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clickbaitthoughts posts on Reddit about parenting, i cant, has been, me and the most. They currently have [---] followers and [--] posts still getting attention that total [--] engagements in the last [--] hours.

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Social topic influence parenting, i cant, has been, me and, how do, im a, i need, financial, financial planner #684, care of

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"Am I overthinking / having mom guilt for no reason Im a STM and have the extreme luxury of my job offering the benefit of allowing new parents to hire a postpartum night doula. I found a woman I like and shes now [--] week in and has been taking care of my son at night while I get to sleep. Granted I am up at least 3x when shes here to feed him but then she does the burping/changing/etc. I cant help but feel guilty for being comfortable leaving essentially a stranger to take care of my child while Im asleep in another room. I feel like I should be ashamed of myself and that maybe I just dont"
Reddit Link 2025-02-26T07:41Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"How much milk do you have stashed Do I have an oversupply [--] weeks pp today a little over [---] oz in fridge. breastfeeding breastfeeding"
Reddit Link 2025-03-04T23:13Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"How do I move FWD with my parents now that Im about to be a parent of two Im the second eldest the eldest daughter of my family. My entire life I have been essentially the family attorney the family therapist a second mother my parents confidant as well as the person who is always responsible and the go to person when anyone needs cash. At [--] my older brother got incarcerated and I had to deal with my parents emotions and all that fun stuff. Every weekend I would go to visit my brother with my father while he vents to me. My mother was clearly depressed. My two younger sisters were to small"
Reddit Link 2024-02-14T18:55Z [--] followers, 18.1K engagements

"How do I move FWD now that Ill be a parent of two Im the second eldest the eldest daughter of my family. My entire life I have been essentially the family attorney the family therapist a second mother my parents confidant as well as the person who is always responsible and the go to person when anyone needs cash. At [--] my older brother got incarcerated and I had to deal with my parents emotions and all that fun stuff. Every weekend I would go to visit my brother with my father while he vents to me. My mother was clearly depressed. My two younger sisters were to small to really feel what was"
Reddit Link 2024-02-14T19:29Z [--] followers, 193.8K engagements

"No one tells you how emotional miscarriages are removed TryingForABaby TryingForABaby"
Reddit Link 2024-02-27T05:20Z [---] followers, [---] engagements

"Im always too tired for sex Im [--] weeks pregnant and have a [--] month old. Im pretty nauseous a lot and can only eat McDonalds fries right now. I also have NO interest in doing absolutely anything other than laying down like the most laziest unproductive person in the world. Like seriously I dont even have the urge to do anything. My entire house is a hot mess I look so ugly and disheveled all the time. I barely care to even take a shower or brush my hair. However my lovely husband every once in awhile wants to have sex and I get it its a human need but damn I am so not interested and am so"
Reddit Link 2024-07-16T00:35Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"I was craving something and didnt get it and now Ive been crying for [--] hours straight Guys idk whats wrong with me. Im [--] weeks pregnant and had a sudden urge of a kabob skewer and plain yogurt on the side. I called my husband within [--] minutes of the place closing and he wasnt close enough to make it on time. I lost it and started bawling and havent stopped since. Its been a little over [--] hours. Im so tired of feeling like shit and feeling like a crazy person. I just really wanted a bite. Have you ever felt this way during pregnancy Please tell me Im not crazy. pregnant pregnant"
Reddit Link 2024-07-17T07:08Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"Am I in the wrong or crazy Ok let me begin by saying I AM PISSED. Ive been sooooo mad ever since I found out how EVIL my SIL is. I got pregnant in January and suffered a miscarriage in March. Im now so thankful that Im pregnant again (got pregnant in May). I did NOT want to tell mine or my husbands family until after my first ultrasound just to be safe. Husband agreed and he shared with us family immediately after the ultrasound. Now I have [--] SILs one 25F and the other 32F. 25F reached out IMMEDIATELY congratulating me. 32F hasnt said SHIT. BUT THATS NOT ALL. My pregnancies are TOUGH. I have"
Reddit Link 2024-08-05T14:59Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"Am I wrong for feeling not AS excited as I should be Im [--] weeks pregnant and over the moon I have a 1&1/2 year old daughter and was SO sure Im pregnant with another girl. I really really really wanted another girl as theyd be close in age and just was so sure about it. I just found out Im having a boy and Im shocked. Im still so happy but not as excited as I would be if it were a girl. Am I wrong for this I dont want to feel like this but Im not sure why I do. If you have sons/daughters that are 2ish years apart (or more) and are super close and get along please share I want to get excited"
Reddit Link 2024-08-11T01:10Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"I just need someone to tell me Im doing okay I have a [--] month old who is full of energy. Im also [--] months pregnant and work full time. My husband is out working all the time and doesnt come home until after bedtime. I am sooooooo exhausted. My house is a mess. I feel like Im barely hanging on by a thread. I feel SO overwhelmed and overworked. I just dont know how long I can do this for. I just feel like Im failing at everything. I cant even take my daughter to the park today because my husband cant make it home at the same time as me if I do to help me with bath time because I get sooooo"
Reddit Link 2024-08-18T18:31Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"If youre divorced how did you know it was right for you Basically what I asked. Im [--] months pregnant and have an almost [--] year old. Im so fed up with my husband not coming home at a reasonable time and being a family unit. Im not sure what to do. Yes weve talked 100x etc etc. How did you know divorce was the right move / decision at the moment AskOldPeopleAdvice AskOldPeopleAdvice"
Reddit Link 2024-08-24T09:27Z [---] followers, [---] engagements

