black"
TikTok Link 2026-02-01T15:15Z 55.4K followers, [----] engagements

"Although Black people are known for voting blue I would not label us liberal as a people group. In our values as Black people we are extremely conservative. To the point that we turn members of our own community away because of these conservative values. Conservatism will not keep our oppressors from oppressing us but it will aid them in keeping us disconnected from each other. #conservative #blacktiktok #lgbt #blacktiktok #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They TOXIC CONSERVATISM WITHIN THE BLACK COMMUNITY Shay the They Black conservatives black conservatism Christianity lgbtq liberalism religion"
TikTok Link 2026-02-02T15:35Z 55.2K followers, [----] engagements

"People that hate trans people the most literally probably cant even afford to. To actually transition it takes so much access to things that unfortunately are reserved for higher socioeconomic classes in American Society. Things are simple as adequate healthcare and a team of medical professionals providing you care are not something that many Americans have the luxury of enjoying. Yet many of the Americans that dont enjoy these things advocate against their own medical rights and access as well as the rights of others through transphobia. #lgbt #economics #trans #nonbinary #shaythethey MOST"
TikTok Link 2026-02-02T15:54Z 55.3K followers, [----] engagements

"Today it seems like youre more likely to be laid off than hired. Things dont seem to be getting easier this year as multiple companies reveal that thousands of layoffs are coming our way. The ability to even strike is becoming a thing of the past. #strike #unemployed #layoffs #work #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They YOUR ABILITY TO STRIKE IS BEING TAKEN AWAY YOUR ABILITY TO STRIKE IS BEING TAKEN AWAY Shay the They Ai layoffs workers collective action union union busting strike unemployment mass strike data centers job market job search layoffs [----] UPS Home Depot nissan intel dell kroger nike"
TikTok Link 2026-02-02T22:24Z 55.5K followers, [----] engagements

"Dont be fooled by access to public transit. DC is in fact a southern city. I see why Obama was confused about his kids not going to school on snow days after coming from Chicago. The northern city would laugh at the cleanup or lack thereof. #washington #dc #snow #south #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They DC SNOW CLEAN UP IS GIVING SOUTHERN CITY Shay the They Dc snow storm ice storm ice snowmagedon north vs south snow clean up dc snow washington dc snow storm public safety public health Potomac river Dont be fooled by access to public transit. DC is in fact a southern city. I see why Obama was"
TikTok Link 2026-02-03T18:16Z 55.4K followers, [----] engagements

"Many talks surrounding sustainability centralize the idea that the production of sustainable technologies will aid us when in all actuality this is just another form of greenwashing. Real ustainability requires many practices to stop. Mass production of sustainable technologies is in fact working against the goal of sustainability outright. A sustainable life isnt created by making unsustainable things green its about stopping the reliance on things that by their very nature are unsustainable. #sustainability #Sustainable #greenwashing #massproduction #shaythethey @YT: Shay the They"
TikTok Link 2026-02-04T16:30Z 55.5K followers, [----] engagements

"@YT: ShaytheThey Nothing has grown my ability to empathize more than my ability to pearn and make connections. Learning about the complexity of the reality I am existing has made me feel for it down to the molecular level. When your intellect informs your empathy the possibility of touching others lives and being touched by the lives of others are endless #knowledgeispower #intellectual #empath #empathy #shaythethey YouTube: Shaythethey BECOMING A TRUE INTELLECTUAL WILL MAKE YOU MORE EMPATHETIC Becoming a true intellectual will make you more empathetic Earth science injustice environmental"
TikTok Link 2025-09-30T20:32Z 58.4K followers, [----] engagements

"If you are on this app then youve probably heard about the stud substitute teacher being fired. As a masc presenting person id like to add more to this conversation as someone who has lived a similar lifestyle and experience in how we are perceived by youth and other adults due to our appearance and the impact that can have on behavior if not careful. When you show gender nonconformity in some way it can often result in you being aged down amongst people operating in a binary system way of thinking. Whether youre perceived as male or female you will appear younger to many than you are. Even"
TikTok Link 2025-10-28T15:02Z 58.8K followers, 61.4K engagements

"Since moving to DC H street fest has become one of my favorite days of the year because so much black beauty and excellence lines the streets of the city. This year my experience was dampened when I overheard a group of white men in attendance directing microaggressions towards Black youth while walking through the crowd. When I clocked their tea they were shook and tried to rely on plausible deniability to excuse themselves from the consequences of being caught in their racism. When micro aggressions are voiced out loud and directed towards an individual directly you can bet your bottom"
TikTok Link 2025-10-02T14:30Z 58.6K followers, 92.5K engagements

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