"Did you have any rough patches in your marriage when parenting a toddler Im [--] months pregnant and have an almost [--] year old. I cant seem to get along with my spouse. It literally feels like were on different planets. Was it like this for you if you were in this stage Does it get better Its gotten so bad that we dont sleep in the same bed or talk like at all. Its been about [--] days of this but longer with the fighting. Parenting Parenting"
Reddit Link 2024-08-27T20:56Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Painful crotch after sex Im [--] weeks and [--] days pregnant. My husband and I didnt have much sex first trimester but Im starting to get my horn dog back lol. Anyways. We just had sex and I was extremely umm wet down under and everything was totally fine / felt great but immediately after my crotch felt super sore and throbbing. Is that normal It did not hurt while we had sex but afterwards it was a different experience. BabyBumps BabyBumps"
Reddit Link 2024-09-04T23:34Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Should I be concerned about my daughters speech My daughter is [--] months old and she can say a some words (idk what good amount is) but today the doctor let me know hes concerned about her speech because he feels like she should be putting sentences together which she isnt really. She can say: the entire alphabet count up to [--] and say random stuff like sit shoes sorry (knows when to say it) see ya bye mommy mama daddy milk happy can mostly sing baby shark brush your teeth teeth happy birthday gedo (grandpa in my language) and geda (grandma in my language). Other than that she will look at"
Reddit Link 2024-09-07T01:07Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Re: CA leave: SDI allows you to have [--] weeks prior to birth off and 6-8 weeks from birth. Does that mean you get partial pay for both the [--] weeks AND 6-8 weeks Basically what I asked in the Q. Or is it only partially paid up to [--] weeks depending on if you take the [--] weeks prior to birth Im honestly so confused because my doctor says one thing but my HR says another. ParentalLeaveAdvocacy ParentalLeaveAdvocacy"
Reddit Link 2024-10-08T03:19Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Im so tired of being told Im a shitty mom Im currently [--] weeks pregnant with an almost two year old. (Shes [--] months currently). Im so freakin tired of being told how much of a shitty mom I am and how bad of a child I have. I have two nephews that I adore so much. My mom practically raised them so much so that they consider my moms house THEIR primary home (bc of how much they sleep over). You can imagine how much help that is to my brother and SIL. FAST FORWARD TO ME: - I got pregnant in January - Miscarried in March - Pregnant again in May - May until August I had the WORST morning"
Reddit Link 2024-11-04T05:27Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"My toddler broke me today and now Im crying. Have you cried from just being tired I love my LO so much. Shes turning [--] in a month. She is HYPER. She is wild. She wants to do everything she should not do and touch everything she should not touch. We went to my moms house today and she had so many guests. I was running around like a wild person after her. Just got home and put her to bed and just let out a cry. Im so tired. Did I do anything wrong with parenting Have you let out a cry of just being so tired and overwhelmed Parenting Parenting"
Reddit Link 2024-11-11T05:25Z [---] followers, [----] engagements

"AITAH or is it someone who I thought was my friend not responding to me Ive known this one girl for a few years now and we got especially close when and after she got married because our husbands were family members. Her and her ex got divorced and me and my husband were there for her throughout the entire process. We talked me and her almost every day and gotten even closer after that and she KNOWS Im on her side etc etc but I cant change whos family with my husband. Anyways one day out of the blue she sends me a text saying she does not want to continue our friendship because she does not"
Reddit Link 2024-11-22T16:03Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Am I wrong for wanting closure or should I be more understanding Ive known this one girl for a few years now and we got especially close when and after she got married because our husbands were family members. Her and her ex got divorced and me and my husband were there for her throughout the entire process. We talked me and her almost every day and gotten even closer after that and she KNOWS Im on her side etc etc but I cant change whos family with my husband. Anyways one day out of the blue she sends me a text saying she does not want to continue our friendship because she does not want to"
Reddit Link 2024-11-22T17:04Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"How am I supposed to continue being pregnant with these aches and pains Im a STM who is [--] weeks pregnant and OH MY GOSH. My body hurts so badly. I feel every single ache and pain. My daughter is turning two in one week exactly and man is she a handful. I am constantly running after her I work full time and not to mention I help my mom a lot. I do not remember feeling this type of physical pain with my daughter. I gave birth with her at 37+5 and am HOPING for the same again because I cant imagine doing this any longer. Any advice Any tips or tricks to remedy the pain Any solidarity in feeling"
Reddit Link 2024-12-09T06:37Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"SIL always asking my husband for money at her GROWN age My SIL is [--] and has been working for about 2ish years. She doesnt make crazy money but then again she doesnt pay rent and lives with her mother. So if anything she should be saving up and living within her means. Anyways she has been traveling non stop this year. Now she has a trip planned in [--] weeks and ALL OF A SUDDEN things are more expensive than she expected. So what does she do She asks my husband to help support her trip. Now if it was my MIL asking totally fine with it. I love her and know she works so hard but doesnt make much"
Reddit Link 2025-01-02T22:05Z [---] followers, [---] engagements

"36 weeks pregnant and just had the biggest crying spell I literally could not stop crying because I am sick and tired of being pregnant. Im [--] weeks and [--] days and I have had ENOUGH. I am nauseous right now (idk why) and Ive been tired ALL day but could not nap because I need to be alert for my [--] year old daughter. Only to finally put her down for bed and drum roll NOT be able to sleep anymore because insomnia and nausea. Wtf I am so sick and tired of this. Any other mamas feel the same way I want this boy to be OUT. The only reason I stopped crying is because for a split second I was able"
Reddit Link 2025-01-18T06:46Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"How soon after your belly dropped did you go into labor STM here First baby I went into labor at 37+6 days. I didnt feel my belly drop then but possibly because I was inexperienced. Now I feel like my belly dropped maybe about a day and a half ago because I am able to take really deep breathes. Like I forgot how good it feels to breathe this easily. Also I may be crazy but I feel like my belly button looks like its lower than it was a few days ago lol. Anyways for STM when did you go into labor after you felt like your belly dropped pregnant pregnant"
Reddit Link 2025-01-22T01:01Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Toddler plays in her room now that its clean organized and decorated Toddler plays in her room more now that its clean organized and decorated Just wanting to post a win. Cant believe my [--] year old sat in her room today for [--] hours playing with her toys ALONE because her bedroom is officially clean organized and decorated I put up string lights the other day organized all her toys in baskets and I even put up some colorful posters / picture frames of kid friendly visuals. I miss needed to share because this is so exciting for me Before this her toys were ALL a mess in a mosh pit no rug no"
Reddit Link 2025-01-22T04:04Z [---] followers, [---] engagements

"Im in fetal position crying my eyes out at [--] weeks I cant do this anymore. Its 3am and I am full blown crying. I cant breathe. I cant sleep. Im so uncomfortable. Im getting acid reflux. My toddler is in bed with me and wants to cuddle specifically with ME. I want this baby OUT OF ME. Im more frustrated because with my daughter she came out 37+6. I I was just hoping hed be earlier and yet here I am with no signs of labor. I cant effin do this anymore. I am DONE. I am soooooo DONE. UPDATE: I just want to say thank you to all you beautiful mamas You made me feel so much better and normal. I am"
Reddit Link 2025-01-26T10:36Z [---] followers, [---] engagements

"I feel like my life has been on pause at [--] months pregnant I have no one to vent to and I cant handle being pregnant anymore. Im 38+5 days now and Im going crazy. I just expected this baby to come out sooner because my first came out at 37+6. Before this pregnancy I had a miscarriage. Ive been pregnant for basically a year and had a month break in between. I am so sick and tired of being pregnant and my husband mom and mother in law dont get it. They keep telling me that I need to be okay and that the baby will come when its ready. THATS NOT WHAT I WANT TO HEAR RIGHT NOW. Why cant they just"
Reddit Link 2025-01-31T09:00Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"This is the 4th time I lost my mucus plug in [--] days. Is this normal Im a STM and this labor progression is SO different than my first. With my first my mucus plug came out water broke a few hours later and then after that contractions and straight to L&D. ALL at 37+6. Im 38+6 today. TL: Monday- was told I was 1cm dilated and cervix was thin Tuesday - bloody mucus plug came out Wednesday - on and off mild cramps Thursday - Mucus plug came out (looked like snot) Friday - Mucus plug came out (looked like snot) Saturday - Mucus plug came out (looked like snot) and feeling like the start of my"
Reddit Link 2025-02-02T04:16Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"This is the 4th time I lost my mucus plug in [--] days. Is this normal Im a STM and this labor progression is SO different than my first. With my first my mucus plug came out water broke a few hours later and then after that contractions and straight to L&D. ALL at 37+6. Im 38+6 today. TL: Monday- was told I was 1cm dilated and cervix was thin Tuesday - bloody mucus plug came out Wednesday - on and off mild cramps Thursday - Mucus plug came out (looked like snot) Friday - Mucus plug came out (looked like snot) Saturday - Mucus plug came out (looked like snot) and feeling like the start of my"
Reddit Link 2025-02-02T05:36Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Looking for validation I have an almost [--] week old and a rambunctious two-year-old. to say things have been rough or an understatement I feel like Im doing absolutely everything in my power to stay sane. Needless to say its been really hard. I am currently in the middle of tears as I write this because I am just beyond exhausted. I feel like everyone else around me who had a gap similar to mine had such a seamless transition or maybe they just made it seem like it was. Regardless I feel like I am failing and Im really bad at this. Did everyone else have a rough time during this transition Am"
Reddit Link 2025-03-03T02:42Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"RSV Shot My [--] week old baby just got hospitalized due to RSV. Seen my baby STOP BREATHING for about [--] seconds. Scariest days of my life. Seeing him need an oxygen mask and sick beyond imaginable is something I cant even put into words. Parents worst nightmare. My sons oxygen levels were down in the 70s. By the grace of God he made it out of the hospital well and is recovering here at home. If you ever question whether or not to get the RSV shot for your baby or while youre pregnant please do. I didnt and now I will ALWAYS tell people to do it. The possibility of something worse happening"
Reddit Link 2025-03-21T00:22Z [---] followers, [---] engagements

"Am I just shitty at being a parent I have two kids: one is [--] years old and the other is [--] weeks old. I am having the hardest time of my life trying to be a parent right now. It all started when I got pregnant with my second because my pregnancies tend to be really rough (ER visits iron infusions etc). Needles to say the TV was her parent and boxed Mac and cheese because I could not do anything for the life of me. Now with two I hate myself and my life right now. I feel like I can barely get it together. But I see all of my friends with kids in this age gap or even closer and breezed by. They"
Reddit Link 2025-03-23T03:47Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Breastfeeding while wanting to lose weight Im [--] weeks pp and decided to start keto today. Im not calorie counting or carb counting. My plan is: No sugar natural or processed. The only sugar/carb I can have during the day is [--] chobani yogurt. (Probiotics really help my baby not be gassy) No processed foods. Im really going for protein greens veggies and healthy fats like avocado and nuts. Not into the whole eating butter take on things. Going to focus on : [--] meals a day lots of water 1-2 cups of coffee a day [--] chobani yogurt a day MAYBE [--] bodyarmor lyte Im EBF and did not get my period back."
Reddit Link 2025-04-01T06:12Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"Genuinely curious if its a cultural thing with white women I have two kids one is [--] and the other is [--] months. I have noticed older white women LOVE to see my baby and have conversations with me in regards to motherhood and the baby when we are out. This happened with my [--] year old when she was a baby and now my two month old. Genuinely curious is this a cultural thing with older white women Theyre SO nice and eagerly excited each time. Always asking to see the baby and have baby/motherhood convo. AskOldPeopleAdvice AskOldPeopleAdvice"
Reddit Link 2025-04-14T21:55Z [---] followers, [---] engagements

"First time clogged duct and gone in [--] days I had a clogged duct for the first time ever with my second child. I literally did not sleep the entire night the first night I got it because it was THAT painful. It took two days of WORK to get it to pretty much be gone. Just thought Id share here since I turned to Reddit to find tips for myself when it started lol No joke I would use my haakah like 4x the first night with warm water and epsom salt and soak my nipple in. Tried having little boy nurse mainly from the clogged duct side to help relief Constantly used a heating pad on my clogged duct"
Reddit Link 2025-05-22T19:23Z [---] followers, [--] engagements

"Please invest in a recliner chair I am a STM. First baby I breastfeed anywhere and didnt think I needed a recliner chair. Second baby I thought Id give it a try because why not. I will never ever ever give this chair up It makes breastfeeding a TREAT. A PURE RELAXING MOMENT. Why did I struggle the first time Dont even go for the aesthetics. Go for PURE comfort. I use this now even when NOT breastfeeding. It made my breastfeeding journey even more enjoyable. Typing this while relaxing breastfeeding on my chair. breastfeeding breastfeeding"
Reddit Link 2025-07-09T03:02Z [--] followers, [---] engagements

"Financial Planner / CPA recommendations AskSF AskSF"
Reddit Link 2026-01-30T12:22Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"Financial Planner / CPA recommendations oakland oakland"
Reddit Link 2026-01-30T20:15Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

"Removed by moderator KUWTK KUWTK"
Reddit Link 2026-02-15T19:58Z [--] followers, [--] engagements

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